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Your peices of advice are welcome here. xx
Heyy everyone! How are you all ladies holding up? Well, just wanted a little piece of advice here. I just got a call from a friend whom I met at my treatment of infertility years back. She came back to the USA. So, now she is still not able to get pregnant! She has had her second marriage. I just suggested her to conceive through a surrogacy procedure. I referred her to the same clinic as mine, from where I'm having my IVF in Kiev, Ukraine. She is considering it but, she still thinks that she can have transplantation...So, she is too confused now! Well, I also don't know what to tell her? I mean both are ways! So, yeah! I need pieces of advice from other people. Hit me up! Thanks, ladies! xx
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I don't think there's any need of getting nervous or being confused. Surrogacy is trusted treatment for the infertile women. If someone really want to make their life soothing with her own baby, than there's no point to think. It's not like deciding the tooth brush for your mouth. it's totally a new way to cover your unfilled part in a proper manner. Who don't want a positive change? A fool maybe. I know one of my neighbor who was facing the same situation. His husband was applying for the divorce just because she wasn't able to give birth to the child. Then she came to know about this method and that completely changed her whole life. Now she's living a happy married life. So it's obvious that without a child, it's like missing a big part of your life. Just close your eyes and imagine the smile of your own child it'll blow away all your misconceptions about it.
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Hey Rachel, I hope you're doing fine. I'm good, thanks for asking. Well, I think that her body may be weak which is why she hasn't been able to conceive as yet. So, I think she should go for surrogacy. Surrogacy is the safest method, which is also reliable. I had my daughter through the surrogacy process from Ukraine. They're amazing at their job. She should definitely go for it. Good luck to her and to you too!
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I think transplantation is not the appropriate way. IVF would be better than that. Tell her to try IVF first. She might conceive. Transplantation is going to cost her a lot. The clinic you are talking about might help her out. I have heard its famous for its huge success rate.
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"Hey! don't get confused. I would suggest surrogacy. Surrogacy is not painful as compared to other procedures. This clinic is great. she should visit it once. people think that this is an unnatural process of having a baby but for your friend surrogacy is the only option left. Wasting time will get her nothing."
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Dear Branson, it is very difficult to make the right decision. Especially when you are desperate to have a baby of your own, it becomes difficult to go for the proper choice. Before opting for the right choice it is very important to search for the best clinic. A reliable clinic can make the right pace. Clinics like the one you have mentioned are doing a great job.I also had the assistance from the clinic in Ukraine for my surrogacy. Instead of forcing her to listen to your words, I think it is better to let her decide on her own.
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Transplantation, I don't think that's a good idea. I would rather passed it. Tell her to go for surrogacy. That would be best for her. She is taking much tension about this. Just advise her that she won't have to go for transplantation. I don't think this is good and long lasting. Surrogacy would be better instead of that. Wish her a very best of luck. Hope she takes a good decision. Be with her deae. She needs support.
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Hi Rachel. I hope you are well! Your friend is in a pitiful situation. I do feel for her. It's a tough realization not being successful TTC. I was never able to either. However, my case was a bit different. I went the surrogacy route. I have my beautiful daughter now! It's amazing. I think your friend should check out IVF and surrogacy for herself. Clinics really do matter. She should be thorough in her search for that. It seems she is good hands considering your experience. Good luck with everything!
Hannah R xx
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Hey there. I am very sorry for your friend. Surrogacy is a great way to have babies if you're infertile. Okay, so what sort of transplantation is your friend going for? Renal Transplantation? Cause I've read that 90% women do get pregnant after that. But also there are loads of side effects. Ask your friend to do a complete research and then select something. Wishing her luck.
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Racheal, according to my point of view, surrogacy is the best option. If she goes to the same clinic from where you got your treatment then it is best for her. I am talking about Biotexcom. I am also going to have my surrogacy from that clinic next month. Surrogacy there is very popular with maximum positive results. So, if she doesn't want to waste her time and money, she must go there. Surrogacy there is at very affordable rates with maximum positive results. She would definitely get what she really wants.
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Hey there. I hope you are doing great. I hope your friends well. I know it must be a hard choice. It always is. I wish ger good luck. However, I support surrogacy. I have had it too. Good luck. Take care.
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Hey, I am doing well I hope so are you. Well, if she is confused then the best thing for her to do is consult the doctors. The doctors at the clinic are professional and experienced and will help her determine which process she should go for. This professional help will help her greatly. Surrogacy is definitely a good option to go for however, a lot of women are scared to opt for it. Since it really is the last hope and if it doesn’t work out then they will have zero options left. Therefore, I do get where she is coming from but tell her that she need not to worry. Best of luck to her do keep us updated.
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Hey everyone! Thank you so much ladies for your strong, friendly and lovely responses. Well, She has already sorted it out. Her Obs has recommended her to try surrogacy. Yes! He thinks that surrogacy would be a better way for her. She has also researched clinics. She didn't want it in India. As you all know India has low standards and safety & security issues. So, yeah! She has been referred to Kiev, Ukraine. It's affordable and better for her. So, yeah! She is trying her best! I've already motivated her. Wish her all the best! Please pray for her! xx Thanks again ladies. xx
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I joined this forum long ago.I like to read the stories of different people.Its been a very long time.I feel happy after reading successful stories of different people. I'm also infertile.But i had to go for surrogacy.We firstly moved to Europe form Japan.Surrogacy is ban in Japan so we moved there.We stayed in Europe for 4 months.We contacted clinics in Europe.My husband didn't liked them.Than we moved to Ukraine.As we heard a lot about the clinics in Ukraine so we moved there.There we found a very good clinic.The clinic found a good surrogate for us.The surrogate is pregnant with our twin dolls.We are so happy.We are so happy that we will have our own kids now,We are so thankful to the clinic and surrogate. Everyone cheers and good luck.
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Hello Rachel. I'd advise you to have surrogacy for her. I myself had one. I went to a Ukrainian center for it. It worked fine for me. I have a daughter now. So, yeah! Transplantation is really rough for a woman again. It's a whole new and long procedure; I'd not prefer due to many reasons.
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Hi Rachel. You are a great friend. I'm so glad you are doing this for your friend. But I really think she shouldn't go for a transplant. It doesn't always work and it's really risky. it's expensive too. I really think she should go to Ukraine and get her treatment done. I wish her all the best.
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Happy to hear that your surrogacy was a success. At the age of 43 years old i'm married for second time. I was married earlier and getting pregnant was not an easy task for me. I had a number of complications while getting pregnant. I conceived for three times but always resulted in miscarriage. Surrogacy is the best solution for the women who don't have any luck with babies. My husband wants a baby from me and i told him everything regarding my pregnancy complications. So i started looking for some method to have a baby for us. They cleared my confusions regarding surrogacy. They satisfied me and they told us they will find a surrogate for my baby. They have a number of surrogates from their clinic as well. A surrogate will go through proper testing to become a surrogate mother of my child. From different forum i came to know that surrogacy is the best solution for us to have a baby. So i contacted a number of clinics regarding pregnancy. If someone here is raising a child via surrogacy process please share your experience with us. Thanks in advance.
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Hey. How are you doing? How is your IVF procedure going? I hope all goes well. And you be able to conceive soon. Wish you much luck. I would even suggest your friend that it is a good procedure. And she should try to be very efficient in selecting procedure she might go for. It would be much better to spend money on some worthy procedure. And this is a good one. Moreover, you are saying this in accordance with your experience. If she would be there with you at the same point in time than that would be great.
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hello dear. how is she now? I hope you girls are fine. I feel sorry for her. I know it must be hard for her. support her please. more strength to her. tell her I'm praying. I would suggest her surrogacy. it is a sure shot. moreover, she can consult a doctor. it will clear her confusion. it depends upon personal health too right? take care. will be waiting to hear from you. the updates.bye.

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