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Hello, forum visitors! You know, I turned to IVF several weeks ago. It was very difficult decision for me and my husband. But it is the only way for us to become parents. So, we chose several clinics to turn to. All the clinics are in different countries. We want to compare them and decide which of them would be better. As far as I know, all the IVF programs are the same. so the main point s are doctors and conditions, price. Three weeks ago we visited one of them. This week we will visit one more clinic. So I am going to take some tests. It is very interesting for me, how this process is run. I am a bit worried. But if it is completely safe, so there is no need to be afraid of it. I hope that the results will be normal. I am ready to try as many times as it is needed. I am 45 and it is the only chance for me to become a mother. So any information about IVF is very useful for me. I know that I should be strong. My relatives help me and support me. So now I don’t hesitate and want to achieve the wanted results. I really want to be a mother. It is my dream to have a full family, so hope I will be able to make my husband the happiest father. IVF is a long and difficult period in my life. I hope that it worth it. I have several questions. First of all, should I take some medicine during the process? what food should I eat or it is not so important? How long will it take to get the results of the tests? How often will I need to see a doctor if I am pregnant? What are possible problems? Please answer my questions. It is very important not only for me, but for the other women. Thank you
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You know, this period in your life if very important and serious. I know that it is very difficult time. Now you understand that a lot of things depend on you. That's why you try to do your best. And it is right. Well, in different cases women need to take different medicine. That is why all the information about it you can get inly from the doctors. If you need to take some medicine, specialists will say you about it. There will be no need to turn to pills if your health are god in general. But you will need to take more vitamins than usual. The results of the tests you can get within two weeks. You will need to see your doctor, who will tell you whether everything is successful. In this case you will need to take some more tests. After that you may need to take some pills. If the results are confirmed, it means that you are pregnant. If so, your doctors will tell you how often you need to visit a clinic. It depends on you and your health, results of the tests. In most case ladies see their doctors as often as usual pregnant women. Of course, you need to do all the recommendations to avoid problems. You shouldn't drink alcohol, smoke. Take walks every day and try not to worry. Stress is a very bad ting, especially during pregnancy. Try to eat only healthy food. Child needs lots of vitamins and other components. It is also very important to choose the right clinic. You know, I chose between three different ones. It took some time to make the decision, but I am glad that it was right. Hope that your results will be positive. Good luck! I believe you will be fine. God bless you!
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Thank you! This information is really important for me. Of course you are right. Choosing the clinic is very responsible and serious step. I should think carefully. I want to visit one clinic next month. Hope, that everything will be fine. I am going to pass all the test in all clinics that I have chosen. I want to compare them and decide which of them is better. We decided to turn to clinics in different countries. I have heard lots of information about them. People say, that they are pretty good. Their reputation is very high. They are considered to be the best in the world. By the way, may be you may recommend me something? Please, tell me something about the clinics.
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Okay, I will tell you about the clinic I turned to. I want to share my story. Well, my spouse and I were thinking about several clinics. we visited more than five different clinics. but we couldn’t choose one of them. At that time, I met a friend of mine. She told me about one woman that has the same problem. Her spouse left her because she couldn’t have her own child. But this woman is really strong. She decided to turn to IVF and make her dream come true. She turned to a Ukrainian clinic. Now she is very happy. Her first attempt was successful. As far as I know, she was completely satisfied with everything about this clinic. So I decided to turn to it too. We came to Ukraine and find the clinic BioTexCom. We met the doctors. They told us a bit about clinic and the procedure. We knew that their percentage of successful work is very high. So I decided to try. We found out that that everything was ok. I didn’t need any treatment. My husband tried to support me in every detail. Well, I tell you a bit about the clinic. I may say that we liked the doctors. They really cared about me and my baby. The conditions are good enough. Well, prices are great too. So, you shouldn’t worry about it. I think there is a sense to visit it. I think you will like it too. I am sure that everything will be great. Just believe in it. Everything is possible, so don’t worry
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Oh, thanks for the quick answer! I am glad to get any help and advice! You really helped me. I am sure my spouse and I should think about this clinic. You know, I have heard about it. But up to now I wasn’t confident whether it is really good. Thanks for the useful information. I think it would help not only me. It will be important for the other women that are looking for a good clinic. I think that we will visit it. I think that it is important to talk to doctors of all the clinics I have chosen. Maybe I really will find out that the clinic you told me about is much better. But maybe not. It is very important for me to know that I will work with the true specialists. I don’t want to turn to a clinic where doctors are not experienced. This may affect the outcome. Mothering is my dream from the young age. I am ready for everything to make it come true. I want everything to be fine. Hope that I will be able to make my spouse happy soon. He wants to be a parent too. I believe that good specialists can help us. I am ready to trust the doctors. But I want to make sure that they really know what they do. I think that it is important for every lady who turns to IVF. Nobody wants to waste money and get no result. So, thank you! Hope, your family and you will be happy. God bless you! Wish you good luck and happiness!
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You are welcome! I am glad to help you. I understand how difficult it is. That is why I try to share as much useful information for them as I can. I have pretty good life experience, so may help such women as you are. Dear forum visitors! If you have any questions, you may ask me. I would be glad to answer your questions. If you need an advice – you are welcome! IVF is a very serious step in life. I know how difficult it is to turn to it. It takes some time to prepare yourself for this step. And the beginning of this long process is the information. It is not so easy to collect all the information you need. And it is true that some women can’t make the decision because of the lack of information. That is why some of them can’t become mothers, and the others turn to surrogacy. Of course it is one more way to make the dream come true. But I think that before turning to surrogacy, ladies need to try other methods. IVF is the best decision. So if somebody needs help, just ask me! I will tell you all the details you need. Hope that everybody will be happy. Want to wish you good luck! Be strong and always believe in a success. Positive thinking will help you anyway. Believe in yourself and trust the doctors. Of course, it is important to have support from relatives. Hope that eve woman in here has it. God bless you! Hope everybody will be fine!
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Hi @Lisa, sorry to know about your struggle. We haven't tried IVF but we coped with infertility. I can understand what you are going through. Like @Julia, we also tried with biotexcom and we are in a surrogacy program right now. It was a very good decision. They are always providing us with good advises and support. It used to be hard to stop anxiety and doubts but they made us feel safe and positive from day 1. I highly recommend them. You can just send them an email explaining your case and they will guide you. They have all kind of treatments and services. I'm sure you will find what's suitable for you. Please, feel free to ask me if you have any question. I will happy to help :) Good luck!
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Hey Lisa! I hope you're doing good. The questions you have asked are very important. I would suggest don't take any medicines as long as the doctor doesn't suggest you to take them. Same really goes for what you eat. However, make sure you intake healthy food. Consisting of lots of fruits and vegetables. Make sure you drink water and stay hydrated. Prepare your body for pregnancy by doing yoga and friendly pregnant exercise not too harsh. Make sure to relax and be positive. As being stressed out is one of the biggest reasons why women are not able to conceive. I also have a question for you, which clinic have you decided to opt for? As even I am searching right now and I might be going for the one in eastern Europe. However, which one are you going for and why. Lastly, best of luck for your IVF! I hope everything goes smoothly and you're able to conceive as swiftly as possible.
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Hey there. Hope you are in good health. Glad to read your post. You are trying really hard to get pregnant. You are a strong lady and inspiration for many. IVF is not much a complicated procedure. Once you get your implant, you will be feeling discomfort at the start but later you will feel normal. Your doctor will advise you properly in detail about it. Try to eat healthily and add fruits and vegetable in your diet. You will have to visit the doctor according to your condition. Your doctor will be giving you a complete plan of visits. Don't worry about it. Best wishes.
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Hi there. How are you. I hope you are doing good. May you get well soon my friend. Just try to take care allot of yourself. IVF is a procedure where they could inject you the BFN. That is called transference. It includes multiple cycles. Just try to think that. While making decision about the clinic. The Ukraine is very high success rate whole around the world in this treatment. I think you must consider that. This is really great for you. Take care allot. Best of luck. I wish everything will be good for you. I hope you understand what I am trying to say. It's for your better future.
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Hi there. How are you? I can totally understand your feelings. Please don't get worry. Have you tried any infertlity treatments. IVF, IUI and surroacy are few of them. IVF is commonly known as test tube baby. Surrogacy is on well hype nowadays. I heard positive reviews about surrogacy In Ukraine. Their management is excellent. They take good care of surrogate mothers. I hope you become a happy and healthy mother. I wish you all the best. Take care of your diet and health. Lots of love for you.
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It is good that you finally made up your mind about this whole thing. Your decision seems like a very smart one to me. I have recently got back from this clinic where I am getting my surrogacy done from. I think that it will be the perfect place for you. During my stay there, I saw 5 couples who got to have their babies via IVF. They were really happy with doctors and the packages offered there. I think you should consider going there too. It is situated in Ukraine. The prices are comparatively very very low there for treatments. Do look up for it or you can always contact me for details. I would be happy to help you out.
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You have decided the right thing. Because having a baby is always important in your life. Many couples are planing to have a baby through surrogacy. Because if you want to have a baby. And you are facing the problem of infertility then it is important for you to learn about this treatment. I am happy you have decided to have a baby through this process. But you have to find the best suitable clinic for yourself. Because packages are different and you have to find the best one for yourself. Some clinics are providing the facility to provide legal documents. Some famous clinics are providing this opportunity and many are not. I visited a clinic and there i find many good things. Now i am hoping for the best. I wish you best of luck. Keep trying hard.
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Hey there. Sorry to hear about you. Yes, IVF is a nice procedure to go with. In this process, your eggs and sperms are kept in the laboratory. They are kept under the special circumstance to get fertilized. After fertilization, they are transferred back to your uterus. It has a high success rate. You can also opt for donor' eggs. Just in case you have some issues. Just stay positive and hopeful. More power on your way.
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Hey there. I hope you're doing good. Sorry to hear about your infertility. It is a very important step in your life which you're planning to take on. Please choose your clinic wisely. If you choose the right clinic, you'll face no complications ahead. I've had my IVF from a clinic in Ukraine, Biotexcom. They guarantee you success. You can try as many times as you want, but obviously you yourself have a limit. And if after multiple tries, you still don't conceive, the will return back your money. Isn't it amazing? They have very experienced and qualified doctors. They sat you down nicely and talk to you and ask all your queries. I had a very satisfying time there. I conceived after my first attempt. The doctor gave me pills according to my condition, so it merely depends on your health which medicine you get. I highly recommend that clinic. I hope you have an amazing treatment and you become a mother soon. Good Luck!
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Hey, hope you are doing good. I would suggest you that don't go for IVF because you are now a bit old for it. You can go for surrogacy because age doesn't matter for it. IVF is a bit risky for you. I am 45 and my doctor told me that IVF is risky for me. So I chose surrogacy. Now I have a daughter. I would suggest you go to the clinic in Europe as it is much affordable than other clinics. The clinic is reliable and provides best surrogates. Hope this would work.
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Hi there! I wish you all the best in finding a great clinic and getting your happiness. There are some good clinics in Europe. I went there for my surrogacy and they offered IVF there too. I don't know too much about the details but I do know they offer multiple tries until success. Also, they were kind enough to provide us with free food, accommodation, and transport throughout our stay there. I hope you choose a good one! Best of luck!
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Hey. I am so sorry for you. I know it is so hard for you now. You are making a right decision but there is a risk in IVF. as you are 45 and it is a bit old for IVF. It is a painful process too. This thing made me change my mind. I have a baby through surrogacy. I was infertile and I wanted babies badly. So I decided to turn to surrogacy. Today I am a happy mother. I chose a clinic in Europe. It was affordable for me. I hope this would work.
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Good to see you took the right decision. Why are you visiting so many clinics though? Just compare their previous data and find the suitable one. The process is same I agree. The hospitability matters. European clinics are great I have heard. According to me, you should go to a clinic that offers an affordable deal. It should have multiple tries too. Just in case the first one is not successful. Don't think this does not happen. The clinic I turned into offered multiple attempts in the same. I was so relieved. This stress buster helped me get pregnant on the first try only. All the other things will be communicated to you by the doctor. Just follow them and you'll be good. Good luck.
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Hey! great to know how much concerned you are regarding your IVF procedure. There are certain things that are made under considerations not only for IVF women but for all the women that are TTC. Including neglecting bad habits if you are on any of that sort. Things that harm your health are better off. you must take protein rich foods. start including fruits as much as you can in your diet. a little bit of exercise also helps you out in many possible ways. as I stated earlier that if you are on any sort of bad habits like alcohol or smoking put off that soon. These are some of the routines that I was being preferred by the doctor when I was TTC. and I believe the medicine and all such could be suggested by your doctor better than anyone could.
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Hey. You need to relax a bit. It will work out for you I'm sure. The time it takes for the results to come out really depends. There could be many problems but again, every other process has its problems. This doesn't mean they all will happen to you. Just relax and try to feel good about this. Some successful IVF stories might help you.
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I wish it will be useful for you finally.my best wishes go with you. We especially moved to Europe from japan in search of surrogacy.Japan had banned surrogacy.Than we moved to Ukraine. Here we found BioTexCom and we contacted the clinic.The clinic arranged a surrogate for us very soon.Now the surrogate is pregnant with our twin daughters and we are very happy. If someone is looking for surrogacy in Ukraine than you should move to Ukraine.Contact BiotexCom clinic and you will be happy with my suggestions.
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It is really sad dear. You are really in the hot waters now. At the same time your plans show that you are ready to fight this grief. I am sure that your committment would not disappoint you. Things are difficult but not impossible. It is good to try for IVF. Considering the success rate it is possible to rely on IVF. Hopefully it will turn out great for you.

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