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Hey Everyone. Hope that everyone is doing fine. I am in Europe right now for my surrogacy. Everything is going well. I am happy with the doctors too. My test results are kinda late. I am really worried. What if something is wrong with me. Need some support, please.
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Hey, Em. Don't worry. You made a great decision. The people at that clinic are very efficient. They will take care of everything. The tests do take time. The key is to stay patient here. Surrogacy requires a lot of patience. So don't lose it just yet. I'm sure everything will be fine. Believe me, I have been through hall this. It will go smoothly for you. I'm sure all the results will turn out to be okay. It might take a while for them to find you a matching surrogate. You are going to have to wait for a while. But they will definitely find you one. This time varies for everyone. They found my matching surrogate after three months of applying. While you are in Ukraine, explore the place!
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Hey nothing is going to be wrong with you. Why are you thinking like that. It's really well for you as well. Just try to be sure that you take care of yourself. Wait for your results. There is nothing wrong with them. It's just about the process. It takes time. I am seeing some really good future for you. I think it's really well for you what you did. I must suggest you that if they tell you to go with some other method than try to take every single detail. Than discuss it here before taking any decision. I hope it would be best for you dear.
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Hi Emily! My all best wishes are with you. We support you. I'm also having an IVF this year in Ukraine at a repro center in Kiev. Well, I think you've gone to the right place. Europe has amazing centers of human reproductions. I wish you all the best! I hope you get it done. Stay blessed. xx
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Hi there. I Hope you are doing great there. This is amazing to hear. I wish you good luck on your surrogacy journey. I wish everything goes well. Don't worry the clinic will take good care of you and the surrogate. Hope to hear more from you.
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Hi there. Hope you're doing fine. I am so happy that you finally decided to go for surrogacy. Oh wow, you're getting it done from some clinic in Europe? Do share your experience with us as many of us plan on it too. Don't be stressed okay I am sure everything will be great. I have heard a lot about the clinics there. I am sure the staff would be great and everything. My sister got it done from Ukraine. And she had an amazing experience. She's super happy with the result. They have a very high success rate. Idk if you're opting for the same one. But do tell us how it goes. Best of luck. I hope everything goes well.
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Hey, Emily! I hope you doing well. You have taken a great decision of going to Europe for surrogacy. I'm sure you must have done a lot of research before going. I know it's not something to be really happy about. It's a fact that hurts all of us. Everyone who is going through the pain of infertility knows how much it hurts. Sometimes we think why is it only us? Why does this happen to us all the time? What have we ever done? Why do we have to tolerate all this pain? These questions keep on revolving in our minds until we find a solution. I had this phase in my life too. I know how hard it gets as time passes. But I think, a wise person like you takes a decision as soon as possible. Taking a decision at an appropriate stage in such a situation is very important. I am very glad that you took a wise decision. I hope your surrogacy process goes fine. Keep updating us. All the best!
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You shouldn't worry dear. The test results can be late for any reason. Something being wrong with you can never be a reason. So cheer up. Hope for the best. I am sure everything will be fine. Keep your hopes high. And keep us posted.
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Hey, Emily best of luck for your process. Don't worry they do take some time and that is completely normal. I hope everything goes fine and smoothly. the clinic always used to tell me that patience is really important. This is so true since it is a long one and the clinic is very efficient. They have to ensure that nothing goes wrong. Due to which delay was always due to some good reason. Eventually, everything turned out to be good and now I have a baby girl.
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Hey, Dont worry. Everything will be fine. I hope you will be a mommy soon. It is a dream of every woman who wants to conceive a baby but only a few are lucky. I had 3 miscarriages so then I faced infertility. I was so depressed because I wanted a baby. I faced infertility and I knew that infertility is not always treatable. So I made my mind for surrogacy. I went for it to a clinic in Europe. I was so happy. My husband was happy too. I was blessed with a baby and we are planning to have another baby soon.
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Hey! Stay positive girl! Nothing is going to be wrong. If you would think positive, half of your worries would be solved. Worries make things more complicated. BTW the places you are talking about I have heard that of so many times, In so many forums. I am curious to know about that place. How is it? Is it really good for this procedure? Should I prefer this too? I am also looking for this procedure. And in search of the best place or clinic to do so. Would love to hear details from you. Good luck.XX
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Honey, you have overcome the first hurdle for now. Stop worrying about it now.The results can be delayed due to any other reason. I have heard some great reviews about the clinic.It is not necessary there is a problem with your process. Be positive and expect good. Keep us updated further too.
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"Dear one, there is no need to worry. Don't consider surrogacy as a simple process. It is not merely getting a surrogate for carrying the baby. It is a very extensive treatment. It cannot happen in one day. It requires a great deal of preventive and precautionary measures. Both the IPs and the surrogate have to undergo profound check up. It is extremely important that both the parties are free from the threats of any kind of infectious diseases. These diseases can be really threatening for the lives of the baby to come. At the same time there are certain tests that are solely meant for the surrogate. these pathological tests are refered as chromosomal karyotyping and fibrosis. Both of these tests are meant for to check the health of the sperm and egg donors. The surrogate's health is also very important as she has to keep the baby for the next nine months. Some of these tests are really time consuming. Tests like HIV take a lot of time. Thus, there is no need to worry abiut the delayed results. Wait with patience so that nothing bad happens in the coming days. "
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Hi Emily. Don't you worry! I agree with you. It's really fine. Just wait for it! It's a good procedure what you'll be going through with better outputs. My all support is with you. I know it's tough but eventually good to go for. Anyway! stay blessed. xx
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Hey Emily! It really feels good to hear this. You've chosen the right path of having a baby. Surrogacy is the most reliable method to cope with infertility. Don't worry, everything is going to be fine. Have faith in yourself. I wish you luck. Lots of prayers for you.
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It is really great to learn that you have reached the right decision. It is an excellent alternative. I am also pleased to know that all your tests went well. It is very important before surrogacy that all the tests are cleared. It is important to get everything matched. The surrogacy is an easy to follow procedure. It uses the womb of the surrogate mother to fulfill the dreams. The dream comes true only if everything prios to surrogacy goes well. Both the surrogate mother and the IPs have to undergo serious screening tests. The success of these tests determines that to what extent the surrogacy will be successful. Despite all the success of the tests prior to surrogacy you are confused. This is really natural. At the same time you have to be realistic in your approach too. Consider it as a medical process. Like any other procedure there are risk factors associated with it too. You need to consider them too. If you look at the things the way they are you would not suffer much.
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Good luck with your surrogacy journey. During my first marriage i miscarried for 3 times.I always had complications while getting pregnant.Now i'm married for second time at the age of 43. Having a look at my previous pregnancies i guess it is not a good idea to be pregnant again. So i persuaded my husband to go for surrogacy and he is ready to go for it if we will have a baby of our own DNA. So i started looking out for good clinics regarding surrogacy.I researched over the web and found many clinics regarding surrogacy. While having a look at best known clinics for surrogacy i came across a name of clinic many times. Having very good positive reviews.So i contacted that clinic and told them about my issue.They said they will help us in every possible way.They told me about their procedure and they will help us in every aspect. They told us that we can have baby of our own DNA sample. Surrogate mother will not have any effect on our child. She will just keep our child in her womb. The clinic will find a good surrogate for our baby. They will test her and will analyze if she can carry our child in her womb or not. If someone has some experience regarding surrogacy let me know your experience than.

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