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Hi people, I am 35 years old and I recently had 2 miscarriages. Is it easy for me to conceive after such a blood loss? well my doctor says that there is a possibility but I can't play with the odds here. My friend just got conceived last month and my sister just adopted a baby. This has made extra anxious, can I ever be a mother? I have been suggested to go through IVF, IUI, or surrogacy. My option is just to go for surrogacy as I don't want to go through the pain all over again. A clinic in Ukraine is well reputed and I have been looking for it's success online. Can anyone of you tell if it will help me?
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Hey there! I hope that you're doing good. I'm really sorry for your miscarriages. It requires a lot of strength to bear all the pain. Well, I've seen women conceiving after their miscarriages. But they get weak tho. You don't have to feel jealous by seeing your friends having babies. A family is something everyone desires for. Children are in fact a blessing. One thing causing a problem in your pregnancy is your age too. After all this, you're taking the right decision to go for surrogacy. It gives people the chance to have children who can't. So it's probably the best option for you. Yes, clinics in Ukraine are serving good for this purpose. You can go through the process and you won't regret it. I hope that things go right for you. Take care of yourself. Much love!
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Hi i am trying from almost 7 years and believe me miscarriages can create serious mess in your life. After blood loss it is difficult to conceive. Yes you have the chance me my self going through from the same condition. My believe is we both can get pregnant. Yes this clinic is providing so much facilitates to couples and they are very caring hope this will help you a lot. Don't loose hope. Its just a matter of time. Yes success is very high. You don't need to worry if you really want to have a baby from Ukraine. There packages are very affordable and you can easily afford them. Wishing you best of luck for your future.
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Well I am really sorry for your loss dear. May you get well soon. May you get your baby. Well Ukraine has really reputable clinics related to infertility. You must have to go there. There success rate is very high among others around the world. I must suggest you to take care of yourself. Keep patience and be calm. Best of luck dear.
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Hello. You are the first person that I have seen on this forum who is not taking MCs lightly. I have come across so many people who keep TTC after multiple MCs while not caring about their body and completely ignoring their health. I think you are very smart and you have made the absolute right decision at the right time. I am also opting for surrogacy after 10 years of infertility and have been spending all these years childless. I am very picky about clinics when it comes to my health that's why I chose this Ukrainian clinic known as biotexcom. I fell in love with the whole system of their services and their pocket-friendly packages. I would also recommend you to get your treatment done from here, you will not be disappointed. All the very best of luck and I hope you make the right choice as you seem like a smart woman to me;).
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Hi Victoria, I am so sorry to hear about your miscarriage and after that what all you have been through. There is a relationship between women’s age and fertility. Women are born with all the eggs they will ever have, so as a woman ages there are chances that her eggs age with her and as a result it is getting lower in quantity and quality. While fertility can decline a bit in ladies over 35, it's not a given in all cases. It is just as possible you've developed an issue which is causing secondary infertility, so your consultant will know that your body is capable of it .35 is not ancient, and there are plenty of mums on here who've had babies later than that. I would suggest you don’t lose hope. As miscarriage is not the end, you should give it one more try and consult some good doctor or some good fertility clinic. Yes surrogacy could also be an option. Did you work out on any clinic yet? As I am also looking for suggestions for surrogacy. I wish you good luck. Hope things get better soon and you will be blessed with a child.
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Hey there Victoria. Extremely sorry to hear about your loss. It must have been extremely difficult for you. I would suggest that you give your body some time to even undergo IVF. However, you should try opting for surrogacy as you're producing healthy eggs. The process will allow you to be genetically linked to the baby. Also, you're right even I was suggested this clinic and it is amazing. I watched some of there videos and they were so informative. Literally, cleared everything out for me. I then contacted them and was astonished to know how caring they were regarding their clients. The legal work was being done excellently as they ensured that everything was error free. They doubled checked everything with me and with their department as well. They cared more about me then I would about myself. Asked me to check my passport expiry so that I don't get stuck in the country later. Asked me to make sure I keep my visa along. amazing patient-practitioner clinic. I think you should really go for it.
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hello, victoria dear.I can see the desperation.What woman won't be that desirous.I can see the genuine emotions.Well, surrogacy is a good option.If you are almost certain that there are no other means of conceiving yourself.The clinic you mentioned is actually very much in news.It has caused many the blessings in their lives.You must look into them.Their best thing is their unlimited tries.So you will definitely get a child.
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Hi, dear Victoria! Well, don't get much tense. I know how these MCs are. I presume that you should try going for an IVF first before opting for surrogacy. Because there is still a better chance for you to conceive through it. If things don't work out there. Then, I think you should go for surrogacy. Secondly, yeah! I think you should go for Ukrainian clinics. Recently, my DH's colleague has had their baby from a clinic in Ukraine. They are less expensive than centers here in the USA, I guess. Anyway! I wish you all best. I hope you get you want! Stay blessed. xx
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Hi Victoria, i can guide you better in this regard. As i am going to have my surrogacy done from the same clinic next month. I had my first visit to biotexcom few days ago. That was just awesome. I had also a lot of confusions and fears regarding surrogacy process. But i didn't had any other option. I am facing double infertility. Me and my hubby both are infertile. So, surrogacy was the only option left for us. I had been collecting information about this process from the last 3 years. I gathered information about different clinics. After that i selected this one. Next month, they are going to start my surrogacy process. I hope all is going to be very well. As i have listened a lot of success stories about this clinic.Will definitely update you regarding my procedure.
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I think you should start thinking about the surrogacy process. This is the best process for you to have a baby in your life. This is the important stage in your life to choose what actually you want to have in your life. I am pretty much sure you will get best results from this the=is surrogacy process. I have read so many good things on different forums about this clinic. But i am not too sure how they actually deal the patient like you. You have to take extra care of yourself in this situation. Don't think much about this. Because stress can cause problems in your life. So deal all the situation with confidence. I was lucky to find a perfect clinic for my self. But i am sure you will soon find the best way for your self to have a baby. Wishing you best of luck for your future.
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Hey Victoria. Of Course there is still a chance of getting pregnant naturally. But if you keep trying and nothing happens then what? What if they tell you that your age doesn't allow you any fertility processes either now? You should definitely not play with odds. I have been to the clinic for my IVF. I had my first baby there. It was a nice experience on the whole. I recommend looking into it a bit. You'll definitely get your answers there. Just don't lose hope. Hope is what keeps us going till we achieve what we want. So hang on to that. The type of treatment will depend on your condition. The doctors will help you make the decision. Wishing you the best.
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Hey there Victoria! I deeply empathize with you, dear. I know how terrible it feels when we try but can't have a baby. I'm so sorry for your loss. You don't deserve this, I know. But sometimes, life tests you in these ways. You just have to stay strong and face the hurdles. Options like surrogacy and IVF have really made our lives easy. They help us cope up with infertility. You should definitely go for surrogacy. I had my surrogacy process from Biotexcom. They are very good at their job. They know how to professionally handle the clients, which is very satisfying. The prices are affordable. They offer many packages, but even the VIP package is not expensive. You should consult them. Email them your queries and then definitely visit them. They pay all your expenses for the first visit. I hope I was helpful. Good Luck!
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Hey, Victoria. The clinic in Ukraine would be a good option to go to for your surrogacy. I have been their client too. All the good reviews I saw proved to be true. They are very professional. They handled my situation very efficiently and professionally. They also took care of my confidentiality. You should go for it.
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Hey, there Victoria. How are you doing? I hope you are doing great. I am really sorry to hear about your miscarriages. Do you happen to be talking about biotexcom? I have been there myself for surrogacy. I trust the place. It was a long time ago. It's better to do your research. However, the staff and doctors were very professional. Wishing you good luck.
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Hi there. I am very sorry to hear about your loss. I can relate so much to you. Because I had 2 MCs too. And I couldn't conceive after that. But that's not the case for everyone. You may be able to conceive again. I think you should TTC for a while and if that doesn't work then surrogacy is the best option. Well, the clinic you're talking about is the same that I went for surrogacy. It's a great clinic. Their services are amazing. The staff is very professional and great at what they do. My baby is now 5 years a lot and I am thinking of going for baby#2. It's a very exciting process. And almost like natural pregnancy. The difference is that someone else is carrying your baby for you. Keep us updated on what you decide. Good Luck.
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Hi, Victoria. I'm sorry that you had to face so many terrible things in life. I know it is not easy. But sometimes, life does such things to us and we have to remain patient. I think you should go for surrogacy. It is the best way to have a child if you can't conceive naturally. The clinic in Ukraine is very famous for these processes. You should definitely do some research on it and then decide. Good luck!
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Hi Victoria! I'm sorry for your losses. I hope you are recovering well. I think surrogacy is a great option you've chosen. There are clinics out there in Ukraine which is well known for this. You have heard it right. I think you should definitely go for it. I understand how you feel about not wanting to go through the anxiety again. It's best you don't. WIshing you the best! x
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Hey there Victoria I hope you're doing fine. I am extremely sorry to hear about your loss I am sure it must have been very difficult to cope up with. However, the clinic that you're talking about I actually visited that too for my first surrogate child. In order for you to be applicable for surrogacy, they do ensure that you cant have a child otherwise, meaning through other methods. If so is the case then only they move on with the surrogacy process. My whole experience with them was honestly amazing. I had almost given up on TTC as it had been soo long without any results. However, once I went to them and they started helping me everything got a lot more structured. The clinic helped me by matching a surrogate, I was initially scared about the process. However, once I met her and she told me how she knew this baby meant a lot to me. she had her own children and she told me that having a child makes your life a lot more different in a good way. After that, the clinic also used to send me regular updates about the baby and the surrogate. I always used to tear upon seeing the ultrasound pictures. Soon when we were called that it was finally going to happen I was honestly over the moon. The surrogate and I, don't know why but I felt like had a connection. This connection was every so strong because although there was a communication barrier we still managed to talk via a translator. So yes my experience was amazing I hope yours to goes great. Feel free to ask any more questions.
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Hey victoria! Yes Ukraine is a great place for such processes. I had my ivf there. It was a wonderful experience. Surrogacy is a great option indeed. You should go for it. Keep us posted. Much love.
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Hi, Victoria! I am sorry for your condition. Don't lose heart. Go for surrogacy and you will also have that blessing. I know you have become a little too much sensitive but that okay. And the clinic you have mentioned is the best. I know a friend who has got a baby through surrogacy from the same clinic. They have best services and have best packages. Just don't waste any more time and visit that clinic. be positive and keep your hopes high. My best wishes!!
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I am sorry for your condition. It's going to be the best. The clinic that you've mentioned is great. I think you should go there and seek help from it. It's going to be alright for you. Just take care a lot. Everything will be fine soon.
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Yes, you are right dear it usually hits around 1000 women after the age of 30. But you had follies in you and these are going to give you good news. Because if it's the right one then one is enough for conception but as you are defining its condition is not good. let's just hope for the best.
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I don't think so your body is still healthy enough. If you wanna do it wait for some more time. Wait until your body recovers. Then try if you wish to. Though surrogacy is a great option. It indeed will save you from the hassle of going through the pain. No more exhaustion again. No more fear of another loss. It can be much reliable and safe in every sense. I have heard and read about the clinic too. I bet it will surely help you out. Is your husband on board with this? If yes then go for it girl. You have no hurdle left in your way. Good luck and baby dust on your way. Keep us updated.
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Hey! I am so sorry for you. Miscarriages are really hard to overcome. I know it would be hard for you. I had 3 miscarriages and after that, I was not able to conceive. I tried for 2 years but failed. I came to know that I am facing infertility. Really infertility takes a lot out of a woman. I though that its not a big deal. I went for the treatment for 4-5 years but then no results. I was so upset but I know I am just wasting time and I have to go for the unnatural way. I made my mind for IVF and then came to know that it is not so successful. I made my mind for surrogacy and my husband was agreed to the decision. We went to a clinic in Europe that was reputed for its success. After 10 months we returned to the home with a baby. I was so happy that I made a right decision.
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Sorry for your lose.I have an idea for you if you are unable to conceive now. So for now i have convinced mt husband to go for surrogacy and he is ready too. I also had many complication regarding pregnancy during my first marriage regarding pregnancy. Now i am married for the second time and having a child from my own womb doesn’t seems to be easy keeping in mind the previous complications in my first marriage. So now i am going for the surrogacy option as their is no other way to have a baby of my own. I also contacted a clinic for surrogacy method and they responded very well to my questions. I suggest you to go for this clinic and at least you should contact them and share your problem with them so that they can propose a better solution for you. As they suggested surrogacy option for us. Some clinics are very good clinic regarding surrogacy as i’m sharing my experience with all of you. And i have to go through very hard time like i conceived for three times. But miscarriage was in fate every time i conceived. I consulted a clinic regarding surrogacy they provided me a positive feedback. Now they are looking for a good woman for our baby who can carry our baby in her womb for 9 months. They will find a good female with all clear tests so that we don’t have to face any issue later. But i am worried about somethings also. But that doesn’t matter as we don’t have any other option left for us. Positive feedback will be appreciated. Thanks
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TTC is very hard with such complications. I hope you conceive soon again. Conceiving was never an option for me as i was infertile. I'm from Japan.We moved to Europe to find our heaven. Surrogacy is ban in Japan.And i'm infertile due to some cancer reasons. So we moved to Europe to find surrogacy related clinics. We consulted many clinics in Europe. Than we came to know about clinics in Ukraine and we moved to Ukraine. In ukraine we found a very good clinic. Now we are having twins with the help of this clinic.The clinic gave us a very good surrogate mom.With the help of that mom we are having our two twin daughters. We are so excited and happy.
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I was also TTC hard from past 10 years but there was no sign of conceiving. I went to doctors for checkup. But they can't tell any problem in me. I had several attempts of IVF and IUI.But i failed at them too.I don't know whats the main cause for these. I contacted a number of clinics regarding my infertility issue.But the doctors can't also find the main cause for my infertility. The doctors are also not sure that whats the main cause for infertility.They also can't tell that should i'll have a baby naturally or not. So i am getting old now and i guess keep on waiting is not a good idea.I got suggestions from my friends to go for surrogacy.They say that i can have a baby via surrogacy. I don't know much about surrogacy but i searched about it over the web and found that many people are going for it to have a baby. But as i live in Bulgaria.Here surrogacy is totally ban.I don't know what to do. From forums i came to hear about that Ukraine has many good clinics regarding surrogacy. I think i should move to Ukraine for surrogacy now. If someone has experience about surrogacy please guide me.
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Sorry for your loss. You are suffering from depression. Dear, don't stress yourself. There are many other like you who can't conceive naturally. Surrogacy is the right choice for you. Bio TexCom clinic Ukraine is the best for surrogacy. Think about it carefully. For more details visit http://mother-surrogate.info/
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Hey! Hugs to you. I know this is such a tough time for you. Yeah, That's correct you just can't play against odds. You have to be very careful with so many things. Most importantly your health. The healthier you would be the less the complications you have to bare. Well, the doctor has, of course, suggested you with some of the worthy options. All such fertility treatments are great for making you able to be a mother soon. But yes, That's completely your pick, If you wanna go with surrogacy. Then that's perfect. That's your life and that must be your decision completely of what you want to do with your life. Though surrogacy is also itself a great procedure. And that would be great to see you have a baby through this procedure. Wish you good luck.

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