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I was also trying to conceive from a long time. But had no luck with TTC. Although i conceived for 3 times but the miscarriages were in fate. TTC is the hardest period of a woman life. My first husband left me and i was totally broke. Than i was in depression quitting my job and staying up last night. Now i am at an age of 43. I am going to be married again. I have told my husband everything about my complications regarding pregnancy. He is still willing to marry me. He says that he has consulted some good clinics regarding surrogacy and we will go for surrogacy to have a child. I had many complications regarding pregnancy. Now i am happy i have someone to support me. I have read about surrogacy from many people on this forum. People here have shared their stories of TTC. They also have shared their success stories of Surrogacy. I am now trying to know the experience of people about surrogacy. If someone has a recent experience of surrogacy than kindly share with me your experience.
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Hi Sofia! Hope you are in good health. Surrogacy is indeed a beautiful process. I have a success story I could share with you. It is my own. I am infertile just like you and after years of TTC, failed IVF and MC I was left completely hopeless until I was introduced to surrogacy. Surrogacy came to me as a blessing. I remember when I first applied for it mentally I was getting myself ready to face another failure but it turned out to be more than I could ever imagined. I am from Germany and surrogacy is prohibited here. I wen to Ukraine for my surrogacy treatment. Ukraine has some of the best clinics. Through surrogacy I was able to start a family. I now have a baby daughter that I had through surrogacy.
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I'm also struggling to TTC for past 10 yeras.Just like you i m also worried about the age limit and it really is stressful.I have tried IUI and IVF but there was no luck with them.A friend of mine gave me the idea of surrogacy.I will surely go for it as all of other options are disclosed in my case.You better should research about surrogacy and should visit some clinics regarding surrogacy.As for me i will go for surrogacy ultimately i dont have any other option left.I have contacted this clinic in Ukrine and soon i will do it before its too late. If anybody has an opinon about this kindly guide me.
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Sorry to hear about your complivca.Trying to conceive is such a difficult part of my married life.I am ttc from last 10 years.Still i don't have any luck with it. There is no specfic cause of my infertility.I have gone through several medical tests regaring infertility but doctors can't decide the main cause for my infertility.So they have called me infertile for life. I want a baby too badly as i have been trying to conceive from the last decade.I am looking for other alternatives to have a baby.I have looked into a numbe rof options like adoption,surrogacy. I have came to know from many forums about surrogacy. i heard many infertile women going for surrogacy.People on forum are discussing mostly about surrogacy,People discuss about clinics mostly.
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Hi, How are you? Thanks for sharing your story. i feel sorry for you. It must be hard for you. I can feel your pain. We are in the same boat. I am also an infertile. I can't conceive because of my heart disease. Luckily, my husband supported me. We decided to go for surrogacy. We consulted Bio texCom clinic for the treatment. No doubt, they are the best for the surrogacy treatment. Staff is friendly and cooperative. The packages are also affordable. They even paid for our stay and transportation. If you want more details visit http://mother-surrogate.info/
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Well, that's really good! You're a lucky person. Just seal this opportunity! Surrogacy is really an amazing way! You can do it! Wish you all the best! Stay strong! You'll be fine with time. Believe in your destiny. xx :)
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Hey! How are you doing? Sorry to hear about your MC and marriage loss. These are two of the worst situations that anyone could have in life. But people who get out of this situation and found their ways are at their best. And so you are. It is equally great to hear about your partner and the kind of support you are having from his side. This is the thing that every woman look for. Especially the ones who are infertile and have no other way left behind to get their baby. Hope this be the best way for both of you to get your baby and happiness. Being a surrogacy person I would love to wish to luck and love. Hopes all goes well. Baby dust!
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This will be the best choice. You will get to be a mother. You will get a family. And you will live a happy life. My best wishes are with you. Do let me know when the surrogacy process starts. I would love to be a part of it.
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Hey, Sofia I am really sorry to hear about your loss. It must have been really difficult for you to cope with this. Don't be depressed things are finally getting better. I am glad you decided to tell your new husband everything. Nothing should remain hidden. Opting for surrogacy is a great option. I have been through it myself and also have a child now. I think it was the best experience for me. The clinic I decided to opt for I ensured that they were operating legally. I also made sure that they had a high level of experience with such treatments. When the process started from day 1 to the last day there was not even a single day in between where I regretted working with them. They made sure everything was organized and well-structured. I used to be given updates regularly which was wonderful. If there are any specific questions feel free to ask. Best of luck.
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Hey. I hope you are fine. I am so sorry for you. Now at this age, it is hard to conceive a baby. I am so sorry for you. I hope you will be a mother soon. Surrogacy is a right choice to settle on. I also have a baby through surrogacy. I hope you will choose it too. I am a happy mother now. I have no more worries now.
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I trust you are fine. I am so sad for you. Presently at this age, As you are 43 it is difficult to have a child. I am so sorry for you. I trust you will be a mother soon. Surrogacy is a correct decision to settle on. I have an infant through surrogacy. I trust you will pick it as well. I am a cheerful mother now. I hope you will be a mom soon.
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Hi, How are you? Hope you are doing good. Yes, Infertility is really a hard time for a woman. Woman have to Struggle a lot. Woman are lucky who have the support of their husband. As I am also in the same boat. I am 28 now and married. I am suffering from infertility. It was really a heartbreaking news for me. But my husband supports me a lot. He always stands with me. Then We came to know about surrogacy. It was a hope for us. We started searching for surrogacy. We have visited many sites. And finally, we decided to go for surrogacy. we have our surrogacy appointment in next month in Ukraine. I am very excited. soon I will have my own baby. Wish me luck. Take care!
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Good luck for your plans ahead. You are making the right choice to have a baby. Go to Ukraine for surrogacy, Ukraine is very popular for its clinics regarding infertility. I have been there in Ukraine myself. there are a number of clinics in Ukraine for infertility solutions. I was infertile due to hysterectomy cancer. I was cancer free after sometime but it resulted in my total infertility. My husband decided that we will go for surrogacy to have a child. here in Japan surrogacy is prohibited. So we moved to Ukraine for surrogacy. There we found a very good clinic which is best for its surrogacy. We started our surrogacy journey at that clinic. Clinic founded a good surrogate for us. Then we went through the whole process and everything was just perfect. Now our surrogate is pregnant with our twin daughters. We are so happy that we will finally have our baby with us. We will be flying to Ukraine once the clinic let us know the delivery date of our surrogate. This is the story of our surrogacy journey.
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Hey there. How are things going? I hope they are good. I am really sorry to hear about your issue. I know how hard it must have been. Surrogacy is a hard choice. You need to be strong to make the decision. I hope you are strong. I have had surrogacy. I had it after my hysterectomy. It's a blessing. I am glad that I went for it. It was my best choice. I wish you good luck. I hope things work out. I went to Ukraine to get it. you should have a look at the clinics good luck.
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Hi there, I am really sorry for that. It's all your fate. The one thing with which we can't fight. I am really sorry for that. Still, This dosen't mean that everything is gone. You still have plenty of options. You can always go for any of those options. It would be great for you. You should not worry about that. There are plenty pf options out there for you. You should just chose the right one among them. That would be great for you. I hope you understand what I am trying to say. You shoudn't worry about it. Just be calm and try to find what is good for you.
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Hey there! I hope you're doing fine. I'm very sorry to hear about your complicated life, dear. Life is pretty unfair to you. Miscarriages hurt a lot. I've been through this situation so I can understand how you feel. The time where a wife needs husband's support the most, your husband left you. If was probably for the best. Look you found an amazing man who is willing to be with you after knowing the truth. This is what a husband is and should be. I'm glad you guys are considering surrogacy. It is the best solution for infertility. Research and find a good clinic with high success rates. This is essential. All the best!
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You are going towards the right path. Surrogacy is going to be a good experience for you. You should not worry about anything. Just pray. The chances are pretty good in your case. Just ask people to have these chances. You shouldn't worry about these things. I hope everything is alright with you. Just try it with confidence. It is going to be great for you. Everything is already going to be in your favor. Be calm and stay positive. Everything is going to be alright.
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hey Sofia. I'm so sorry for your condition. my sister has osteoporosis. she is under surrogacy in Ukraine. we have our hopes high. the rate was a success is really high. hope the same for you. best of luck. keep me updated.
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Hey there! How are you doing? I hope you are doing fine. We are doing good. I read your post. TTC is really tough. It is the hardest time of a woman's life. I am sorry that you have to go through this much pain. Miscarrying has a huge effect on the emotional and mental state. It is a really hard thing to cope with. I hope after all this pain you become a mother soon. Surrogacy is a really great option for you. I think you should go for surrogacy from BioTex Com Clinic in Ukraine. They have a really low-cost plan. Their prices are really low and they have a lot of success stories. I hope my advice helps you. Take care. God bless.
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Hey there! How are you doing? I hope you are doing fine. We are doing good. I read your post. TTC is really tough. It is the hardest time of a woman's life. I am sorry that you have to go through this much pain. Miscarrying has a huge effect on the emotional and mental state. It is a really hard thing to cope with. I hope after all this pain you become a mother soon. Surrogacy is a really great option for you. I think you should go for surrogacy from BioTex Com Clinic in Ukraine. They have a really low-cost plan. Their prices are really low and they have a lot of success stories. I hope my advice helps you. Take care. God bless.
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Your story makes me sad. I can feel your pain.my sympathise with you. I became a mother through surrogacy.there are many good clinics in Europe that provides the treatment of infertility. I think you should have to consult clinic. Anyways don't lose hope. I hope you will be a mom soon.
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Sorry to hear about your infertility. That itself would have been a nightmare. Your husband leaving you would have made it worse. A lot of love and support is needed during this time. Yet, your husband showed no affection. I am glad you are marrying again. Your husband-to-be seems very understanding. Wishing you a lot of luck.
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Hey Sofia! I am so glad you found such great support from your husband. It is lucky to find such a support in your life, he is truly a keeper. Not everyone knows that the woman must not be blamed for infertility or treated badly because she cannot reproduce. I am infertile as well. I had my first child through IUI however due to some complications doctors diagnosed cancerous polyps on my uterus. I just could not believe it, I was clueless about what I should do with my life. I wanted to choose death over my life. But my husband supported me and told me to go for a hysterectomy. I had my uterus removed then. It was a very painful experience. After few days, one of my cousins visited me. I was really happy to see her having a child after so many years of struggle. She told me that she had him through surrogacy. That was the first time I heard about surrogacy. I was really shocked to know that a procedure like this exists. She recommended me a clinic in Europe. I have had many sessions with the doctors in that clinic, and they were really helpful. My procedure has begun and now I am really looking froward to the new experience.
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TTC is really the hardest time. And when there is no luck it kills really. I am 30 and I am declared infertile. So frustrating I swear!! But I think surrogacy is a good option and well, it has a lot of success stories and positive results so I think it is gonna be good for you :) CHEERS
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Just keep trying. Everything will be alright with you. Don't worry about anything. There are a lot of treatments. You'll just have to find what is right for you. It would be great.
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Hey Sofia, hope and wish that you are enjoying good health. Just read your post. I felt a special connection with your journey. I had also survived 2 abortions because of ectopic pregnancies. I know how difficult it is to cope such depressions. I have heard about surrogacy from a friend. It is my last hope now. Everyone I asked of advice told me that treatment in Ukraine is worth giving a shot. So I am trying to find a good clinic there. Someone told me about Adonis clinic there. I did try to get info from them. But their communication channel is so poor. It’s been weeks now that I have been waiting for their response. I gave up on them now. Will get back to you if I find a good clinic there.
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Hi. How are you? You had faced a lot. you are a strong woman. Infertility is the worst nightmare for a woman. I am glad that you are going to opt for surrogacy. It is the best option. It has proved to be a blessing. Go for it. In fact, Ukraine is best for surrogacy treatment. You can consult there. You can read from this website as well: http://mother-surrogate.info/ good luck.
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There is a process. First, you have to go through a test. After that, you'll find what is good for you. Then you'll find a good place for you. Your treatment will start after that.
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Hello Sofia! I hope you are in a good condition now. You managed to recover yourself after such losses. Words fall short of expressing my sorrow for your losses. I am also glad that your husband is with you. I must tell you about my experience regarding this. After 2 years of TTC, I fed up. I had many miscarriages and lost the hope of becoming a mother. Then I also searched here and there to find some good clinic. After all the struggles I found a clinic in Europe. I just packed up and had an appointment there. The staff there are so cooperative and sweet. They not only treat me well but give me hope and courage to heal my wounds. Now I am a mother of twins through IVF treatment. I must suggest you give a chance to that clinic you'll not be disappointed. Wishing you all the good luck. Take care.
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Hey darling! How are you doing? I hope you're doing good. I am extremely sorry for your losses. Having a miscarriage 3 times? I cannot even begin to imagine the havoc it caused. The pain is endless. But it's amazing that you're trying to find it again. Your second husband is a gem. Has he tried looking into fertility clinics in Europe? Given your case, they can really help you out. They helped me too. The number of complications I've had was endless. But they took care of everything so smoothly. Wishing you lots of luck and baby dust in your new life.
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Well, you must never stop ttc. It's going to be alright for you. You should never take tension about anything. Just take good care of yourself. It'll be alright. You must not worry. TTC is a beautiful thing. It keeps your journey good. It'll help you in your personal matters as well. Everything will be alright. Just go ahead.
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Well, you should never stop ttc. It's a great process. It'll help you in anything. It makes your relationship better. It'll be alright. We should always take great care of ourselves. There is nothing problematic in this regard. We should never stop ttc. Who knows when something happen. We shall never regret about anything.
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Hi! Hope you are doing well. It is good to know about your new journey. I am glad to know that someone is willing to stand with you. Sorry to hear about your complications. But it a good thing that you are not losing hope. I am a mother of a surrogate son. we went for the surrogacy 3 years ago. We went to Ukraine for it. It proved like a blessing to us. It really works. I would recommend you to go for it soon. It is the safest way of getting a baby. You can your own biologically connected baby. It will be very joyful to you. My all best wishes to you. God bless you.
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Hi there! how are you doing? So sorry about your losses. Glad that you are trying to be happy again. Your husband will be your biggest support. Surrogacy is a blessing for infertile women. It gives hope to women that she can be a mother. No other feeling matches the feeling of motherhood. I had also faced 3 miscarriages. I was TTC for 2 years. After I felt hopeless. My husband found the clinic in Europe. They help me to come back to life they really support me and console me. The doctors there suggest me to go for surrogacy. They are also providing surrogate mothers. The mothers are in the best of health. I am a mother now. It is the best feeling of the world. Go for it. Take care.
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Hello, How are you? I can imagine your difficulty dear. But the thing is that You should eat healthy food. Just get away your self from tensions. Nothing will happen wrong. All will be good for you. Just stay strong and think positive. I know for a woman it is a very tough time. But you should be brave to face it. If you get lose hope that nothing will happen well. So just be hopeful for the best.
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Hello there. Hope all will be good soon for you. Never lose hope. You will be blessed soon. Just keep thinking positive. You have to take care of your self as well. You need to go to the best one clinic near your house. You also should make a healthy diet plan for you. Hope all will be best for you. Good luck to you dear
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I am extremely sorry to read about your recurrent MC. I can understand how hard that time must have been for you. However, you are a very strong person! I am glad that you keep powering through. Surrogacy is an amazing procedure and there are so many couples who have been struggling for years are finally opting for it. For many, it is the last hope. One thing I would let you know is the importance of a good clinic for the procedure. Surrogacy requires experience because of all the paperwork involved and also because of the treatment. It is complicated and thus people with experience can make it a lot more smoothly for you. Therefore, I would recommend that you do your research. Good luck to you. Sending baby dust your way. I hope things go well for you. Do share your experience with all of us.
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I just want to wish you the best of luck on this journey. It's really nice to see you so upbeat. You're on the right track. A lot of women lose hope, really early. That's not the way to go about these things. TTC requires a lot of patience. I'm glad you did not give up so easily. Assisted conception has helped a lot of women. I don't have any experience with surrogacy. Baby dust for both of us.
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I hope you're doing well. I'm sorry to hear about your situation. It's really tough, I'm sure. I'm glad that you've made the decision for surrogacy, though. It's a decent option. It's safe and it works. You won't regret going for it. I hope you're successful and you share your success story about it, soon. Good luck. Hope things get better!
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I can relate to you. My story is somewhat like this. I was told that surrogacy or adoption are the only options I'm left with if a want a baby. I really wanted to have a kid that is biologically related to me. So the fact that the concept of gestational surrogacy exists, seemed like a blessing to me. I started looking for a good fertility clinic where I could start the procedure. After a good research, I finally found one. The best thing about them was how affordable that place is. We couldn't afford this procedure in the USA where we live. Fertility treatments here are really expensive. But I made a very good decision. I went for it at the clinic I chose. My experience with them was amazing. I hope my story gave you some inspiration. Good luck with the procedure.

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