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trying to concieve
I'm new here. I'm just starting infertility treatment and one of the test results showed that I have a subseptus uterus, which can significant increase my chances of miscarriage. Well, I'm 39, chances are already higher. So my doctor suggested me an IVF with the help of surrogate mother. As I’ve told that I do not know much about this process so have many doubts in my mind. Is there anyone who can help me out? Also I want a clear idea about this process both medically and legally. I know that there are many clinics where IVF is done successfully. But we are unable to recognize which one is reliable!! So expecting a reply from a person with experience. Thank you.
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Hi, Welcome to the board .Though I'm on the other side of the treatment now, still am reading posts and sharing my story. Some time ago I was looking for help and support and encouragement. That's why dropped in here. This is a great place to be in definitely! A little background. I'm 45 years. Years ago I was diagnosed on endo, but had never suspected STH of this kind before as I had no symptoms. Only slight pelvic pain during menstruation. Married for 5 years we tried naturally all this time but failed. Had unsuccessful IUI, 2 lapos done. Finally Dr said it all would be useless using own dramatically aged eggs. We passed IVF with donor egg in Ukrainian clinic Biotexcom. They have a very clear norms and rules which we have to maintain. We cannot meet the egg donor which is their policy. From various people we came to know that they have a huge database of egg donor so we relied .Now our process started successfully and embryo is successfully transferred .After that my pregnancy test has been done and we got a good news .After 12 weeks we flew back home. Now we’re waiting for our baby. I believe God blesses us for waiting. This is so nice you're looking for the way out of this trouble. Thinking of you and wishing you the best of luck with your treatment!
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Hi welcome to this forum! Honestly, I'm not a big expert in this field because my story was a bit different. I came to one clinic in hope to get a proper help. My goal was to get baby with the help of egg donation but I know that the clinic we were for also could provide clients with surrogacy services. First of all you should read about country you want to go, as far as |I know ukraine is country where surrogacy is a legal issue. According to its legislation a surrogate won't have any relation to the baby, but in this case the male should have no fertility issues, as all documents would be signed by him. Before going somewhere make sure you are satisfied with services they have, look onto the web site or consult someone from the clinic. Next, make for yourself a list of preferable services. When we were looking for a clinic money were the main issue, so we found a place with reasonable prices. Anyway, good luck in your searching, hope my word were helpful to you
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Hello, you are still young! I think you can still try IVF and become a mother yourself. I have been researching this topic now, and I've come through many cases when women of your age got pregnant. As for surrogacy, I consider it fine as well. Or egg donation, why not? Some ladies wrote very details descriptions already, so I would just wish you luck in your choice!I wish to have a healthy and happy family XXX
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Hi monatanasona13... I think you should try all the options if you can. IVF can be a long process you must set your mind to keep positive and hopeful. As other members said, to do IVF you will need to do some hormone tests like AMH, FSH and LH. If your karyotype looks fine, and you do not have hiv or hepatitis, you can proceed with the treatment. You will be prescribe medications that will help your endometrium grow so the embryos can implant into your womb.This is the stimulation part. Then you will have the egg retrieval procedure and eggs will be fertilized with your partner's sperm and the embryos will be transferred into your womb.The amount of embryos depend on each country legislation. As far as I know, in Ukraine it is possible to transfer 3 embryos. If doctors tell you IVF is not suitable for you, then you can try surrogacy (as I will do). There are other members who might describe it better.. Good luck!
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Hi welcome to this forum. I can understand your problem in easy and effective way. I am surprised with similar problem like me. This is golden opportunity for me to help you to defeat miscarriage problem to enjoy healthy baby gift in your life. I am feeling happy to help you on behalf of my own life experience. You should be positive and remove stress and depression from your mind to handle this difficult situation effectively. I also face this critical problem in my life. It is not childish act to handle this critical problem in professional way. These are simple effective tips and tricks that you should use to maximize benefit from my own life experience. It is very horrible to remember those days that are full of sadness and depression due to my infertility problem. I want to overcome this situation at any cost. We try each and every effective method to defeat infertility problem. I want to accept my husband support on this online forum. You need not panic about this horrible problem infertility is curable this is medical era, you can choose IVF test tube baby that is high success rate. There are millions of woman for enjoying healthy baby gift through IVF test tube baby. It is very profitable that you want to have a world class latest technology to defeat infertility problem she is most popular and reliable treatment to handle miscarriage problem with the help he has done you can hire surrogate mother like me to avoid miscarriage problem like me. I hope you get sufficient information to clear all your doubts.
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I suppose she doesn't want to do a surrogacy as she has other ways of dealing with her problem. As for me a surrogacy is not an easy task to deal with. I know some people even don't want to hear about that because they believe it's not good and god forbids such kind of stuff. Personally, I didn't faced it, I was told it before but from other people I've heard they had a roller coaster while doing such king of treatment. Before going in any country you may take to consideration that each country is different and it's better to learn some information about it. Of course it could be great if your clinic could provide you with some additional options like interpreter and transportation. When I was going to ukraine I was afraid of it because i thought other people would not understand me and I was not ready to hire an interpreter there. Thanks God, my clinic could offer this for free. So we didn't worry about
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Hello, Sorry to hear about you. I can feel the pain to know about the failure of conceiving. Infertility is a very horrible situation for every woman. It is like a bad day dream. I am here to give you all the valuable information so that it would be easy for you to understand how to defeat infertility and get blessed with the gift of a baby and enjoy endless happiness in your life. Research says that almost 10% of women fail to conceive naturally. There can be many important factors contributing infertility. I was also facing a similar problem as yours and today i am feeling very happy to help you with the appropriate information to solve your problem on behalf of my personal experience. I got the golden opportunity to enjoy the blessing of a baby. I spent many days in depression and stress due to infertility and I know you are going through the same situation. I would suggest you not to panic in such situation it’s a curable problem. I got full support from my husband and he was the one who helped me face this horrible situation without him I would have done anything. We both consulted a popular gynecologist to find some specific solution of our problem. We went to Ukraine and I am happy to say that I found such gynecologist. She advised me some very effective tips that boosted the possibility of natural conceiving process. She told me about the role of unbalanced hormones contributing to infertility. For balancing my hormones she told me to take proper diet filled with vitamins and fibers. She told me to leave eating unhealthy food and start eating all the possible healthy food which boosts my metabolism and hemoglobin levels. A good blood circulation of the body can improve your infertility and a half an hour of walk and exercise is a bonus for your health. I strictly follow all this today also. I hope it helps you as well. Take care.
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Hi girls how are you here? do any of you have good news to share? monatanasona13, what about your journey? have you decided anything? looking forward for your reply
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Hello, i suggested this one of my dear friend. I hope it helps you too. You can conceive if you find the below-listed information all in your favor. First, you have to notice that are you having a regular period if not mark all the dates when you are having your periods and how delayed your periods are from the last once. You should know yourself only when you are ready to conceive and when is your next period and how regular are they. When we are going to ovulate it is the best time for getting pregnant. The next you can do is always having a proper diet filled with healthy vitamins and fibers. A balanced and healthy diet keeps your hormones balanced. You can do some intense body workouts which will surely help you to maintain your health from inside out. If you still find problems in conceiving consult a gynecologist as I told her to do in Ukraine. Best of luck.
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Hello, I’m Isabel, and I’m 41 years old. I am not conceiving right now due to my infertility. I tried my level best to Conceive. But after all the treatments went through it only didn’t work for me. I am suffering from depression and anxiety. Going through a lot of emotional pain on daily basis. And also getting all different types of taunts every day due to my infertility. I didn’t choose infertility then why am I always accused to that. It’s not my choice to be infertile, I have tried every possible treatment for this. But due to some reason I simply can't-do it. Can anyone help me in this type of situation? I really need a child of my own but I have to accept the reality. Childing was my dream that I will have a child of my own in the near future. But my infertility came in between and I’m stuck here. Please pray for me I’m 40+ but I still need a child.
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hello, I would like to say that taking a medical decision is the best option for the patients who are suffering from infertility. See it is a universal fact that it’s not important that infertility can’t be cured it just varies person to person.In research results are found that the most common cause of infertility is the lack of balanced diet. After consulting a dietician, I started taking proper diet under the guidance of an expert. I was surprised to see the sudden effect due to my changed diet and found some good news that filled my life with endless joy. I can understand the problem you are going through. I am feeling very happy to help you to remove your depression and also to solve your problem in an easy and effective way. This is very horrible and terrifying situation for every woman. I also faced the same situation in my life. I failed to conceive that demoralized me and filled my life with depression. I started living alone and thinking about some kind of permanent solutions for this. Then I visited Lotus clinic in Ukraine and all my problems were solved. First of all, I would say that you should never panic about your infertility. Infertility problem is found only in rare cases. Positive thinking and attitude is the key to success in long run. The second most important thing is you should mark you periodic cycle that will help you get an idea to understand your conceiving status. Your period must be regular and on proper time. Having period timely is a clear indication that you are healthy and able to conceive a baby in a natural way. The most important point I want to highlight again is a balanced diet. You should take a healthy diet with lots and lots of fibers no unhealthy only foods filled with beneficial vitamins. I too follow all the instructions given by my doctor carefully. Just remember to be positive on your part and think positive.
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Hello all of you. I am from Canada. I am dealing with an infertility problem. I got married 10 years ago and since now I have no child. When I heard this bitter truth I became so upset. Because this is a horrible news for a lady. I asked my friend for the solution. They all gave me bad remarks that were so heartbreaking. But one of my friends asked me to go for IVF. IVF is very expensive treatment and everyone can’t afford it. It requires more than $ 15,000 for one cycle. This process completes in several cycles. This solution was not achievable by me, so I simply ignored it. At last, I and husband decided to adopt a kid from the baby center. Because there was no choice left for me. This was also not easy for us but we did it. We adopted a baby girl and now she is 5 years-old, and her name is Alesa.
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Hello, Samntha.holly! I have already answered you in a different thread! I'm so sorry for your problem. I know how it feels because I have been through a lot in my life as well. may I ask you a question? Are you looking for a cheap ivf clinic or what? Do you need the regular ivf or egg donation? Doesn't your insurance cover the ivf treatment in Canada?
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Hello, dear. Let me help you a little bit. My grandson was born with the help of the surrogate. My daughter is infertile. I don't know why it happened to her because I had no problems to conceive. I gave birth to her when I was 20. At that time I was married for 2 years. Now my daughter is 30 and she is unable to give birth. I wanted to help her and her husband, that's why I made a research. Nowadays, a lot of women have to use the help of the surrogates. It's a great pity. But, on the other hand, I'm happy that surrogacy helped my daughter to become a mom. She became much happier and it's a great pleasure for me. My grandson is 9 months old now. We have chosen the reproduction center in Ukraine. It is called BioTexCom. First of all, surrogacy is legal in this country. It was very important for us. Also, they allowed us to separate the whole amount of payment into several parts. By the way, prices there are pretty affordable. After my grandson was born, I made sure that surrogacy really works. Now I recommend it to all infertile couples. I saw how frustrated was my daughter when she found out that she is unable to give birth. I really wanted to help her family. Thank God she has a great husband. He was doing everything possible to find the best medical center. You know, he became a great father. I was surprised. Your doctor is right. You should definitely try IVF with the help of the surrogacy. Use this chance to become a mother, dear.
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Hi, dear. I have a positive surrogacy experience. Iam ready to answer your questions. Feel free to write me anytime. My surrogacy story started after the first unsuccessful delivery. I am very glad that my son was born strong and healthy. But unfortunately, I had to go through several surgeries. After all treatments and surgeries I was told that I would never get pregnant again. It wasn't a disaster because I already had a kid. But we always dreamed to have a lot of children. That's why we had to look for additional solutions. After all researches and recommendations we have chosen the surrogacy. Or so called IVF with the help of surrogate. There are a lot of countries where surrogacy is illegal. That's why we had to choose the reproduction center in Ukraine. They offered us the most affordable price for all inclusive package. We were told that there's a huge chance to have twins. But I didn't believe it could happen. And you know, in 9 months our twin boys were born. I had no idea what to do with three boys. But now I feel like I'm the happiest woman in the world. My boys are amazing. I can't imagine my life without them. My main recommendation for you is to choose a good clinic. You have to trust them completely. In this case they will do everything for you. You will just have to take some tests and that's it. They will find the surrogate for you. After the embryo is transferred they will contact you to inform you if it was successful. I wish you good luck with your surrogacy program. I'm sure everything will be fine.
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Hello, you need not be afraid. I believe that the main thing is to find a good clinic. And its location is not the most important thing. Because much will depend on the professionalism of doctors. I agree with you that it is necessary to visit several doctors. I can advise you on one of the channels on YouTube and maybe this will help you. I often watch webinars here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_W0ePBKT5qA&t=20s , very interesting.
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thank you very much, I found on this channel 4 webinar. Now I want to see them, I hope that I will write you after viewing. Did you watch all the webinars? I am also very interested to learn about surrogacy. I hope these webinars help me to find out more information. After all, we are very interested in surrogacy because we need to start our trip! Perhaps, in the first place I'll look webinar "How to start".
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Hi, thanks for the video, I also looked it up. I'm starting to see a webinar about surrogacy. In my opinion, this is also a very interesting topic. Have you already seen this webinar? I'd like to discuss a few questions with you. Tell me please, do you think it will be difficult for a man to love a child who was born with the use of donor material? I am very interested in the question of the use of donor sperm.
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It is very necessary for those couples who are just entering a new cycle. I'm very happy for you, and thank you for sharing this video. I'm watching a webinar about surrogacy. You know, it's very interesting, but I look at it is to give advice to my friend. She wants to join the program of surrogacy. Her husband also agrees on this and I support her choice. But I want to know more about it and help my friend.
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