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trying to concieve
I'm new here. I'm just starting infertility treatment and one of the test results showed that I have a subseptus uterus, which can significant increase my chances of miscarriage. Well, I'm 39, chances are already higher. So my doctor suggested me an IVF with the help of surrogate mother. As I’ve told that I do not know much about this process so have many doubts in my mind. Is there anyone who can help me out? Also I want a clear idea about this process both medically and legally. I know that there are many clinics where IVF is done successfully. But we are unable to recognize which one is reliable!! So expecting a reply from a person with experience. Thank you.
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Hi, Welcome to the board .Though I'm on the other side of the treatment now, still am reading posts and sharing my story. Some time ago I was looking for help and support and encouragement. That's why dropped in here. This is a great place to be in definitely! A little background. I'm 45 years. Years ago I was diagnosed on endo, but had never suspected STH of this kind before as I had no symptoms. Only slight pelvic pain during menstruation. Married for 5 years we tried naturally all this time but failed. Had unsuccessful IUI, 2 lapos done. Finally Dr said it all would be useless using own dramatically aged eggs. We passed IVF with donor egg in Ukrainian clinic Biotexcom. They have a very clear norms and rules which we have to maintain. We cannot meet the egg donor which is their policy. From various people we came to know that they have a huge database of egg donor so we relied .Now our process started successfully and embryo is successfully transferred .After that my pregnancy test has been done and we got a good news .After 12 weeks we flew back home. Now we’re waiting for our baby. I believe God blesses us for waiting. This is so nice you're looking for the way out of this trouble. Thinking of you and wishing you the best of luck with your treatment!
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Hi welcome to this forum! Honestly, I'm not a big expert in this field because my story was a bit different. I came to one clinic in hope to get a proper help. My goal was to get baby with the help of egg donation but I know that the clinic we were for also could provide clients with surrogacy services. First of all you should read about country you want to go, as far as |I know ukraine is country where surrogacy is a legal issue. According to its legislation a surrogate won't have any relation to the baby, but in this case the male should have no fertility issues, as all documents would be signed by him. Before going somewhere make sure you are satisfied with services they have, look onto the web site or consult someone from the clinic. Next, make for yourself a list of preferable services. When we were looking for a clinic money were the main issue, so we found a place with reasonable prices. Anyway, good luck in your searching, hope my word were helpful to you
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Hello, you are still young! I think you can still try IVF and become a mother yourself. I have been researching this topic now, and I've come through many cases when women of your age got pregnant. As for surrogacy, I consider it fine as well. Or egg donation, why not? Some ladies wrote very details descriptions already, so I would just wish you luck in your choice!I wish to have a healthy and happy family XXX
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Hi monatanasona13... I think you should try all the options if you can. IVF can be a long process you must set your mind to keep positive and hopeful. As other members said, to do IVF you will need to do some hormone tests like AMH, FSH and LH. If your karyotype looks fine, and you do not have hiv or hepatitis, you can proceed with the treatment. You will be prescribe medications that will help your endometrium grow so the embryos can implant into your womb.This is the stimulation part. Then you will have the egg retrieval procedure and eggs will be fertilized with your partner's sperm and the embryos will be transferred into your womb.The amount of embryos depend on each country legislation. As far as I know, in Ukraine it is possible to transfer 3 embryos. If doctors tell you IVF is not suitable for you, then you can try surrogacy (as I will do). There are other members who might describe it better.. Good luck!
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Hi welcome to this forum. I can understand your problem in easy and effective way. I am surprised with similar problem like me. This is golden opportunity for me to help you to defeat miscarriage problem to enjoy healthy baby gift in your life. I am feeling happy to help you on behalf of my own life experience. You should be positive and remove stress and depression from your mind to handle this difficult situation effectively. I also face this critical problem in my life. It is not childish act to handle this critical problem in professional way. These are simple effective tips and tricks that you should use to maximize benefit from my own life experience. It is very horrible to remember those days that are full of sadness and depression due to my infertility problem. I want to overcome this situation at any cost. We try each and every effective method to defeat infertility problem. I want to accept my husband support on this online forum. You need not panic about this horrible problem infertility is curable this is medical era, you can choose IVF test tube baby that is high success rate. There are millions of woman for enjoying healthy baby gift through IVF test tube baby. It is very profitable that you want to have a world class latest technology to defeat infertility problem she is most popular and reliable treatment to handle miscarriage problem with the help he has done you can hire surrogate mother like me to avoid miscarriage problem like me. I hope you get sufficient information to clear all your doubts.
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I suppose she doesn't want to do a surrogacy as she has other ways of dealing with her problem. As for me a surrogacy is not an easy task to deal with. I know some people even don't want to hear about that because they believe it's not good and god forbids such kind of stuff. Personally, I didn't faced it, I was told it before but from other people I've heard they had a roller coaster while doing such king of treatment. Before going in any country you may take to consideration that each country is different and it's better to learn some information about it. Of course it could be great if your clinic could provide you with some additional options like interpreter and transportation. When I was going to ukraine I was afraid of it because i thought other people would not understand me and I was not ready to hire an interpreter there. Thanks God, my clinic could offer this for free. So we didn't worry about
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Hello, Sorry to hear about you. I can feel the pain to know about the failure of conceiving. Infertility is a very horrible situation for every woman. It is like a bad day dream. I am here to give you all the valuable information so that it would be easy for you to understand how to defeat infertility and get blessed with the gift of a baby and enjoy endless happiness in your life. Research says that almost 10% of women fail to conceive naturally. There can be many important factors contributing infertility. I was also facing a similar problem as yours and today i am feeling very happy to help you with the appropriate information to solve your problem on behalf of my personal experience. I got the golden opportunity to enjoy the blessing of a baby. I spent many days in depression and stress due to infertility and I know you are going through the same situation. I would suggest you not to panic in such situation it’s a curable problem. I got full support from my husband and he was the one who helped me face this horrible situation without him I would have done anything. We both consulted a popular gynecologist to find some specific solution of our problem. We went to Ukraine and I am happy to say that I found such gynecologist. She advised me some very effective tips that boosted the possibility of natural conceiving process. She told me about the role of unbalanced hormones contributing to infertility. For balancing my hormones she told me to take proper diet filled with vitamins and fibers. She told me to leave eating unhealthy food and start eating all the possible healthy food which boosts my metabolism and hemoglobin levels. A good blood circulation of the body can improve your infertility and a half an hour of walk and exercise is a bonus for your health. I strictly follow all this today also. I hope it helps you as well. Take care.
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Hi girls how are you here? do any of you have good news to share? monatanasona13, what about your journey? have you decided anything? looking forward for your reply
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Hello, i suggested this one of my dear friend. I hope it helps you too. You can conceive if you find the below-listed information all in your favor. First, you have to notice that are you having a regular period if not mark all the dates when you are having your periods and how delayed your periods are from the last once. You should know yourself only when you are ready to conceive and when is your next period and how regular are they. When we are going to ovulate it is the best time for getting pregnant. The next you can do is always having a proper diet filled with healthy vitamins and fibers. A balanced and healthy diet keeps your hormones balanced. You can do some intense body workouts which will surely help you to maintain your health from inside out. If you still find problems in conceiving consult a gynecologist as I told her to do in Ukraine. Best of luck.
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Hello, I’m Isabel, and I’m 41 years old. I am not conceiving right now due to my infertility. I tried my level best to Conceive. But after all the treatments went through it only didn’t work for me. I am suffering from depression and anxiety. Going through a lot of emotional pain on daily basis. And also getting all different types of taunts every day due to my infertility. I didn’t choose infertility then why am I always accused to that. It’s not my choice to be infertile, I have tried every possible treatment for this. But due to some reason I simply can't-do it. Can anyone help me in this type of situation? I really need a child of my own but I have to accept the reality. Childing was my dream that I will have a child of my own in the near future. But my infertility came in between and I’m stuck here. Please pray for me I’m 40+ but I still need a child.
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hello, I would like to say that taking a medical decision is the best option for the patients who are suffering from infertility. See it is a universal fact that it’s not important that infertility can’t be cured it just varies person to person.In research results are found that the most common cause of infertility is the lack of balanced diet. After consulting a dietician, I started taking proper diet under the guidance of an expert. I was surprised to see the sudden effect due to my changed diet and found some good news that filled my life with endless joy. I can understand the problem you are going through. I am feeling very happy to help you to remove your depression and also to solve your problem in an easy and effective way. This is very horrible and terrifying situation for every woman. I also faced the same situation in my life. I failed to conceive that demoralized me and filled my life with depression. I started living alone and thinking about some kind of permanent solutions for this. Then I visited Lotus clinic in Ukraine and all my problems were solved. First of all, I would say that you should never panic about your infertility. Infertility problem is found only in rare cases. Positive thinking and attitude is the key to success in long run. The second most important thing is you should mark you periodic cycle that will help you get an idea to understand your conceiving status. Your period must be regular and on proper time. Having period timely is a clear indication that you are healthy and able to conceive a baby in a natural way. The most important point I want to highlight again is a balanced diet. You should take a healthy diet with lots and lots of fibers no unhealthy only foods filled with beneficial vitamins. I too follow all the instructions given by my doctor carefully. Just remember to be positive on your part and think positive.
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Hello all of you. I am from Canada. I am dealing with an infertility problem. I got married 10 years ago and since now I have no child. When I heard this bitter truth I became so upset. Because this is a horrible news for a lady. I asked my friend for the solution. They all gave me bad remarks that were so heartbreaking. But one of my friends asked me to go for IVF. IVF is very expensive treatment and everyone can’t afford it. It requires more than $ 15,000 for one cycle. This process completes in several cycles. This solution was not achievable by me, so I simply ignored it. At last, I and husband decided to adopt a kid from the baby center. Because there was no choice left for me. This was also not easy for us but we did it. We adopted a baby girl and now she is 5 years-old, and her name is Alesa.
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Hello, Samntha.holly! I have already answered you in a different thread! I'm so sorry for your problem. I know how it feels because I have been through a lot in my life as well. may I ask you a question? Are you looking for a cheap ivf clinic or what? Do you need the regular ivf or egg donation? Doesn't your insurance cover the ivf treatment in Canada?
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Hello, dear. Let me help you a little bit. My grandson was born with the help of the surrogate. My daughter is infertile. I don't know why it happened to her because I had no problems to conceive. I gave birth to her when I was 20. At that time I was married for 2 years. Now my daughter is 30 and she is unable to give birth. I wanted to help her and her husband, that's why I made a research. Nowadays, a lot of women have to use the help of the surrogates. It's a great pity. But, on the other hand, I'm happy that surrogacy helped my daughter to become a mom. She became much happier and it's a great pleasure for me. My grandson is 9 months old now. We have chosen the reproduction center in Ukraine. It is called BioTexCom. First of all, surrogacy is legal in this country. It was very important for us. Also, they allowed us to separate the whole amount of payment into several parts. By the way, prices there are pretty affordable. After my grandson was born, I made sure that surrogacy really works. Now I recommend it to all infertile couples. I saw how frustrated was my daughter when she found out that she is unable to give birth. I really wanted to help her family. Thank God she has a great husband. He was doing everything possible to find the best medical center. You know, he became a great father. I was surprised. Your doctor is right. You should definitely try IVF with the help of the surrogacy. Use this chance to become a mother, dear.
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Hi, dear. I have a positive surrogacy experience. Iam ready to answer your questions. Feel free to write me anytime. My surrogacy story started after the first unsuccessful delivery. I am very glad that my son was born strong and healthy. But unfortunately, I had to go through several surgeries. After all treatments and surgeries I was told that I would never get pregnant again. It wasn't a disaster because I already had a kid. But we always dreamed to have a lot of children. That's why we had to look for additional solutions. After all researches and recommendations we have chosen the surrogacy. Or so called IVF with the help of surrogate. There are a lot of countries where surrogacy is illegal. That's why we had to choose the reproduction center in Ukraine. They offered us the most affordable price for all inclusive package. We were told that there's a huge chance to have twins. But I didn't believe it could happen. And you know, in 9 months our twin boys were born. I had no idea what to do with three boys. But now I feel like I'm the happiest woman in the world. My boys are amazing. I can't imagine my life without them. My main recommendation for you is to choose a good clinic. You have to trust them completely. In this case they will do everything for you. You will just have to take some tests and that's it. They will find the surrogate for you. After the embryo is transferred they will contact you to inform you if it was successful. I wish you good luck with your surrogacy program. I'm sure everything will be fine.
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Hello, you need not be afraid. I believe that the main thing is to find a good clinic. And its location is not the most important thing. Because much will depend on the professionalism of doctors. I agree with you that it is necessary to visit several doctors. I can advise you on one of the channels on YouTube and maybe this will help you. I often watch webinars here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_W0ePBKT5qA&t=20s , very interesting.
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thank you very much, I found on this channel 4 webinar. Now I want to see them, I hope that I will write you after viewing. Did you watch all the webinars? I am also very interested to learn about surrogacy. I hope these webinars help me to find out more information. After all, we are very interested in surrogacy because we need to start our trip! Perhaps, in the first place I'll look webinar "How to start".
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Hi, thanks for the video, I also looked it up. I'm starting to see a webinar about surrogacy. In my opinion, this is also a very interesting topic. Have you already seen this webinar? I'd like to discuss a few questions with you. Tell me please, do you think it will be difficult for a man to love a child who was born with the use of donor material? I am very interested in the question of the use of donor sperm.
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It is very necessary for those couples who are just entering a new cycle. I'm very happy for you, and thank you for sharing this video. I'm watching a webinar about surrogacy. You know, it's very interesting, but I look at it is to give advice to my friend. She wants to join the program of surrogacy. Her husband also agrees on this and I support her choice. But I want to know more about it and help my friend.
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Hello, dear. 39 is a great age to have kids, believe me. Our son was born when I was 42. My husband was 44 at that moment. We desperately wanted to have kids. After 10 years of useless treatments we were also recommended to try the IVF with surrogacy. That's why our son was born by the surrogate. As for me, it was our best idea. It helped us make our dream come true. We entered the program in one famous European clinic. They offered us the best price for the VIP package. They helped us to do everything in the right way. So, we had nothing to worry about. They helped us with tests and examinations. They have chosen a great surrogate for us. We signed an agreement and the embryo was transferred in one month. In a couple of months we were allowed to visit our surrogate. I can’t say that I was excited to see this woman. But my husband helped me to go through this. I had to be patient. She was carrying our baby. I was trying not to bother her without any reason. So, we visited her just a couple of times. It was enough for me. Our doctor was contacting us to let us know that the baby was fine. So, we kept living our ordinary life. And in 9 months we got our baby. I remember the day of delivery. It was amazing! I felt that it was my baby. I wanted to hold our son 24 hours per day. It was my biological baby! I couldn’t imagine it would ever happen!
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Hi mona, there are a lot of IVF centres throughout the world that are curing any type of infertility and giving 100% results. I have also heard about a clinic in Ukraine, that is giving outstanding results.There, any kind of infertility can be cured and if you want to have your baby through surrogate mother, all the facilities are available there at very reasonable prices. Just find their website and email them. You would be asked to collect all the necessary medical certificates. After that they will call you and will sign a contract. They will provide you with a surrogate mother who can be matched with you. Then embryo cultivation process will take place and embryo would be transferred into surrogate mother. Positive result comes within two weeks. Then you can see the ultrasounds of your growing baby week by week through mail. Every month you can receive ultrasound pictures, videos and photos of your future baby.Then the birth of the child takes place and you get the birth certificate. After signing some papers and documents, you can take baby to your home, as this is your own baby.
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First of all, I don't think you should get worried much. There are other ways of conceiving if you can't do it naturally. Well, you've chosen to have an IVF already. I think it's really worth a try. As I've mentioned my story earlier in posts on this site talking to other friends. I have even disclosed my IVF journey. I went to Ukraine for it, you already have received suggestion here. They are really cooperative in Ukraine. I myself have witnessed and a successful customer. They really helped me changing and completing my family. Otherwise, I was so devasted. It was really worth what I paid for. I think you should really try it. I wish you luck!
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Hi there. I am sorry to hear that. Yes surrogacy is a good option. Of course with this you won't be carrying the child. If you are okay with that then surrogacy can be a good idea. How it works is this. You go to a surrogacy clinic. They will retrieve eggs from you and sperm from your husband. Alternatively you could also use an egg donor. These samples are then fertilized artificially. After this they are implanted in a suitable surrogate mother. She will then carry your child to term. After this you need to get the appropriate documentation etc. Then the process is finished. Hope you understand now.
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Hi dear! Firstly I would say that do not consider yourself old. Women are getting pregnant even at the age of 45. secondly, there are many options you can choose. Surrogacy is undoubtedly a good option but you can also choose IVF and egg donation etc. I do not have so much knowledge about the best clinic. One of my friends went for the Surrogacy at a clinic at Ukraine. She went there when she did not have a baby with IVF treatments. Surrogacy is expensive also she could afford that so she opted for that. The other reason was that it is legal there. For surrogacy, the male partner should be fertile. Before getting into this procedure just make sure that you have enough knowledge about the clinic and its services. The clinic my friend chose provided the best services. After the delivery baby was given to them. All the best to you.
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Aww dear! I really feel for you. I know you're in a tough situation right now. Well, I also am going for an IVF later by the end of this year. Let's see how it goes for me. I am going to a clinic in Ukraine. Actually, I am also referred by a colleague of my husband. It's a clinic in Kiev, I searched many clinics and agencies for egg donation before. So, I finally have booked an appointment for this clinic in Ukraine. Let's see how it goes for me. You can also search for clinics on the Internet. I chose Ukraine due to it's easy and reliable laws for the process of IVF. That's all as per my experience!
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Some time ago I was looking for help and support and encouragement. That's why dropped in here. This is a great place to be in definitely. I'm 39 years. I have been living an infertile life for 5 years. I and my husband tried all the natural ways to have babies but no results. Finally our doctor suggested us IVF treatment. We passed IVF with donor egg in Ukrainian clinic Biotexcom. They have a very clear norms and rules which we have to maintain. We cannot meet the egg donor which is their policy. From various people we came to know that they have a huge database of egg donor .Our process started successfully and embryo is successfully transferred .After that my pregnancy test has been done and we got a good news .After 12 weeks we flew back home. Now we're waiting for our baby. I believe God blesses us for waiting.
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hey guys. i have been trying to concieve for two years now. The first few months, i didnt get that worried since i though that these things usually take some time. I wasnt in too much of hurry either. Its gotten to a point now where we are both starting to feel really dissappointed. Every month it's the same thing. Failure. I would have never thought things would be this way because I have always been regular person with no major health problems. After a recent trip to the doctor,I learnt that my body cant sustain a pregnancy. And that the issue isn't being able to conceive. He said that my uterine lining is so thin that the embreyo is lost before I even realise im pregnant. I've been given medications. Honestly, i dont feel any kind of hope. The doctor describes it in a way that makes me feel like there is no hope for me at all. My body is failing me. That is why I've decided to start looking into surrogacy. If my body cant sustain it, I cant opt for someone else's to. Lets see what happens.
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Hi all, I thank the one who brought this forum in to being. This is because Of the testimonies that has been given by many people of how they have changed their life. It now three weeks since i joined this forum. I can`t hence call myself new. There so many people who have join after me. I however seems to be having a challenge that I think you should help me solve. I have unable to conceive for four year. I however visited a clinic in Ukraine and they have help me conceive my first child. I have been in the clinic and they have confirmed its a baby boy. I have now started doing his shopping. I only want you to tell me which are the best huggies for a child. What are the preparation should I be concindering also? I would also like to know the best diets I am suppose to be taking. Any lead will be highly appreciated. Thanks in advance.
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Hi mona, I know it sometimes gets hard to conceive. I had the same problem a few years back as for the initial times we were avoiding to get pregnant. For me, IVF was not even an option but somehow I convinced my husband to take this measure after several visit to different clinics. Well, the treatment cost was expensive and we had many reservations to not undertake the process depending on the success as well as the charge. You and your partner need to be mentally prepared for the long procedure, a pile of diagnostic tests, ultrasounds, injections and breakdowns coming your way. You must be prepared for the egg collection technique in the process, it wasn’t difficult for me. What I went through the whole IVF method was emotional distress as the long waiting period sometimes exhausts you mentally. It’s important for you to meditate yourself daily once you are going through the treatment, just keep yourself busy. I would advise you and your partner to stay calm and support each other as much as possible. Well, I would highly recommend you to visit the renowned IVF clinic INTERSONO; because it has the best equipment’s needed with the highly supportive staff. You can even discuss your situation with the medical staff; they will counsel you as well. Visit the website to get further details. http://intersono-ivf.com/
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Hi Montana, hope you are doing good. First of all, u don’t need to be worried about your situation. It’s a very common condition and is prevailing within a majority of women at this time. What u need to do is to take care of ur health. Actually, your condition is termed as Congenital uterine malformation as is as high as 3 to 4 % in general female population. U can take many alternatives to it. And I think the best option for ur condition is surrogacy and obviously its legal. There is no need to take tension. Its very obvious process and safe. One of my friends was having the same condition and she was totally hopeless at that time. She started the treatment before her pregnancy but all in vain. So she went for the alternative in a clinic located in Ukraine.
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I have contacted many surrogacy related clinics and had gathered quite good info about surrogacy. I guess BioTexCom is the best clinic for surrogacy. Becaause i had many complications while getting pregnant. Now i am married for second time i want to have baby of my own to live with. Regarding and having a look at my previous pregnancy period i know its not a good idea to be pregnant again. I was pregnant thrice but had miscarriages every time. So i talked to my husband and have agreed him to go for surrogacy option. I know today surrogacy is a common thing but i am worried about many aspects of having a baby via surrogacy. I also met with few mothers raising babies from surrogacy method but i want to research about it more to properly understand the method. I guess someone here will also be going to surrogacy and will guide me better.
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If your doctor says that you have complications with your uterus then going for IVF is questionable. With DE or without it as for IVF, your uterus needs to be doing fine. Going for surrogacy would definitely work in your case as the embryo will be put in someone else's uterus. From my own procedure from the get-go, the clinic did my tests and concluded this as well. They told me that IVF has no guarantee attached to it there are cycles that almost work out but fail. So with surrogacy, you don't have that risk attached to it. My conversation with the doctors at the clinic really did help me out. Best of luck to you for any further information feel free to ask.
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Hi there. I am 32 years old now. I have been married for 8 years now and all these years i have been trying to conceive. But it was futile. My doctor confirmed some two years ago that I am infertile and I cant conceive naturally. I was heartbroken. I am an only child of my parents and always wanted to have a houseful of babies. It was like all my dreams have turned into dust. But then my husband encouraged me to try surrogacy. He was such a strong support. There is a Lotus clinic in Ukraine. But they are so poor in communication. They never replied my mails and werent even available on phone. I would never recommend them to anyone. So beware of them
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Hi! Bad to hear from you. It is really hurting. IVF is a good process. But sometimes it may fail due to some unknown reason. It may cause difficulties for you. I would suggest you go for surrogacy. It is the safest way of getting a baby. I am also a mother because of blessings of surrogacy. I hope it will work for you. Best of luck
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Hi there. Hope you are doing good. It is really sad to hear you can not carry your baby. But yes there are ways to achieve the goal now. Surrogacy is very successful now a days. You must have many queries and concerns in your mind. but they should be best answered by your doctor or the clinic you choose for the procedure. But try to avoid scammers. There are many clinics out there with very positive reviews and ratings but sometimes it all turns out to be a scam. i have had a frustrating experience with adonis clinic. They dont deem you enough to give you a reply. they never responded to my mails and calls and i was very disapponted. so please choose very carefully.
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I am so sorry for the troubles you go through due to infertility. It must have been terrible for you. Just know you are not alone in this. You can always share your feelings in such forums. We are always there to help you. Stay strong, love. You have it in you this why God chose you to put through such a test. I am suffering from a hysterectomy. I have been recommended a clinic in Europe by my cousin. Their service and cooperation has been the best so far. Do consult doctors for their opinions about good clinics. Sending you lots of love and hugs!
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Hello. Hope you are doing well. There are many good clinics in Europe for surrogacy and IVF. My friend did her IVF treatment at a clinic in Europe. She is a happy mother now. I wish you find a clinic which is best for you. Be hopeful. Good luck!
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I am also infertile. I was also TTC from past 10 years but had no luck. My husband now said me to go for surrogacy. I have heard that it is the best solution for infertility today. I live in Bulgaria so now i have decided to move to Ukraine for surrogacy. I have heard there are any good clinics regarding surrogacy. My husband is with me and he is always there to support you. Best wishes.
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Hey Monatanasona13! How are you? I am sorry for what you are going through. But it is good that you are seeking a solution. Surrogacy is a better choice here. It eliminates the use of your uterus for the concepion process. And that is the whole point. You should be happy that you get to use your own eggs. The baby will be genetically related to you. A friend of mine had poor egg quality so she chose donor eggs. Only thught on her mind was 'what if the baby likes his real mom more than me?'. I don't know much about the clinics as I am new to all this. But I replied anyway just to show you my support. More power to you girl. May you get what you want.
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Hi. I'm glad you came here with your problem. Your doctor suggested you the right thing. Going with IVF would've been a very big risk for you. Surrogacy is a much safer option for you. Now its time to choose the right clinic. You should know that this is the most important part of the process. Once you find the perfect place, they will handle your matter. You will also be properly guided with all the details. I can recommend you a clinic if you want. I went there when I wanted to have a baby through surrogacy. My experience with them was satisfactory. As it was my first time, I got proper guidance about the whole thing at the clinic. All my questions were answered. They only let me proceed after I was 100% sure about everything. I cleared all my doubts and went for it. It was actually the best decision I ever made. You can hit me up if you need more details.

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