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emile's picture
Joined: 2018-06-26
Trying to conceive
Hello! This is Emile. I am here telling you about my infertility experience. I am 35 now. It was years back when one day, after we left a clinic, my husband told me that we would never be able to get a family of our own. He said I was infertile. I couldn’t move. I couldn’t talk. Anyways, we decided we would do anything to get us a baby. We went to every clinic around. There wasn’t a ray of hope. The doctors kept pardoning. Somebody suggested me a clinic in Ukraine named Lotus. I have emailed them a thousand times but I’ve got no response. I even called them but the line never connects. I’m just lying in my bed wearing pajamas, losing hope every single day. Why would God do this to us! I pray no one ever has to go through the pain that I’m destined to live with.
Rihana's picture
Joined: 2018-01-23
Hey, I am so sorry. Please don't be upset. Never lose hope. Why are you thinking like that? Everything is going to be fine. The main thing is to never lose hope. I think you should never do so. It's not right. What right is, we should always keep our hopes up. We should always stay positive. No matter if one place is not well for us. You can go to some other place. There are such places in Ukraine that has highest success rates. Those people take more good care of you. You can go for them. Just forget about these people.
lauren's picture
Joined: 2018-01-26
Never lose hope dear. It's not good for you. You are at this good age. Everything will be in your side soon. Don't worry. There are other methods available. You can go for them. You should try surrogacy. Surrogacy is a good method. It'll get you out of it. You don't have to worry. You shared here. Everyone is going to help you. You just have to choose what you think is good for you.
AnnaJhon's picture
Joined: 2018-05-10
Hi emile, hope you are doing well. I feel sorry for you. I know infertility is very painful. Furthermore you have to bear work behavior from the clinic. I am also a victim of Lotus clinic. I am very angry at them. I am an infertile. My husband decided to go for surrogacy.We heard about Lotus clinic from our friends. We decided to try our luck. We sent them email and asked about the procedure details and packages. But they didn't respond us. At first we thought they might be busy because of work. So we email them again and waited for days to get a response but all in vain. They did the same with you. I think they are scam. They are making fun of miserable people like us.
Betsy020's picture
Joined: 2018-06-09
Hey! I feel so sorry for what had gone through. Well, I suggest you don't lose hope. Everything will be fine. Surrogacy is the great alternative to cope with infertility. Surrogacy completes many infertile families. It is bad to hear about lotus clinic behavior. In this condition, the patient is already facing many struggles. This type of behavior made him too depressed. But you do not need to worry about this There are still many good clinics in Ukraine. I am also an infertile lady. We chose surrogacy to complete our family. We contacted one of the clinics in Ukraine. We received a positive response. I hope best for you. Stay blessed
LydiaAldrin's picture
Joined: 2018-05-18
Well, have heard of many couples sharing the bad experiences. Anyway! Don't lose hope. Why don't you try other centers in Kiev? Yes! I'm also having an IVF related procedure at one of them. They also do offer surrogacy services. So, yeah! Even, my own cousin sister had her lovely daughter from them. They have this excellent customer services and professionalism overall.
Sarah's picture
Joined: 2018-06-24
Hello everyone.Here I heard many couples to share their bad experience.But we should never lose hope.I am also an infertile and going for surrogacy.Finding the reliable clinic because I lose hope from lotus clinic.They don't answer my queries.I mailed them many times and waiting for the answer for 10 days.
jennifer's picture
Joined: 2018-03-11
Hey. I am so sorry for you. I know this must be so hard. But don't lose hope. You still have time. I think you should go for surrogacy. I have faced infertility for many years. I wanted to be a mother but no luck. I chose surrogacy asap. I went to Europe. I have a baby now. I have no more worries.
jenna's picture
Joined: 2018-05-30
It is so sad. Many people are betraying us. I don't understand that why they are doing this. I know this is for benefit but why playing with emotions of the people. I think we should have the sense to choose wisely. My friend also had such bad experience. Later she went for surrogacy from Europe. She is happy that she, at last, chose the right place.
Abella95's picture
Joined: 2018-06-13
This is really sad to know about your experience with Lotus. I feel so angry when I feel so negativity around. How can a clinic be so irresponsible? And this is not only you complaining about this clinic. There are thousands of bad reviews for this clinic. They are just making money. Wasting the money, efforts and time of people. I think a strict action should be taken. This can't be so undone. But one advice for you, you shouldn't stop after your first bad experience. There is a clinic in Europe well known for its services. I think you must contact there. They reply to you within hours and their management is so good. You must try.
Selena williams's picture
Joined: 2018-06-24
Hey Emile! I swear to God after reading your post, I went to the flashback of my own life and experiences. I got married 7 years ago and I am still not over the feeling of getting to know how it felt when the doctors told me I am infertile. Well, I really pulled myself back from the depression. I gathered myself because I badly wanted to start a family soon. Well, I am lucky that I came across a clinic in Europe. That place is magical. They have a bunch of experienced doctors and amazing treatments equipment as well. You need to now try this clinic in Europe. Trust me ib am experienced. You can take my words and just o for it. I am sure you will not be disappointed. This is the time that you switch to a better clinic and not waste energy on any irrelevant treatments. If you can, then do go for IVF or surrogacy with the help of the clinic in Europe. Hope to hear soon from you! take care.
Christie Schaller's picture
Joined: 2018-05-15
Hey Emile. I am feeling very sorry for you. One of my friends also gone through this treatment. And she is feeling very terrible right now. I don't know how to help her. I am now making efforts to find a good clinic for her. I have read some good reviews about a clinic. And I will definitely convince her to have a look at that clinic. My dear, I think you also should not lose hope. And yeah search for another clinic. This is not the end of the world. a miracle happens every day. Wish you best of luck. Sending you positive vibes.
Lauracharles's picture
Joined: 2018-06-06
Hey Emile. All my sympathies are with you. I know its feel so horrible. But my dear this is part of life. You have to face those negatives with a bravery. Because if you did not then these things will make you regret every second of life. Just come up with those things and feel like there is nothing happened to you. I am sure it will take time but you will definitely start doing fine. Don't lose hope and stay strong things will work for you soon. Wish you best of luck. Sending you positive vibes.
roomiray56's picture
Joined: 2018-02-20
I'm sorry to know about your infertility. I know it feels terrible. I know the pain, dear, I've been through this situation myself. The clinic you mentioned is not a good choice. I've read many negative reviews about them on different forums. Please, look for some other clinic which has high success rates. Best wishes to you!
ameliabrown's picture
Joined: 2018-06-26
Hello Emile hope you are fine, I am 37 and i have been living an infertile life too. I know its nerve wrecking. I also emailed Lotus clinic thrice but got no response. I dont understand their customer support policy. I wanted to get all relevant details before actually visiting them. As I am in Ireland and I will have to fly all the way to Ukraine. Much disappointed!
SJnJ's picture
Joined: 2018-06-23
Hey, I feel so sorry for you I have heard a lot about Lotus that they never respond properly or not at all. I wish and hope that no one undergoes what you went through. There must be other clinics that take care of the patients. It feels like its a scam.
monika's picture
Joined: 2018-01-22
Hey Emile I hope you are doing well. I am sorry to hear about your journey. I myself am on the infertility journey. Therefore, I can understand how this all must feel like. I am surprised how the clinic didn't reply. No one should be this unprofessional. Fertility clinics are supposed to be super careful with how they treat patients. My suggestion to you would be to not waste your time. There are many other clinics in the same vicinity. Check the success rate of each. Read the reviews very carefully. After all this research then opt for the one which has the highest success rate. I am sure they will at least reply on time. Don't give up yet! Best of luck to you.
Angelica's picture
Joined: 2018-05-20
Hi Emile! How are you? Hope you are doing great. I am so sorry about your infertility situation. I know it very hard to deal with both emotionally and physically. I have also been through infertility. I am 42 now and I am from Germany. I have had 2 failed IVF and IUI. Nothing was working out for me than I got to know about surrogacy. I applied to Ukraine since I was told that Ukraine has some of the best clinics. I went to a clinic that goes by the name of biotexcom. I had a very good time there. The people at the clinic were very kind and co operative. They guided us through the whole process and now I am a mother of baby girl. I am sure that the clinic you are referring to is also from Ukraine but not all clinics are good. I recommend you try other options. All the best to you.
Khloe81's picture
Joined: 2018-03-21
Hello. Hope you are feeling better now. I'm sorry to hear about your experience. But I really think it is time to move on. This is only harming you and no one else. You need to realize that your time is being wasted here. There are so many other clinics in the world. There are some very good ones too. Some are very affordable. I know a place like that is hard to find. But instead of wasting your time here you can invest it in clinic hunting. Take as much time as you need. I hope you find one soon. If you need help, I'm here for you. Good luck.
Elizabeth's picture
Joined: 2018-06-24
Hello Emile. This makes me so sad. I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. It must be a tough time. Things will get better for you. It's imperative to keep the faith. Good luck to you. I hope you find a better clinic, ASAP. My prayers are with you. Lots of love and baby dust, your way.
Mindy's picture
Joined: 2018-12-09
I'm so sorry about your situation. I can totally relate to your experience. It makes me feel much better to see that you're still hopeful about your chances. That's the ideal way to deal with it. Infertility is common, but we can't give up. I want to wish you the best of luck. More power to you, you can get through this! Sending you lots of baby dust and love.
Naomi's picture
Joined: 2019-11-18
I noticed that many patients are unhappy with this clinic. I hope that your post will warn other couples from visiting this clinic. Indeed, such an attitude towards patients cannot be called acceptable. But try to consider other options. For example, a new option appeared in another Ukrainian clinic. Now their manager can be contacted via skype. In my opinion, this is a great innovation.
MadisonA's picture
Joined: 2018-12-09
I hope you're doing okay. I'm sorry you've had to go through that. It's good to see that you know what to do. It's really important to move on. Trust me, you can get through this. You just need to be a little braver. Good luck to you! I hope your luck turns around, asap!

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