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surrogacy? yes or not?
Girls, I think for many this topic is relevant. My sister began to consider her as one of the options after an unsuccessful IVF. Here we think what is the sense of spending huge money on endless attempts of IVF. If my sister's health deteriorates because of this. (Do not get us wrong, she really wants to survive pregnancy and childbirth herself, but she also wants her baby to have a healthy mom). And therefore she decided to make two or three more attempts at IVF and, if not, she would resort to the help of a surrogate mother. Maybe another woman can bear her baby. To be honest, she was already tired of endless trips to doctors (already more than 7 years). From an infinite number of some kind of pills, a million of which analysis, a constant experience of unsuccessful attempts. - she already has a feeling that she herself will soon be able to practice gynecology. (Girls at work if something somewhere hurts or does not understand the analysis - everyone runs to her, because for 7 years of going to the doctors she should know everything). She just did not even have a delay. Her body works like a Swiss watch - monsters come day by day, almost never a minute in a minute. Girls say who thinks about surrogate motherhood? We are very interested in your opinion.
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People who can not have their own child are the personal tragedy of all life. Some say that they need to reconsider their lives. But what does it mean to revise your life? For what? My mother-in-law has removed both fallopian tubes as a result of ectopic pregnancies. And if for the first time doctors had no other way out, only surgery, because there was a threat to life. The second time the doctors did not put the correct diagnosis on time, the valuable time was lost and again - the operation. Whom to blame? In what to repent? How to live on? Where to find the meaning of life, which is given once? The girlfriend has already undergone the first IVF procedure. The result is negative. And again you need to look for strength in order to survive morally. You just need to communicate with a person in this state. To at least a little understand what it's like - want and the inability to get it right, like all women. Now she is preparing for the second procedure. In the family of a cousin - the same situation. His wife removed the fallopian tubes. They have two adopted children, a boy and a girl. But they really want their child. Five IVF procedures were completed - nothing happened. Now they are on the way to surrogate motherhood. They agreed to help a close relative. They would like it to happen. And this whole situation lasts six years. This is the most common family - they work, raise children, help their parents and wait ...
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I'm not against surrogate motherhood. I'll write why. Indeed, now infertility - not uncommon, and women who have learned the happiness of motherhood, do not understand the grief that is experienced by women who are unable to endure their own child! Of course, I'm not for women to give birth to the right and left, only for the purpose of earning. But you can not be absolutely categorical either. Abroad, for example, (I mean more developed countries) girls who become pregnant early, or because of other reasons can not leave the child, do not go to an abortion, and already pregnant women give their children for adoption to families that can give The child is warm, loving and caring, which the mother will not be able to give them. Also a kind of surrogate motherhood. And I believe that it's better than giving birth under the fences and throwing your children in garbage chutes! Yes, of course, every person will remain at his opinion. Each person has the right to think as he wants, and as far as imagination and upbringing allow. But if we have already started to go over to examples, then I probably treat it so liberally because there are people familiar with this problem. She is now 35 years old, she has some health problems. (Even at birth, she has something with her legs, I do not know what it's called.) As a matter of fact, the legs are curves and because of the drugs that treated them, they swelled very much, the hips were wider than a meter with growth not more than 165). She tried all her life to endure a child. She had more than 10 attempts, men were such that they threw her right after the pregnancy was disrupted. She lost her last child a couple of years ago and does not try any more, they live with her husband (he has a boy and a girl from his first marriage, for 20 years already). She can not look at children without tears. Well, is she guilty?
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Surrogate mothers know what they're on, a psychologist talks with them. And fertilization is performed only in the clinic. My friend would never have given birth - only the ovaries remained. Then this procedure, probably only for wealthy people - IVF + content and rewards for a woman who took out a child. It's just that it's really hard for women who gave birth independently to understand those who are not capable of giving birth. Imagine for a moment a situation where you can not give birth and you are offered to take a child, or a surrogate mother - a baby with your genes, looks like you. I think that in this situation, many would have thought about this option. Kids are the most beautiful thing that we have. And it does not matter, you can give birth to them or you, by virtue of life circumstances, resort to sur- rum services, or you do IVF. And this is a serious enough question, where to do IVF, the cost of the protocol, the cost of medicines. By the way, in Ukraine I have a good advice - you can get acquainted with the price policy of the clinic. We have a young woman at work and so it happened in life, after the tragedy, that she herself could never have given birth. She and her husband found a surrogate mother, a beautiful baby was born. Everyone is happy: a family - who has found a child and a woman who has earned money for her children. I lived in a region where just a lot of women can not have children and can not change their place of residence, for them it is a big problem and a tragedy. Who has the opportunity to go out and get pregnant and give birth, but for many, the process is irreversible and they have the right to a chance.

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Hence the price in Europe is approximately the same everywhere. And about Ukraine and Belarus are valuable in fact much lower. That's just one problem, you need to constantly see the maternity mother. Since It is very important to know that she leads a healthy lifestyle and does not harm the baby. If she only agree to relocate to us. But here again there are many problems. Because what would she live here, if I understand correctly she needs a visa, a residence permit to be registered. Who knows how long it takes to register? Of course, my friends had a surrogate mother who carried their child. She, however, was his biological mother. (A friend herself could not have children because of the removal of appendages). The boy is now 7-8 years old (I do not remember exactly, because they left the country and the connection broke up). All friends and relatives knew about this, and the attitude of all was positive. (Or rather, it was all the same, because the baby was still a native)). So I think this is an option (if, of course, finance allows). The only difficulty, in my opinion, is the organizational formalities (selection of the surrogate mother, monetary compensation, etc.).
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My friend and her husband went to a consultation in a clinic that deals with surrogate motherhood. All found out, about the money counted. Although the amount of course approximately can stretch ... But nevertheless ... But where it is possible to correspond with the surrogate from my country, I do not even know something. To be honest, it seems to me if you take a surrogate mother, then only through the clinic - it's safer. The more they have a good base, and you can take a maternity mother with experience. But my friend decided to go abroad. Because in Europe it goes much more expensive. And the problems with the registration of documents are much greater. Now they are choosing the country. It will be either Russia or Ukraine. But in Moscow, too, the prices are very high, as it turned out ............ Oh, of course it's not easy ...... searching for a clinic ...... Calculations of money ......... Paperwork.....
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I fully support you. After all, we must not only give birth, but also raise a child. If there is a financial opportunity, then this is a great way out of this situation. All these endless attempts of IVF do not add health. I did not want to offend anyone with my statement, this is purely my opinion. My friend also has a problem - she can not stand the baby. Habitual miscarriage makes her think about surrogate motherhood. They would have become biological parents to a baby, and somebody would endure it for them. To lose for the fourth time with the strongest health problems .... I do not know if she will cope! Can someone use (if it can be called so), or did friends use it? Tell me "pro" and "against" this way of obtaining the desired ... But a surrogate mother is needed from the clinic's base. They do not see that a relative becomes a maternal mother. They are in search of a good clinic with their own base of surrogate motherhood abroad.
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If you want, I'll give you our reasons, which will guide them when choosing a country for the program. They could choose different countries. Mexico, Cambodia, Poland and Cyprus they canceled immediately. The choice was between Ukraine and Georgia. Undoubtedly, the main role was played by the fact that embryos will be in Ukraine, however, the transportation of embryos is well established and inexpensive. Therefore, they will choose from such considerations. Good clinic, medicine, mentality and living conditions. Perhaps, in principle, everything is more or less the same. Clinic, medicine, mentality is different, but not much, but the conditions of life are different. Not rich in both countries, as in Russia, however. My nanny from Ukraine, like most nannies around. My hairdresser and even an osteopath from there. In general, I advised them to choose Ukraine. Since I already know this mentality. And in general, for the time being, Ukraine is the most popular country for surrogate motherhood.

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It's so wonderful that we can share stories here)

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I believe that surrogate motherhood is one of the best things that medicine came up with. Infertility is a very acute problem now. I know many women who experienced problems in the birth of a child and they were of different ages. The number of comments on this on the forums scares me. So many women need help and support. I'm very glad that there are people who can give it to them. So, I think if your sister is suffering she certainly should try a surrogate motherhood. She should not forget about her health, this is very important. There is nothing terrible or unnatural in that the other woman endures her child. The only thing that I can advise - very carefully choose a clinic. Because new failures will break it. My close friend chose a clinic in our country (USA), but after she read the contract she was in shock, the legal side of this clinic was terrible. As a result, she stopped her search at the clinic "BIOTEXCOM" in Ukraine (Kiev). Their medicine was beyond all expectations. I often spoke with Amanda on Skype and she said that she was very pleased with the doctors' attitude towards her and absolutely does not feel any discomfort being in another country. So, you asked "surrogacy? yes or not?", my answer is - yes, definitely YES!
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Hello, MoniBing. You are right, surrogate motherhood in the US is very risky. When I passed through this in Ukraine, I signed a contract that fully protected me. It's been 2 years already, but I remember that trip very well. When I first saw the Ukrainian prices - I was shocked! I did not think it would cost me so cheap. At first I thought it was some kind of deception. That is, I really did not believe that for such ridiculous money I can get a quality discussion. But I read a lot of good reviews about biotexcom, so I decided to try it. And this was my most true decision in my whole life! I survived three years of futile attempts to become pregnant and at the same time a miscarriage. I'm glad that next to my husband was who supported me in my path. In any case, now I can guarantee this clinic 100%. My son David is really a miracle. And I wish all women who have problems with conception not to despair and to go to their goal. When you find good specialists you will succeed. I hope my experience will help you.
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Hello, MoniBing) Thank you very much for sharing your story. It is very important for us. But please tell us more about the procedure and the clinic. Did your friends consider other countries other than the United States? Why did they choose in Ukraine? Still please tell me, how did the process of selecting a surrogate mother occur? They took advantage of the services of the surrogate mother, which they picked up the clinic or they decided to independently seek a surrogate mother? I know that in Ukraine, a maternity permit is allowed, including for foreign citizens. And why did your friends generally consider the US as a possible country for this procedure? They should know that in the US this procedure is not widespread and there are no laws that would regulate the rights and obligations of both parties. When your friends signed a contract with the surrogate mother, did they add any additional items there? If it's not a secret, which ones? And why did your friends decide to use the services of surrogate motherhood? They did not have unsuccessful IVF attempts before? What can you say about doctors from the clinic that you recommend? Did the surrogate mother of your friends fly with them to the US or stayed in Ukraine? It is very important for my sister to get answers to these questions. I would be very pleased to hear the answers from you)))))))))))))))
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Hello Ali) In America, commercial surrogate motherhood is allowed in several states, which I do not know. Many women choose Ukraine because it allows commercial surrogate motherhood. You can choose a surrogate mother from the database that you can be offered at the clinic. Each clinic has its own database of surrogate mothers. In addition, Ukraine has a law that defines the rights and obligations of both parties. This means that you can conclude a contract with a surrogate mother and it will be recognized by law. In addition, in Ukraine the laws are entirely on the side of biological parents in this matter. The contract will help you conclude the lawyers clinic. In addition, you can find a clinic whose staff speaks English. To choose a clinic, you need to read similar forums, reviews on the sites, talk with clients of a clinic and go to a consultation. But I advise you to choose a surrogate mother from the database of the clinic. And do not ask your girlfriends or relatives to become a surrogate mother. Because this can bring you many problems in the future. Or have you already found a surrogate mother or are you still looking for a clinic? Try not to make a mistake with the choice.
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I think that risking the mother's health is not the best option. I agree that after so many ivf attempts she should try surrogacy.
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Hi ladies.. good to find you here again. Welcome, Monibing.. happy to know another member who have tried a successful surrogacy program in biotex.. I´m going there after 3 days and I'm very excited. Finally close to make my dream come true. I think the reasons why people are choosing Ukraine are all the items you all mentioned before but specially the flexible law and regulations and prices. Surrogacy is still not allowed in most of countries. Biotexcom stands on all the other clinics because of its friendly service, affordable packages, very high success rates and a long positive reputation. They are very caring for your overall experience which I consider very important.
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Personally, i didn't face the surrogacy. i was diagnosed with immune issues that's why I have opted for the egg donation. of course it's quite different for the surrogacy. we have been with one Ukrainian clinic as far as i know they also offer surrogacy services. but honestly, i'm not a big fun of this kind of reproductive treatment. to my mind, it is better to adopt a child, why they should suffer being at the orphanage. of course you are the one who will make a decision. My only advice is to listen to your heart
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Hi girls) Hi Ali) I believe that it is not necessary to risk the health of this girl, if attempts at IVF procedures do not bring results, then the surrogacy is the only way out. she does not need to jeopardize her health, because she needs to think not only about the desire to have a child, but also about the fact that the child will need care and attention after birth. Because, only healthy parents can give the child everything he needs. And if she is already "from the last strength" will try to conceive a child with the IVF procedure, this is bad. It is better to save time and use the service of surrogate motherhood. This method will be more reliable, the main thing is not mistaken with the choice of the clinic and properly formalize the contract with the surrogate mother. I want to say that if you have already made decisions, then you do not need to give it up. You must be faithful to your choice and then good luck will smile on you.
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arika, you are right! it is important to use your last chances, i was talking before that an adoption is also good but no one here didn't support me. I'm curious why, what do you think about adoption? is it bad or good and why?
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hi gracee.. great to read you again. Adoption is not bad, it is actually really good. The problem is that most of countries have very long procedures in order to adopt a child. In my case, it would take me more than 2 years of stressful moments, making papers, applying, doing interviews, tests.. I really don't wanna go through that. I'm too old. Maybe if I were on my 20s, I would do it. Right now, in this stage of my life, I don't think so. I'd rather put my efforts and illusions on a healthy surrogate mother and an egg donor. Thanks to God I can afford it. Have a good day x
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Hey Gracee .......... Dear according to me adoption is not bad ....... But the whole thing which really matters is people thinking......... Some people take it as a good option but others are not.......... Generally at present people want there own child....... They are not ready to adopt other's child ...... My whole motive to write this - People have many options it totally depend's on them what they will choose.....
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@Lilly08, you might be right! An adoption could take a lot of times and nerves as well as the surrogacy, But no one guarantees that you will get your baby from the first time. Not all woman can get pregnant with the first cycle. And it doesn't depend on the health. There are a lot of factors that could prevent the failure. I know one couple who were trying to get baby via surrogacy around 3 years. Of course they didn't pay any extra money because they have signed the package with guarantee an unlimited number of attempts but still. I suppose if you are going for surrogacy with donor eggs. It is easier to adopt a baby. In any case both of the babies won't have relation to you, don't you agree with me?
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@Shimona, yes we all have rights to choose what we want. But sometimes we can't have exactly that because due to different reasons we just anable to have it. Well, I don't want to say you must just adopt a baby and no for surrogacy. But I believe you should think twice before making any decisions. We were forced to undergo egg donation cycle because it was our last chance. That babies will be genetically related to my husband. And it is the best thing in our case.
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@gracee hi! how have you been doing? Yes, it is true what you pointed out. Adoption sounds great but it is a very long process with no happy ending most of times. I personally don't feel patient enough to go through it. Also even though we will use a donor egg, we will also use my husband's sperm. Our baby will be 50% genetically ours. I don't really mind about this.. I just don't wanna go through the hassle of adoption. :S
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@Shimona.. that's right... it depends on each particular person. Each one knows what it is best, how much can afford, etc. Thanks God we can say that now surrogacy is an option. It wasn't possible few years ago. It is good to know that at least we can count on it. I would go for adoption if I were 20 years younger. Right now I feel I'm too old to face that. My husband thinks the same.
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Surrogacy is a great idea, you know. I am also unable to give birth, that's why we had to look for solutions. We visited a lot of fertility experts. They all were saying that we should adopt. But we decided to try the surrogacy. It is very important for me to have a baby, which is genetically related to my DH and me. That's why we found a great clinic in Europe, which offers this service. After all the examinations we had to wait until they find the surrogate for us. It didn't take a lot of time. This is also the reason why we have chosen the surrogacy. It takes only 9 months, while the adoption process can take a couple of years. So, after they found the surrogate, the embryo was transferred. In 21 days we found out that the surrogate was pregnant. It was a really hard period for me. I always wanted to give birth to a lot of kids. I couldn't understand why it happened to me. Doctors were always sure that I'm absolutely healthy. My unexplained infertility was always killing me. I was spending a lot of time with our surrogate. I wanted to stay near my baby from the very beginning. It was the best and at the same time the worst time of my life. So, our baby was born in time. It was a boy. My husband’s dream came true. He always wanted to have a son. I am very glad that we have chosen the surrogacy. We are mentioned as biological parents of our baby. It is very important to all of us. Our life and our marriage have changed completely. Our son means a lot to us. I think you should definitely go for surrogacy!
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I think surrogacy would work. The baby genetically belongs to parents. People are not well aware of it. They think that the conceiving mother is her bio mother but it's not true. The couple who choose surrogacy are the real parents genetically and legally as well. But surrogacy should be carried out in best clinics. the clinic who provides healthy surrogates. SO yes I am in favor of surrogacy.
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it's so nice to see that you care about her.I mean in the times that we live in.It's really wonderful and heartwarming to find someone.That actually cares for you from the bottom of the heart.The family is just that.The feeling and bonding of love and affection.surrogacy is a great option for her.She will learn to love the baby as her own soon enough.Take care of yourself and her.
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I think IVF isn't that bad. I have been through multiple. I am still as healthy as I can be. It might be different for your sister. Surrogacy can help her out. You should go for it. I am sure it will turn out to be a nice experience for you.
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Hi! I'm so sorry about your sister. I understand how hard it is for her. IVF is not really bad but it also depends on one's own health. Your sister is weak maybe that's why she can't tolerate all this pain. I know it's hard for her. Trying for so long frustrates you and makes you tired. I don't deny that. But she should not lose hope. There is a solution to all problems in this world. Even the word impossible itself says I am Possible. So cheer up and make your sister understand this. It might not be easy but she should believe in herself. Surrogacy is the most common method of having a baby now if one is infertile. People are there to speak so let them. Don't think about people and ruin her life. I would advise your sister to go for surrogacy. I'm sure her dreams of becoming a mom will be fulfilled. Much love for her.
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Hi! I'm so sorry about your sister. I understand how hard it is for her. IVF is not really bad but it also depends on one's own health. Your sister is weak maybe that's why she can't tolerate all this pain. I know it's hard for her. Trying for so long frustrates you and makes you tired. I don't deny that. But she should not lose hope. There is a solution to all problems in this world. Even the word impossible itself says I am Possible. So cheer up and make your sister understand this. It might not be easy but she should believe in herself. Surrogacy is the most common method of having a baby now if one is infertile. People are there to speak so let them. Don't think about people and ruin her life. I would advise your sister to go for surrogacy. I'm sure her dreams of becoming a mom will be fulfilled. Much love for her.
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Hi there! I hope your sister is in good health. I think you're very right. The mother's health totally matters. I think it's great you're looking into options such as IVF and surrogacy. I went to a clinic for my surrogacy. I was unable to conceive. No uterus to bear a pregnancy. My clinic was amazing. It offered IVF too. Maybe you should look into it for professional opinions? I'll give you the details if you're interested. Anyway, I don't think there should be so much controversy regarding it. Surrogacy is a great option. Good luck with everything!
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Six year is no doubt a huge time period to struggle to have a baby. It is just so tiring. When you are TTC and each day you have to have a test and if that results in negative. What would be more worst than that? And of course the trips to the doctor. That even seems to be neverending one. I have seen all this so closely that I can relate each word you said. Even I am sick and tired of all the merry go round of life. Nothing seems to have an ending on this. But I am glad to have such procedures where you actually make a stop on the visits and checkups. And have a biological baby. What I actually think of surrogates is that. They are beautiful souls. I have watched so many videos where they kept sharing their lives. Most of them have their own families. But they are willing to help women who have no babies. As they really no the pain of being infertile. So they are no less than beautiful souls that's it. It rarely happened that surrogates turned out to be negative persons. But most often the surrogates that clinic finds for you are beautiful persons.
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Just tell her to go for it. Now she thinks that it's going to be a problem for her but it's not. It's going to be great for you. Just tell her to go for it. She shouldn't worry about that. Our best wishes are with her. May she get her baby soon.
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I will say yes to surrogacy. Trying to conceive is such a difficult part of my married life.I am ttc from last 10 years.Still i don't have any luck with it. There is no specfic cause of my infertility.I have gone through several medical tests regaring infertility but doctors can't decide the main cause for my infertility.So they have called me infertile for life. I want a baby too badly as i have been trying to conceive from the last decade.I am looking for other alternatives to have a baby.I have looked into a numbe rof options like adoption,surrogacy. I have came to know from many forums about surrogacy. i heard many infertile women going for surrogacy.People on forum are discussing mostly about surrogacy,People discuss about clinics mostly.
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Hi Dear! Hope you are in good health. So sorry to hear about you sisters infertility problem. 7 years is a lot of time. You should not hesitate in guiding your sister to surrogacy it is a beautiful procedure. I hope she gets to have a child soon I feel for her. I am also infertile and know what it is like. I went for surrogacy from Ukraine and suggest that you ask your sister to do the same. Ukraine has some of the best surrogacy clinics and I am sure they will help your sister out. You don’t have to worry about a thing they are very professional and you sister is going to love it there. I hope everything turns out best for them. Take care
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Hey, How are you? And what about your sister? I am really upset to read this post. She is going through a hard time. When a person tries something as a hope and if it failed. It is a very heartbreaking situation. Your sister is such a courageous girl. Surrogacy is a good option. I am also going for it. As I am Having the same situation as your sister has. All my struggle go as waste. But I never lose hope. I want my own baby. So I decided to for surrogacy. This is the only way for me to have my own baby. Your sister should try this. BioTexCom in Ukraine is a good clinic in this regard they have their own surrogates. I am sharing a link here your sister must visit this. http://mother-surrogate.info/ my best wishes for your sister.
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There is a solution to every problem today. If you are unable to have a baby from your own womb then why not you go for surrogacy. Surrogacy is the most common method of having a baby with your own DNA. Don't lose any hope dear i'm also 43 years old and i have also no luck with kids. I had many complications regarding pregnancy.I conceived for 3 times but resulted in miscarriages every time.So i also gave up on getting pregnant again and again.I researched over the web for different methods of having babies and i came across surrogacy.Surrogacy is a good solution for mothers like us who can't have a baby of their own.While researching about surrogacy i came across a clinic named BioTexCom many times.There are very positive reviews about it over the internet. So i contacted the clinic and told them my complications they answered my all questions.They cleared my misunderstanding about the surrogacy. So now i am ready to go for the surrogacy method. I have persuaded my husband to go for surrogacy.He is ready if we can have a baby via surrogacy of our own DNA's. The clinic will find a good surrogate for our baby. If someone has any review and suggestion for me please let us know.So that we can learn from you.
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I will say go for surrogacy. It is easier and successful method of having a baby. As i have gone through it that is why i am saying for surrogacy. Surrogacy was successful for my family. I had hysterectomy cancer due to which i was infertile for life. So we decided to go for surrogacy. And it turns to be a real straight success for us without any issue. Now we will have our twin daughters from this surrogacy. That is why i suggest surrogacy. Good luck to you friend.
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Hey dear. How is everything going? I hope its all great. Surrogacy is a blessing. it is for me. It gave me a new life. It made me happy. I was devastated when I was left infertile. I lost fertility in an accident. I was in a car crash. Had hysterectomy. The worst day of my life. However, I am very happy that I went for it. surrogacy gave me two twins. I love the, I hope more people go for it. I wish everyone good luck. talks are. support to you all.
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Hello ladies! Thanks for posting here. It is very sad to hear what your sister had gone through. She was faced really a great struggle. She must be a brave lady. I am also infertile. I had chosen surrogacy after my unsuccessful IVF attempts. It really helps and I had blessed with twins. I can't explain what I had felt when I got my surrogates sons. Great feeling of being a mother. I suggest your sister should go for surrogacy. I sure she will get different and better results. Best wishes
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Hi there. I hope you are doing good. I read your post. I am sorry that you have to go through so much pain. This is really sad. Miscarriage is really hard to cope with. I hope all goes well for you in future and may you become a mother soon. Take care. God bless.
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Infertility becomes a common issue nowadays. I feel so sorry for what your sister had struggled. She is a brave lady. I am also an infertile person and TTC since my marriage but didnt conceive even a once. I tried IVF too. But it failed two times. I was totally fed up with the things. Surrogacy was the last option for me. I went to Ukraine for my surrogacy because in my it is banned by law. Finally, I had blessed with a baby boy. That was the I can't explain. I suggest your sister should also go for surrogacy. I hope he will get a better result. Best wishes
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Hy! I hope you are doing great. I am sad about your concern. Be that as it may, don't stress over each issue has its answer so simply make yourself solid. To be completely forthright, it appears to me on the off chance that you take a surrogate mother, at that point just through the clinic - it's more secure. The more they have a decent base, and experience. The reality of the matter is that discovering facilities is difficult. In any case, we ought to do battle for this. Good luck. May you get achievement dear. Be well. Be upbeat soon.
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Hey, I hope you are doing well. I think surrogacy is a good option because I have seen a lot of people who got it done and they were successful. Including my cousin who was declared infertile a couple months ago so we tried surrogacy for her and believe it or not it worked! She is so happy now that she has a baby of her own. It's an exciting journey. I would say do some research and make your decision. Good Luck!
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Hey! Hope you are doing great. Infertility is very grieving for a woman to go through. The complete family is everything. It is so sad to hear your sister has been going through so much. I am glad to see you are so concerned about her, she needs moral support at this time. She should not give up. It will take a lot of dedication and visits to the clinic until she finally receives a good news. But tell her it is all worth it. I am going through infertility myself. After several fail IUI, I had my first son. Then due to some complications, my uterus was removed. And now I am completely unable to even think about conceiving naturally. It is very depressing for me and I lost all hopes. However, one of my experienced cousins told me about a clinic in Europe. They offer surrogacy. I visited the doctors there. Their service is amazing. They are helping me a lot. So after consulting them, I find surrogacy the best option. I would love to hear some opinions from experienced mothers. Take care!
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Hey Ali ! how are you doing? It is amazing to see you came forward to share your experience and thoughts on IVF treatments. These are surely useful for many couples who prefer surrogacy over IVF treatments. IVF is truly expensive. However, going for surrogacy is an easier and a better option. I know it feels bad to not your own biological child. But there is a reason why there are so many alternatives. you should just focus on experiencing parenthood. The rest is all secondary. Therefore you should go for surrogacy in a clinic that I am going to. It is the clinic in Europe. Hope to hear soon from you. Regards.
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Hello, There.Hope you will be good now.No need to be worried.I can understand its very difficult time for your sister.IVF is good .But your sister body can not handle it.My friend was also suffering from infertility.There are several treatment of infertility like IVF,surrogacy.my friend go with surrogacy.now she has her own baby.your sister go with surrogacy.because her IVF was not successful.Do not be panic . Stay positive.my best wishes with your sister.
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A big YES to surrogacy!! If it weren't for surrogacy, I had lost all hope at being a mother all my life. I was declared infertile when I had a miscarriage. And that too, without a reason. Me and DH TTC for 10 years. But to no avail. We opted for numerous other treatment options. But to no avail. IVF, IUI nothing worked for us. And it all came down to surrogacy. And now we have a healthy little baby of our own. So I'd tell her to opt for surrogacy if nothing works for her. It is working wonders for people. I hope her very best of luck throughout her journey. She is indeed a very strong woman. Lots of prayers! xx
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this is a very relevant topic hun. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. I have gotten so much hate. From the past few months.Just because I choose to talk about this topic. Do not shy away from your troubles. People can be judgemental and cruel. Don't let that stop you in finding a solution for you or your loved ones.
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This is the very common thing that almost every single woman wants to conceive and to have all the blissful feeling of conceiving. Even I am the one who always wanted to have all those emotions. But I failed to have all such. And surrogates keep a great place in this infertile world. They are the one who sought to help each infertile individual. I have complete faith over the surrogacy procedure. That this would surely be the reason for me becoming a parent. Cheers to all the women who are seeking for this amazing procedure to get their success.
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Hello Ali, hope you are doing good. Conceiving a child is a blessing. It has no match to carry ones own child. But if she can't conceive by herself then surrogacy is the answer.I am also an infertile. I am considering surrogacy myself. There is nothing bad in surrogacy. It is miraculous treatment. And surrogate mothers are amazing. It is not easy to carry a child for 9 months and then giveaway that child right away. They surely deserve love and respect for doing so. I am currently contacting Adonis clinic in Ukraine. The staff is pathetic in communication. Otherwise I would have started my process by now. Anyways, Good Luck to your sister.

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