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Surrogacy story
Hi everyone! I want to share my story here. I think it'll benefit many. At least I hope it will. I think it's important for all to know that there is hope still if you're not able to conceive. TTC is definitely tough. Especially when months or years g by without luck. I can't feel you directly; I am not able to conceive, but I knew it since the start. I have no uterus. It was removed due to cancerous polyps some years ago. Life didn't feel the same. Anyway, after much time and comforting, I finally was introduced to surrogacy. It's been a great experience for me. I have a little girl now that I adore so much. I'm so happy I looked into this procedure. I wish everyone the same happiness of a child, whichever way you get it. Good luck!
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Hey there! I'm glad to know your story. It's good to know that you didn't give up. Hope is definitely the key to success. You took the right decision. Surrogacy is the best option to go for. It is safe and very reliable. I love the concept of surrogacy. I hope more people become aware of it. Everyone deserves to be happy! Much love.xx
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Hello Han! Well, yes! I understand your story...It's really great of you. I'm really sorry for your condition...You seem like a strong person to still go with it. So, yeah! Wish you all the best! I think surrogacy would be a better option for you. So, yeah! I'm myself also a TTC! I know how it goes with someone. Let's hope for the best! Just keep going with it! I hope it goes better for you after it! I assure you that it will really help you change your life...Wish you all the best! xx
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Hey, hope you are fine. I am glad to hear your success story. I am happy that people are now much aware of surrogacy. There are some people who think that it is unethical. I would love to say that it is neither immoral nor unethical. Some surrogates do it for someone's happiness. I have also a baby through surrogacy. I met my surrogate and I asked her why she is doing it. She said that she does it for our happiness. It is hard for them to give the birth to the baby when they realize the baby would not belong to them after birth. The surrogate has no right to the baby legally after birth. The baby genetically belongs to the intended parents. The clinic where I went for my surrogacy was the best clinic regarding surrogacy. They not only facilitated me with all services but also my surrogate too. I am so happy that I have taken the right decision at right time.
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Thank you for sharing your story. It is true that life isn't always going to go your way. when I got married I even thought that okay now that I am married everything will go fine. However, it didn't go that way I was unable to conceive and soon was diagnosed as infertile. It is said that the stress that is taken by the infertile women and the medications taken by her is equivalent to the suffering of a cancer patient. Anyways, I tried IUI cycles and failed in all 5 cycles. It was soo heartbreaking. I then went up for my IVF treatment which was firstly so expensive that it consumed almost all ar savings. This treatment also failed I then visited this clinic abroad after being told by a fellow couple that it was amazing. I visited them showed them my case history and how much I had inflicted on myself. With daily 3 time shots which were so painful and endless. They told me after doing all my tests that I actually had a severe problem. The problem wasn't just with the fact that my periods were irregular. There were much more complications. Due to which IVF won't even work ad the uterus lining wasn't perfect for that. They suggested surrogacy to me and now I have a beautiful child.
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Hey, I am so happy for you. You got to have your happiness. It really makes me happy. Surrogacy is really a good treatment. It helps out people like us. Your life must be very beautiful now. This post can be very beneficial for many people. Many people do not really trust Surrogacy. I find it as a blessing. I have been in contact with this clinic regarding my surrogacy. I have chosen my surrogate for now. I hope to have a happy ending like you did. Wish me luck. I keep posting to keep everyone updated.
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Well, it's great that surrogacy helped you. Most people don't think of it as a good method. I would invite them to see cases like this. They shouldn't say bad about surrogacy. Surrogacy is a truly very good method to get a child. I hope it helped you. A great motivation for me indeed.
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Congratulations on the change of status from infertility to motherhood. You are no doubt the luckiest one. What I have learned from your status is that you are an optimist. Despite all your problems and challenges, you moved ahead with great courage. It is your patience and commitment that has paved the way to your parenthood. You took the right step at the right time. Without wasting you took the decision of going for the surrogacy. This has saved you from a great deal of stress.
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Surrogacy is a very good and helping procedure. But it's really very expensive. The studies have shown correct that many of the people want to take surrogacy but can't take it because they are having issues either with their country laws or financially. It's not always correct. Many if the people have to lose this option because it's way too expensive for them. It's not only in Europe but in US, India, Pakistan, all of them it has different and several major kind of issues related to the surrogacy. It's never a good option for less budget people if they want to do it. May be medical insurances could add this procedure or anything like that which helps the willing people. Even finding a surrogate mother volunteer is very difficult because it's not that much aware among us. Otherwise it's really good technique for parents to have their own.
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I am happy to hear your example of overcoming adversity. I am glad that individuals are presently much mindful of surrogacy. There are a few people who feel that it is deceptive. I would love to state that it is neither corrupt nor exploitative. A few surrogates do it for somebody's joy. I have likewise an infant through surrogacy. I met my surrogate and I asked her for what reason she is doing it. She said that she does it for our joy. It is hard for them to give the birth to the child when they understand the infant would not have a place with them after birth. The surrogate has no privilege to the child lawfully after birth. The child hereditarily has a place with the expected guardians. The center where I went for my surrogacy was the best facility with respect to surrogacy. They encouraged me with all administrations as well as my surrogate as well. I am happy to the point that I have taken the correct choice at an ideal time.
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Thank you, Hanna, for sharing your story. It surely sent some positivity towards my way. I have been TTC for years now. It has been so long that I have lost count. I am continuously advised to look into surrogacy and IVF. I don't know I am just afraid. Can you share your story? It will help me make a decision. I am confused about where to go for surrogacy. I have heard many positive things about a clinic in Europe. Do you have any knowledge about it? Where did you and your husband go? What was the total cost? Were there any complications during the whole process? DO share all these details.It will surely illuminate my life and I will always be thankful.
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Hey! Thanks for sharing this amazing story with us. You are a very strong lady indeed. I'm sure you must have gone through a difficult phase. But you never lost hope. And that's what I like about you. You stood up for yourself. Congratulations to you on your baby. Your story is very motivating. I hope many people take benefit from it.
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Hey Hanrichie, I am really very happy for you. I can understand your feelings. I had faced the same situation as you faced. My condition is not so different from that of yours. I was also in the same boat as you were when I came to know that I was having double infertility. I and my husband both were infertile. Someone on a forum suggested my surrogacy. I don't know where you had your procedure. But I am going to Ukraine. I am quite sure I will also share my success story here.
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Sorry to hear for this phase. Along with this i am happy for your choice that you opt surrogacy. It's a blessing that every1 is getting benefits. Your story is really a hope for many. Every problem has a solution and i believe infertility is not problem without solution. We are lucm that we are in this world. Congo for your journey.
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Sorry to hear about your mishaps. I have had similar infertility complications in my life. even after trying for 2 years I was not able to conceive. I have been taking infertility medication for the past few years and even had IVF treatment but none of them seem to work for me. the choice of adoption was always there but I feel like it is not for me and since surrogacy is prohibited in Germany I never paid any interest to it. However recently came to know about surrogacy clinics in Ukraine that provide the surrogacy service along with the expense of traveling and accommodation. I am hoping to get more information on the subject before I talk to my husband about it and reading your story has given me hope that this is the way to go. Stay blessed and thanks.
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Thanks for sharing your story. I love to read happy stories. I love to share my own experience. I am form Japan. I am also infertile. I have mitral stenosis disease which prevent me to have a baby. Then, i thought about surrogacy. Surrogacy is banned here in Japan. I with my husband moved to Australia for the better opportunity. We visited many clinics and consult with many surrogates but could not satisfied. Then, i heard about the surrogacy clinics in Ukraine for my friend. We moved to Ukraine after 8 months. There i found the best Surrogacy Clinic Bio TexCom. They recommend us a surrogate of our choice. The treatment fee was also reasonable. Now, i am a mother of healthy boy. We are very happy living as a family. We are also thankful to the clinic and surrogate. For more info visit http://mother-surrogate.info/
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Hey there. This is a great story. Thank you so much for sharing something so personal with everyone. I feel really happy for you. You deserved the happy ending that you got. I'm also going for surrogacy! Maybe I can share my story with all of you as well.
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Hey! I feel the bliss to read many of your success stories. I would love to share my Ukraine experience with you all. I had a hard time trying to conceive until I decided that we must give a try to surrogacy. I spent 9 years of marriage dealing with infertility and severe depression. I can not thank enough to this revolutionizing progress of science. It had blessed me with twin sons. They are 7 years old now. It was all in all a difficult journey. But I must recommend to you who are TTC that they must give surrogacy a try. Dealing with infertility is never an easy task. The blessing of surrogacy has changed the lives of many of us. The Ukranian clinic apart from being reasonable provided us with a number of other facilities. It was a lovely trip. They gave us accommodation, meals, transportation, all medical expenses within a reasonable package of €39.900. I wish every woman could feel the warmth of motherhood. Surrogacy is indeed a blessing.
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Hi Hanriche. How are you holding dear? I've read many of your informative and amazing posts here. Yes! I'd agree with you about these and many of other facts. Well, last year my own cousin sister had surrogacy. She went to a center of repro in Ukraine for it. It worked really well for her. Finally, she was able to have a beautiful daughter. So, yeah! I support your stance on this topic. Stay blessed. x Thanks for sharing your story! It will help many to motivate others...x
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Hi there. How are you doing? I hope it's going great. I am really glad to hear from you. This is really a great post. It's very motivating and cheerful. I know how hard it gets. I have been through it. I have experienced it. All the things you said are fully true. There are many options. Surrogacy and IVF are great options. Especially for people like us. I hope people get what you are saying. I am really happy to hear about your girl. I wish you good luck. I hope everything goes well. Take care.
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TTC is the toughest time as i had heard from ladies.But didn't have this method as i was infertile due to cancerous thing. Surrogacy has been a good thing for me after all.I read about surrogacy alot.I heard people talking about it mostly on the forums or on different social platforms. I had hystrestomy cancer.I am cancer free but i can't be a mom anymore.I was ver upset and stressed.But my husband was there to support me.He assured me that he will do everything to have us a baby. So we came to know about surrogacy.Firstly we both searched about surrogacy we understood every aspect of surrogacy.Than we moved to Europe from Japan.Japan has banned surrogacy totally so we moved.We stayed in Europe for 4 months and consulted some clinics too. but due to several reasons my husband was not very satisfied.Then we moved to Ukraine.We heard from many people about many clincis in Ukraine.Ukraine is very popular as per surrogacy.In Ukraine we contacted a clinic and than the clinic started our journey of surrogacy. Now the surrogate mother is pregnant with our twin daughters.We are very excited to have our own babies now.
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I was not infertile but everytime i conceived i resulted in miscarriage. I conceived for 3 times and everytime resulted in miscarriage. Than at the age of 43. I am married again. I was thinking of surrogacy. While researching about surrogacy. I found a clinic in Ukraine. I researched about the clinic and found many good reviews about the clinic. In a video form the clinics youtube channel clinics said they will give you a baby at any cost. The clinic say they can't be sure when you will have a baby. Instead they say they are sure that you will have a baby. I was much satisfied with the clinic interviews. The people have also many positive reviews about the clinic. I found a video from clinic channel about step by step procedure of surrogacy. I thought i should share this with other people who have some confusions regarding surrogacy. below is the video link for surrogacy explained in every aspect. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c6BiHLxzpH8&feature=youtu.be
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Hi dear. It feels good when people share their story. No doubt infertility and miscarriages are the worst feelings. They emotionally break you up and you just feel hope less. But one can't pass all his life with this same feeling. You don't have to repent on it or curse yourself. It was all natural and one can't stand against the natural things or nor can he change them. So it is required that you just stay calm and look upon other options available to you. Yes I stand by with you i this matter. Surrogacy is really a blessing. I have seen many couple who got benefit through it. Surrogacy has helped may couple in having a baby who were infertile or can't conceive a baby. Surrogacy is offered by many clinics throughout the world. It has much more success rates and guaranteed results.There is a clinic in Ukraine which offers surrogacy for its customers. It has two different packages which are easily affordable and are budget friendly. I have seen many couples who were blessed with a baby by doing surrogacy from them. They give you more guaranteed results which makes them more famous in this field. In addition they also provide their customers with luxurious transport, accommodation and food on visit to their clinic. I hope you got my point of view. Best of luck!
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Felt such pleasure reading your post, Congratulations on having this blessing. Hope the baby is doing fine. I agree with you, Infertility is no doubt the toughest thing. You could never feel the pain unless you are the person who had been through this. Every single day you live is worthless. You just got to feel like there is nothing good being left in this world, I could feel this. Because I am an infertile person. And I just love babies. But I cant have one. All the years I have lived being infertile could never be explained in words. And I believe these procedures are doing a great job in helping women like you and me. Though I heard many times before on this forum about surrogacy procedure and I am quite impressed with the success stories I came across. It feels so good to know that finally, you guys are having what you desired for so long. Often so many questions and confusion that triggers me constantly. One of them was having a clinic that understands the emotions and is trustworthy. Hope I get to have the same experience that you had.
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Hello there. Hope you are doing fine. Thank you so much for this story. You are right, TTC is tough. Life is hard but don't lose hope. Yes, Surrogacy is definitely a blessing. I am so happy that it worked for you. Congratulations on being a mother. It must feel amazing. We are so happy for you.
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Hello, trust you are fine. I am glad that individuals are currently much mindful of surrogacy. There are a few people who imagine that it is untrustworthy. I would love to state that it is not true. A few surrogates do it for somebody's bliss. I have a child through surrogacy. I met my surrogate and I asked her for what reason she is doing it. She said that she does it for our joy. It is hard for them to give the birth to the infant when they understand the infant would not have a place with them after birth. The surrogate has no privilege to the child after birth. The facility where I went for my surrogacy was the best centre with respect to surrogacy. They encouraged me with all services as well as my surrogate as well. I am happy to the point that I have taken the correct choice at perfect time.
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Thanks for sharing. I wish the same for everyone. I have a little daughter too. Had my surrogacy at Ukraine. It was wonderful. Having this child gave me my confidence back. I could not be more happier.
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That is almost exactly like what I went through. I also opted for surrogacy. And now we have our baby girl. Surrogacy helped me through the tough time. I can never thank enough to my friend who suggested me this. She had her IVF through a clinic in Ukraine. She suggested us to go to the same place for surrogacy. It was indeed the best decision of our life. We are a happy family now.
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Hi this is my first time I am sharing my story on this forum .i get married at the age of 20 which is a very young age for a girl after some years I came to know that I am the victim of infertility .i am a person who loves child a lot but cannot be able to have a child of my own breaks me and I started to end this pitiful life but I discuss it with my husband that life is not without a child .instead of demotivating me he encouraged me to have a treatment .i was weak so doctors recommend me surrogacy as other treatment will affect my health and can kill me also.so I visit the clinic in London .they warmly welcomed me and understand my situation and help me to have a baby .this long 9 months experienced was the the most curious period of my life that I can wait to see my children and lucking I had twins which make me so happy that I cant describe in words.best treatment I get through this clinic with everything best in quality and this will also help me to forget me the worst past experiences of my life . now I am so happy to have my own children .it does not matter for me that these children didn’t take birth from my womb but trust me it makes me feel like they are the child I have in my womb for 9 months .they are now the part of our life we cant even think to live without them.so all females who are suffering like must do surrogacy it will completely change your life.
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Hey there. Hope you are doing good. First of all, congratulations. I'm so glad to see your story. I'm glad surrogacy worked for you. I've heard of many good clinics in Europe that offer surrogacy. They are indeed a blessing. You are indeed a strong woman. I have always believed that hope, faith and struggle can make the impossible possible. It is my personal experience. After TTC for some years, I finally conceived. I succeeded in my struggle. I always advise others to keep their hopes high. I wish everyone becomes optimistic after reading this post. Good Luck in the future!
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Hey.How are you?.I am happy to heard you story.You are really a strong women indeed.Its a positive point for us the surrogacy worked for you.I have always believe that success faith and struggle make impossible thins possible.I wish everyone become optimistic.Good Luck.
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Congratulations on the baby girl! You would be so happy. I am glad that things turned out so well for you. Thank you for sharing your story. I hope women who have given up on having children read this post. Losing the main part of your reproductive system would have been so terrible for you. I do not know how you showed such courage to still try to have a baby. Stories like these when you realize what blessing surrogacy is. Though there are many people with opposite views, calling it unnatural. I think other women going through similar infertility problems must consider surrogacy. There is no harm in going to a clinic and meeting the doctors. Surrogacy may not have a 100% success rate, based on different factors. But, I think if it can help someone without a uterus, it can help others too.
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After many years of TTC. We hadn't any luck. So we went for checkups but there was no issue between us. We were worried. Further we went for more tests but same negative results. Doctors can't even tell the reason behind my infertility. I was worried. I am also infertile. But my husband is supporting me at every stage. But my husband supported me. He said we can go for some other procedure to have a baby. I started looking for other methods like IVF and IUI. But both didn't worked for me. So at the end we end up in choosing surrogacy. Surrogacy is successful for many people. I hope it will be for me too. We have contacted a clinic too and soon we will start our journey there. Good luck everyone.
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I am glad you finally found a treatment that is helping you fight through infertility. The clinic is indeed doing an exceptional job. So many people from all around are visiting them. One of the reasons for that is that they are truly passionate about their work. Even I am visiting them for my process! They are working highly efficiently. They have a very fast communication network. I was so impressed with the services when I emailed them for the first time. They replied so quickly! The reply was a very in-depth detailed email. They made sure from the very get-go that all my confusions were cleared up. Also, when I visited them I was amazed to see so many other people from all around the globe. Good luck to you! I hope your process is a success. Sending baby dust your way.
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Hello. I'm glad you shared your story here. You had to go through some really hard times. It just shows how strong you are. But you know patience is the key. You dealt with this and now you have your reward. It wasn't the best or preferred way to have a baby but we are focussing on the brighter side. How you stayed hopeful during this is really inspiring. When I was going through all this I had given up a million times. It wasn't easy but I got through it. The support of my family, husband and the clinic meant the world to me. I couldn't have done it without them. But its good to know that things finally worked out. What once seemed impossible, happened. I'm happy to see the same happened to you. Congratulations.
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Congratulations to you! I am glad that after soo much of struggle you were finally able to have your own child. I am sure it must have felt great. I am also in the middle of the process. So far things are going really well for us. It is really important to visit the right doctor for the process. If the doctor is doing well then the process can go well. The clinic I am visiting I did research a lot! I made sure they were the right ones. We checked their services and packages. All the packages are very reasonable and with accommodation. We were then also invited for the first free visit that really helped us in being sure. I am really excited about the final days. Good luck to you. Do pray for us.

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