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Surrogacy A great option?
Hey there, how are you all? I hope you all are doing great. This is a great platform to share problems and ask for the help. I am new here and I don't know much about the pregnancy stuff. Every woman wishes to have a baby of its own but some of us doesn't get the chance to enjoy the motherhood. Infertility is a sick disease and has destroyed so many dreams. I am infertile and don't know what to do. I had to go for hysteria treatment which led me to lifetime infertility. Now it is time for us to decide whether to choose adoption or surrogacy. It is sure hard decision to make and we can't make it quickly. Well, I have learned a lot about surrogacy myself and now I want to choose a clinic. I know there are lots of clinics but I need to be careful. One wrong choice and I'd lose everything again. I would like to know if you guys can help me out in spotting a good clinic. It would be a great help, thanks.
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Hi! Going for surrogacy is a great decision you've made. Fertility treatments can surely be expensive. I would suggest you look at other affordable clinics as well. There are some great ones in Europe. Did you look into those? I don't know, I feel you may find something that's more in your budget. Sounds like an exciting time nonetheless. Good luck with it all! You'll do great I'm sure!
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Hi, there. I am fine. I hope you are also fine. Of course, you are in the right place for guidance. Every woman wants to have a baby. This is the desire of every married couple. When infertility becomes a problem for a woman. She needs guidance to solve this issue. There are many kinds of treatments, these are very successful treatments. Male patients are also treated. IUI is a successful treatment for males. Surrogacy has helped many women . Especially, women who are older. Indeed, surrogacy is a very successful treatment. There is no risk in this treatment. Every woman can become a mother through surrogacy. I advise that you go for surrogacy treatment.
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Hi dear. I hope you will be doing great in your life. I am sorry that you have to face a thing like surrogacy. No doubt you are going through a really hard time. It may have broken you up and you would be feeling tired. But my dear you have to be strong through all this so that you can do something good for your self. I am glad that you chose the best available treatment for yourself. Surrogacy is the best treatment for people who are infertile. It is indeed a blessing for them. Clinic plays the most important role in your surrogacy journey. Good clinics are available but there are many scammers too. So as you said you have to be careful through all this. All my prayers and best wishes are with you my dear. Best of luck!
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I'd suggest you be very careful. Such matters are very sensitive. One should not hurry in these things. I am sure you'll be able to choose a clinic wisely. Searching for best clinics in Ukraine would be a good idea. My cousin had IUI treatment from one of the clinics there. And she was very satisfied with them. Good luck to you too.
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Hello Kelly! I hope you're doing fine. Its one of the worst part of a woman life of being infertile and can't be able to give birth to your baby. I can feel your pain dear. Unfortunately, I'm one of them. And I'm trying to conceive baby since last almost 7 years but still failed. Then my doctor suggested me for the surrogacy and I'm searching for the best clinics for surrogacy. U made a right decision dear on the right time but make sure about that before going for surrogacy u know the criteria and the rating of the clinic properly. There are so many fake clinics who are working for the sake of money just as they don't care about the feelings, emotions of people. I am hoping for the best as soon as possible and my all best wishes are with u. May God bless u!
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I hope you are doing fine. I am so sorry to hear your story. It's really depressing. I can understand your pain. Infertility is not easy to deal with. It has crushed the hopes of so many people. But we live in a modern world where everything is possible. We have to face problems in our lives. But there is a solution to every problem. We just have to find that solution. Infertility has been increasing day by day but thankfully, we have some assisted methods to deal with it. We have so many options other than surrogacy. I would suggest you go for the treatment asap. My prayers are with you. Good luck.
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I hope you are doing well, sweetheart! I think both of the options are fine. It only depends on whether you want to have a baby who is biologically related to you or you're okay with someone else's baby. Talk to your husband as well. See what does he think about this. Decide something with mutual consultation. Wishing good luck to you.
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There are many good clinics in Ukraine. My colleague told me that she had her IVF process from a clinic there. It was very affordable. And they offered really nice packages. You should search on the internet. I am sure you'll find something useful. Good luck to you.
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Kelly darling dear. I hope you will be doing great in your life. I am sorry that you have to face a thing like surrogacy. No doubt you are going through a really hard time. It may have broken you up and you would be feeling tired. But my dear you have to be strong through all this so that you can do something good for your self. I am glad that you chose the best available treatment for yourself. Surrogacy is the best treatment for people who are infertile. It is indeed a blessing to them. Clinic plays the most important role in your surrogacy journey. Good clinics are available but there are many scammers too. So as you said you have to be careful through all this. All my prayers and best wishes are with you, my dear. There is a clinic in eastern Europe maybe their clinic name starts from an (A) but Best of luck!.
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Just wanted to share my experience regarding the choice of the clinic. While telling my friends and loved ones about my chosen fertility clinic in Ukraine, I came across multiple questions. Most of the people ask why I have chosen this one? Although it is away from my homeland but the clinic's performance has really fascinated me. It is developing leaps and bounds due to its commitment and hard work. The clinic has proficient professionals in the world of fertility treatments. It also believes in transparency of the information. This is something that has fascinated me.
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Hi there, Kelly! I hope you're in good health. I'd like to welcome you on this forum firstly. You'll get all the help that you desire from us. Well, I'm sorry to read about your infertility. You're not alone in this, dear. I've been through this terrible time and I know how awful it feels when you know you can't conceive a baby naturally. But in this situation, you have to gear up and be brave. You can't let infertility destroy your life. I'd suggest you go for a surrogacy procedure to have a child. I believe that when there's an option that you can easily have a biological baby then why go for something else? Ukraine has the best fertility clinics, I myself had my surrogacy procedure from a clinic there. Choose a clinic which has high success rates and offers packages which are reasonable. The choice of the clinic is the initial step and the most important one. I hope that you choose a good clinic and have a wonderful process done. Good luck!
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I am sorry to hear about your infertility. It's regrettable. Still, life moves on. Everything will be fine. You have decided to go for surrogacy. It's a great option. As you said, you tried different things. All of them were in vain. Maybe this will be your right option. You'll only get your success by the surrogacy. My best wishes are with you, dear. Best of luck.
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From my understanding, it is a great option. Not only for infertile couples but for same-sex couples too. So many people in my circle are unable to conceive. But, due to their fears, they are not going for surrogacy. Luckily for us, a friend recently had a daughter through surrogacy. So we are better able to understand the process and the requirements. I am sure others will follow suit.
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Hey, I hope you are doing fine. Infertility takes a lot out of a woman. So I think you should go for the thing you are comfortable with. If you go for surrogacy so I think that would be best. It is only should be chosen when you find the best clinic for it. There are few clinics that are cheating people. Like I have heard about a clinic adonis. They are cheating people. I think you should go to the best clinic after doing a research about it.
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I am so sorry. I know that you are going through a lot. I think infertility is the hardest thing for a woman. You should go for the best thing you think that is suitable for you. Surrogacy would be only best if the clinic is chosen wisely. I have heard about a few clinics that are cheating people. Clinis Adonis is betraying the people. I hope that you will be aware of such clinics.
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Infertility is such a pathetc Situation. It's is a common problem now a days. Everyone wants to be a parent. But sometimes it is not in fate. Nobody can change it. It extremely made me emotional when I read your post. You are right there are some clinics that are betraying people. like Adonis and Lotus. I think there should be awareness for people regarding such clinics.
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Hey! Hope you are doing fine. I agree with you that every woman wishes of having a baby of its own. But dear sometimes we have to compromise with the fate. Well, gestational surrogacy is a great alternative for those people who cannot able to conceive naturally. I too had a great experience with surrogacy. I had hysterectomy owing to cancer spread. Doctors told me that I cannot able to conceive. It was so hard for me to heard such bad news. But I didn't lose my hope. I and DH opted for surrogacy as our last hope of having a child. We went to Europe because surrogacy banned in our country. I had found a reputable clinic after 5 years of research struggle. In my first visit doctors analyzed my reports and then suggest a surrogacy procedure. We met a surrogate who was willing to give her eggs for my husband sperm. I made a contract and after a while my surrogate got pregnant. Now she is going to give birth twin baby dolls soon. Surrogacy is better than adoption because through surrogacy you have able to get a child which have a genetic relationship with you. I hope your dream of having a child comes true soon. Best wishes.
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Hi Kelly! U there? How're u doing dear? I was searching on the clinics providing surrogacy and get to know about any best one for me. I came across to your post and i wanted to reply to your post. I can feel your pain your sadness of not being able of your own baby. I am infertile and was trying to conceive since last 7 years but always failed. I lost all the hope of being a mother. Thank God then i got to know about the surrogacy and my doctor suggested me to go for surrogacy instead of IVF as he thinks it's not gonna so well in my case. Its one of the worst part of our life to get to know about infertility. I then decided finally for the surrogacy and for that searching so that i can be satisfied before the visit. I heard about many fake clinics too. Dear my good wishes are with u best of luck. Please keep updating about the further information related to it or your experience. thanks!
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Hey there, You are in the right direction. Surrogacy is the best for you. I will share my personal experience so that you may get help. I married ten years ago. I tried to conceive for six years. This was the most difficult time for me. I did every treatment. There was no hope left. Then my gynecologist suggested me to consider the alternate methods. My husband tried to find a good clinic. He did a lot of research and finally came up with the best clinic. I emailed them discussing my issue. They replied to me and fixed the first meeting. After studying my case the doctors suggested me to go for surrogacy. The clinic has the best procedure to select a surrogate. They showed me all the medical reports of my surrogate. I am very satisfied. I returned back with my little angel. You can also fulfill your dreams. Stay happy
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I hope you are fine now. I am really sorry to hear this. I know that you are going through a lot. Infertility is the toughest thing for a woman. You should move on. I agree with your decision. Surrogacy would be only best if the clinic is chosen wisely. Choose the clinic after a research. Don't go for the clinic that are notorious like Adonis. They have a bad reputation after their betrayal behaviour. I hope that you will be aware of such clinics.
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Surrogacy is the option for infertility. Specifically when women cannot carry full term. I have seen my friend go through it. It was not the best feeling to see her struggle and lose her children. Surrogacy through good clinics is even better, as they help and guide you. If anyone asks me i would completely recommend them to it.
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Hello there! I am really sorry to hear about this. Yes, infertility is a very sick disease. Both adoption and infertility are a good remedy for infertility. As a personal experience, I would recommend surrogacy. Surrogacy is a method through which you will be able to have your own biological children. But still, the decision is up to you. To give you some motivation, let me share my story. I married my boyfriend a few years ago. We then went abroad in order to spend some time together. One day, the day that changed my life, I accidentally fell from a hill. My internal injuries were very severe. Doctors said that I have lost my fertility. I wasn't feeling alive for months. David contacted a clinic in Ukraine for surrogacy. He thought that that will bring me out of the trauma. We went there, met with the people. All was good. The staff was very competent. After nine months, our surrogate gave birth to a very handsome man. He is my Ryan.
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I am so sorry that she had to go through this much pain. She had been charged this much. I don't know why the Adinos clinic is behaving in this way. It is totally unprofessional. I don't know what is the clinic behaving in this way. They have got an unprofessional attitude. Dealing with the patients in this way is not justified at all. Not to consult any doctor without any prior any information. Don't get trapped by them anymore.
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Hey, Kelly! I can share my story here for the sake of helping other women. I hope it motivates other, I really do. I am 38 years old right now. I had a son when I was 28 but couldn't conceive after that for 7 years. I have had many poor experiences like one at Adonis clinic. However, I didn't let myself lose the motivation. I am going to welcome my daughter in October. She is being carried by a really strong and kind surrogate. :)
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Of course, this is the best platform to share all of your problems. I agree with you. I have tried it. It's beneficial to me. I never even wonder that some place could help me with this forum. I took a lot of suggestions from this forum. They were always very helpful to me. I wish everything to be alright with you. I want to say that, you chose the right path. , stick to it. It would be beneficial to you.
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Both are great options. I prefer adoption. The reason is that it's not only helpful to you. It would be useful to many people. The parents who cannot afford their child. Some kid whose parents are dead. Seriously, it was a miracle for everyone. Sudden changes can occur in people lives by adopting someone. It would be great.
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Hey there, how are you? I hope you are doing fine. This is a great post. This would motivate most of us to think again. Surrogacy has proven to be a great option for infertile couples. Thanks to the clinics for working hard for us. I am infertile and had my first surrogacy on this last Monday. Waiting for the results.
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Hi there Kelly! Welcome to the forum. Yes, you're right, this is a great platform to share our problems. When you hear other people's stories it inspires you and gives you hope. Infertility is a really hard thing to cope with, I m also a victim of it so I can feel what you are going through. Surrogacy is a great treatment for people who can't conceive naturally. I m having my surrogacy at this clinic abroad, the main reason why I didn't hesitate from choosing this clinic because of the good reviews I heard. After that the first time when I tried to contact them, I got a very quick response which was surprising for me. After that, they cleared out all my doubts on the email. When I totally relaxed they told me that it's time for me to take the next step and visit them. So here I am, my surrogate is pregnant and now I m just waiting to hold my baby in my hands. Just make sure the clinic you are opting for has experienced staff and a high success rate. Stay blessed! Good luck!
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I can only help you from my own experience. We had a very rough few years of TTC. Nothing was really working for us. However, eventually, after failed cycles, we decided to visit a clinic abroad. I was initially very scared. However, I then got in contact with the clinic and they were extremely nice! I told them about my interest in surrogacy. They told me that I would have to visit them because they would have to check if I am infertile or not. I then after going through all the programs and choosing the right package for me visited them. They had really amazing services. The driver was out there waiting for us. A medical examination was also done for free on the first visit. After this, the doctor studied our case. After a thorough examination, we were then signed up for surrogacy. Now everything has started and I am very excited.
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Choosing the clinic is indeed the most important step in the whole process. Often we tend to ignore this important pointer. However, one has to be extremely careful while choosing one. When I decided to visit the clinic I am visiting currently. Few of the things I looked at were the experience of the clinic. The services they offered. I also checked the clinics years of experience. I believe these things really matter and shouldn't be ignored. One of the reasons things are going well is because of my research. The clinic offered these amazing packages. The VIP and the standard package. Both of these were reasonable. We were then also invited to the first free visit. This really helped us make our decision. Good luck to you.
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Of course, the choice of a surrogacy clinic is a very responsible matter. After all, the cost of surrogacy is sometimes quite high. I am very worried about families who turn to lay people, losing time and hope. I read a lot of negative reviews about some clinics. I was very sad to read the stories of these families. Therefore, first of all, pay attention to the rating of the clinic. No need to choose a clinic based on the cost of services. Sometimes, low cost means low quality services and unprofessionalism.
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There are numerous advantages of surrogacy. Since the development of the assisted reproduction technology, the life of the infertile couple has become easier. Surrogacy is one such procedure that helps with the conceiving. The assistance of a selfless woman can help the disappointed and the grieved get the good news of their life. It is the bond of an unmatched love. Although the biological mom is not actually carrying the rainbow but still the feeling of having a baby is so relieving. Surrogacy also establishes a close linkage between the surrogate and the IPs. It is an unmatched bonding of thankfulness and contentment. The desperate parents felt as if life has come to an end for them. I hope sharing the stories of the success will be an inspiration for the couples seeking happiness. This will encourage them to come out of the curse and look towards a better and brighter world.
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Hi Kelly! I hope you are well. Welcome to the forum. You are right, this forum is a great place to discuss your problems. People here have experienced a lot of things. So no matter what you are going through, people will be able to help you out. Infertility is the worst disease out there. The power of giving birth to your own baby is taken away from you. That is what every girl dreams of since childhood. And when she grows up, she has to face so much trouble because of infertility. You are right, making the wrong choice of choosing a clinic can ruin everything for you. I traveled abroad for my treatment but it was worth it. Good luck. Stay strong. TakeCare. Byeeee!
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Hi Kelly! How are you? The people who are able to make it work are so lucky. Only people who are infertile know how hard it is to conceive a baby. It takes a lot of strength and patience to make it through. Most people give up during this journey. Because they can't find the right treatment or the clinic to make it work. That's why research is important. If you do research, you will know about everything. Then making it work won't be that hard for you. Like the clinic, I found made everything easier for me. So I am sure it will help you too. Good luck. See you. Take good care of yourself. Bye!
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Hi Kelly! I am doing great. How are you? This is the best platform to ask for help. People here have been through a lot. They will easily help you out with whatever you dealing with. So you are confused between Surrogacy and Adoption. Trust me, Surrogacy is a much better option. Through that, you can even conceive a biological child. I used my own eggs in the treatment and it worked. Now the baby I have has my DNA. You should visit the clinic I opted for. It's the best one out there. It will help you out for sure. Good luck. Stay strong love. Love you. Goodbye!
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Hi Kelly! How are you? I hope you are doing well. Every woman dreams of becoming a mother since childhood. But that dream is broken when the doctors tell you that you are infertile. But nowadays dealing with that is quite easy. There are a lot of good treatments out there through which you can conceive. You should visit the clinic where I had my treatment. It's the best one out there. There's no other clinic that can do this job better than them. I hope this helps you. Good luck. Stay blessed. Take care. Bye!
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Hi Kelly! How are you? Surrogacy is not just a great option, it's the best option. But to make it work for you, you will need to find a good clinic. It took me a long time to find a clinic that can make it work for me. But when i did, everything was just so easy for me. I had to do nothing, everything was provided to me by that clinic. They took great care of me. So if you are searching for a clinic, that one is a great option for you. I will share the details with you. It's also very affordable. Good luck. My blessings are with you. Goodbye!
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Hi Kelly! I hope you are doing well. When I started my journey, there was no one who could tell me what's right and what's wrong. I was trying for so many years but I couldn't find a way to make it work. But then I joined this forum. I met some people here and they told me about that clinic. So I registered myself there for treatment, and that's when everything started to change for me. That clinic was the one that made it work for me. I was not even 1% percent hopeful that it will work. But that clinic is just amazing. You should try that clinic. Good luck. Stay blessed. Take care. Bye!
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Hi Kelly! Surrogacy is a great option. I agree with you. It was the only treatment that could make it work for me. Thanks to Surrogacy, I am now a mother of three beautiful children. It was all possible because of that clinic abroad. I went there thrice for treatment and it worked out for me every time. I had 3 treatments in 3 years. I just didn't waste any more time waiting. I wanted to complete my family so i thought why not just do it in 3 years. Check that clinic out, it has the most success rate and also the most affordable packages. I am sure they will help you out. God bless you. Best of luck. Look after yourself. Goodbye!
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Hi, you made the right choice! Surrogacy is the only option for many infertile couples to become parents. Surrogate motherhood and adoption are two completely different things. In the case of surrogacy, you can have a biologically native child. In the case of adoption, as you understand, this is impossible. Even if you need to use donor eggs, this child will still be only yours. While the adopted baby besides you will have a real mother.

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