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Surrogacy Experience
Many people are talking about surrogacy here. I thought i should also share my experience with surrogacy with you people here. I am from Japan and was happily married. I had hysterectomy cancer from early stage. I went for the treatment and i was cancer free. But this resulted in lifetime infertility. First 6 years of our marriage passed on happily roaming around the world. After 6 years we both felt the need of our children. But we both knew that i am infertile. So my husband decided that we will go through surrogacy to have a baby. Japan has banned the surrogacy. My husband contacted a number of clinics from around the globe. Than we moved to Europe. In Europe we stayed for 4 months. But we didn't found a satisfying clinic. After 4 months we moved to Ukraine. There are many clinics regarding surrogacy. We picked a good clinic. The clinic started our process soon and all things went well. The clinic found a good surrogate for us. Now the surrogate is pregnant with our twin daughters. The clinic and the surrogate made our dream come true of having a baby. If someone is looking for some good clinics for surrogacy. You should surely go to Ukraine for it.
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Well's good for you just try not to lift some heavy weight. It's going to disturb you. Otherwise just consult your doctor for better advice. Everyone could help you with this. Just try to take fresh and healthy diet as well. You'll never get the problem if your diet is good. Try to take morning walk too and juices in breakfast. Don't use any supplements during exercise. supplements are not good for anything. Otherwise, everything is alright. Be happy and try what you have to try. You'll get success.
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Hey Ayu, Hope you are doing good. I am really very happy for you. Surrogacy is a blessing. It is like a light in a dark tunnel. It is the one that makes the dream come true. surrogates are really remarkable women. They are doing a great job. Heartiest congrats on your twins. Lots of love to both princesses.
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I am really delighted to read this. Surrogacy helped you as well. I am so in favor of this procedure. I dont know why people think it is unethical. They think it should be banned. I beg to differ. We have seen with our eyes. The number of families surrogacy has helped. It is just incredible. Now, can you help me with a good clinic too? My best friend needs to know. He is Gay. He is looking for surrogacy clinics. He left a message to Lotus. He got a reply that they dont cater to gay couples. So now he is back to square one.
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Oh, well, I'm glad you finally found a way. It happens that way. I've had a friend who had her baby at biotexcom, it's a center in Kiev. So, yeah! Pretty relable. I've heard that Ukraine receive thousands of couples every year for surrogacy. It's pretty popular in Europe. So, yeah! Anyway! I hope it goes well for you. Go for it! Totally, worth it. Stay strong! :)
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Hey, I hope you are doing good. Did you move all the way from Japan? Are you not even allowed to take the child back after the surrogacy process? The area I live in surrogacy is not banned however, it was still very important for us to make sure that the clinic provides us with the child's documents. Therefore, when I researched on the options I was able to find a clinic which was providing the documents. When you opt for surrogacy there are so many things you should be ensuring you are doing right. Ayu mentioned that she moved from Japan thus you have to make sure that the procedure is being done legally in your region. In Japan and various other countries, the procedure is illegal. Secondly always do see how efficient the clinic is. There are a lot of clinics in Ukraine so you have to make sure the one you visit is reliable. I remember when I decided to opt for the process I emailed 3 clinics out of which the one in Kiev only replied on time. So it really matters how the clinics are treating you as well. I hope the pregnancy goes smoothly for you Ayu. Best of luck! Do keep us posted.
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Wow I am so happy for you. Thanks for sharing such a great experience. The best thing is that you never lose hope. That's the best thing. You never give up. Most of the people surrender on such journey. You have shared such a beautiful experience. But I have read many bad reviews also. There is a clinic named Adonis in Ukraine. They are not good at dealing with surrogacy. I have very bad experience there. Please be careful while choosing a clinic. Then I visited a good clinic in Ukraine. They are best in dealing with surrogacy. Congratulations and very good luck to you.
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Wow! I’m so much pleasure for you. Thank you so much for sharing your experience. The best thing about you is you never lost the heart. It also inspired me so much. Hope is the key to fight with any kind of circumstances. Most of the infertile individuals give up after having two or three unsuccessful tries. But according to your experience, everything is possible. All you need is a continuous struggle and everlasting hope. One of my friends recently had unsuccessful IVF experience. There was no one to guide her properly. So, she made up her mind for IVF instead of surrogacy. She had a successful pregnancy period of time. But she miscarried in the 10th week of pregnancy. Well, I think your experience will help her to get out of such conditions. Thanks again for sharing your story with us. Keep us updated for future!
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I hope everything is good at your end. I am so sorry to hear about your infertility. At the same time, I am so happy to see that you made a right decision in your life. Surrogacy is a wonderful experience. It has helped fulfil the dream of so many infertile couples. My sister has been through the same. She is a victim of infertility. She was diagnosed with PCOS after three years of marriage. She could not conceive naturally. The doctors advised her for surrogacy. She had her surrogacy from Ukraine. It was a wonderful experience for her. She is now a mother of two twin daughters. Everyone battling this should definitely give surrogacy a try. Sending baby dust to all.
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hello dear. how are you now? I'm so happy to hear this. just wanted to let you know. I'm here for you. keep me updated. this is amazing. may the rest of the journey come to a happy end. so proud of you mommy to be. you did not lose hope. you are getting your fruitful result. which clinic did you go to? I 've read a lot about Ukraine clinics. do let me know the details. did you think of the babies names? I cat wait to hear more updates from you. lots of love. more strength to you women.
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Hi Dear. How are you doing? I hope its all great. I am really sorry to hear about infertility. I know it must have been hard. I have been through it too. I know surrogacy is a hard choice. I wish everyone good luck going for it. Thanks for sharing your experience. I went to Ukraine to have my surrogacy a year ago. The best choice I ever made. Surrogacy is really a blessing. I hope more people learn about it. Take care. love and support.
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I feel really good after reading your post. We need this type of more posts here so that people can be inspired and don't let their hopes die. I'm sorry about your infertility. You've been through a lot and finally, you're cancer-free. That's a great achievement, I must say. Moreover, I'm glad you chose surrogacy. It is the best solution to infertility. Couples around the world are being benefitted by it and this really makes them happy. I agree with you that Ukraine has the most satisfying fertility treatments. One should surely pass the word so that it's easier for people to decide. As people get very confused as to which clinic to go for. The money is fancy so everyone wants to make it worth the try. I wish your daughters be adorable as anything! You must be so excited. I wish you luck and happiness!
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Hey there, hope you are doing well. I am glad you found a way. congratulations for the twins. I am also an infertile. My husband and i decided to go for surrogacy. We decided to contact Adonis clinic for the surrogacy. We contacted them many times via email to know about the packages details and process but they did not reply us back. Can you please tell us the name of your clinic?
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Congratulations on getting the rainbow. It is really great. Something the IPs are really thankful to is the science. If Science had not done all this it would have become difficult to come out of the misery. Surrogacy is a fulfilling experience. Any one thinking of going for surrogacy needs to be little careful. The pre surrogacy procedures are also integral to the successful surrogacy. It includes legal documentation. Choosing the right clinic is also detrimental. If you are in safe hands the procedure will be successful too. The clinic will also help in choosing the right surrogate.The selflessness of the surrogate gives happiness to the devastated. The role of the surrogate is really admirable. Surrogacy for an IP is not merely a procedure, it is a revolution. it is a smil. it is the first drop of rain after scorching days.
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It is great to hear that you found your happiness. Finding out about infertility is a tough thing. I wish people did not have to go through it. However, it's a relief that there exist alternatives to it. IVF and surrogacy are great outcomes of science. I've heard a lot about the clinics in Ukraine. I'm happy you found a good one. Do keep us updated. Wishing you a healthy baby and blessed life ahead!
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Hi. How are you doing? Congratulations on a successful experience. Thanks for sharing it with us. Ukraine is very famous for surrogacy. There’s a very good clinic there that has made this possible for people at a very affordable price. Your experience will help others too. Thanks for this.
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Hey girl, I hope you are doing fine. You are such a great girl. you are so courageous that you have struggled and faced alot. I am so happy for you. I hope you will be a mother soon. I know it wasn't easy for you. But Now you are going to be a mother soon. I have faced infertility for 10 years. I had unexplained infertility. I was not sure where I should go for treatment. I decided to go for surrogacy. I went to a clinic in Europe. The Clinic provided me with a healthy surrogate. I am happy that I took a right decision. I have a baby now. I have no more worries.
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I hope you are fine. You are such an incredible girl. You are so brave that you have faced all this. I am so cheerful for you. I trust you will be a mother soon. I know it was difficult for you. Now you will be a mother soon. My friend has confronted infertility for a long time. She had unexplained barrenness. It took her 7 years. She also tried IUI and IVF but all of them failed. So They decided to go for surrogacy. They searched a clinic in Europe. It was an affordable clinic. The Clinic furnished her with a sound surrogate. I am cheerful that She took a correct choice. She has an infant now. She has no more stresses.
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Hello dear! Thanks for sharing your successive story of surrogacy here on this forum. I am happy for you that you had fulfilled of your wish of being a mother. Every married lady has a wish of being a mother. Like the fertile couple, every infertile couple must deserve to have children. Surrogacy is a blessing in disguise for those who cannot able to have children naturally. I am also a mother of a surrogate son. I too went for my surrogacy to Ukraine. Surrogacy makes my dream of being a mother true. Best wishes. Stay blessed
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That's another beautiful story I come across with. This is beautiful. Congratulations. How are your babies now, Lots of love to them. I am glad that more people are looking into this treatment and getting their wishes fulfilled. I love hearing all such great news. You guys are great. Thank you for existing. You made us believe that there is much good remain in this world. You are real heroes. That never stop their struggle anyhow. I just wish that many infertile women would take this post as encouragement for them and would surely look up to this amazing procedure. Love.
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hello, how are you? hope you are fine? I am glad that you chose surrogacy. you are a strong woman. you fought with cancer and then you chose surrogacy, wow. you are an example for others. Thank you for sharing your experience. many women will definitely get support from your story. I stand with surrogacy. Surrogacy is like the light in dark for infertile couples. Yes, you are right Ukraine has best clinics for surrogacy. Ukraine has also economical clinics. More power to you for sharing your story. Women hesitate to choose surrogacy. your story will encourage them. Best wishes to you. Don't worry everything will be alright.
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Hi. I have a friend you recently went to a clinic in Ukraine known as the BioTexCom. Through her did i find out that surrogacy is a very expensive , but reliable way to have a baby. They had been trying for years but failed to get pregnant. Now they have a beautiful baby girl through the guidance and help of a trustworthy clinic. Surrogacy is the best option to opt for if anyone is infertile or having issues in their pregnancy. But do consult your doctor before taking any steps.
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Hi There. How are you doing? Hope you are doing fine. We are doing good. I read your post. I am so sorry that you had to go through such a time. Infertility is really an issue. Thank God we have options like Surrogacy and IVF. They make life easier for Infertile couples. Surrogacy is definitely a blessing. It is so good to see these success stories. I hope all families can be happy. Lots of love. Take care. God bless.
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Ayu, you are right that a very good clinic is what we need for surrogacy or another fertility treatment. I have been too few clinics before signing up for the clinic I am pursuing surrogacy with. Two of them I remember to be Adonis and Lotus. They were not the ones that could guarantee any success by the look of it and also the staff was very unprofessional. Later I found out that they are looting couples. Anyway, after a long research the clinic I ended up going to have found to be a very professional and guarantees health and success. Provoded that a patinet is follwing the doctor's advice. Oh, and I am glad that surrogacy was a success after a long struggle with TTC.
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Hey Ayu. Thanks a lot for sharing your experience. How are you doing though? I hope its all great. I am really sorry that you had to face infertility. I can understand how it must have felt. I know because I have been through it too. It was really devastating. However, finding a good clinic is always a challenge. I hope all the people out there do their research. I hope they don't fall for the trap. There are many spammers out there. I came across one named Lotus. I was searching for a friend. They do not reply at all. They like to waste peoples time. Please be careful. Good luck to everyone. take care and lots of love.
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Hi there. How are you doing? I hope you are doing fine. We are doing great. I read your post. Surrogacy is a really great way to have kids. It is a blessing in disguise for infertile couples. It helped me become a mother. Many couples are going for it. That is great. I hope more countries legalize it. That would be so great. Some people are still narrow-minded about it. I don't know why is that. I would suggest surrogacy to any couple who is struggling with TTC.
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Congratulations for a successful surrogacy attempt dear. You are quite lucky if you success in finding a good clinic.I myself am an infertile. I am 36 years old. I recently found about surrogacy and I wanted to go for it at the very moment. I also heard alot about this clinic. I contacted Adonis Ukraine via email. But got no response initially. I kept emailing them for 2 weeks. But still got no response. So I decided to call them. When I call them to get info, the staff members told me that they don't have time to share info. They said that they will give info only if I visit clinic. I explained them that I live in Ireland and cannot come immediately. But they were quite rude and told me to not waste their time. It really shattered me. I contacted them with hope but all they focus on is money I guess.
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Your post has made my day. Thank you so much for your sharing your experience. Well, it's great that you did not lose the heart. This motivated me too. Keep on trying dear and I'm sure you'll definitely get your desire soon. Infertility really takes a lot from a lady. Most of the aspirants give up in the mid of the journey. Well, you are the luckiest one as you got success. But I have also read some failures here. Some members have reported a clinic named Adonis due to its bad quality. According to their words, it seemed that the clinic is scamming people. There are offering tempting offers to the people. But when a customer reaches them, the whole scene is different. Due to their non-professional behavior, many people have lost the last hope. Well, heartiest congratulations to you on your success. Keep us updated!
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Hey there. How are you doing? I totally agree with you. I got my surrogacy done there too. The way they handled everything was so professional. The experience was very satisfying. I and my husband are really happy with our little girl. And that's all thanks to them.
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Hey, I am very happy for you. I am glad that surrogacy worked for you. Surrogacy is just doing wonders everywhere. Surrogacy is not giving happiness to opposite-sex but also to the same sex. And what to say about surrogates. Surrogate mothers are the just second name of sacrifice. They are like angels. I also got my daughter through surrogacy. I am thankful for it.
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Surrogacy is the blessing for many couples. Thanks for sharing such a wonderful experience with us. It was a great experience to hear your story. I am glad that your husband is supportive. With his support, you are able to overcome your problems. Congratulations in advance for your twins. I know how excited you will be. Europe is the best place where many people have found their happiness in the form of children. Other countries should also allow surrogacy. It gives happiness to many families. I wish every couple to have children in theirs. It makes their life complete. I am really happy for you. I hope everything goes well. Till then best of luck my dear Freind.
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Hey. Sad to hear about your infertility. It can be really depressing for a mother. However, you must stay strong. It needs a lot of strength and courage to fight from infertility. I am going from a hysterectomy and it came as a terrible news to me when I got to know that I cannot conceive naturally. One of my cousins suggested me to go for surrogacy. I have visited the clinic in Europe and the doctors were amazing. They helped me find a surrogate mother. They also told various reasons why I must opt for surrogacy. They convinced me well enough that I do not want to consider any other methods. I would recommend you to go for surrogacy as well. I hope it goes well for you because everyone deserves a complete family. You must believe in yourself and opt for this method. Share your experience, please. Good luck and take care
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Hey Ayu! How are you? Hope so you are doing good. I just read your post. I'm very pleased that you adopted surrogacy for baby. It's really a blessing for infertile couples. You are absolutely right. Ukraine is very popular for surrogacy. I heard a lot of success stories from the people. One of my friends also adopted surrogacy to have a baby in her life. She had some heart issues that were responsible for her infertility. She was not expecting this and remained so nervous after hearing the news of her infertility. Later she started looking for some alternate ways. She found surrogacy the best option. She went for it and now she has a baby. I hope everything will happen finely for you. It's a great step to fulfill wishes. My love and support to you
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Hi. Hope you are doing well. very sorry for you.do not lose hope. hope for the best. Infertility is a curse now a day. really very happy for you. Surrogacy is a blessing.it is a hope for the hopelessness of parents. surrogacy provides 100 percent result. They are doing a great job. very congratulations on your twins. Lots of love to them. As you have selected the best clinic. surrogacy can be a better option for the infertility parents. good luck to her as well. Good Decision.
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hey, there girl. how are you? hope you are doing well and good. your post reflects all your happiness. I am so glad to hear this. you inspire women out there. hoping you have a happy and healthy life ahead with your children. kudos.
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Wow, it's such a great post to see. Surrogacy is the blessing for an infertile couple. The best thing is that your husband is supportive. In this case, you're lucky. Most females don’t have luck like you. Surrogacy will be best if it is treated by a good clinic. There are many clinics like Adonis and Lotus in Ukraine. They are just deceiving people. So when you choose surrogacy then chose the best clinic for it. There is a good clinic in Europe. They are best in dealing with surrogacy. I wish you a very good luck for your surrogacy journey. You have taken a very right decision. It will be good for you. Remember difficulties in your journey makes your destination beautiful. Till then best of luck.
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Hey, thank you so much for sharing your experience. I am also infertile I tried surrogacy 2 years back from Europe I was hospitalized very well there with accommodations for free. I was in constant contact with the surrogate mother and now I have a pretty little baby girl named Susan. I hope you get what you always wanted. Good Luck!
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Hi There. How are you doing? Hope you are doing fine. We are doing good. I read your post. I think you should not worry about these numbers. You are on your own timeline. Things come different for every other person. I don't think to generalize this is a good thing. It may be discouraging for some people. You should not give up while TTC. It takes time. I hope all goes well for you. Take care. God bless.

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