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Surrogacy Experience
Many people are talking about surrogacy here. I thought i should also share my experience with surrogacy with you people here. I am from Japan and was happily married. I had hysterectomy cancer from early stage. I went for the treatment and i was cancer free. But this resulted in lifetime infertility. First 6 years of our marriage passed on happily roaming around the world. After 6 years we both felt the need of our children. But we both knew that i am infertile. So my husband decided that we will go through surrogacy to have a baby. Japan has banned the surrogacy. My husband contacted a number of clinics from around the globe. Than we moved to Europe. In Europe we stayed for 4 months. But we didn't found a satisfying clinic. After 4 months we moved to Ukraine. There are many clinics regarding surrogacy. We picked a good clinic. The clinic started our process soon and all things went well. The clinic found a good surrogate for us. Now the surrogate is pregnant with our twin daughters. The clinic and the surrogate made our dream come true of having a baby. If someone is looking for some good clinics for surrogacy. You should surely go to Ukraine for it.
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WOW! I'm happily motivated to hear your story! Glad it worked out for you. I've also heard of many cases of surrogacy. Even, in my own family last year my cousin sister had it. She has a beautiful baby now. So, anyway! Bless you, dear! Thanks for sharing it with everyone. xx
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Thank you so much for sharing your review here with us! It can really help a lot of women who can't have their own child. I'm personally going for it in Ukraine due to unaffordability here in the U.S. I agree with your many points here. you just wrote a pretty fact-oriented post! :)
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I am gathering info about surrogacy.You have direct experience with the clinic. Share our experience with me so i can learn something. I am also in the same condition. I can't get pregnant and i don't know the reason for it too. The doctors are also unable to find the reason for this. I have gone through extensive testings but the doctors are also unable to find the main cause for my infertility. They can't tell the main problem. I have been trying to conceive from last 10 years now. But still i didn't conceived. As doctors can't tell the main cause of my infertility i guess i will go for surrogacy now. I live in Bulgaria where surrogacy is prohibited. I heard there are many clinics for infertility treatment in Ukraine. I read about many clinics there from these forums. I have found BioTexCom clinic from Ukraine.People talk mostly about this clinic. I will contact this clinic and will consult them about my problem. Surrogacy is very popular there so i guess i will also have a baby from surrogacy.
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This is an inspiring story. What is the name of the clinic? How much did you pay? Did you face any issue? You are very satisfied with the clinic. That is very evident. But anything you would like to mention. That you did not like about it?
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Your journey makes me feel emotional. The desire to have children can take us very far. You shifted all the way from Japan for this procedure. I hope things go fine for you. Although I do have a question for you that although the process is banned in Japan will you be able to take the child with you or not? Also, I went to the same clinic for my process. I love the way they treat the patients and the clients. They are very well organized and systematic which makes everything so much easier. The fact they provide you with child's legal documents was one of the biggest reasons why it was a yes for me. Also, I was concerned about the surrogate because I had heard not so good stories about them. However, the clinic ensured that everything was safe and steady. They do a health test on the surrogate to make sure she and the baby would be safe. Overall my experience was amazing I wish I had also opted for the twin option. Anyways, we should be grateful for things we have. Good luck to you!
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hey there. how are you? hope you're fine. I feel sorry for your health issue. but congratulations you made a right choice finally. thank you for sharing this experience. it gave me motivation. there are many people who quite. sit and lose hope. but u aren't like that. you are very strong. keep it up. much health to you. best of luck. keep me updated further.
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Hey, thank you thanks for sharing your experience. I am glad it was a success for you. Congratulations! When a couple is diagnosed with infertility and the doors of hope close. It honestly, is the worst part, I still can't forget about failed IVF's and IUI's. However, luckily we still had the option of surrogacy as well. Through which now I have one beautiful kid. We don't realize how our lives can change with the presence of kids. For surrogacy, my message to all will be to be well informed about it. It is extremely important that you yourself know about the process. Since there is so much legal work involved your choice of the clinic also matters. Apart from that know that it is a lengthy process. It is done in steps so you will have to be patient. Best of luck to all those opting for it. Sending baby dust your way.
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Your story is simply beautiful! I'm glad that you have such an understanding husband. I wish you guys stay happy forever. Thank you so much for sharing your experience with us. This will surely motivate a lot of people that they shouldn't lose hope. Infertility is very common nowadays and so are its treatments. Assisted conceptions are very useful and helpful for people like you and me. We should be thankful for there invention. It's good that you had an amazing experience. Ukraine sure is the best place in order to have fertility treatments done. You must be very excited! You've waited so long for this. I hope you become a mother soon. Start thinking for names for your daughters! Much love.
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I congratulate you with such pleasant news! To have twins is double happiness! I'm very happy for you! Girls, thanks for the recommendations, my friends also went to biotexcom. I hope that soon they will be able to please me with great news. They flew there for surrogacy. Since the clinic has high ratings, I hope that they will have an excellent result. Can you imagine how wonderful it will be if they also have twins ?! I believe in it!
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Wowwwww what a great postI surrogacy can be successful .you have made my doubt clear .like I was in such a confusion .whether I should go for surrogacy or not . I have read many post majority post was about its failure .now will definitely get my treatment from a clinic in London. Thank you dear for sharing such an amazing journey of surrogacy.
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Hey Ayu. How are you doing? Hope so you are good. Well, my dear, I am so happy for you. People who never give up can never fail. One of my friends also had a baby through surrogacy. She also suffered a lot but she did not give up. And in the end, she blessed with a baby boy. Its all about will dear. Sending you lots of love.
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Well, See how great that is. I am really happy for you. Many congratulations on your success my friends. Always try to be happy. You suffered a lot. In the end, you see. Everything is great for you. What else do you need? It's already everything that you have. Don't be worry about anything now. May you surrogate have nice children for you. May you be happy with them always. I must say that your story is a great motivation for me. As I am trying it myself. I could easily say that now I have more satisfaction that something is about to come for me. Thanks a lot, dear. Best of luck
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Thank you for sharing your experience with us. I am also looking for surrogacy. I was not infertile but everytime i conceived i resulted in miscarriage. I conceived for 3 times and everytime resulted in miscarriage. Than at the age of 43. I am married again. I was thinking of surrogacy. While researching about surrogacy. I found BIoTexCom clinic in Ukraine. I researched about the clinic and found many good reviews about the clinic. I found a video from clinic channel about step by step procedure of surrogacy. I thought i should share this with other people who have some confusions regarding surrogacy. below is the video link for surrogacy explained in every aspect. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c6BiHLxzpH8&feature=youtu.be
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Hey. I am sorry that you went through this. It must be really tough. Going through cancer is not easy. I am so happy you beat cancer. Not many people can do that. I have heard about the clinics in Ukraine.My friends went there in search for surrogacy too. They found very amazing results. They had a baby boy. Having twins is a blessing of it's own. They are so adorable. I am glad you had this. Good luck with the babies. I am sure they will make you very happy. it is like having an empty space getting filled up. With happiness and joy. Take care.
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Hey Ayu. How are you doing? Well, I am feeling sorry for you. Indeed infertility the worst thing a woman can ever have. But I am glad that you did not give up. Well, science has developed so much in recent years. Thanks to the surrogacy clinics that it helped so many of us to change their life. One of my friends recently declared infertile by doctors. She was feeling very down in the beginning and lost all the hopes. But when I told her about surrogacy and IVF, she felt a bit better. They are now planning to go for IVF. This is such a magic. Well, best of luck to you and all.
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Hey. I hope you are fine. Surrogacy is like the last hope for those who are facing infertility. I am sad for all those who are suffering. I pray that there all wishes come true soon. I can feel there pain. I have faced infertility for few years just after my miscarriage. I was never able to conceive a baby. I was so sad and upset. It was not my fault but it was in fate. Surrogacy was the only option I had at that time. I have a baby through surrogacy. I went to a clinic in Europe. The clinic was renown for its surrogacy. It is an infertility clinic. I have a baby now.
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Hello. I trust you are fine. Surrogacy is the last option for the individuals who are confronting infertility. I am pitiful for those who are enduring. I supplicate that there all desires work out soon. I can feel there torment. I have confronted infertility for a couple of years for about 10 years. I was never able to give birth to a baby. I was so annoyed. It was not my blame but rather it was in destiny. Surrogacy was the main alternative I had around then. Because IVF failed for me. I have an infant through surrogacy. I went to a center in Europe. The clinic was fame for its surrogacy. I have an infant now.
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Hi, I hope you are doing fine. Thanks for sharing your story. I am happy for you. I really appreciate your decision of surrogacy. I am an infertile. We also chose surrogacy. We Consulted Bio TexCom for the surrogacy process. They did a wonderful job for us. For details visit http://mother-surrogate.info/
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Wow , what a great post. Such strong women. Such honest post . Infertility is the problem females are facing. They have suffered from a lot of rough time. Being infertile is a painful time. Females suffered from miscarriages also. Most of the females give up after a miscarriage. Some had such a positive attitude towards life. They never lose hope. That's the thing that inspires me. You believe in yourself. That's the best thing. As a result, you got what you desired. Congratulations on becoming a mom of little baby. I wish everyone a very good luck.
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It is such a cute thing. I don't find adequate words to congratulate you. You have endured a great deal of hard times. Facing infertility and then hopelessness made the life tough for you. It is really the high time of your life. Don't just think that it is merely a post from your side. It is an inspiration. It is bringing a message of hope for several couples. Those who are really confused about going for surrogacy will have a ray of hope ater reading your post. I know it must have a real bumpy journey on the road of parenthood. It must have been a real blend of hope, depair, disappointment and happiness. Initally like any IP you must have been scared. This is a really confusing time. An IP wants a ray of hope. You found your way. You acted on it. It is your strength that made it possible. It is a real wonder that has happened to your family life. The two rainbows are likely to replace all the miser in your life. I just want to stay that if you share more details it would be really greater. This would be a direct insight of the complete surrogacy procedure.I hope you get the best in your coming days. Happy family life.
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Hey dear. How are you doing? I hope it all good. I am really sorry to hear that you went through all that. I know it must have been hard. It's not easy. You moved from your county. Takes a lot of courage. I have a similar story. I had a hysterectomy too. Was left infertile. My husband took me to Ukraine. The best choice we ever made. I hope more people look into it. I am a glad mom of two boys now. good luck to all. Take care. love and support.
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"Hi Ayu, Hope you are doing well. I am sorry to hear about the difficulties you face. at the same time, I am for your success. Many congrats for Little two angels. surrogacy is a miracle As I say. Surrogacy makes the dream of many people true. No doubt, Ukraine is famous for infertility treatment. Lots of love and bundle of prayers."
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Hi Ayu! hope you are in good health. You are blessed to have such a cooperative husband. Never let go of that man. I am so happy for you. Everyone deserves to be a parent I am glad you got to be one too. I also have had a great surrogacy experience. I am also infertile. I live in Germany and had to go to Ukraine for my surrogacy procedure. I am now a mother of a baby girl. All the best to you take care.
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Well, how great this is. I am so glad to hear this. It's really great that you guys choose surrogacy. I hope everything is great now. It'll be great forever now. Just take good care of yourself. I hope you are alright.
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Yes it's great procedure. On the other hand it must kept in mind that it's not legal in different states of the world. In some states you are required to find surrogate mother first and then ask for permission. In US it's completely allowed. Bit expensive though. But it's a real invention by biologists. It's really a great natural miraculous process.
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Hey. How are you doing? Hope so you are doing good. Congrats to both of you. I read your post about week ago but posting my comment today. Because I am feeling very happy today. I convinced my husband for surrogacy. He was not agreed with me in beginning but I told him that I may not carry my own child. But biologically would belong to us. And every infertile couple is doing this. He was bit hesitated in beginning but later after when he read a number of post on this forum and discussed with doctors. He agreed with me. And soon we are going to settle down our dates. Thanks to you.
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Yes, you are right. It'll be alright. You should take good care of yourself. Ukraine has the high success rate. It's best for all of us. We should all suggest people to go there. Also, aware of people from some places.
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Ukranian clinics are really good. Some of them are really not well. People have bad reviews about it. My personal experience is with biotex. They'll help you. You should try it.
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Ayu. I can totally relate to you. And why wouldn't I? I've been there for a long, long time. Infertility isn't an easy pill to swallow. It sucked the life out of me. 10 years is a long time. And we did conceive. Only to have a miscarriage. I can't tell you how heartbreaking it was. But we went to Europe. I thought of trying my luck for the last time. And it worked for us. Surrogacy did the magic. And now we're proud parents of a beautiful baby girl.
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Hey Ayu, Congratulations girl. Finally your hardships payed off. I wish you and your family all the best. Stories like yours give me hope to keep trying. They motivate me to go on until I get my own baby.I am already trying to get in touch with some good clinic. Though Adonis clinic in Ukraiine disappointed me. They behaved in a very insulting way. So I am in search of some other good clinic, need your good wishes.
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Hi there, How are you? I have come to know about your surrogacy experience. Really I am very happy for you. I want to give you many congratulations. It's such a very pleasant moment for a mother when she becomes pregnant. I know you will be very happy. I will pray for you that you will get best always. I want to say to you thanks for sharing this experience with us. Good luck.
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Hello there, Hope you will be fine. First of all many thanks to you that you have shared your happiness and experience with us. Many many congratulations on your pregnancy. I am very glad for you. You have discussed the bad clinics. I know it is the very irritating situation. You are a very strong mind that you faced and stay positive. You decide best that to get treatment any other clinic. So you are sharing your best experience with us. I am very impressed. Thanks for sharing and good luck to you.
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Congratulations on the twins! I am sure this must be so exciting for you. The clinic you have mentioned is doing an amazing job. It is so nice to know that such clinics exist. They are always trying to help couples. There are soo many people who are currently struggling with TTC however the improvement in the field is such a relief. Just a few days ago I was reading about this. The clinic has now started a process called mitochondria donation. According to this the mitochondria of a donor is inserted into the persons' egg. This helps with the implantation. I was totally amazed by it. It is for those women who have low amh or have reached menopause. I was totally amazed by the process. I have been telling all my friends about it. I hope it is able to help women.
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That’s true a lot of couples choose Ukraine today. There can be plenty of reasons, cannot it? This country attracts with its growing market, its improved service supply. I heard much positive from those who visited clinics in Ukraine. My husband and I are now having a contract with of them, fertility clinics. We’ve been suggested to contact World center of baby in Kyiv. I guess that was a proper suggestion. It solved most issues and doubts vanished at once we met for negotiation. Please, do not hesitate to get acquainted with them worldcenterofbaby.com – or say something if you already know this agency. I personally got only good impressions from our visit. Our further treatment still brings only satisfactory emotions.
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Thank you for sharing your experience here. You have suffered through some really hard times for sure. I'm sure it will help people who are struggling with fertility right now. The clinic you went to sounds like a great one. I have seen so many good reviews about this place. People should definitely check this place out. It is so nice of you to post a review here.
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Thank you so much for posting this. It's really motivating. These kinds of posts are so important! I agree with most things you've said. I had the same experience. They're really good and I hope your procedure goes smoothly.! I'll post my success story soon, too!

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