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ameliachar's picture
Joined: 2018-07-30
Surrogacy advice
Hey there, how are you all? I hope you all are doing fine. This is a great forum to share problems. I would like to give advise to infertile couples. I was confused between adoption and surrogacy. I decided to go for surrogacy. My partner had to go for traditional surrogacy. We are waiting for the results.
AnnaJhon's picture
Joined: 2018-05-10
Hello Amelia, thanks for sharing your problem with us. This forum really help others. This forum also helped me. I am an infertile. I got scammed by two clinics in the name of treatment. I shared my problem here. Someone recommended Ukraine clinic to me. We hesitated at first. But after reading reviews about the Ukraine clinics we decided to give them a try. We visited the clinic. They welcomed us warmly. They even gave us tour of the clinic.After seeing this we decided to get infertility treatment. We made an appointment. Our surrogate got pregnant at first attempt. We are thankful to them for making our dream come true. I hope you will too soon hear the good news. Take care
Faithwatson's picture
Joined: 2018-08-06
Hey, best of luck! i hope things work out for you. Surrogacy is indeed a right choice. I am also soon going to start my gestational surrogacy. the clinic i am visiting for my surrogacy has hired a surrogate for us already. Few legal formalities are to be done before we start our procedure. So i am so excited and hopeful. The doctors here at this clinic does their best to make the procedure successful. so i am satisfied with the clinic.
Betsy020's picture
Joined: 2018-06-09
Hey Amelia! How are you doing? Infertility is a hard thing to face. Well, good to know that you are looking forward to an alternative. Surrogacy is a blessing indeed. I am also a mother because of a blessing of surrogacy. I had a hysterectomy owing to cancer spread. Due to which doctors told me that I wouldn't able to conceive. Then I opted for surrogacy and went to Europe. I went to Europe because surrogacy banned here in Japan. I found a professional clinic after making a real research struggle. I had made a contract and after a while my surrogate got pregnant. Now she is going to give birth to twins baby dolls soon. I hope you will be a mother soon. God bless you.
Eva Abram's picture
Joined: 2018-07-10
Hey, you made a right decision. I am completely in favor of surrogacy as well. As surrogacy has brought a colors to many people's lives. And nature of surrogacy is so satisfying. this procedure has higher success rate. And the best part is, it is safer like normal pregnancy. And i am 36 years old now. And i don't think i could have any safer option than surrogacy. We are soon flying to ukraine for our surrogacy. My spouse is more excited than me. I can feel his excitement. He has been suffering each and everything since 12 years with me. He stood next to me like a wall. He never left me alone. He always cheered me up. I am so lucky to have him. I am ready to do everything for him. I hope surrogacy works for us. I want to give my man all the happiness of the world. Our anniversary is upcoming. I hope i could gift him his own biological child on 14th anniversary. Do pray for us as well.
HanRichie's picture
Joined: 2018-03-10
Hey! I hope you're good. This is a really frequently asked question. A lot of doubt that people have when choosing between the two. I think you should go for surrogacy. I have experience with it too so I may be biased. However, you clearly are considering it. And my bet is it's becuase you want to feel biologically connected with your child. I say go for it. There are some great clinics in Ukraine that offer good treatment. And they're good on the pocket as well. You'd really find it to be a good experience. Good luck with it. Take care. Do share your experience!
Lisa Altman's picture
Joined: 2018-06-23
Hi, there. How are you? Welcome to the forum. You made a great decision. I had my baby via surrogacy too. It was a traditional surrogacy as well. We decided to go to Europe for it. There is a clinic where my friend had her surrogacy. They are absolutely amazing at what they do. And I'm saying this based on personal experience. The doctors were skillfully trained. The staff was very well-mannered and co-operative. They had taken care of sanitation as well. The conditions were very hygienic. Overall, we had a great experience.
Elena's picture
Joined: 2018-04-07
Thanks for sharing your experience with us. I am also TTC from 10 years. But there is no sign of its success. I went to many doctors for checkups. But doctors can't tell the reason behind my infertility. Now i am going to Ukraine for surrogacy. The clinic BioTexCom is very good. The clinic has many good reviews. So i am surely going for the clinic.
monika's picture
Joined: 2018-01-22
I am good, I hope so, are you. I hope the results come out to be positive. It would be really nice if you would in-depth talk about your experience. It always feels good to hear people talk about their surrogacy process because I am able to take help out of it. I recently came back from my first consultation meeting with the clinic. I am really satisfied with everything. My husband and I are convinced that we want to carry on with the procedure. Good luck to you, do keep us updated.
monika's picture
Joined: 2018-01-22
We also opted for the same process. How are things going for you? The process is very lengthy! It is very difficult to wait at times. I am waiting for the arrival of the final days so that I can finally hold the baby. However, I do understand that the process needs to be carried out very carefully. Therefore, I dont bother the clinic with my questions although they are very nice and understand how impatient I am. So things are going really well.
JuneSettle's picture
Joined: 2018-12-04
Hey there! I hope you are doing well. I m having surrogacy at this clinic abroad, things are going great for me. I m glad that I found this clinic really. This clinic is doing an exceptional job. Pray for me please, I m in the middle of my process, I just hope this time it works out for me.
AnnaJ's picture
Joined: 2018-01-20
Hey, Amelia, I hope you are well. Good luck to you on this journey. I am in the middle of the process. So far things are going really well. If you need any advice or help do let me know. Our surrogate is 5 months into the pregnancy. The clinic is really nice to send us the ultrasound pictures frequently. They really are making us the part of us the process.
Karencriss's picture
Joined: 2018-12-30
Hi Amelia! Go for surrogacy. It's a much better option. In adoption, the baby will never be yours totally. In surrogacy, the baby will be yours. I don't even know how people can leave their babies up for adoption. People like us struggle their whole life to conceive.
roomiray56's picture
Joined: 2018-02-20
Hi there, Amelia. I'm very well and I hope you're good too. You're right, mate. This is an amazing forum to discuss things. I agree with you on choosing surrogacy over adoption. My friend adopted her first child and she had her second child through a surrogacy procedure. Now when she knows that her second child is biologically related to her, she leans more towards her. This is just unfair to the first child. It's not my friend's fault either, this is something natural. This is why I also think surrogacy is better than adoption. At least you get a child who has your genes. I'm glad you guys went for surrogacy. I hope everything goes well at your side. Lots of love and prayers for you. All the best!
monika's picture
Joined: 2018-01-22
I am glad that things worked for you. It is honestly so nice to hear infertile couples finally being able to fight through infertility. Surrogacy has helped many. It is truly amazing! The clinic one visits really matters as well. Especially for surrogacy! Therefore, one should do their research. The clinic should be experienced. They should be operating at a high success rate. These little things matter a lot. Good luck to you. Sending baby dust your way. I hope things go smoothly for everyone. Do share your full experience.
MadisonA's picture
Joined: 2018-12-09
Hello, honey. I hope you're doing alright. I'm glad things worked out for you. This makes me so happy! Congratulations to you! You really deserve this happiness. I'm glad you shared it with us.
Cathy90's picture
Joined: 2018-12-06
I agree with your post. You're right about this. Surrogacy is a good option. There are plenty of other options, available, as well. I think it's better to visit the clinic, first. They can help you out in choosing, as they know better. Thank you for making this, though!
Elizabeth's picture
Joined: 2018-06-24
This is actually, super similar to my story. It was very tense, for me. I couldn't decide between adoption and surrogacy. But, after visiting this clinic, I made up my mind. It becomes an easy decision, once you visit them. Surrogacy is hands down a decent option, and they are hands down, a decent clinic!
Khloe81's picture
Joined: 2018-03-21
I had a really good experience with this clinic. I personally think surrogacy is one of the decent methods available. I don't get why so many people are against it? Technology is improving our way of life. The only thing constant in this world is change. We need to adapt. It's a great procedure, I'm glad you guys opted for it!
Rebeka's picture
Joined: 2019-11-18
Hopeful parents have many options when adding to their families, and many couples and individuals considering surrogacy also contemplate adoption. Surrogacy and adoption are both rewarding experiences that allow prospective parents to complete their families. However, while they share many similarities, there are also many differences to take into account when comparing adoption vs. surrogacy. Each has its own unique process, benefits and challenges, and it is up to each growing family to consider all of the factors as they decide which path to parenthood is right for them. Surrogacy and adoption both involve many services, professionals and fees, including program and agency fees, legal costs and medical expenses. In addition to these costs, most surrogates are compensated by intended parents for their time, energy and sacrifices they make throughout the pregnancy. While birth mothers can receive reasonable living expenses for costs like rent and groceries, it is illegal for them to financially benefit from adoption with additional compensation. The additional fees for surrogate compensation and the embryo transfer process can make surrogacy significantly more expensive than adoption.
Isabella09's picture
Joined: 2018-07-27
Hi. How are you doing? This is the most common problem people face here. I did too. I couldn't decide between surrogacy and adoption. I used to seek other people's advice. This woman once told me to think about it myself and see what I really want. That gave me something to think about. I realised I wanted to have a baby of my own. That had my genes. I could only get a baby like this through surrogacy. So I, too, chose surrogacy over adoption. Adoption is a great way to have kids. But going with something you really want isn't bad either. Luckily I found a great clinic and my procedure started in the blink of an eye. I have a son now.

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