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Surrogacy ?
Hey there, how are you all? I hope you all are doing fine. Since I have already had an appointment next week. I am still scared and nervous about surrogacy. I want to ask whether it is safe or not. It would be a great help from you guys. Thanks and pray for me.
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Hey, Amelia! How are you? I hope you are fine. Many women are going through these problems. Many people have had successful experiences at different clinics. Infertility is not hard to overcome. I know this. well, It is not about that we just forget about this. Please don't lose hope and you should go for the treatment. I really hope it all goes smoothly for you
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Hey, Amelia! I'm sorry that you are struggling with conceiving naturally. I have had these problems too for around 9 years. I had my first son when I was 28 and I couldn't conceive after that. My husband and I went to a clinic suggested by my colleague. The clinic is in Ukraine, named Biotexcom. I am sure you must have heard of it, as they are very popular for their treatments. As you have asked about surrogacy, I am registered with them and going to welcome my daughter in October. However, due to the political decisions and laws, they have decided to postpone signing surrogacy contracts for three months. However, if you are interested in IVF, IUI and other procedures you must attend their upcoming event. It will be held soon, and they will bring their team of consultants to guide their potential clients. They have a very responsive team so if you need further details you can check their website or email them at surrogacy@biotexcom.com
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Hey there! Amelia!. How are you ?. I'm sorry that you are struggling with conceiving naturally. I have had these problems too for around 9 years. I had my first son when I was 28 and I couldn't conceive after that. My husband and I went to a clinic suggested by my colleague. The clinic is in eastern Europe, I am sure you must have heard of it, as they are very popular for their treatments. As you have asked about surrogacy, I am registered with them and going to welcome my daughter in October. However, due to the political decisions and laws, they have decided to postpone signing surrogacy contracts for three months. However, if you are interested in IVF, IUI and other procedures you must attend their upcoming event. It will be held soon, and they will bring their team of consultants to guide their potential clients.
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Hey, Amelia! I'm sorry that you are struggling with conceiving naturally. I have had these problems too for around 9 years. I had my first son when I was 28 and I couldn't conceive after that. My husband and I went to a clinic suggested by my colleague. I am sure you must have heard of it, as they are very popular for their treatments. As you have asked about surrogacy, I am registered with them and going to welcome my daughter in October. However, due to the political decisions and laws, they have decided to postpone signing surrogacy contracts for three months. However, if you are interested in IVF, IUI and other procedures you must attend their upcoming event. It will be held soon, and they will bring their team of consultants to guide their potential clients.
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Amelia, hi! I hope things are good. It's been a while. I'm glad to see you're active, again. Surrogacy is such a good procedure. Actually, you're a bit unlucky. The best clinic in the world is not signing contracts for a while. Yeah, I know, it's a bummer. I was really shocked. Turns out there was some mix-up with the passing of the bills and the law. I was really surprised because Ukraine is such an amazing country for this. They are so open to surrogacy. But, they cleared their side, they said that, until the confusion isn't cleared, they won't be signing contracts. Which, I actually think is pretty awesome of them. They don't want to do something illegal. They are sure it will be cleared and they'll be back to signing contracts really soon!
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Hey! I hope you are fine. You look very scared. Don't be scared at all. Surrogacy is a miracle. Surrogacy is about as safe for the mother as a normal pregnancy is. To elaborate, all complications of a normal pregnancy can occur with the same frequency in a surrogate mother too. The child can also have all the same complications such as growth retardation, preterm birth and so on. There is no added risk to a pregnancy as compared to a normal pregnancy (with a surrogate). So, the good news is that a surrogacy is as safe as any low-risk pregnancy. Women who are not likely to have a low-risk pregnancy are not good candidates for surrogacy so most surrogacy agencies will not allow them to become a surrogate mother. Surrogacy is a life-changing procedure. Just stay calm and positive. Everything would be alright and you would have a child of your own. God bless you! My prayers are with you!
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Hey! You shouldn't be scared! Surrogacy truly is a gift. A great one at that. I can't imagine what emotions run through the surrogate's mind. How selfless of an act. It really leaves me in awe. I think this is a beautiful method to conceive. Be it infertility or same-sex couples that make you opt for this, it's a great answer. I think people opting for this turn out to be really happy. The assistive methods of conceiving have helped us all so much, But this one's by far my favorite. I think it really provides a certain result which makes it all the better. Anyone going through it would do really well to find a clinic in Europe IMO. There are just so many good clinics there and they're a lot more reasonable than those in America. Anyway. Best wishes to those going through it!
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Hello! I am so happy that you have chosen surrogacy. It is the best decision for sure. You won't regret it. Now that you have started your procedure, just take a very good care of your surrogate. This is very important. She needs that. As she is carrying your baby, you have to be very caring towards her. she chose to be your surrogate because she wants to give the most incredible gift to you and your partner. First and foremost, her health is essential to a successful surrogacy process. Be sure she eats healthy and nutritious foods, does exercise, and gets plenty of rest throughout the pregnancy. Dehydration is the leading cause of premature labor, so it is extra important during pregnancy to drink plenty of water. Throughout the pregnancy, she must be taking prenatal vitamins to ensure that you and the baby are receiving essential nutrients that promote healthy growth and development. And enjoy the experience. Hope your procedure goes well. Best of luck!
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Hey, don't be nervous and anxious. Things will get better soon. I know it hard for you to stay calm these days but believe me everything is going to be okay soon. I am also soon going to start my surrogacy at a clinic in ukraine. When i visited the clinic, i was anxious and nervous as well. But i got better with time. And the clinic contributed a lot in it. This clinic brought back my positivity back. My self-confidence and my hopes back. they are actually supporting me emotionally that i am getting better with time. this clinic has proven to be one of the best. The staff here is so humble and kind. the doctors are humble and supportive as well. and the best thing is they never hide anything from us. they have told each and everything clearly at our first visit. And this really impressed. This clinic is healing my wound caused by infertility. And i can never thank enough to them for this. I hope you get enough emotional support during your journey to make you feel better as well. My prayers and wishes are with you. Juts try to stay calm and positive.
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hey, Amelia hopes so you are doing great. First of all, keep calm. No need to be scared. You are so brave and you have decided something which is really a great process. You have made a good decision and I pray it works for you. Surrogacy is one of the safest processes which is gaining popularity. With this process, many infertile couples are able to have their own child. Just keep in mind that you should opt for the best clinic for your treatment. The clinics matter a lot. Wishing you good luck with your journey ahead. Take care and don't take the stress.
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Hey there. I am fine. I hope you are doing well as well. First off, congratulations on starting your journey. I am so happy for you. Now to the safety issue. I think surrogacy is as safe as any other infertility treatment. If you are going for it through a good clinic it will be even better. Even independent surrogates are really helpful and great. But I have heard stories which make it a bit difficult for me to trust independent surrogates. Having a proper contract and understanding the law can be very helpful. This would ensure each party understands everything about the journey. Do not fret about it. Write down all your concerns and discuss them with your doctor. I am sure they will be helpful and guide you through the process.
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Well, this seems like an amazing opportunity. Why are you fretting? Don't be scared at all. This will be the best experience of your life. Provided the clinic you have selected is good at dealing with patients. Surrogacy is ideal for infertile couples and same-sex couples. Specifically when they have issue carrying the child to term. I am sure you will not regret your decision. Just be sure you get all the information. Have a thorough meeting with the doctor or administrator. Make sure you understand everything. Discuss all your queries with them. Make a list of things to ask, as you might remember them then. Ask about the surrogate and her role in everything. The laws that govern surrogacy, is an important topic as well. Finally, best of luck.
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Very good luck with your appointment. My best wishes are with you for a successful meeting with the clinic. I was also very confused about my first appointment with the clinic. But the clinic I contacted was very supportive. They had the best staff. They helped us in every process. For the first three days, they told and showed about their process regarding this treatment of infertility. This helped us very much to make a final decision. And due to that decision, I have now twin daughters. My good wishes to you for your appointment.
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Nothing to be scared about! Stay strong! You'll be fine. I hope you become a mother soon. I'm also undergoing IVF this August, in Kyiv. So, I know how it's like in a long TTC journey. I'll do pray for you. Same, would I expect from you. Let us know the update, would love to root for you.
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Hi, honey. I hope you are alright. I'm just so glad you are considering it. It won't be a decision you regret. It will be amazing for you. It's a very safe procedure. The best thing is, you are not wasting your time. You are actually considering all your options. I think that's fantastic, to be fair. Just remember that you need to do your research before choosing the clinic. Good luck to you! You can do this, alright? I hope this helps you! My prayers are with you. Keep us updated on how it goes!
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Assisted conception can be a bit confusing, initially. But, trust me, it's a solid option. You'll find it amazing because it will help you conceive. As for surrogacy, I had treatment with this clinic. They really helped me out. They offer lots of methods. You can go for IVF or any of the other procedures. Or get a consultancy session with them, so you know, I'd suggest you go for it!

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