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Hi guys! There is a question that has been bothering me for a while. An issue of surrogate motherhood. I could not make my mind, as I always thought it is absolutely unnatural and cruel both to the natural mother and the surrogate. And a few days ago my best friend tells me she wants to carry a child as a surrogate mother. I was p*ssed! I started yelling at her, saying that this way of earning money is the worst I could ever imagine, and so on, and so forth. She remained calm, and when I calmed down too, she said that having a healthy body is a real treasure nowadays. It is her prerogative given her by God. So why not to help a loving couple to have their healthy baby making them happy? This is a normal job, as any other, she said. And I remained speechless. It is so true what she has said. Moreover, I have to respect her decision. Yet, it is still hard to believe. What do you think about the surrogacy? Is it good or b P.S. I am trying to conceive myself for a while without any luck so far. And it also makes to look at this situation from the different angle
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Hi Lilac, it is a very polemic topic, indeed. Specially for the surrogate mother and the emotional implications she might have while carrying the baby. It is a matter that worries me specially, as I'm going to have a baby through a surrogate mother. I really don't know how it is all the process... I wish someone who went through it could shed some light. About your friend.. I think there is nothing dishonest or shameful in being a surrogate mother...but as I said.. it is a complex matter.
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Thanks for your response! You know, I've read about the requirements the clinics have to the surrogate mothers, and they are quite strict. The potential surrogate must be healthy physically and mentally. Also, she must have own healthy kids, at least one. And - what was a surprise for me - must be an educated woman. It means that ladies really know what they are doing. And I think it is super generous of them to do it.
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Interesting data, Lilac_Girl. I didn't know that. I guess they have to be strict to guarantee the results and the acceptance of all the conditions. I think it is great it is well regulated and controlled. That way it is a win-win experience for everybody. I'm curious to know how surrogate mothers feel after giving birth.. I'd like to know
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Hello, everyone ............ I read all of your comments about this complex question and I just want to say that It's all about the person's thinking. How one can deal with the situation. some people choose it as an option of earning money, other's will not.........
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Hi Lilac, I appreciate that you asked for help when in doubt or trouble. Most people don't/. Despite their mental agitations. They would rather consume their energies in worrying. Or suppress their set of emotions only to die numb. (So good to be helpless, eh? ) As for your concerns about the friend. I would out it bluntly: You better give her her space. Really, nowadays, you can't make people make good decisions. Nobody asks for suggestions. The career and relationships. The job and friendships. You feel like something. You go out, and do it. That's the deal with most people. And they doesn't exclude those who are closest to you. So, watch-out there! If you want her friendship so much. What you can do is support her throughout. In every good/bad decision she makes. Say: I'm with you. And don't just say it. Mean it. By helping her in the journey. So, her latest fit is Surrogacy, right? You may check these channels https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg15WUWvvl_jWlq45hP0NXQ and try to help things from there. If you cannot make her revert decisions. Maybe you can do what's best with the decisions she makes. No need to thanks, please...
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hi, i am an infertile. i had no other choice but surrogacy. and im glad i had this option. it was such an emotional situation for me. but i dont know how could i ever thank the surrogate mother to give me such a cute boy. my son is 2 years old now. and i know money is not enough to think what she did for me. and if you want to try surrogacy then you should. it was the best option for me and i hope it goes good for you too.. :)
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Hey i know its tough to decide for surrogate mother. But believe me its not some thing you ashamed of. If you want a baby you have to deal according to this. I think many of clinics don't provide complete database and other options. But clinic in Ukraine for surrogacy provide complete information for surrogate mother. Just discuss with your doctor on daily basis. And hope for the best.
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No dear. If you could think about it more. You'll get to know that this is nothing like that. It takes allot of courage to be a surrogate for someone. It's really hard. Just please tell your friend that she is doing great. I think you should support her. Take care allot. Best of luck.
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Hi there. How are you? Please don't worry. I heard positive reviews about surrogacy in Ukraine. They take good care of surrogacy in Ukraine. My cousin had surrogacy from that clinic. She is highly impressed by them. They send ultrasound pictures every month to the parents. I think she should go for being a surogate mother. I have seen their youtube videos. They show and explained everything so well. I have also attended their webinars. They have good bedrooms for surrogate mothers. Attached bath room and kitchen area is included as well. Good luck. Take care.
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I am going for the surrogacy option as their is no other way to have a baby of my own. I consulted a clinic regarding surrogacy they provided me a positive feedback. So for now i have convinced mt husband to go for surrogacy and he is ready too. But i am worried about somethings also. But that doesn’t matter as we don’t have any other option left for us. Now they are looking for a good woman for our baby who can carry our baby in her womb for 9 months. They will find a good female with all clear tests so that we don’t have to face any issue later. I contacted a clinic for surrogacy method and they responded very well to my questions. I suggest you to go for this clinic and atleast you should contact them and share your problem with them so that they can propose a better solution for you. As they suggested surrogacy option for us. There are very good clinics regarding surrogacy as i’m sharing my experience with all of you. Positive feedback will be appreciated.
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Hi! I also had many complication regarding pregnancy during my first marriage regarding pregnancy. Now i am married for the second time and having a child from my own womb doesn’t seems to be easy keeping in mind the previous complications in my first marriage. So now i am going for the surrogacy option as their is no other way to have a baby of my own. And i have to go through very hard time like i conceived for three times. But miscarriage was in fate every time i conceived. I consulted a clinic regarding surrogacy they provided me a positive feedback. So for now i have convinced mt husband to go for surrogacy and he is ready too. But i am worried about somethings also. But that doesn’t matter as we don’t have any other option left for us. I contacted a clinic for surrogacy method and they responded very well to my questions. I suggest you to go for this clinic and at least you should contact them and share your problem with them so that they can propose a better solution for you. As they suggested surrogacy option for us. Now they are looking for a good woman for our baby who can carry our baby in her womb for 9 months. They will find a good female with all clear tests so that we don’t have to face any issue later. Some clinics are very good clinic regarding surrogacy as i’m sharing my experience with all of you. I find BioTexCom as a good surrogacy record and a positive review too. Maybe you can also have a look at it via mother-surrogate.info/ Positive feedback will be appreciated. Thanks
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Hi There. I hope everything is going great. I personally think surrogacy is a blessing from science. Its a great choice for parents who cant have a child. I wuld suggest it to everyone. I am a proud mother due to it. It's the best thing in my life. I hope this helps everyone.
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Hey, I respect your opinion. You might change it when you see the happiness on people's face after they get to know that they are going to have a child through it. It really doesn't matter how someone is getting a child when they have lived half their life being childless. Your friend is doing a great job. She is serving humanity in a way. She has been gifted with a perfect body. She is trying to help other people who aren't blessed with this gift. I think you should love her for this. you are lucky to have such a loving friend. Value this blessing. She might be able to help you out too. Be nice to her as she's doing a great job. I hope that my comment made some things clear to you. Hope that things get right between you two.
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Hey. Surrogacy is not bad at all. Most parents cannot conceive a baby naturally. So they have no more options left. Surrogacy is the only option left for them. This is an unnatural process but this is the only way to have your own genetic baby. A healthy baby is the only treasure for the parents. Not having a child is not easy. It is a long process to adopt a baby, So people prefer surrogacy. Surrogacy is still very misunderstood and for some reasons, people don't like it. People think that it is disgusting to carry someone baby inside. People don't do it only for money. Some do it to help the expecting parents. We have many Surrogacy clinics who take care of surrogate mother and these clinics are affordable. I think it is good to help others.
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Hey, I hope you're doing good. Your friend really made you see things from a different perspective. It is actually true that this treatment has helped so many couples who have been struggling with infertility for years. Surrogacy has always been a subject of controversy, however, once you yourself go through it you realize how beautiful the procedure is. It is like everyone is trying to help one another. When I visited the clinic for surrogacy they were so kind and considerate. It was as if they actually understood that I had been through a lot and needed a break. This for me is honestly new because previously the clinics I had visited didn't really understand my situation. Anyways, the next was the DE, it was amazing how we could choose any out of the database. Once that was done the surrogate was matched to us and she was amazing. I made a new friend through this treatment. The only thing she used to tell me is that she was just trying to help me. I had a special connection with her. She made me a mother and I am so grateful. Sending baby dust your way.
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Hello girls, my friends visited biotexcom recently. They also plan to start a program of surrogacy. They could not make a decision and choose this option for a long time. But, they had no other choice now. And time goes so quickly .... but they want to use their biological material. My friends are over 40 years old. My friend is 47 years old, and his wife is 41 years old. They had IVF attempts, but as you already understood, they were unsuccessful. For several years they thought they could live without children, only together. But, the last two years were just a nightmare for them. Their family almost collapsed, they began to understand that without their child their family was not full. They have less common interests over the past 2 years. And each of them was afraid to say in the rumor that he wants to have a child. Because, they were afraid of inflicting a spiritual wound on each other. But, my friend's parents, his mother, recommended that they turn to a psychologist for help. She did this in order to save their family. Because they are no longer young people and finding a new suitable couple after 40 years is already very difficult. His mother was afraid that they would remain alone. And so she began to act. The psychologist helped them identify their problem and talk openly. Then they decided that they needed to turn to surrogacy. They realized that this is their only chance, not only to find the happiness of motherhood, but also to save the family. I believe that they made the right decision. But then the most difficult and responsible period followed - the choice of the clinic. In fact, it is very difficult to choose a suitable clinic. Clinics of reproductive medicine are very large. But decent clinics are very small amount. And to find a clinic with high ratings and suitable, affordable prices is very difficult. But, they decided to go to Ukraine, as this clinic has a high performance indicator. Now my friends choose which package they will pay for. They want to choose the VIP package, it allows them to start the whole process faster. But, in the clinic they were offered a Standard package as well. It costs less, but they think that the VIP package for them is more suitable. Although, its cost is higher than that of the Standart package. Who was recently in this clinic and what package did you choose?
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Hey. How are you doing? Well, my friend, everyone has its own opinion. But as an infertile mother, I know how it feel like not having a baby. Your friend is just doing noble work. Helping others is the best thing a human can do. If you don't appreciate this it is your opinion. But at least don't disrespect her feeling. She is on right way. I really appreciate her.
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Over the last few years, the increased infertility rates has compelled the medical practitioners to look for some alternatives. Surrogacy emerged out of this effort. It has contributed a great deal in the lives of those who cannot have a child of their own. It just requires a surrogate and some legal documentation. It makes the life easier. Kudos to science and the happiness makers for gifting with this great gift.
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Why do you think so? You never know what beautiful souls are surrogates. And surrogacy is not just a procedure. Its been the women's need these days. To those women who have no other option to have a baby rather than surrogacy, You would never know the gift that surrogacy is been providing to infertile women over the years, Surrogates are no more than beautiful souls. They have their own families. And they just want to do that because they know the importance of baby in family life. They never want any family to suffer just because of this thing. I just wish each person got to respect this amazing procedure.
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Hey there! I hope you are doing fine. Infertility has become a common issue nowadays. A few years ago It is very tough to cope with infertility. But now due to innovation and because of surrogacy and IVF, it becomes easy to cope with infertility. I am also an infertile person. I had faced infertility for more than five years. I lost all my hope of being a mother. Then I came to about surrogacy. I went to Ukraine for my surrogacy because it is forbidden by law in my country. Finally, I had blessed with a baby boy. I am so happy because children are a gift. Surrogate has the main source of surrogacy procedure. We must appreciate and have great respect for surrogates. I suggest you that you should also opt surrogacy for yourself. Lots of love.
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"Hi there, Hope you are doing good. You have started an interesting topic. I think everyone will take interest in sharing views. It's Like a debate. Everyone Speak as her Opinion and thinking. So, Yes, I am in pro with surrogacy. Surrogacy is one of the miracles of science. Its a hope For many people. The process by which a couple may have a child. That otherwise they are unable to conceive. By this process, One will have their own biological child. Many countries have banned this. In my viewpoint, It must not be banned. It protects The infertile couples from strangers. Europe is well-known for this process. Some people are not able to bear high expenses. So In Europe, there are affordable clinics. I must say surrogacy is an angel.
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Hi there. How are you doing? I hope you are doing fine. We are doing good. I read your post. Wow, she is so brave. Hats off to her. Such an amazing decision. That is so nice of her. I wish we had more people like her. I think you should consider surrogacy too if you are infertile. I hope her journey is successful. I hope all goes well for her. Take care. God bless.
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Good to read your post. Surrogacy is such a blessing. I know how hard it is to know that you cannot conceive naturally. I have been through all this. I was hopeless and devastated when I came to know about my unexplained infertility. But surrogacy helped me. It was like a miracle. We flew to Ukraine for our surrogacy. We had a great time there. Our surrogate, Annie, was such an amazing person. She made everything so easy for us. Thank you so much for taking me back to those good days. Lots of love and luck to you. Stay happy and blessed. More power to you. Hope to see you around.
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Hi there. How are you doing? I hope you are doing fine. We are doing good. I read your post. Wow, she is so brave. Hats off to her. Such an amazing decision. That is so nice of her. I wish we had more people like her. I think you should consider surrogacy too if you are infertile. I hope her journey is successful. I hope all goes well for her. Take care. God bless.
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If she is doing it for money. Surely that is pathetic. If she wants to help someone. I don't think it could be a bad thing. It's a best gesture. If she is doing for the help purpose. If not then I don't think we should support her. Its really very bad thing to do for money. keep your vision clean.
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I also had many complication regarding pregnancy during my first marriage regarding pregnancy. Now i am married for the second time and having a child from my own womb doesn’t seems to be easy keeping in mind the previous complications in my first marriage. So now i am going for the surrogacy option as their is no other way to have a baby of my own. And i have to go through very hard time like i conceived for three times. But miscarriage was in fate every time i conceived. I consulted a clinic regarding surrogacy they provided me a positive feedback. So for now i have convinced mt husband to go for surrogacy and he is ready too. But i am worried about somethings also. But that doesn’t matter as we don’t have any other option left for us. I contacted a clinic for surrogacy method and they responded very well to my questions. I suggest you go to this clinic and at least you should contact them and share your problem with them.
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Hi. How are you doing? You just need to calm down a bit. Your friend is truly right on her part. Nowadays so many females are a victim of infertility. They cannot fulfill their dream. They cannot enjoy motherhood like all others. It is a gift to the barren families. It is a blessing that one can conceive without any hurdle. Your friend is lucky in this sense. This is so selfless of her. She wants to be a source of happiness for all other couples. I really appreciate her efforts. You need to understand her feelings. Change your perception, maybe. I hope you are getting me.
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Hello. I hope things are good at your end. You seem to have quite a negative impression of surrogacy. It is not like this. Your friend thinks in the other way. She is being quite selfless. She has got a kind heart. She thinks for others. All those who have a good and a healthy body must be helpful for others, This is a nice idea. Surrogacy is a source of happiness for all barren families. It is like a gift to them. You need to change your perception of it. Think about those who have been TTC for so long. They get no luck. This way is the only one of the ways to fulfill their dreams. I hope you understand this.
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Surrogacy is a very beautiful journey. It is a blessing for many people. You should respect those are in favour of surrogacy. I believe that it helps a lot of people. Being a surrogate is a great job. Not everyone is strong enough to be one. You should respect her decision. You should support her in this. If there was no such thing as surrogacy, millions of people would have been childless today. Isn't that so sad? Think about this for a second. You will realize the importance of surrogacy. I hope you understood my point. Read some information about it on the web. You'll understand its importance in a better way. Stay happy always.
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Surrogacy is a really nice journey. It is a blessing for many people. You should respect everyone who is going through this procedure. I believe that it helps a lot of people. Being a surrogate is a great job. Everyone does not have the courage to be a surrogate. You should respect her decision. You should cooperate with her in this matter. If there was no such thing as surrogacy, millions of people would have been childless today. Don't you think this is really sad? You need to give this a thought. You will realize the importance of surrogacy. I hope you understood my point. Try to find more stuff about it on the internet. Go through some videos. You'll understand its importance in a better way.
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Hi there. How are you doing? I hope you are doing fine. We are doing good. I read your post. I agree. A surrogate mother can develop an emotional connection with the child. It is totally normal. You can't blame them for it. It is a complex and weird situation to be in IMO. These things are usually discussed beforehand. Usually, contracts are signed. I hope all goes well for you. Take care. God bless.
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Hey dear. Your friend is a very nice person. You seemed to had a harsh look at surrogacy. I am glad that she changed your views too. Surrogacy is a blessing indeed. Being a surrogate mother is very difficult. You keep a child in your womb and give to intended parents. It's so difficult. I don't know how they get this courage. I appreciate her. She is a source of joy for others. Spreading happiness by sacrificing is not easy. I also hope you will become a mother soon. Sending baby dust to you. Good luck.
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Surrogacy is a beautiful journey. It has proved to be very beneficial for so many people. You should respect everyone who is going through this procedure. I believe that it has blessed many people with happiness and joy. Being a surrogate is a great job. Not everyone has a big heart to do this job. You should respect her decision. You should support her in her decision. If there was no such thing as surrogacy, millions of people would have been childless today. This would have ruined so many people's lives. You need to give this a thought. You will realize the importance of surrogacy. I hope my post would help you in understanding my point. Try to find more stuff about it on the internet. Go through some videos. You'll understand how necessary it in today's world.
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Hi i am anna mia, Hope you l doing good.I want to discuss my life experience with all of you. As i am adopted child and i was never treated good by my family.They always treated me so badly, beacuse of their behaviour i started taking pills which made me infertile.That was the most sadfull thing of my life.I tried almost 5 staright years but nothing worked for me. One day on internet i saw a ADONIC CLINIC related to my problem BUT whenever i called them i got no response , so bad experience. Thanks God one day my sister told me about sorrogacy. I live in ireland and search so many places in Europe because i cant go out of Europe because SCHENGEN visa is free all over the Europe. I discussed my story with my sister and she told me about Surrogacy, i was so happy after she told me so i visit the surrogacy clinic in Ukraine. In that clinic i had a baby through a Surrogacy. So guys nothing is impossible guys please never lose hope. everything is possible in life. so its a good thing. and thats great that you respect her decision glad to know. I had this treatment so thats why i discussed my issue with you. Thanks Goodluck!
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Hey, there dear. How are you doing? I hope its all great. I am really sorry to hear about your infertility. I know it must be hard. I have been through it too. I know it can burden you a lot. However please don't stress yourself. Talking about surrogacy it's really a blessing. I have had it too. There was no way to convince me. I wanted a child of my own. This is sometimes the only way. Surrogates are really selfless. Please ton about it. I wish you good luck take care.
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Surrogacy is a very beautiful journey. It is a blessing for many people. You should respect those are in favour of surrogacy. I believe that it helps a lot of people. Being a surrogate is a great job. Not everyone is strong enough to be one. You should respect her decision. You should support her in this. If there was no such thing as surrogacy, millions of people would have been childless today. Isn't that so sad? Think about this for a second. You will realize the importance of surrogacy. I hope you understood my point. Read some information about it on the web. You'll understand its importance in a better way. Good Luck!
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Hey there! I hope that you are doing well. well, thanks for making such an informative and encouraging post here. The fact that a person who is able to carry a child can go about helping those who have severe issues regarding conceiving. MY idea and suggestion for you are to definitely help those who are in need of having a baby. I have been also trying to conceive since past 7 years. MY story is also a little depressing that I did have my first ever pregnancy turn into a miscarriage. Ever since then I have been trying to conceive. So for me as well, my last and remaining options do come down to go for surrogacy and IVF. This is why I can relate to those women who are in dire need of someone who is willing to b their surrogate. Your doctor definitely has suggested you the right thing. If you are willing to then you should definitely go for being a surrogate. I wish you all the best in your decision.c
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Hey there! I hope that you are doing well. well, thanks for making such an informative and encouraging post here. The fact that a person who is able to carry a child can go about helping those who have severe issues regarding conceiving. MY idea and suggestion for you are to definitely help those who are in need of having a baby. I have been also trying to conceive since past 7 years. MY story is also a little depressing that I did have my first ever pregnancy turn into a miscarriage. Ever since then I have been trying to conceive. So for me as well, my last and remaining options do come down to go for surrogacy and IVF. This is why I can relate to those women who are in dire need of someone who is willing to b their surrogate. Your doctor definitely has suggested you the right thing. If you are willing to then you should definitely go for being a surrogate. I wish you all the best in your decision.
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Hey there Lilac. How are you doing? I hope its all good. I am really glad that you are finally understanding surrogacy. It's really a blessing. It has helped a lot of people. I have had it too. It is the hope of many people. I am really sorry for your infertility issue. However, please be strong. Definalty try surrogacy. I wish you good luck. I hope you get what you want. Good luck to all people going for surrogacy. Take care and lots of love.
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For what reason do individuals benefit surrogacy? Individuals benefit surrogacy due to following reasons:- ) Fruitlessness Deformity in Womb Single guardians Gay - Gay couple and Lesbian couple Ladies who would prefer not to experience pregnancy because of various medical problems, who are focussed on their career(models)
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Your first decision was good. You should just take good care of yourself. Just respect her decision. You'll be alright. It would be great for you. Don't worry. Everything will be alright. Just be calm. Stay positive.
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Well, this is just great. These people really amaze me. Well, Thanks a lot, dear. I hope everything is going to be great with you. We should never worry about it. Thanks for sharing.
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Hi. How are you? Hope you are fine. In this cruel world on one thinks to be a source of happiness for others. Surrogate mothers are the only source of happiness for infertile couples. It is very difficult to carry a baby in the womb for nine months. then give it to anyone else. This is very difficult time. It needs more courage. It needs a big heart. Yes, you are right. everyone thinks the same about surrogacy. Surrogacy is a blessing. It is the last hope for many infertile couples. Your friend is doing a really amazing job. She will be happier in her life. As she is the source of happiness for infertile couples. Good wishes to all.
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Hi there. How are you doing? I hope you are doing fine. We are doing good. I read your post. Wow, she is so brave. Hats off to her. Such an amazing decision. That is so nice of her. I wish we had more people like her. I think you should consider surrogacy too if you are infertile. I hope her journey is successful. I hope all goes well for her. Take care. God bless.
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Hi dear, hope you are doing good. I know it must be hard for someone to give some other person a child you are giving birth. But if you think of couples who can't have a child of their own. There are some people who want to have a child in their own way. This is the only option left for them. I know this must be hard. Just think calmly. See both sides of the story than you will realize. I hope you change your mind. Thanks for asking. This means a lot.
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Hi there. How are you doing? Hope you are doing fine. We are doing good. I read your post. Surrogacy is really a blessing. It is amazing for infertile couples. There is a clinic in Kiev, Ukraine called BioTex Com, they have a really low-cost plan for it. I think you should visit them. They are also having an opening event in London on 18-19 August. I think they would be right for your needs. They handled my surrogacy program perfectly. Those guys are really amazing. I hope all goes well for you. Take care. God bless.
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Hello! How are you? Oh it's ok that you went out on her. Many people who don't eed surrogacy think like that. It is not easy to practice empathy. So don't blame yourself. Stay calm. I'm glad that your friend wants to be a surrogate. You should admire her. Will you be able to do it? No matter what the offered amount is. I don't think I'll be able to do it. That's why I respect surrogates so much. We had a child via surrogacy at Ukraine. It was awesome. I respect my surrogate a lot.
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Hello dear! I hope you are doing fine. I am totally in favor of surrogacy. It is a miracle. It proved to be a big blessing for me. I was infertile. I struggled for 4 years. But did not succeed. I was shattered. I was broke. I wanted a solution. I went to a friend's. As we got to talking, she told me about surrogacy. I was amazed. What a awonderous thing it is? It is like something that was made for me. I was told about a clinic by that friend. A searched a little about it. I found that clinic very good. We went there. And everything from that onwards was awesome. I am so thankful for everything.
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Hi Lilac, Im sure you are well. Lilac it's really nice that you are concerned about such an important issue. Surrogacy is a topmost controversial issue in some part of the world. I think people don't get the concept at all. I believe that surrogacy is very beautiful to give infertile people their baby. And surrogate mothers do that with their own consent. And the success rate is going high as well. Surrogate mothers are well compensated in good clinics. I myself underwent Surrogacy when i was diagnosed with infertility. And i was very impressed with how they treated the surrogate mother. They cared about her help, And provide her all the medical assistance. I think you need to visit a good clinic to get guidance. After all, you are infertile as well sadly. There's a clinic i visited in Ukraine which i went to have my surrogacy. They guided me well in our meeting and cleared all my confusions. Would recommend you to visit them.
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Hello, How are you? You see you have a very loving friend. It is good to know that she is healthy. Health matters in surrogacy. I am trying to conceive. I heard a lot about surrogacy hence I got ready to go for it. I want a baby too. I even moved to Europe for a good clinic. I emailed about my case to the lotus clinic. They are not replying to my emails. I have so many doubts now. Secondly, they are asking about my tests. Although I have my reports. Why are they delaying me? I feel like I don't matter to them at all. What should I do? Wait for some more time? Or go somewhere else for my treatment.

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