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Hi, everyone. I'm just making this post because I'm a bit stressed. I've kept my mind off all this. However, even then, sometimes, it just gets to you, doesn't it? I've had a hard time because nothing seems to be happening. I'm also a bit impatient, maybe that's why. I got a BFN, today. It was my second test. It's been a week, since the procedure took place. It doesn't look like I'll be successful on this attempt. I don't know why this is happening? Everything was going so smoothly up until this point. I don't even feel pregnant, to be honest. Can't say I've felt any symptoms, just a bit nauseous, but it could be anything else. I don't feel comfortable in other countries, either way! Just a bit stressed, any advice?
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Honey, it's totally normal! Don't stress too much! I know, it's easier said than done. It's fine to feel this way, you know. These things are quite normal. Everyone goes through it. The two-week wait is supposed to be stressful. I know, the days feel like weeks and weeks feel like months! It'll pass, though, don't worry! Plus, I think you're worrying without any reason. It's only been seven days, hun. You've got quite a decent chance of conceiving even now! Don't lose hope, please! It could still be nausea, who knows? Nausea is a pretty big symptom! Keep the faith, and test again in a couple of days. Please keep us posted. I'm so excited for you!
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Hey Mindy, don't be so hard on yourself. Sometimes it takes time to show on the stick. You have to be a little patient. I can totally understand that this 2-week wait is stressful but you still have to stay calm. Try to keep yourself busy. Test again on the last date and hope for the best. Don't lose hope I am sure things will be okay. It isn't necessary that everyone has the same necessary.
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Try to keep yourself calm. Waiting can be really frustrating, I know. However, you can always do things which keep your mind off it. That's the best way of dealing with the TWW. Good luck to you, though. I really hope it works out! Keep us updated, if you can!
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Thank you for the support, guys! It feels really nice to have this kind of virtual family. I'm doing much better, now. I tested once, since the post. It didn't show, but I have decided not to think about it too much. I will test again in a couple of days. Hopefully, I get the BFP! Keep me in your prayers!
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Don't take the stress. Try to be normal and keep calm. If you don't feel any symptom of pregnancy then don't be stressed. This will happen don't lose your hope. Keep on trying and you'll have a positive result one day. Taking stress will not give you any relief instead it will affect your mental health. Advice is to remain calm and wait for a good time to have a positive result.

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