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Question Surrogacy.
I have a general question regarding surrogacy. Like when we'll have a baby from a surrogate mom who will hold the baby for the first time. Us or the surrogate mom. Its very hard to give birth to a baby.I know the pain of delivering a baby. These type of several questions strike my mind many times. I guess surrogacy is the only solution to my problem. A friend has now suggested me to search for some international clinics that do not reside in our country. You should also visit a surrogacy related clinic. I have recently found one situated in Ukraine. They have quite a costless package with all the facilities. I have had many treatments from many experts but they never turn out to work out for me the way I hope them to. I have tried IUI and IVF but they failed for me many many times. People have now told me about surrogacy and I am really thinking about going for it. I just need some guidelines as surrogacy is illegal in the state where I live and I am very scared. I just need to complete my life and my family before it is too late for me even to try. I think you should give it a try too because in my view it is quite a suitable procedure for women of our age I have pregnancy issue and complications from the past 10 years and I still am childless as I have always been. There must be some way to carry out everything legally, right? It is very difficult at times to handle the loneliness and the depression but there are always friends and family to make me feel better. One thing that I am very thankful for is that I never lose hope.
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Hey, Sofia surrogacy is a highly successful procedure. A lot of infertile couples are now opting for the process. It is mainly due to the guarantee that they will have a child. For surrogacy, you have to be well-researched on the topic. Make sure that everything is being done legally in the clinic you plan to visit. The clinic should have a high success rate with the process as well. The clinic I opted for is located in Ukraine. The major reason for opting for them was their level of experience and the success rate.
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Hey there, Sofia! I feel very sorry for you, dear. You're so upset and so desperate for a baby now. You deserve every happiness of the world, dear. I'm glad you've chosen surrogacy. It merely is a blessing and a perfect solution for you. You'll surely become a mother soon. I know you're really anxious. But don't worry, everything will be alright. For your question, I'd like to tell you that you're going to be in the labor room with the surrogate at the time of giving birth. You'll be the first one to hold the baby in your arms. Also, the clinic you'll go to will handle all the legal matters and there won't be any complication regarding that. Just choose the clinic wisely. You've made the right decision and you won't regret it. All the best!
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Hi, How are you? Hope you are good? Infertility is very difficult to cope with. I was also infertile. I was struggling for six years. I lost every hope. It became a dream for me to hold my own baby. Then my husband told me about surrogacy. this was last option for us. we went for surrogacy. Now we have our own child. we are very happy. all my dreams came true. this was only possible due to surrogacy. I suggest you go for it. Best wishes to you.
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Hi Sofia! Hope you are in good health. Surrogacy is a beautiful process and you have nothing to worry about. I have also been through the surrogacy procedure so I know what it is like. If you are thinking of going for international clinics than I would recommend that you search for clinics in Ukraine since Ukraine is home to some of the best clinics. I sure hope it works out for you to like it worked out for me. All the best to you.
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Hey dears.I am also facing this problem because of heart disease.I am also against surrogacy but I am useless.I can not conceive naturally. That's a bad Luck for me.I am very depressed.Very hope less.
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Hey there Sofia. How are you doing? I hope its all great. I am really sorry to hear about your situation. I know how hard it is. I know because I have been through it. It's not an easy thing. Choosing to go for surrogacy is a great choice too. Talking about a good clinic. Have you ever heard about biotexcom? I had my surrogacy there. It's really a very professional place in Ukraine. The cost is very friendly with a lot of perks. They know how to talk to their client. I think you should search it and consult them. I wish you good luck take care. Lots of love and support.
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hello dear. how are you? I understand. reading all this. I know now. things can be had in life. you need to cope up with it. you can go for surrogacy. surrogate mom will be there to give your baby's birth. rest it will be all yours then. you should not worry about it. all the paperwork is done before. Ukraine has many good clinics. Biotexcom is one of them just try working hard. you can do it. ill pray for you. sending you baby dust. lots of love. take care.
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Hi Sofia, How are you? Hope you are enjoying good health. Surrogacy is a blessing. It is the best option for yo. Ukraine is famous because of surrogacy clinics. Please visit Ukraine for treatment. But beware of clinics like Adonis, they are scam. I tried to contact them via email but failed to get any response.
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Confusion happens due to unawareness. As you don't know about surrogacy, so you are confused. It is because you do not know about it. Such confusions are very genuine. Surrogacy is a process of the assisted reproduction. If any woman is not able to carry her baby naturally, she can seek the help of a surrogate mother. Instead of the biological mother, the surrogate carries the baby for her weak womb. If you are curious to know about the procedure, then some online sources can give you enough information. Videos sharing individual experiences are also there. Together you can get the basic knowledge about the surrogacy. If you are confused about the success and the failure rates, then be realistic. Natural processes are equally prone to failures. Surrogacy can fail in the similar manner. Something that can change the entire thought is the positivity and the realistic approach. Wishing you all the best for the future.
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Don't worry. I can understand this. Everyone wants a complete family. Who wants his family to be incomplete. Never take tension. There are several other methods that are available for you to do so. You should never worry about this. The thing is you want it legally. Still, it's an easy thing. You can contact some great clinics exists in Ukraine. They'll help you to carry out everything legally. They help you with your visa and everything. These places are doing great. Also, take care because some places are just for breaking human emotions. Just beware of them. Everything else is great.
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I think you never found a good place then. There are some places that just play with your emotions. It's not appropriate to go with these places. Just beware of that. Other than this. There are so many great places out there. That is going to help you a lot in every matter you require them. You should never take tension once you start with them. Just try Ukrainian clinics. They have such good success rates.
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Don't be so much frustrated. I can have an idea about your condition. Having children is the biggest desire of any couple. No one wants to be incomplete. Only a child can fulfill their dreams. Well, now you can fulfill your dreams. Science has suggested many fruitful solutions like surrogacy. Surrogacy has benefited so many infertile individuals. Although surrogacy pays off it thought to be controversial among different societies. In some parts of the world, it's banned. But there are also other suitable places like Europe for surrogacy. Clinics there are known well for it. Their success rates are very high. But some other scammers like Adonis and Lotus Clinic are taking advantage of it. These two clinics are looting people. So, I must say that you'd be careful about them!
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Never thought about such questions, honestly. I think I would want the surrogate to hold the baby. She carries the child for 9 months she should see it for the first time as well. I am visiting Ukraine for my process and everything here is being done legally. They even provide you with the child's birth certificate. I personally think that is amazing. for me the biggest relief was to find a clinic which was operating legally. If you have any specific queries feel free to ask.
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Hi Sofia. I am sorry for the tough journey you have had. Surrogacy is a wonderful procedure. Well it is illegal in many places. But, there are countries where it is legal, and they have all the necessary laws regarding it. You should look around for a good clinic. There are so many in Ukraine, who are helping out infertile couples to fulfill their dream. You should definitely go for it, before it is too late. Best of luck and wishes.
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Hey Sofia! Hope you are doing great. It is really sad to know that you have been TTC for 10 years. However, I am so glad you are still strong and have not given up. You must always believe in yourself like this. You have supports from forums and your friends and family. Keep yourself occupied always. I am suffering from infertility too. I had my first son after several IUI. I had lost all my hopes. However, one of my cousin who got her son from surrogacy suggested me a clinic in Europe. They offer surrogacy at a very reasonable price. After consulting with them I have found out surrogacy has higher chances of success as compared to other methods of conception. I am going to opt for surrogacy next. Let me know how your experience goes with surrogacy. My best wishes are with you!
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IVF chances of success are very low. Because most of the female is not able to conceive. Just because they are not healthy. In rare cases, IVF may be successful. So I will recommend going for surrogacy. There are many good clinics in Europe. They are best in dealing with surrogacy. Their treatments are less expensive. They are best in dealing with surrogacy. They will give many services carefree. So you must go there. If you opt for surrogacy. Surrogacy is the blessing for couples nowadays. It gives hope to many infertile couples. Till then a very good luck.
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It honestly depends on you. How you want things to go? They usually let the IP first hold the child and then the surrogate. However, I would prefer the other way round. I feel like the surrogate should see the child that grew in her womb. However, my surrogate is excited about us finally being able to conceive. I am really happy with our surrogate match. One of the many reasons why I liked the clinic. They properly matched the surrogate to us. She first had to meet certain criteria. Some of them were that she had to have her own children and she had to be a nonsmoker. In order to confirm that she wasn't suffering from any present or past illness, they did conduct a medical test on her. This was to ensure her and the child's safety. When we met her for the first time I was really nervous. However, things went great.
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Hello, Sofia. Hope you're okay. Yes, it's okay to have questions. Please don't lose hope. It's a new procedure. It's relatively new, so obviously there will be questions. I have no doubts you'll have success with it. My prayers are with you. Good luck and lots of love. You can do this, Sofia!
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Sorry to hear about this. I hope things work out for you soon. For me, it doesn't matter who holds the baby first. What matter to me would be the fact that I finally became a mother. So what if the surrogate holds the baby first? That's something that doesn't really make a difference to me. However, I can understand people having different opinions. Each to their own, I guess!

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