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Hello, forum visitors! I need some help. Well, let me share my story. I always wanted to become a mother and have a baby. My husband wants to have a baby too. But I can't have my own children. But I want to have a full family. It was very difficult, but my husband and I decided to turn to IVF. We have been looking for a clinic for a long time. And finally find one that we liked. We passed some tests. It took not so much time. The results were great, and the procedure was started. But it failed. Yeah, I lost my unborn baby. I can’t calm down even now. Of course, after some time, I became a bit stronger. We decided to continue and try once again. But it was a failure again. And I don’t understand why. The results of analysis were normal. But it is still unclear why the procedure was failed more than once. And now we just don't know what to do. Is there any sense to continue? Should we try one more time? Or it is time to give up on it? It seems that we lost all the hope. And you know, I almost don't believe in a success. My husband tries to support me. But I feel so bad. What do you think about it? What is the best way to choose in this situation?
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Hi, dear! I am really sorry to hear this story. You know, a lot of women has the same problem that you are. And actually, I one of them. Yeah, I completely know what you feel now. I also cannot get pregnant on my own. But I always wanted to have a baby. My husband and I turned to IVF too. But the first attempt wasn’t successful. We were so sad. It was so difficult to calm down. I almost lost my hope and was depressed. I even needed some medical help. After some period of time I understood that I needed to make a decision. And I wanted to try one more time. I was very afraid of failure, but continued to believe in a success. We turned to another clinic and were satisfied with the results. Now my spouse and I have a full family and we are happy. I think that you need to decide for yourself what you really want to do next. But start only when you are really ready for it. Don't give up! This is the worst thing you may do. Only you may make you dream come true. Think about it. Moreover, you may try not only IVF. Surrogacy is one of the best ways too. Also, you may adopt a child. So, there are many choices. Don't lose your hope and go on. If you need an advice, I will be happy to help. Hope, that you will be fine.
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Oh, thanks for your support. It made me think about the situation once again. Of course, you are right. I am the only person who can make my dream come true. Now I need to cope with the stress and try again. Actually, your story inspired me. I think you are a very strong person! You know, I want change clinics too. But I don't know which is better to choose. I would be very happy if you helped me with this question. Please tell me something about clinics you know. Maybe there's one you can recommend. Or just tell about the clinic you turned too. You know, I am so glad because there a person who can help me. It is very important for me. So, I hope that you have some information to share.
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I know what you feel know, how difficult it is. That's why I want to help you. Well, you know, I don't know much about clinics too. So, I tell you a little about the clinic I turned to. Well, it is a Ukrainian clinic. It is called BioTexCom. In my opinion it is pretty good one. Actually, I turned only to this clinic, that is why I cannot tell whether it is better than the others or not. But I really liked it. The doctors are true specialists. They really know what they do. The conditions for patients are great too. As far as I know today this clinic is supposed to be one of the best in Europe. By the way, if you want to, you may learn some information from their video blog. This is the link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_W0ePBKT5qA. Well, I think that the idea to create it was very good. I saw several videos. I can say that they are not long, but pretty informative. Specialists from the clinic answer all the most popular questions. And you can learn information not only about the clinic. They tell also about IVF in general. And it really helps all the people who is going to turn to IVF, but don't have enough information. In general the clinic is good. They really care about their clients. They have very high percentage of a success. And their prices are normal. Hope that the information I shared will help you. And the most important: believe in yourself, doctors and success. Everything will be fine. Good luck!
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Thanks for help! I am really happy to get this information. It is so important for me. And not only for me, but for people, who is going to turn to IVF too. Thanks. Hope that you will be fine too. Good luck to you and your family!
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Sorry to hear about your story. I know the pain you are going through. Your decision of IVF is not right. As you already know the success rate is very low. I suggest you to think about surrogacy. Surrogacy works like magic for infertile couples. I also went through this. I chose Bio TexCom clinic for it. They have the most reasonable packages. For further info visit http://mother-surrogate.info/
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Feels so sorry for your loss. This would be much difficult for you to get over such things. Though I have read a post where they have found to be talking about the success of IVF. That's one of the fact that you never come over the reason of failure. That makes even tough to decide either to proceed or not. This question even got me in trouble. Even I am confused over what to suggest. Well, it's up to you completely. You could even switch procedure. And go for another option available. Pick the best one. Good luck.
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I'm very sorry to know about your situation. I can very well understand your feelings. You must be feeling devastated. I've been in the same boat as you, so I know the pain of losing your unborn baby. Unexplained infertility is worst than explained infertility. You don't even know the cause of your infertility, so how could it be treated. You've been through a lot, dear. Now it's time that you give rest to your body. After the IVF's your body must be very weak. I think the best option left for you is surrogacy. It is proving to be very successful nowadays. You should research on it and satisfy yourself. I wish you become a mother soon. Sending baby dust your way. All the best, love!
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Hey there Julia. How are you doing? I hope its all great. I am really sorry to hear about your experience. I know it must be really hard. I have been through this too. I hope everything gets better. The only thing I can suggest is that you stay strong. IVF is really a tough procedure. It's not least. Sometimes the first cycle does not always work. It's best to give another try. You should also consider surrogacy. It's the best option. I hope you get what you want. take care. Good luck.
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ME and my husband decided to go for surrogacy. I joined this forum long ago.I like to read the stories of different people.Its been a very long time.I feel happy after reading successful stories of different people. I'm also infertile.But i had to go for surrogacy.We firstly moved to Europe form Japan.Surrogacy is ban in Japan so we moved there.We stayed in Europe for 4 months.We contacted clinics in Europe.My husband didn't liked them.Than we moved to Ukraine.As we heard alot about the clinics in Ukraine so we moved there.There we found a very good clinic.The clinic found a good surrogate for us.The surrogate is pregnant with our twin dolls.We are so happy.We are so happy that we will have our own kids now,We are so thankful to the clinic and surrogate. Everyone cheers and good luck.
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Life is just like this. We should have to face many failures. This is exactly like your situation. The good thing is that you don't have to be worried about this thing. There are a lot of methods still available for you. You could always try another one. Still, if nothing works then don't worry. You can always adopt. You are worried and it's fine. You could be. You really suffered a lot. It's so bad but you don't have to worry now, dear. Everything is going to be fine. Just be calm and hope for the best.
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I m also a victim like you and have been trying for TTC for almost ten years. I have tried all the possible options but all of them failed. I m an aged women now and this stresses me often that soon it will be impossible for me to try any other option.A good friend of mine whose husband was not fit regarding this matter gave me the idea to go for surrogacy.Surrogacy is best known methd used in our time. It is indeed a great way to have a baby if it is not possible naturally.It is been providing good results.I is banned in some countries but in Europe and USA it is not prohibited. Some clinics are also giving a special offers which are not much expensive.I m so anxious to have baby of my own. Finally i m going for it as there is no better option left for me.I will advice you to go for surrogacy.The procedure is very comforting smooth. I have heard many success stories of people regarding this matter.I am now totally agree to go for surrogacy because of positive feedback. If anybody has any contact or reference to any good surrogacy clinic kindly guide me.
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Thank you very much for the help. It was very informational for me. I will definitely follow your advice. This is motivational for the people who are looking for some treatments. Hope you'll have one more through it. Best wishes from my side!
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It is really heart wrenching news. I know you must have been looking forward to the good news coming with your IVF tretament. The true to life thing or the reality is this that it is a procedure. Like any other technique it has chances of failure too. That is why the first attempt of your IVF has failed. Right now you are sad because you wanted the miracle to happen. Many IPs face the failure of first cycle. There can be number of reasons behind this. I would suggest that there is nothing to feel sad. Disappointment won't help. It is your doctor who is going to explain that what can be the reason. The causes vary from person to person. It is not necessary that the causes of failure in one person are similar to the other. Once the doctor understands your problem he will suggest you the right solutions. I have come across so many people who have got their babies in the second and the third cycle.
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Hey. I am so sorry for you. IVF is a sometimes amazing process. But really it is unpredictable. You never know when it fails. I know you are hanging between many options. But you should choose it wisely. I think you should give up on IVF. You should give surrogacy a try. I have a baby through surrogacy. I was infertile after the miscarriages. I had no other option. IUI failed for me. So I decided to go for surrogacy. I went to a clinic in Europe. I have a baby now. I have no more worries in my life.
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Hello. I am so sad for you. IVF is an astounding procedure. All things considered, it is directionless. You never know when it comes up short. I know you are hanging between numerous choices. You ought to pick it carefully. I figure you should abandon IVF. You should try surrogacy out. I have an infant through surrogacy. I have faced infertility for 10 years. I had no other choice. In IVF I had no luck. So I chose to go for surrogacy. I went to a clinic in Europe. I have a child now. I have no more stresses throughout my life.
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So sorry for the losses you had. It had been tough for you. So, still, it doesn't mean you should give up. Maybe try one last round? You can try different way; did you consider surrogacy? I mean, you can still have a child. Don't give up! You seem strong! Completing a family is so important in life. xx
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Hello Julie! I know you've been disappointed...It must have been tough for you. So, yeah! Stay strong! You've every right to complain...But, it won't help. Take your decision. You still can become a mother! Give up via IVF! If you think it's useless. But, still, you can try other ways. I've also had failed attempts previous with assisted conceptions. But, still not giving up. Trying different! All the time! This year I'm trying surrogacy at a repro center in Ukraine. I can still have a child that way. I think it's necessary to have a complete marriage with a child. Hope, you're getting it!
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Hello, you should not despair, you must understand that success does not always come with the first attempt. It seems to me that you need to try again. For example, my friends also had unsuccessful IVF. But they decided to choose surrogacy. But, they are already over forty years old, my friend is 47 years old, and his wife is 41 years old. Therefore, for them there is no sense to try more. Surrogacy for them the only option to have their own baby, little darling baby.
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Hey Julia I hope you're doing well. Don't lose I am sure things will get better. IVF is a bit unpredictable. Therefore, it works out for some people after numerous failed cycles. You just need to visit a good clinic for it. Make sure the clinic has a high success rate. These little things have a positive impact on the treatment. Have a strong belief that the treatment will work. Believe in yourself! Apart from that, you can look into other procedures as well. Maybe if you opt for DE, IVF might work. You can also see if surrogacy would be feasible for you to opt for. IVF didn't work for me so I had to opt for this procedure. It was a huge success as now I have my little bundle of joy. Sending baby dust your way.
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I am very sorry for this. This could happen to anyone. I just want to tell you that please keep yourself up. Don't be panic at all. You have plenty of options, dear. You can go with any of hem. you have IVF treatment. You have surrogacy. You have adoption option as well. I personally wanted to recommend you that you should go for adoption. your husband is not alright with surrogacy right. you can always convince him for adoption. This is going to be very good for you. I guess he admits that he was wrong and let you go with an adoption.
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At the age of 43 years old i'm married for second time. I was married earlier and geting pregnant was not an easy task for me. I had a number of complications while getting pregnant. I conceived for three times but always resulted in miscarriage. Surrogaccy is the best solution for the women who don't have any luck with babies. My husband wants a baby from me and i told him everything regarding my pregnancy complications. So i started looking for some method to have a baby for us. BioTexCom clinic is the best clinic regarding surrogacy. They cleared my confusions reagarding surrogacy. They satisfied me and they told us they will find a surrogate for my baby. They have a number of surrogates from their clinic as well. A surrogate will go through proper testing to become a surrogate mother of my child. From different forum i came to know that surrogacy is the best solution for us to have a baby. So i contacted a number of clinics regarding pregnancy. If someone here is raising a child via surrogacy process please share your experience with us. Thanks in advance.
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I am really sorry for what happened. I know it must have been very difficult. First infertility. Then an MC. Then a failed IVF. How are you even coping up? you are one hell of strong women. You are a fighter. I am sure you will win the battle. Now, why dont you go for surrogacy. Your husband is supportive. Ask him about this. I think your body is weak. To carry a baby. Getting help from a surrogate will help you.
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Hey Julia 762! First of all, there is no situation in which losing hope is ok. So don't do that. Stay positive and strong. I guess you should ask your doctor about the reason of failure. He should be able to give you a valid reason. If not, maybe you need to take a second opinion. Clinic matters a lot. Many are doctore. But a few are good. So reconsider your choice. I had a very good experience with this clinic in Ukraine. And going with them through my surrogacy, I reaised how important the part of a clinic is. Because I too had been to many clinics. But all of them posed these procedures as too hard. And I started blaming myseld whenever I failed. But I succeeded finally. Hope it'll happen for you too soon.
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I hope you are alright. There is not going to be a problrm. I jut hope everyone to be happy and excited. You know finally. The biotexcom clinc's team is coming to the Uk. It will be once in a life time opportunity. I just hope you all should be there. It' really well.
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There are many good clinics for solution regarding miscarriages. I have recently found one situated in Ukraine. They have quite a costless package with all the facilities. The clinic is arranging an event in London on 18 and 19th of August. The clinic is coming to London to offer some good services to the people of London. As infertility is a common issue today so the clinic is arranging their event to facilitate infertile couples. The head from english department of clinic will be also there. They will accept few registration offers also at the event. Someone from London or around London looking for BioTexCom shold probably attend the event. I have had many treatments from many experts but they never turn out to work out for me the way I hope them to. People have now told me about surrogacy and I am really thinking about going for it. I just need some guidelines as surrogacy is illegal in the state where I live and I am very scared. I just need to complete my life and my family before it is too late for me even to try. I think you should give it a try too because in my view it is quite a suitable procedure for women of our age I have pregnancy issue and complications from the past 10 years and I still am childless as I have always been.
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Hello there. How are you doing? I am sorry to know about you. I can feel your pain. You have been through a lot. I know all that struggles you have been through. You have not mentioned the clinic which you visited. Actually, I was also diagnosed with unexplained infertility. We searched many clinics. Then we shortlisted some of them. One of them was lotus clinic. We contacted them many times. We emailed them a lot. But they never replied. We wanted to know about their packages and other details. I was so sad because of all this. I would never want anyone to go through the pain I have been through. I would never suggest anyone visit this clinic. I hope everything goes well for you. Lots of love and luck.
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Hello there! I feel so sorry to hear about your infertility. Infertility is a curse happen in a life. Everyone has a wish of being a parent. Children are a blessing. You don't need to be a worry. Everything will be fine one day. I suggest you should go for surrogacy. I am also an infertile person. I personally had a great experience of surrogacy. I had blessed with a baby boy through surrogacy. I had my surrogacy from biotexcom in Ukraine. It was a great journey I had. Now good news to share with you that biotexcom is going to conduct an open session soon. It will be a great opportunity for you to have an initial consultation right there. You will also have a chance to sign a contract right there. I hope you will be a mother soon.
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Hey, hope you are doing well. this is faith here. I am so sorry to hear about you. As my name, i am here to bring faith in your life. Your post really made me sad. But i am here with a suggestion for you. I am an infertile for so long. and i am these days undergoing my surrogacy. Th clinic i am at has higher success rate. And my procedure i going so smooth. It is just because the clinic is reliable. the doctors here are so supportive and kind. The staff is so humble. even the head here is so humble lady. the clinic is so successful. And no wonder just because of the best services. My name is faith and i kept faith in my life no matter what. I suffered infertility 12 years, but i never lost faith. So that's why i am here. And everything is finally working. Maybe this is the right time. I'll suggest you keep faith and visit this clinic. Consult with doctors and choose a right procedure for you. I am sure you will never regret. This clinic is going to arrange an event soon. The doctors along with head will be there for people like us at the event. you could first meet them on event as well. So it would be easy for you to decide whether to try them or not. do visit the event at least.
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Hello Julia! How are you? Hope you are fine now. I am sorry to hear all this. You see life is comprised of ups and downs. Sometimes you go through ups and sometimes you go through downs. So we need courage in all these situations. You can achieve your goals only if you are consistent in your struggle. If IVF is not working, you can go with surrogacy. This is also best. I have another news which might help you. The Biotexcom Team is coming to the UK soon. The Head of the English department, Anastasia will tell all about Biotexcom. Also, you will get your initial consultation there. It will be a great event. Seats are limited. Hurry up!
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Hello, Julia. I hope you are all right. This is simply awful. I can't believe you had to go through it. You don't deserve it! It must have been so hard. Please don't lose hope. I know what a infertility is like. It can be so challenging for your mental health. I have had three miscarriages myself and It was the most painful experience of my life. My best option was assisted conception. I'd suggest you wait for an event that will be organized soon by a clinic that I went to. They will pay full attention to your case and suggest you accordingly. They have an event coming up soon, you can email them for details at surrogacy@biotexcom.com. I wish you all the best.
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Hi Julia! Hope you are better now dear. I am so sorry about your situation. I know how hard it must have been for you. I can relate to your pain since I have also been there in your shoes. I would like to tell you that IVF is a very helpful process but in most cases more than 1 cycles is necessary and there is no point giving up on the procedure after just 1 cycle. My recommendation to you is to try IVF at least 1 more time and if that does not work I would ask you try out surrogacy. I have had 2 failed IVF after which I went for surrogacy and I am now a mother. I wish you the best of luck.
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Hey, hope you are doing well. I am so sorry to hear about you. But don't worry. I have a news for you. there is a clinic in ukraine name biotexcom. I had my surrogacy here. I contacted the clinic a years back for my surrogacy. And went there for my opt after a month. The clinic has so peaceful environment. the staff is so humble. the doctors there are so professional as well. The procedures they are offering are so reasonable as well. You should visit this clinic. I have another news for you. this clinic is going to arrange an event soon. All the doctors along with head is going to visit. Do visit the event. And try them. Trsut me they are the best. You will never regret visiting them.
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I'm exceptionally sorry to learn about your circumstance. I can understand your emotions. You should feel easy. I also had faces same problem as you faced, so I know that how it feels to loose your baby. Actually there are now oped a lots of fraud clinic. That are making people fool. Lotus is one of them. I had contacted to them. But never got any kind of reply from them. Just want to aware you from these fraud. You should inquire about on it and fulfill yourself. I wish you turn into a mother soon. I hope this will make you relax. Thank you for your story.
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Hello, Julia. I am so sorry to hear all this. You must have gone through so much.It reminded me how my experience was with all of these problems. I know it must have been really hard for you. But you should stay strong. I would suggest you be very careful while choosing a clinic. Well, I got my treatment from a clinic in Ukraine. It's an excellent human fertility center. However, there are many scammers out there as well. I have been reading a lot about Adonis clinic in this group from people. I am glad I chose a different clinic and trusting this clinic was the best thing I ever did. They took great care of me. Their services were amazing. We were very satisfied during and after our treatment.
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Hey Julia, hope you are doing well. I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I can understand how difficult it is. Please dear dont loose hope. Maybe there is some other way for you. I think you should go for surrogacy. Surrogacy is a wonder treatment. I have been TTC for 10 years. Unfortunately nothing worked for me. I am also considering surrogacy now. Though My DH wanted to adopt. But I convinced him for surrogacy. We contacted a Ukrainian clinic on a friends' recommendation. Thanksfully the staff and doctors are very cooperative. We are very satisfied and are soon going to start our surrogacy journey.
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Julia, hope you are doing well. I am sorry to hear about your loss. I can understand what you must be going through. Do not loose hope yet.I believe there must be another option for you,you just have to look for it. Surrogacy is an option you can look upon. Surrogacy is a great treatment. I have been TTC for 6 years. Unfortunately nothing has worked for me. I am considering surrogacy now. Though My husband convinced me about it. We contacted a Ukrainian clinic on a friends' recommendation.The staff and doctors are very friendly and cooperative. We are satisfied by their attitude and behavior and are soon going to start our journey.
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Hi Julia! I am sorry for your pain and grief. Infertility is the devasting disease. It takes the lot out of women. Infertility wants so much from a couple. Before 2 years I was in the same situation. I was TTC for 3 years and all in vain. Then i heard about the lotus clinic. I contacted them it gave me some hope of becoming a mother. The clinic didn't replied. I waited for their reply and emailed them again and again. All they replied was the detail of IVF packages. I answer them again and after that email, I didn't receive any answer from them. It just disappoints me very much. It gave me heartache. But I am not giving up. I suggest you to must try again. But beware of spam clinics like Lotus. Good luck.
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Hi Julia! I hope you are doing well. I am really sorry for what you are going through. I can totally understand your situation. You are so lucky that your husband is not giving up on that. You have to keep trying. I think it's time for you to go for assisted conception. IVF and Surrogacy are the most popular treatments for infertility. I am also visiting a clinic abroad for Surrogacy. So I think you should visit a good fertility clinic and get yourself checked. It's better if you and your husband both get tested. Because it depends on both of you. Just don't give up. I hope things work out for you. Good luck!
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Hi Julia! I am so sorry for what you are going through. I can totally understand your situation. I have been through that. Dealing with a miscarriage is not easy, but don't let it take everything from you. If it's not working for you naturally then go for assisted conception. But giving up is not an option here. You have to keep trying for your baby.
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I am sorry to know that two cycles of IVF failed for you. Just don't give up. For IVF there are a few things that are really important. Firstly, make sure that the clinic you are visiting is operating at a high success rate. Secondly, make sure that the doctors are professionals. They should know how to carry the process out. These things matter a lot! I am saying this from my own personal experience.
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Hey, I believe you should not give up. I am sure things will get better. It is really important to research and then start the process. Dont worry and hope for the best. The clinic I am visiting now after so many years of struggle with them the process is going really well. It is because of the research that I did. I am really hoping for the best. Good luck to you.
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Hey, @June I totally agree with you. It is really important to visit the right clinic. That plays a huge impact on the process. I always tell people my own story. Previously none of my procedures were working out for us. I was so disappointed. We then had to make the big decision and switch to a different clinic. This really helped with the progress of the treatment. The clinic I am visiting now is located abroad. With them, the process is going really well. They are making sure that the process is a success. The doctors are experienced and know what they are doing. I believe this is the most important thing. Hoping for the best. Good luck to you.
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Hi Julia! I hope you are doing fine. I feel so bad for you. You have been through so much. But no it's not the time to give up. Many people have conceived with IVF after trying for 2-3 times. It's time for you to change your clinic. My first cycle was a failure as well so i changed clinic and things worked out for me. I have had both my babies with the help of IVF so i can assure you that the treatment really works but it's important to see if the clinic is good enough. Clinic has a great impact on your treatment. Just do some research and find yourself a good clinic. I hope this helps you. Please don't give up and stay strong. Good luck!
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Hi there Julia! I hope you are doing well. I can understand how hard it is for you. Only people who go through infertility can feel this pain. I was also in the same boat as you. I have never tried IVF, but my sister did so I can assure you that it really works. You just have to stay strong and not give up. If you stay strong and keep trying, things will start to work out for you. You should really change the clinic. You really have to make sure that the clinic you are opting for is a good one. Because that can really make a difference. After trying for so long, I found a good clinic that helped me out. So be patient and do some research. I hope things work out for you next time. Good luck.
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Hello, Julia! I hope you're okay, today. I'm really sorry to hear about your loss. I hope you've recovered from it, a bit. The mental recovery takes a lot of time. I can relate to your situation. I know how hard miscarriages can be. I've had multiple MCs. It can take a lot of effort to deal with these situations. However, I turned towards IVF, soon after. It was a really good decision. I can't wait to share my story with all of you. I'm undergoing the process these days and it's going quite well. I would recommend it to most women! Good luck to you, with whatever you decide! I hope your luck turns around for the better. You deserve the best!
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I'm so sorry to hear about your failed attempts. I'm going to be straight with you. These procedures come with a lot of risks. So you have to be prepared for that. I went through the exact same situation. What really kept me going was the possibility of me finally becoming a mother. It was worth the struggle. I realized that in the end. So, I would suggest not giving up. I hope you become a mother soon!
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In general, I think you should try a few more attempts. If subsequent attempts fail, take advantage of surrogacy. Today this option is quite common, but not in every country it is available. For this, it will be necessary to travel abroad, you can consider Ukraine or Russia as an option. However, I recommend that you opt for Ukrainian clinics. Since in Russia the law is on the side of surrogate mothers, which may be accompanied by significant concerns for potential parents.
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Hi Naomi! Indeed, there are many differences between the laws of Ukraine and Russia regarding surrogacy. Ukraine and Russia have the most lax laws on surrogacy in Europe, allowing people — including foreigners — to pay a surrogate for their services. Surrogacy and surrogacy in combination with egg/sperm donation has been absolutely legal in Ukraine. According to the law a donor or a surrogate mother has no parental rights over the child born and the child born is legally the child of the prospective parents. Ukrainian surrogacy laws are very favorable and fully support the individual's reproductive rights. You can choose between Gestational Surrogacy, Egg/sperm Donation, special Embryo adoption programs and their combinations. No specific permission from any regulatory body is required for that. A written informed consent of all parties (intended parents and surrogate) participating in the surrogacy program is mandatory. Ukrainian legislation allows intended parents to carry on a surrogacy program and their names will be on Birth certificate of the child born as a result of the surrogacy program from the very beginning. The child is considered to be legally "belonging" to the prospective parents from the very moment of conception. The surrogate's name is never listed on the birth certificate. The surrogate can't keep the child after the birth. Even if a donation program took place and there is no biological relation between the child and the intended mother, their names will be on Birth certificate. Embryo research is also allowed, gamete and embryo donation permitted on a commercial level. Single women can be treated by known or anonymous donor insemination. Gestational surrogacy is an option for officially married couples only (a man and a woman). Gestational surrogacy, even commercial, is legal in Russia, being available to practically all adults willing to be parents. There must be one of several medical indications for surrogacy: absence of uterus, deformity of the uterine cavity or cervix, uterine cavity synechia, somatic diseases contraindicating child bearing, or repeated failure of IVF despite high-quality embryos. Registration of children born through surrogacy is regulated by the Family Code of Russia. However, unlike Ukraine, in Russia a surrogate must give his consent. Sometimes, it really worries parents, because a surrogate may refuse to do this. This happens infrequently, but a theoretical situation like this is possible in Russia.
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Hi Julia! Hope you are well. There are so many reasons why treatment fails. Sometimes the clinic you are visiting is not doing it the right way. Other than that, the other reason can be that you are not healthy enough to carry a child. Or maybe the eggs were of poor quality. So try to change your clinic and the way of your treatment, maybe the results will get better. There's a clinic abroad where I had my treatment. Try to contact them, they will help you out. It's also affordable so you don't even have to worry about the money. Good luck. Stay strong. TakeCare. Byeee!
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Hi Julia! I am doing great. How are you? Becoming a mother is what every girl wants. No girl can live without a baby. You have tried IVF and it didn't work out. Then this time you should go for Surrogacy. It's also a great treatment. I have had my baby through it. But this time, make sure you visit a clinic with a huge success rate as I did. That will increase your chances of success as well. Stay strong love. Love you. Goodbye!

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