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need details regarding surrogacy
Hello everyone. I have been on this forum for many days and all this time I saw many women with the same problem as mine. It kind of made me feel a little less stressed because before joining this forum I thought I was the only woman with so many problems and the only one with infertility issues. But this forum did not only made me feel ok but also helped me to regain my confidence and also gave me the strength to look for the solutions to my problems instead of being depressed about it. Many of you suggested me to go for surrogacy because I had already had many failed attempts of IVF and IUI. I have kind of made up my mind about the whole thing, I just need some more details about the whole process. I think I will be opting for biotexcom because of its popularity for surrogacy treatments. I would appreciate it a lot if someone shares their personal experience with me. Expecting positive replies and love.
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Hey there. How are you? Hope you are in good health. You have taken a right decision. My DH and I have been TTC for last three months. No good news yet. I have also gathered some information about this clinic. I have had positive reviews about it. I will now try to tell you about surrogacy. In surrogacy, your eggs and sperms are transferred into someone else's womb. You can even opt for donors eggs. Just in case you have some problem with yours. I hope it might help you. Good luck. Much Love. Xxx.
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hi emily , so sorry to hear about this. but its not the end. there are many options right now. my sister is suffering from infertility too. she didnt have a child after seven years of my marriage.but then she and her husband decided to go to experts. and they suggested surrogacy. It was not as complex as it sounds. they just took the embryo and inserted in an other surrogate. now she is a mother of a son. he is 2 years old now. she is happy with her life now. there is a clinic in Ukrain that can help you out. it has reasonable price. you should try it out. i hope i was helpful. just dont giveup its not the end
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Hi guys. Thank you so very much for providing me with this precious information. I really appreciate how people over here are always ready to help each other and how people are always ready to get each other out of some serious problems. The provided information is surely going to turn out very helpful for my research. I also found out a little more about this clinic and I cannot tell how happy I am. I found out that they will provide me free accommodation, food, and travel. I mean what else can be better than this. No other clinic before has ever after search services to me. I think this film it really means to help its patients instead of snatching their money from them like other clinics Did to me. I hope that whatever I have found out from my research is true. Thank you so much for taking out time to advise me and provide me with such Useful information.
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Just keep trying don't take stress. Yes people here in this forum is so much supportive. Every one here is always available to reply and give the best advice's. When your IVF and surrogacy was failed first time. I want to know because I am going through the process of surrogacy. I am sure you have a successful pregnancy from the clinic in Ukraine. This is the best clinic for people like us.
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Just keep trying don't take stress. Yes people here in this forum is so much supportive. Every one here is always available to reply and give the best advice's. When your IVF and surrogacy was failed first time. I want to know because I am going through the process of surrogacy. I am sure you have a successful pregnancy from the clinic in Ukraine. This is the best clinic for people like us.
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Just keep trying don't take stress. Yes people here in this forum is so much supportive. Every one here is always available to reply and give the best advice's. When your IVF and surrogacy was failed first time. I want to know because I am going through the process of surrogacy. I am sure you have a successful pregnancy from the clinic in Ukraine. This is the best clinic for people like us.
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Hi there. How are you. I must tell you that before you proceed that it's not 100% guaranteed too. This is not a guarantee that your surrogate is definitely going to be a mother. Actually this is the process of taking your and your husband's ingredients and cook them in some other dish. That other dish is your surrogate. That is going to give you a baby. This process is really expensive. You should have much resources for this. Take care allot dear. I hope you understand now. I wish I helped you in your decision. Take care please. Best of luck.
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Dear wancy. Thank you so much for the support. I am kind of getting confident to make a wise decision now. I have never got my surrogacy done before. This will be my first and hopefully final and successful try. My IVF failed for the first like 5 years ago, it was a very hard and painful time for me but time passes and it heals our wounds too. The journey until now has been very very hard and depressing for me but I have a belief that everything happens for a reason and maybe there is something much better for me in the future. I am glad that I found you as a partner on my this new journey. Keep me updated on how your experience goes there. I would really appreciate your replies to this post.
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Dear Rachel. I think no wealth is more precious than having a baby. You are right, I know about the whole procedure and I am very satisfied with it. The baby is going to be my own and that what makes me happy. The clinic that I am going to get it done from is way-way cheaper than the ordinary local clinics. Thanks for the comment though.
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Hi Emily! yes you are absolutely right, by interacting with women who are going through same problem that you have helped a lot of courage and hope. I am also another women just like you have been failed many times in fertility attempts but never gave up. I am also looking for suggestions for the very same clinic. I have been gathering information about the clinic for quite a while and after reading many reviews and visiting their website I am very confident to start my treatments from there. I am planning to avail the package that suits my pocket, currently I am saving up money for the treatment. I will keep following your post. keep us updated here about your decision and progress.
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Hey there! Hope you're doing good. It is good that you opened up about yourself. However, I am glad that you haven't lost hope and are still ready to fight the whole situation. Surrogacy is a great option. My aunt was able to have 2 children from the process. It was pretty simple if chosen the right clinic. She got it done years ago so I am not sure which hospital she went to. However, I have read a lot of mothers suggesting Ukraine. I guess do your research and go for it. Best of luck. Be positive! And hope for the best.
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Heyya. I hope that you're doing good. Welcome to this forum first of all. It's really the perfect platform for a woman to share her feelings and thoughts. Here, everyone understands the pain of infertility. Like everyone is going through it. You'll only get love and support. I'm sorry for your failed IVF. It's really a sad thing. But don't worry. You've chosen the right thing. Surrogacy gives a chance of having children to those who can't. It's probably the best treatment ever. You should definitely go for it. The most important thing is documentation here. You must have all the important legal document. So the future stays peaceful to you. I hope this helped you. Take care of yourself. Much love.
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Dear Demi, When a person is going through hard times, it is the people's support that keeps him/her going. Without support, I do not think so that anyone would be able to win any kind of a battle in their life. I got to find you guys. I hope that other women out there who are going through the same problem as us and who think that they are alone and no one is there to help the gets to find us so that we can help each other out through the easiest way possible. I am very sure that any kind of problem can be solved if people going through the same problems help each other out. I have been in contact with the clinic and the staff is treating me so so nicely. I think I am soon going to make a very important decision regarding this important thing in my life. The staff has helped me a lot to understand the whole procedure. Haha, same demi, I have been saving up for the treatment for a long time and I think I am finally ready. I will surely keep you guys updated
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Hello, monika. Thank you for such a positive reply and your support. This is what keeps me going every day. The clinic that you are suggesting me is by far the best one that I have come into contact with. I am very happy that I found this place with the help of you guys. I can never be thankful enough.
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Haha.. No dear you are not the only one with all these issues. We are all kind of in the same boat. It is good that you got helped. It's always nice to witness humanity and you always find it when you go looking for it. Don't you think? ;) I have been hearing about the clinic a lot myself. During my research I came across some youtube videos. They were quite helpful. May be you should give them a look if you are looking for some real experiences. Good Luck! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k2qKKQK5ZkM&t=11s
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I conceived for three times but resulted in miscarriage. Now i'm married for second time at the age of 43. I want to have a baby of my own. But regarding pregnancy complications from my previous marriage i guess it is not a good idea to be pregnant again. I contacted a number of clinics and told them every aspect and complication regarding my previous pregnancies. BioTexCom is the best clinic regarding surrogacy. Surrogacy is the best solution for women who are trying to have a baby. But are unable to conceive due to pregnancy issues. Like i was married once and i had also many complications regarding pregnancy. They have suggested surrogacy as a solution to my problems. I also think that surrogacy is the best solution to my problem. Surrogate will carry our children inher womb for 9 months. The surrogate will go through proper testing to carry our child. I also had persuaded my husband for this option of having a baby. The clinic BioTexCom told us that the DNA of mother will have no effect on our child. Visit biotexcom.com for details. If someone is raising a child from surrogacy please let us know about their experience. Thanks in advance.
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I have the same problem too dear. Now i am married for the second time and i am going to surrogacy option to have a baby. I persuaded my husband for surrogacy and he is ready to go for it to have a baby. I think you should also go for this option as miscarriages lead us to no other option. I contacted a number of clinics regardig surrogacy and they helped us in a number of ways. Research over the web for different clinics for now and make up your mind for surrogacy. everytime i conceived i had miscarriages at the end. So i gave up on getting pregnant again. If some one has some experience in surrogacy then kindly let us know so that we can learn from your experience. Feedback appreciated in advance.
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Hello Emily. How are you doing dear? Well, I just read your whole post. It's pretty relatable. I also felt that way. I've realized we should victimize ourselves and we should accept our fate and look up how to come out of our miseries...I've also made a few friends here at this forum. Let's see how it goes for me! I'm going for an IVF at this clinic situated in Ukraine. I was also suggested to have surrogacy but, I wanted to give myself another try by having an IVF first. So, yeah! In a case like yours, I'd definitely prefer going for surrogacy. I think you're doing it right! Stay blessed. xx
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Hey! I must say that you've taken the right decision. Actually both of the right decisions. Firstly, going for surrogacy and secondly, choosing Biotexcom for that. Biotexcom is a heavenly clinic. People, there are so friendly and humble. Doctors are the most professional ones with many years of experience. They specialize in surrogacy. I chose Biotexcom for my surrogacy process too. It was done very nicely. I am much satisfied with it. They are the reason behind my dream coming true. They offer reasonable packages with the best service. I wish you luck and happiness. Visit their website and contact them for any queries. I hope I helped you in some way.http://mother-surrogate.info/
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I m so happy to read this.I cannot explain my felicitation of how much this means to us.our comments and pieces of advice might bring happiness to one's life.I have tears in my eyes.Well to your help madam!.The surrogacy procedures involve the fertilization of an embryo with your own egg.or maybe donors.Then the sperm is used by your partners.This is then incorporated in the womb of a surrogate mother.After that, the embryo gets nourishment there.It is there until it is born.The thing that matters is the custody.You will get after it is born.You must have a contract before.You are lucky because this clinic takes care of everything.It facilitates you completely legally as well.You need not worry about them You just have to be happy and pay for it.Their packages are quite reasonable as well.You must search for them online.They are best ones out there.Best of luck girl.
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Yes well if you are planning about surrogacy. It's best in Ukraine. I heard so much about it. Where ever I see the posts about surrogacy and infertility treatments. I always see there a name of Ukraine. The main thing is that surrogacy is legal there. That is the best thing. That is why I am saying you about this method. You can do a survey ands check these methods arround the globe. I think you'll find Ukraine best as well. Don't worry, Everything is going to be fine. Best of luck for future.
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Emily, I can understand you and your situation. I can relate to you at many levels because of I when joined the forums I felt that I had soo much women's support. As far as surrogacy is concerned it definitely is the treatment which has a high success rate. The clinic you have mentioned I remember my first visit to it and being completely astonished to see soo many foreigners. The process is simple but patience is required. It is a bit lengthy however, they do guarantee that when you sign up with them they will ensure you go home with a child. They have donors for the eggs and they also have surrogate mothers selected on proper medical tests. Therefore do your research as well my first meeting with the clinic it self was so informative and I am sure you can relate with me as well.
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Hey emily I guess you are fine. Dear i also had a number of complications and problems while getting pregnant. I conceived for three times but resulted in miscarriage every time. Now i'm marries for the second time and my husband wants a baby from me. I told him every aspect regarding my pregnancy issues. I persuaded him to go for surrogacy option as well. I guess you also should go for surrogacy method as it is most common now adays. You should definitely have a baby via surrogacy also you are a tv model so surrogacy will be best for you. I researched about surrogacy and found it quite helpful for those mothers who can't have a baby from their own womb. So if you want a baby and want to keep it a secret as well then this surrogacy method is good option for you. I'm just sharing my thoughts with you regarding surrogacy.
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Hey! How are you sweetie? I think you have made a very right decision. You should get yourself treated from a clinic abroad. My own friend is blessed with a baby boy just a few months before. She's so happy with the services and rates of the clinic. She recommended me that clinic. Currently, I am going through their treatment too. I am hoping good results. You should give it a try. All the best.
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Hi Emily! I'm so glad that you feel that. Well, I was also relieved when I joined it! I think you're going the right way! Anyway! I'm also glad that you still have hope. I wish you all the best for your treatment. Oh, yes! I've also heard really good reviews about this clinic. I'm also listed on their IVF list. Well, I'll be heading to Ukraine by the end of the year for it. So, yeah! Well, I want to wish all the best to you for your whole journey. Anyway! Stay blessed. xx
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Hi, emily. I hope you are doing good. It's really good that you have decided what you want. I have told before also in this forum. I have been through surrogacy as well. I was in a car accident. It was the reason I had to go for surrogacy. I am a mother of two twin boys. We were lead to biotexcom by a friend. I am glad I went there. It looked like my infertility was their problem, not mine. They were professional. The cost was the main plus point. I would strongly suggest biotexcom to everyone strongly. I hope this helps people. Looking forward to hearing from people with similar stories. Wishing everyone good luck.
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Hi, emily. I hope you are doing good. It's really good that you have decided what you want. I have told before also in this forum. I have been through surrogacy as well. I was in a car accident. It was the reason I had to go for surrogacy. I am a mother of two twin boys. We were lead to biotexcom by a friend. I am glad I went there. It looked like my infertility was their problem, not mine. They were professional. The cost was the main plus point. I would strongly suggest biotexcom to everyone strongly. I hope this helps people. Looking forward to hearing from people with similar stories. Wishing everyone good luck.
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You are not the only who are facing this kind of problem. So relax there are lot of other women facing the same issues. It's a tough time in your life. You have failed attempts of IVF. You are looking for solution. So don't worry there are many other option from which you can have a baby. Surrogacy is the most common and easy to understand. So you can choose to have a baby through surrogacy process. You can easily find content regarding surrogacy. You have to do all the things on regular basis. That very important to know more about your treatment. So try to have a proper guide. Some clinics are providing huge database from which you can easily choose the surrogate mother for your baby. Wishing you best of luck for your future.
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Well all the love is for you dear. you are going to get all of the proper replies here. Just don't worry. You just need to be sure about this. Whether you want to go for surrogacy or not. I think you just need to be sure about this. Well like you are saying every other thing is failing for you. I think in this regard only the surrogacy would help you allot. It would give you a relief. I am so much sorry for all of the failures. See we are all going to get the things that are destined for us. I think we should be aware of this fact now. I think some good things are destined for you in surrogacy. This method is going to help you now. Biotexcom is best for this as you said. Just go for it.
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Hi Lovely! Biotexcom is great from what I've heard too! They have great surrogates. Their prices are reasonable compared to many. Additional offers for your comfort are provided as well! My friend went through a dark phase when she found out about her infertility and had great difficulty coping with it. Her husband and she felt like they had no hope left. She had always loved children and wished to have her own soon. A natural mother. It tore her and everyone around her, her infertility news. She too heard a lot about surrogacy as an option and opted to try it out finally. Biotexcom was her decision like you. I see her now with her little girl so happy, it brings so much joy to me! I would really recommend you to go through with your decision. All the best!
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Thanks for the comment jessicaBlack. Everyone has been suggesting me this clinic. As I have mentioned in my earlier comments, I have been in contact with the clinic. I haven't made a decision yet. IDK what's taking me so much time? I really want to know everything about it. Thankyou wor the help.
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Hey Emily, You are absolutely right. You are not the only person infertile here. Millions of women in this world are facing the same issue. Such forums are really very helpful for people like us to get the solution to their problems. Three years back when I was diagnosed with double infertility. Someone on a forum suggested my surrogacy. Since then I had researched a lot about this process. At last, found Biotexcom best for me. Surrogacy here is among one of the best clinics in the world. Would definitely recommend you too.
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Hi, I fully support your decision and your choice. If you have a chance to become a mother, then you need to take advantage of it, so you don’t regret your inaction. I know a lot of positive information about this clinic, it is really worthy of respect. I think that in Ukraine, where this clinic is located, you cannot find a reproductive center better than it. Reading this topic and your posts, I understand that the girls gave you good advice. Yes, this clinic works a long time in the field of surrogacy and is one of the best in Europe. However, the cost of services there is much lower than in other institutions. But, you should understand that doctors who work in clinics of this level cannot afford to make a mistake. Therefore, to enter the program must be medical records. You wrote down your situation, and I think that surrogacy is a real chance for you. But, only a married couple can join the surrogacy program. As far as I know, this condition is one of the main ones. But, professional specialists work in this clinic, therefore they will be able to help you and explain the situation. But in general, Ukraine is a good choice for surrogacy. There are not only reasonable prices, but also quite flexible laws regarding this issue. And you must admit, this is already a lot, because in other European countries the question of surrogacy is quite ambiguous.
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Hey, I hope you are well. The clinic you have mentioned is known for the procedure. They are known for excellent services. I know they offer two packages. The VIP and the standard package. Both of these packages come with accomodation facilities as well. They will also invite you for the first visit for free. This is done to ensure that you make your final decision. I think that is just amazing. It is nice that you are doing your own research. It is very important that the clinic one visits is experienced. They should know what they are doing. Surrogacy is such an experience that requires such facilities. Good luck to you.
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This is unbelievable! I can't believe you've had it so tough. I hope you're doing okay. I can understand, to be honest. TTC journeys can be quite difficult to manage. You need to remember that things can still get better. It's good to see that you're staying hopeful. That's the best thing you can do in these situations. I hope you keep the faith and keep trying. You're doing the right thing by visiting a fertility clinic. There must be a way for you. Let them handle it for you! My prayers are with you! Good luck to you, honey! You can do this.
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Infertility is a common issue. It can happen to anyone. There is nothing shameful about it. I faced it too. But I have a son now who I had through surrogacy. What attracted me was the fact that my clinic offered multiple free tries until my surrogate conceives a baby. That means I was getting a baby 100%. It was pretty attractive, I'd suggest you get to a fertility clinic, ASAP!
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Of course, you are not alone, there are a lot of women with similar problems. In addition, men also face infertility. Undoubtedly, in the case of a large number of IVF failures, you may have medical indications for surrogacy. It seems to me that you can overcome this problem in this way. There are many myths on the Internet regarding surrogacy. However, you should not pay attention to false information. I believe that you will be fine!
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Yes, in my opinion, you should consider surrogacy as a possible option. However, for surrogacy, there must be medical evidence. Also, spouses must be officially married. These conditions were basic for joining the program in this clinic. I would advise you to contact their manager and clarify all the information regarding your situation. By the way, they have a YouTube channel, you can watch them as well. And if you did not know, this clinic has a new option, you can contact the manager of this clinic via Skype.

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