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My Story.
Now i'm married for second time at the age of 43. I conceived for three times but resulted in miscarriage. I want to have a baby of my own. There are many clinics in UKraine for this process. But regarding pregnancy complications from my previous marriage i guess it is not a good idea to be pregnant again. I contacted a number of clinics and told them every aspect and complication regarding my previous pregnancies. There are many clinics regarding surrogacy services.Surrogacy is the best solution for women who are trying to have a baby. But are unable to conceive due to pregnancy issues. Like i was married once and i had also many complications regarding pregnancy. They have suggested surrogacy as a solution to my problems. Surrogate will carry our children in her womb for 9 months. The surrogate will go through proper testing to carry our child. I also had persuaded my husband for this option of having a baby. I also think that surrogacy is the best solution to my problem. If someone is raising a child from surrogacy please let us know about their experience. Thanks in advance.
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I was TTC from last 10 years. But there was no sign of conceiving. I went to different doctors for my checkups. After extensive testing doctors were also unable to trace the issue with my infertility. I was stressed and was sad. I talked to my husband about this. He said not to worry that everything will be fine. We keep on TTC for some more time and still there was no hope in it. So we gave upon the idea of TTC. I was sad and depressed. Than a friend of mine told me about surrogacy. Her friend has a boy from surrogacy. She told me to think about surrogacy. I talked to my husband for surrogacy and soon he agreed to go for surrogacy. I live in a country where surrogacy is prohibited. Than we start looking for some clinics and found many good clinics in Ukraine. We decided to move to Ukraine for surrogacy.
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Yes, this is exactly like this. It's not like you are having no troubles and you go for it. It's really difficult. why someone wants to spend so much money without need. Unless you are a billionaire. Just try to think that it's not a joke. Why are you worried? If you are able to carry a child then do it yourself. Don't rely on others. Everything will be alright. Don't think like that.
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Hi Sofia, how are you? Hope you are doing well. Thanks for sharing your experience with us. You are indeed a strong woman. After going through all this you didn't lose hope. I really appreciate your efforts. Surrogacy is the best option for you right now. I know it is a big step. But this is the only option. I have been through the same phase. I am an infertile. I am fighting against infertility from 5 years. Then my husband and i decided to go fro surrogacy. We consulted Lotus clinic regarding treatment. But they misguided us and took a large amount of money. We were not satisfied with their treatment and moved to a new clinic. Now our surrogate is pregnant with our baby. We are very happy.
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Yes Sofia, surrogacy is the answer for complicated cases like yours. My own case is very complicated and I am considering surrogacy myself. I really hope this works for me. I am currently contacting Lotus clinic in Ukraine. I am quite disappointed by there behavior.. They dont respond timely. And when I get there response I feel even more annoyed. They are very rude and harsh. I want to try some other clinic.
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Hey, Sofia I hope you're well. Infertility, and going through it was the hardest journey of my life. Every day you hope that things get better. However, luckily we do have treatments available that are enabling us to fight through it. My treatment journey started from IUI moved on to IVF however, none of them worked for me. Later I had to go for surrogacy. It was a really difficult decision to make. However, I had to make sure that I was making it right. I am glad that surrogacy was able to help me as well. I was scared when I opted for it. However, when the labor day came and they handed the baby to me it was the best feeling ever. I was so happy! I hope everything goes well for everyone. Just be well researched and aware. Good luck to all.
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Miscarriages are so heartbreaking to bear. I am so sorry you are going through this. It’s really so devastating. you are right surrogacy is a blessing for us. I'm also infertile due to heart disease. Two years ago I diagnosed heart disease. My doctor said to me that I cannot conceive. I was very upset. Later we decided to move to Europe for surrogacy.there are many good clinics in Europe. Who provides the best treatment for infertility.IVF and surrogacy are one of them. Now I have a cute baby boy. We are very happy. Surrogacy is really a blessing. Everyone should consider it.
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Hey Sofia! Hope so you will be fine. I think you should go for it. It's your right to have a baby. Every 6th couple facing such fertility issues is adopting this method d to make this dream come true. Then why don't you? I think you should go for it. One of my colleagues had some heart problem due to this she was unable to conceive. So surrogacy was the last option so she went for it and now she has a baby. I think it will be fruitful for you. Just keep trying, one day you will be successful. It's better than quitting My sympathies
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Surrogacy has proven to be amazing. Whenever I have to go to my clinic for something or another. I get to see a lot of IP clients. Some of them are anxiously waiting for the delivery while some are saying their Farwell. The happiness on their face is priceless. they are so excited about everything. I always tear up whenever I see a couple holding their child. I cant wait to hold mine as well.
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I just hope that you are doing great. Thank you so much for sharing your kind experience with us. Infertility requires a lot of struggle form a lady. I appreciate you as you did not lose the hope. You are indeed such a strong lady. Well, surrogacy has proven to be beneficial for individuals. It's really hard to opt one of the infertility treatments. Both surrogacy and IVF have high success rates. However, success chances in surrogacy are almost 100%. But in IVF, success is not guaranteed. Also in IVF, there's always a health risk. So, my DH agreed me to go for surrogacy. We consulted the Adonis Clinic first. But they did not reply to our emails. However, my friend suggested to me another clinic in Europe. With proud, I'm the mother of twins now! I will suggest surrogacy treatment to all of you!
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Hey there, Hope all will be fine to you. I have come to know your detail. I am very glad that you are a very positive personality. You have shared your detail in the very good way. It is good to take a suggestion. It will work very effectively for you. You just need to keep in touch with your gynecologist. Hope she will guide you very better. It will not a great loss that you are over 43. It is not an overage. You will be blessed with a child soon. My cousin sister also gets the child in 45. It does not matter. You have to just keep effort as well. I will pray for you. Wish you a very blessed life dear.
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Hey Sofia, If you are married the second time. It is not a thing that you feel any shame or doubt about it. You have said you are 43. So what. There are many people who married at this age at their first time. You no need to be conscious about it. You are looking confused. But I will advise you that. You should be more confident. That you have some experience before. It is not too much age as well. You can get a child with little effort. You no need to take any kind of tension. It will badly affect you as well. And you will destroy your health. So the main thing is to be positive. And also keep trying for it full of confidence. I am sure you will never be disappointed. Wish you very good luck. Keep sharing your experience.
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Heya. oh, my god. You are amazing. You dealt with your situation with so much patience. It inspires me. Not just me, but all the other women out here. You are the motivation to them. Many are scared to go for surrogacy. Or any other methods. But stories like these give them courage. You have to keep doing this good work. I really wish the best for you. If all of us try hard enough, happiness is just a step away. We just need not give up. Not to lose hope. But do anything possible to get what we desire. And luck shall be our destiny. Wishing you the very best. Prayers.
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There are a few things that need to be taken into consideration. You are right, The surrogate needs to be a perfect match. She needs to be sober. There shouldn't be any medical history. More importantly, she needs to have a past experience of giving birth. There was this weird case of a surrogate. It was related to some clinic in Europe. I guess it was Lotus. So they chose a surrogate who never gave birth before. She was fertile. Though since she was unfamiliar with pregnancy complications. She ended up miscarrying the baby. This is how important it is to choose a surrogate wisely. I am happy your clinic is careful.
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Sorry to hear about your situation. I got diagnosed with cancer last year. Doctors had to perform a hysterectomy. That surgery rid me of cancer. But I became infertile. I could not conceive. I could not become a mother. My biggest dream shattered at that very moment. I did not feel like living anymore. That's when my husband decided that we go for surrogacy. I was not sure though. But he found a clinic in Europe. He took me there. The doctors were so helpful. They assured us of the procedure. We decided to go for it. Thankfully, I will have a pair of twins soon.
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Hi, How are you? I am sorry to know about your infertility. You are a strong woman. Your post gives positivity to the readers. Yes, Surrogacy is perfect for you. Ukraine is best for surrogacy. I can assure that you will return with your baby. Best wishes to you.
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Hey Sofia. I am feeling very sad for your losses. You have gone through a lot. Your story is very shocking and heartbreaking. Dear, don't lose hope and stay positive. I am just very glad that your positive attitude towards your life. You are on the right way to have a baby now. Surrogacy is the right choice for you. one of my cousins also had a baby through surrogacy and she is enjoying a very healthy life now. I feel very happy for her now. Dear, just be careful in choosing your clinic because there are so many scams and fraud there like Lotus and Adonis. Wish you good luck.
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Though I am not the one who had either the surrogacy experience or having childer from surrogacy procedure. But yes I am the one among who are looking for the surrogacy procedure. To get the parenthood feeling back which u have been seeking all my life. I am sorry to hear about your MC. I know the pain of losing your child. Even I had MC at my TTC times. And that was the reason that I stopped being TTC and started looking for the surrogacy procedure. From the time I have shown up to this forum, I have observed so many women seeking for the surrogacy procedure. And most of them had their successful procedures. I am glad that you are one among. I would be wishing for your successful procedure. Good luck. Have a great journey.
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Hello Sofia. I am so sorry to hear about this. Having a miscarriage is a horror. I am sure you are a strong woman, and coping with it. You should go for the option for surrogacy. There is a clinic in Ukraine. Known as the bioTexCom. They have helped my cousin too. They have amazing services for IVF and surrogacy treatments. I would advise you to contact them. They will guide you through everything. Through surrogacy you will have your own child. And i am sure you want that. Have faith. Don't lose hope. everything will turn out fine. Bets of luck.
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Hello Sofia! how are you dear? No words can describe how sorry I am for you. You are really a brave lady. You must be a strength for others. Dear, I also had 4 miscarriages due to fetal abnormalities. I was TTC for 2 years. But luckily my husband found out the clinic in Europe. They suggested me both surrogacy and IVF. I was able to opt the IVF so I opted for that. My first attempt was successful. If you want to go for surrogacy the clinic also provides the best surrogate mothers. It is also a successful process. You must go for it. Good luck.
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Yes, my friend is doing so. It's going to be great. If you are thinking about it. Please go for it. Without any tension. It's not a tension at all. This is just great. It'll be alright. I think she must go for it.
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Hey. very happy for you that you shared information about them. surrogates woman really need appreciation. they are doing public service by my point of view. surrogacy is the best option ever found. surrogacy will provide you a hundred percent result. surrogate women usually provide hope to infertility. Through youb will have your own blood. your information worth alot to the infertile women. Have a blessed day. Best wishes to her!
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Hey Sofia! My condolences are with you for losing your child in a miscarriage. I can understand how painful it would have been for you. It is a loss that you never overcome. But you got to be strong dear. All this is part of life. Your patience and strength during all these years are very inspirational and encouraging. I have had a hysterectomy myself after I was diagnosed with cancerous polyps on my uterus. I was devastated and hopeless until I found out about surrogacy. It gave my life a meaning honestly. I had become all energetic and positive again. My cousin suggested me a clinic in Europe. I visited the doctors right away and they have been amazing so far. After reading a few negative posts about some clinics I realized how blessed I am to have found such a clinic in first go. Anyway, do share how yous surrogacy experience goes. Good luck!
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Dear Sofia! How are you? I think you have taken a right to have a baby. Every 6th couple facing is dealing with infertility and fulfilling their wishes by adopting certain alternate methods like surrogacy or IVF. Then why don't you? I think you should go for it. One of my colleagues was facing some heart issues due to this she was unable to conceive. So surrogacy was the last option for her to have a baby in her life. Later she went for it and now she has a baby. I think it you should also go for it. I hope one day you will also be successful. All my sympathies are with you
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I hope you are doing good. This is really great. You are right. Surrogacy has been able to complete the families of many patients. Many have been able to fulfill their dreams this way. Many clinics are there to provide such services. Which clinic are you referring to? My friend had contacted Lotus Clinic. She is trying to contact them for quite a long time. But, they don't seem bothered to reply back. They look like a spam to me. Telling them that it is a matter of urgency and still not getting a reply is pathetic. They don't even pick up their calls. The numbers are always busy. They have got a poor communication service ever. I must advise you not to choose this. If you have selected any other clinic which is good in this regard, kindly help us too. Thanks in advance. Sending baby dust to your doorsteps.
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With the passage of time, infertility has increased. Many couples have to face this problem these days. But, gladly many clinics are offering assisted methods of conception. There are a number of clinics in Ukraine these days. However, one needs to be safe in selecting a clinic. My sister has been recently betrayed by Lotus clinic. She is emailing them for the last three weeks. There is no reply to her. She is so frustrated now. It feels so bad to see her cry all the time. Looks like they have got a poorest communication service ever. They are breaking the trust of so many patients. We have now suggested her to give a try to another clinic now. I am sure they can help her out. All the best!
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Hey there, Sofia! I hope you're feeling better now. I'm very sorry to read about your complicated life story. You must've been through a terrible phase. I'm happy to see that you've decided to opt for a surrogacy procedure. It is the best solution to infertility, honestly. I am also an infertile person. I'm thankful to this heavenly clinic in Ukraine which guided me. I had a surrogacy procedure from there and I became a mother. You will also have a child soon. Just choose a good clinic and then everything is going to be smooth. You'll be attached to your child like you've given birth to him. The child will be genetically yours so don't worry. You'll be raising him right! All the best!
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Hi there. Hope you are doing. I am so sorry to hear about what you went through. It must have been really difficult. But don't stress about it. I have heard that these clinics are corrupt. Clinics such as lotus. My sister wanted to go for surrogacy. So she had contacted them. And they did not reply, neither did they even try. But don't take this to your heart. There are other clinics which are really good. I hope you find a better clinic. And that everything turns out fine.
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Hey! Hope you are doing good! Don't lose the hope girl! Every clinic is not the same! I had been victim of many scammers but finally found the right one! My colleague had suggested me to go to the Biotexcom! I also have heard lots of good reviews about them! In my office 3 surrogacy cases are successful! I am really grateful to her who gave me an honest advice! They are coming to Ukraine on 18th and 19th of this month! I am jumping with joy! Me and my DH are really excited to meet the team! We really want a kid! Our life is meaningless! Good luck to everyone!
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Hey there! I feel so sorry for your infertility. Surrogacy is a blessing indeed. Good to know that you are looking forward to an alternative. I am also an infertile person. I had faced infertility for so long. Then I came to know about surrogacy. I had opted for surrogacy. I went to Ukraine and found a reputable clinic. I had blessed with a baby boy. I had a great experienced in the clinic. I have been provided with great services. Surrogacy completes many families so I suggest you should go for it. Best wishes. God bless you.
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Hey Leslie! it's good that you asked for suggestions before making a bad decision. You can operate for either surrogacy or IVF if you have been trying to conceive for more than a year without any results. The question is which one of them is better ? well, there are pieces you must keep in mind before making a decision. Going for surrogacy the woman partner is incapable to carry the child, a desire that is now in most women. IVF involves the fertilization of a woman's eggs by the sperm of the proposed father in a lab dish. This is an option for couples who need to have a baby on their own. Chances of a victorious pregnancy are usually higher with surrogacy rather than to IVF. Even though the rate of pregnancy is higher than the IVF, there are uncertainties included in it. The genes of the surrogate mother can change the growth of the unborn baby hence, a surrogate mother has to be chosen with utmost care. As for risks associated with IVF, ovarian hyperstimulation syndrome just like swollen and painful ovaries, ectopic fertility and stress can take place if IVF is operated for. Based on these factors, you can make the choice of a method that is best suited for you. Having a child is a great blessing from God Tell her to take a step and God will be with her. My best wishes are with her and good luck. :)
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You have indeed been through a lot. I believe opting for a gestational carrier is indeed a good decision that you have made. I myself am in almost the end phases of the journey. I am so excited to finally meet the little ones. We have been looking at them through the ultrasound pictures. The clinic has been nice in this manner! They always send us the scan pictures. I always get so emotional about seeing the pictures. I hope things go well for you as well. Just make sure to visit the right clinic for the process. It is important that for surrogacy the clinic has the experience. It involves a lot of legal paperwork which requires expertise. If you want details on the clinic I am visiting do let me know. I think helping others is very important. Sending baby dust your way.
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Hi there Sofia! I hope you are doing well. You are right surrogacy is a great option, but IVF is a good option as well. Both have the same success rate so it really depends on what's best for you. I m glad that you shared all the information about Surrogacy. Many people will benefit from this. I also had my baby through surrogacy. So i know how successful that treatment is. I m raising a child from surrogacy and it's no different. I know you are worried about somethings but don't be. It's just like a natural pregnancy. Good luck! Stay blessed! Keep us updated.
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Hey Sofia! I am so sorry for what you are going through. I know how hard it is to deal with infertility. I am so sorry for your losses. You had 3 miscarriages, you are such a strong lady. I m still glad that you are looking forward to surrogacy. I am also opting for that clinic. All the reviews i have heard so far about that clinic are positive. So i m quite hopeful that things will work out for me. If you are also going there for treatment then don't worry you are in good hands. Everything will work out if you just follow the doctor's instructions. Good luck. Stay blessed. Bye!
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He Sofia, I hope things go well for you. I am in the middle of the process and so far things are going really well. So far there are things that I have learned and I would want to share them with you. Make sure the clinic you are visiting is operating at a high success rate. The clinic should be experienced in this process. The process is a long one and one should be patient. The clinic I am visiting is doing an amazing job. If you want I can provide you with their information.
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Hey, honey. I hope you're doing okay. What a brilliant story. I'm really happy for you. Thank you for sharing your story. It's really motivating and inspiring. Here's to hoping this helps people take the next step. This is really nice of you.
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Hello, Sofia. My hopes are that you'll be in good health. I'm so sorry to read about your struggles. Three miscarriages are a lot! I can relate to some extent, as I had one, as well. It was a tough time to handle. It took me such a long time to try again. Please don't lose hope, though. You're on the right track, to be fair. Visiting a fertility clinic might just be the ideal situation. Surrogacy could be on the cards, too. You should maybe, try IVF or even IUIs. I think it makes more sense to consult the professionals. They know better for sure! Keep the faith, alright? It'll happen for you. Good luck to you!
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I'm really sorry to hear about your struggles. At the same time, I'm glad you've found a solution. It's great to see, actually. I'm super happy for you. Don't worry, about things. It's going to be alright. Good luck to you! Sending baby dust and love your way.

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