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my real struggle
Hi, I am Rosalie a resident of France. After completing my education and I have been working in a MNC since 2010. Like every other girls marriage was never on my priority list. Thought it happened, I met my husband in a seminar and after a year of courtship we got married. Initially there was no trouble in paradise. After settling down we started our family planning; at that time we faced the reality of life hard. Since childhood I am a patient of acute hyperthyroidism. I still take medicine for thyroid and go through a routine checkup. I thought we live in country where new technologies are introduced every day, so having a baby won’t be problem. I never thought that my medical issues will be the barrier between my child and me. I can’t tell you how many times we have tried to conceive, how much money we spent to get pregnant or to have a baby. No one is there to rely upon. After struggling for years we are now looking for something promising. After some research on Google I get to know that IVF is becoming a rage so can anyone help me with the IVF/ surrogacy procedure? We will be grateful to you. Let me tell you one thing we can go to any extend to have our own baby. I hope people will feel our pain and will help us as much as possible.
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Hello. I can feel your pain. Thought I am lucky to have my child without any complications. I can suggest you a clinic, named BIOTEXCOM. Contact numbers are +16 46794-55-45, +38(097)604-11-29. One of my relatives is under their supervision, she was suffering from miscarriages several time. They have 10 years of experience in human reproduction. They conduct surrogacy and egg plantation at very reasonable cost. They also make sure that their clients get the utmost luxury and comfort. As Boitexcom is an international clinic they have visitors from other countries too so they provide staying at high class hotels. They also maintain transparency to their clients so that you have an idea what is exactly happening. God bless you.
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hi, sorry to hear about your problem. More and more women are struggling with fertility issues and it scares. I don't know the reason for that but I can't stand when other who truly don't want babies are getting pregnant. They leave that children on streets and so on, why they act like that? Is it fair when a young lady is suffering from an infertility and drug addicted does an abortion? That's awful and disgusting... we all deserve to be happy and satisfied.. why we should use some reproductive treatments in order to get pregnant? sorry about that, I really feel for you as I have faced almost the same... Anyway, keep trying and searching for a good place for you. p.s. pay attention to the europe and ukraine, i believe you'll find something there that will suit your needs
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My friend, she is 35 years old, her husband - 30. She gave birth on 07.03.2007 to her son. Second marriage. In the first - she had 2 abortions for wild stupidity. Then she had an ectopic pregnancy and ... a complete set: the obstruction of the remaining tube, chronic endometrium, endometriosis, hormonal disorders. She had no pregnancies from her second marriage. The first attempt of IVF - and immediately luck. IVF she did in biotexcom. Before IVF - she was given hysteroscopy with scraping. Gentle stimulation drove + diferelin, a short protocol. 2 eggs, 1 embryo. Transplant on the 3rd day. Tests took hold on the 9th day. On day 14 - a blood test 570. Prices for IVF are very acceptable, you do not need to pay for chrome lifts and marble stairs, the equipment is the most modern. Medical staff treats patients as their relatives, the situation is very homely.
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First of all, I want to appreciate your craze to know world-class latest treatment to defeat infertility problem. You should not lose hope in life. I also face same problem like you in my life and now I am enjoying healthy baby gift in my life. I hope you get the baby gift like me by following these effective tips and tricks that is sufficient to clear all your doubts in easy and effective way. I am feeling proud to help you to give healthy baby gift on behalf of my own life experience. This is win-win situation for you and me. You get sufficient information and I get full satisfaction from my heart to help you to enjoy baby gift. It is very important to have great bonding with your husband to understand each other physical needs and emotion very well. I get full cooperation from my husband side. We consult with popular gynecologist to choose best-in-class latest medical base treatment to defeat infertility problem. I want to express gratitude of God’s on this online forum to understand my problem and provide best in class services at real value of time and money. IVF is most popular and reliable treatment of infertility. It has higher success rate than any other treatment. Surrogacy treatment is one step further from IVF test tube baby. It is your smart choice to choose surrogate mother with healthy egg donor that is profitable for you in many ways. You can easily avoid miscarriage problem with surrogacy. I also choose surrogacy to complete my dream into reality. I hope you got sufficient information to clear your doubts in easy way.
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To Anari Hi, I just want to say that your friend is crazy lucky because not all can get pregnant with the first try. It's a miracle that they got 1 embryo and she had a successful transfer. I remember my transfer it was crazy! They got to transfer 3 embryo at the first time but i was a fail, I didn't get my lucky numbers haha. Then with the second attempt they got to transfer 3 embryo as well, luckily 2 got to implant. I see she had 3 day embryo as far as i know they do a transfer of 5 days embryo. Why they allowed you to transfer that one embryo? Didn't they tell the there was a high risk it didn't survive? was it a biotex right? oh, what kind of package did she has?
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Hello junemaria52, I am very sorry for you, tell me please is this thyroid problem affected by the inability to have children? Yes, IVF is now a very popular procedure, but you must understand that it is not always possible to get pregnant on the first attempt. On average, you need to make 2-3 attempts. If you have doubts about IVF, then you can ask for help in the maternity clinic. There you will be picked up by a suitable surrogate mother, after which you will make a contract with her. And then you will need to go directly to the procedure itself. Of course, both these procedures require material costs, but here it is important to heed the doctor's recommendations. He will be able to tell you whether there is a point in the IVF procedure or you need to turn to a surrogate mother. Usually, all clinics that deal with IVF also provide services for surrogate motherhood. But it is important not to make mistakes with the country. Because commercial surrogate motherhood is not allowed in all countries of the world. And not in all countries it is regulated by law. I know that in Ukraine commercial surrogate motherhood is allowed and legislated by this country on the side of biological parents. And also I know that commercial surrogate motherhood is allowed in Africa. But I did not read reviews from the girls who took advantage of this service there. That's why I can not say anything about Africa.
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Hey junemaria52........ Its really sad to know your story ............ I feel your pain as one of my closest friend also suffer from the same situation and know she has a beautiful baby girl ...... Dear Never loose your hope ....... Go ahead with the treatments you will definitely succeed one day ....... Dear Ivf is a procedure which is very famous and also become successful .... This procedure includes expelling an egg from a lady's ovaries and preparing them utilizing sperm in a research facility. The prepared egg, otherwise called a developing life, is moved once more into a lady's womb to develop. It comprise the usage of eggs and sperm from the couple themselves, or these can be sourced from a benefactor. It is a very effective treatment ......... Hope it works for you also ...... Good Luck Dear!!!
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In any case you should be prepare for the bad result. In some cases the docs aren't able to get a good amount of eggs. it depends on different factors like bad reaction to the stimulation or some issues with the ovaries. But in any case don't be upset with that. Thanks to modern medicine you could reach your goals. i do believe that docs will get AA eggs for you. By the way, how's your journey moving on? have you started your stimulation?
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Hi dear. After consulting with one of my friends we choose one of the best clinics in Ukraine, Lotus Clinic. We came back from Ukraine a couple of days ago. We are nervous; it's only the beginning of our way to becoming mom and dad. But we have only positive emotions and impressions. I'll begin from the start. We arrived in Ukraine at 9 AM. To be honest, my heart was pounding like crazy. I thought I'll have a heart attack! My wife seemed very calm, though I think she was also worrying deep inside. A taxi driver had already waited for us. He helped us with our luggage. Very pleasant man I must say) He carried us right to the clinic by his car. We were provided with a manager; she was translating and explaining the procedure and services for us. There were many people and lines were long, but time flew by. Then we met with your doctor. She told us everything we need to know about surrogacy, medical tests, and requirements to surrogate mothers and so on. Everything was clear and legible. We've already learned all packages so we knew which one to choose. We asked all questions we had, looked at the clinic and talked with our doctor. The only thing left was signing a contract. We've chosen a standard package. What to tell about accommodation. It has all we needed; I mean kitchen, fridge, stove, bathroom, bedroom, tv. Cozy and comfy place! We were also provided with food supply and smartphones. Also, we made all needed medical tests. Everything was exactly the same our friend told us. So now we are home, waiting for 'news' from the clinic. I hope they will contact us soon. My wife has already started to think how child's room will look. I think it's too early, but she said it eases the waiting.
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Hi dear sister. I can understand your situation very well. I know it is very difficult for you to accept the fate of life. But I am really happy that you decide to go further and finally choose the best way to get fertile. It is the dream of every woman to get fertile and start the family. If you want to get fertile and desire to go with IVF then Lotus Clinic is second to none in Ukraine. Here you can get the guaranteed result and able to get fertile too. Now you do not need to lose your pocket much and get the advance medical research IVF treatment that perfectly meets your requirement. Due to the irregular periods and imbalance of the hormones, there are many complications encounter during the fertility. Now you have the golden opportunity to defeat the infertility issues and become pregnant and conceive the baby. I am here to support you and suggest you to go with IVF where you can get latest and advance medical IVF treatment which is highly recommended in Ukraine and it defeat the infertility issues. On the other hand, you can go with the surrogacy and with the help of high quality of eggs you can get fertile and able to conceive the baby. Surrogacy is quite expensive but it enhances the chance to get fertile. If you want to get the affordable surrogacy or IVF treatment then Lotus Clinic is the best option for you. You can get the excellent service and facility. Both treatments are reliable and you can consult with the expert of Lotus Clinic and get the best treatment according to your age and condition of your health.
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Hi dear! Many people have expressed their thoughts here. I think it is also the matter of money, when you choose between surrogacy and IVF. It is not only about your health. Surely, if you cannot get pregnant after many attempts, your choice is limited to adoption or surrogacy. However, you may consider surrogacy with your own eggs. So you will not have to go through long and painful IVF. But this is in case you have enough money to fund you. Also there are some difficulting with finding a surrogate and legal issues.But it depends on which country you are from. Not necessarily your treatment must be in your country. You can aslo travel. It is called medical tourism. It is very trendy now. You can see the world and get a contract with a clinic. Many clinics cover everything - your stay, food, legal documents, tours. And also they find you a healthy surrogate. Good luck!
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Hello, it's very sad to read your story. But I know that you can try to solve your problem! I understand that you have not done IVF yet? And why, because you can just try to do it. And also you need to find a good doctor who will be engaged in the process of your treatment. The doctor will tell you whether you can give birth or not. If not, you can go to the reproductive medicine clinic. There you can be offered a surrogate motherhood service. You will be picked up by a suitable surrogate mother and you can start IVF. It will be very good if you can use your eggs and your husband's sperm. You will need to sign a contract with a surrogate mother. There you will need to discuss all the issues, all the important aspects. you will agree with her the amount of remuneration and terms of cooperation. I advise you to look for an unmarried or divorced surrogate mother. This will help you avoid problems with her husband. In addition, you will not need to worry about whether they have an intimate relationship and whether it will not hurt the child. Many couples live together with a surrogate mother. But many couples do not live together, even in different countries and come only for childbirth.
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Hey there! I hope you're doing well. I'm very to know about your infertility. I deeply empathize with you. But hey? Don't lose hope. Ever. Hope is the key to success. Miracles happen every day. Never stop believing. Your only solutions are IVF or Surrogacy. Both have their plus points. IVF feels like a natural pregnancy. I didn't go for it because of my weak body. I had 3 MCs in 2 years. So, my body had been very weak. Then even if I would've conceived, it would result in a miscarriage. So, surrogacy was my take. It was the best decision of my life. I chose a Ukranian clinic for my process. They have high success rates and are very much organized. They offer cheap processes with the best services. I had an amazing process because of which I'm living a happy life with my son. I hope you make a wise choice. Good Luck!
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Hey, your English isn't bad at all like many French people haha. I am sorry for what you have been through. You are not alone. IVF would help you to get a baby. Your eggs will be fertilized externally. This way the chances of your conceiving will get higher. Do some research and watch some youtube videos. You will get it all.
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Hey! I am so sorry for you. I know every woman wants babies but only few can fulfil their dream to be a mother. I know its painful sometimes when you think about your infertility. I had 3 miscarriages after that I was not able to conceive. I was so upset but that was in fate. I chose surrogacy for me. I think surrogacy would work for you too. Surrogacy was like my last hope and I went for it. I am a happy mother now. I hope this would help you too.
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Hi June! I hope you are in good health. I understand what you are going through. Infertility can be very hard. I have also gone through this situation. I am glad that you did not lose hope and considering IVF/Surrogacy for conceiving. I have gone through both so I will try to give you as much information as I can. surrogacy and IVF, both are beautiful processes, however, IVF is only successful if the uterus is in good health and since you have been taking medications all your life, you should first get yourself checked to see if you are able to conceive. I had to take a number of medication during TTC for 2 years and My IVF failed so I had to resort to surrogacy. Either way, it is best to get yourself properly checked before making this decision. I hope I was of help to you. Take care.
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Surrogacy gives the infertile people a chance to have some kids.Surrogacy is very good according to me.Surrogacy should not be banned.It is the source of happiness for many people.Surrogate moms give kids to others who are unable to have kids naturally. For me surrogacy is the best thing in the world.i was infertile and i got my twin daughters from surrogacy. Go for surrogacy i will suggest as it is a easy and smooth procedure to have a baby. Good luck.
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Sorry to hear about your too long struggle and still no luck with having a baby. Surrogacy will be good for you i guess. There is a well known clinic in Ukraine for surrogacy. The surrogacy procedure of the clinic is much popular across the Europe. While researching about surrogacy i had seen the name of this clinic many times. than i started following the youtube channel of the clinic and i learnt alot from their videos. They guarantee that you will have a baby at the end. Surrogacy is a very good procedure for women who can't have a baby naturally. I was also looking for alternative for my miscarriages and i found surrogacy to be the ultimate solution for my problem of infertility. Have a look at the video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LJJ-8uhOmW8&feature=youtu.be . The video is about the guarantee that at the end you will leave the clinic or the country holding your baby. I am much satisfied about the clinic and i am waiting for my husband to decide when we move to Ukraine to start our journey of surrogacy.
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Hey Rosalie. How are you? I hope you're doing well. I can understand the struggle. One can have the life of their dream, but still be dependent on luck for a baby. It's really disappointing when the news of our infertility is broken. It took me years to accept this lifestyle. I'm glad you've taken it well. It's important to get okay with your condition. Surrogacy and IVF are both very good methods. If the cost isn't an issue, I'd suggest you go for surrogacy. It's safer and is more successful than IVF. There's a clinic in Ukraine that offers both services. I'd suggest you check them out. Good luck!
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Sorry to hear about your problem. I can feel your pain. I can understand your struggle. We are in the same boat.I know how depressed the situation is. I am also an infertile. I can't have my baby because of my heart disease. I am from Japan. Surrogacy is banned there. I heard about Ukraine clinics of surrogacy. We moved Ukraine. There i found Bio TexCom clinic of surrogacy. I am amazed with their staff and response. They found a good surrogate for me. Now i have a surrogate child. I am happy with my family. Dear, you also have to visit Bio TexCom. I hope your problem will be solved soon. For more details visit http://mother-surrogate.info/
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Hey, I hope you're doing well. Yes IVF and surrogacy both are the treatments that are highly successful. It really does depend on your situation for it to work out. Also, one of the really important things during the process is that you visit the right doctor and a right clinic. Since these treatments are costly it is extremely important that none of that goes into a waste. I myself have got done both these treatments. IVF didn't work for me due to the severity of the medical issue, however, surrogacy did work. One of the reasons why it worked was because the clinic I opted was experienced and knew what they were doing.
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Hi there Rosalie. How are you doing? hope you are in the best of your health. Congratulations on your marriage. I am sorry you have to go through so much pain. TTC is really hard. Don't lose hope on it. IVF is a great procedure but in your case, the success rates might be really low. I think you should go for surrogacy. Surrogacy is a blessing for infertile couples like you and me. Because of surrogacy am now the mother of a beautiful baby girl. I got my surrogacy done from a clinic in Ukraine called Biotex Com. It has a lot of good reputation. I have read many success stories about it and decided to give it a try myself. I think you should go for surrogacy too. Hope my advice helps you. Take care. Best of luck.
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Hey there. How are you doing? I hope its all great. I am really sorry to hear about your problem. I know it must really hard for you. I have been through it. It is never easy. Infertility really upsets your life. I wish there was a cure for it. However, we do have an alternate. Surrogacy and IVF are great options. They have helped many people. I have had surrogacy my self. You should research clinics in Ukraine. They are very well known for surrogacy. I wish you good luck. take care.
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Hi Rosalie. How are you doing? I hope ist all good. I am really sorry to hear about your problem. It really breaks my heart. I have been through it too. I know the pain. I was left infertile in an operation. My husband introduced me to surrogacy. I would like to tell you that it changed my life. I would suggest you the same. A child is the dream of every woman. I wish you good luck. I hope to hear good news soon. Take care of yourself. don't stress out. Good luck.
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hello hun. how are you? I hope your fine. do not lose hope. I'm here for you. I can understand your pain. please don't give up. do note sadly. and do not let negative thoughts come into your mind. surrogacy is a sure shot as compared to IVF. the baby will be from your womb in IVF. whereas, in surrogacy, a surrogate mom will give birth. hope this was helpful. take care. will wait for your updates. bye.
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Hello dear. That’s sad to know. However, don’t think you’re alone. There’s not a reason to give up or something like that. Okay, you tried a lot. You should keep on trying. The thyroid problems are really exhausting. It’s bad to have issues with glands for women. It may cause different consequences. But as I know there’s nothing that could be solved. My problem is even more radical. I just don’t have womb. After surgery I had to change my view toward different things. Actually infertility happens to us. it’s a tragedy. Such an event changes everything around. You begin appreciating what you had lost. Some girls or even adult women are anxious so much. They got suddenly pregnant. They don’t know what to manage. Frequently they decide to commit abortion. They think children will spoil their perspective. It is funny for me now. But I was the same years ago. I was in big depression. Now, I’m fine. My husband and I are planning to become parents. We now participate in surrogacy. I’ll not mention my clinic and even country. I think it’s a bit like forcing to choose. I don’t know. It’s not a forum dedicated to advertising. So, I’ll try to give advice in less bothersome manner. Unfortunately, France bans surrogacy. It’s strange for me. Such developed countries as France, Germany, and Italy don’t permit their residents to have surrogacy. People forms there have to look for options. They spend much money and time. Additionally they meet scams and frauds. Some say it’s because of religion. I think that’s so because it’s not profitable for government. There couldn’t be any explanations. Most people now write about Ukraine. Don’t avoid checking this option. It really has many advantages. They have perhaps the most loyal price police among others. It is not at the expense of declining quality. They work with French couples as well. Could you specify your prescription? Did your doctor say you needed surrogacy or what? Anyway it option is good. In case you have hormonal disorder. You can’t produce your own eggs. They can offer you perfect donor database. Happily, I didn’t have total hysterectomy. My ovaries are still with me. They are working well. Thus I have surrogacy with my own eggs. I wish you good luck in your finding. Check your agencies before trust them.
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Sad to hear your story. Often we are so much busy in making our dreams that we forget about so many things that could be happened to us. Like infertility. Who could think of this thing before it struck us? No one of course. Sounds good that you could go any far to have your baby. That the courage we should have. We should know how much important this thing is in our life. We could never live in bits and pieces. We want a complete life. IVF and Surrogacy are equally effective treatments But they have quite different procedures. Like if you have good eggs or either you have got perfect donor match you could go with IVF. But there you have to be good to conceive. Else in surrogacy. If you are having complications in conceiving. You could hire a surrogate that could carry your baby.
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Hello Rosalie. It's sad to read your post. But you are not alone in this journey. Many people have suffered through this problem. But IVF and surrogacy have solved problems of many infertile ones. Now people can have their own baby. These processes are very impressive. I am also unable to conceive. I have tried 5 years to conceive. We tried so hard, but all in vain. Then I searched for surrogacy. I go for surrogacy. And now I have a baby girl of nine months. Ukraine is a good place for these treatments. They treat people in a great manner. Clinics are not expensive there. BioTexCom is one of the good clinics in Ukraine.
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Hi there Rosalie, How are you? Hope you are enjoying good health. My heartiest congratulations on your marriage. Seeing you in such trouble has broken my heart. TTC is the biggest problem among married couples faces. Dear, don't give up and lose hope. IVF is a working treatment but in your case, success chances are very low. I would like to suggest you the surrogacy treatment. Surrogacy is such a great blessing of science. Surrogacy treatment has totally changed my life. I had surrogacy treatment from Europe. People have shared many positive reviews about this clinic. Almost all fertility experts recommend this treatment. Don't get so much anxiety and go for it. I just hope that my advice will make your work done. Take care and best wishes to you.
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Of course, you are right. You do think correct that we live in a country where new innovations take place every day. You thought that baby won't be any problem in such conditions. This is a good thought. Still, you got problems and now you are all worried about this. I think this is not a problem anymore. You don't need to be worried about this. There are many methods available for you. You can get help from those methods. That would be really great for you. Everything will be fine my friend. Just be patient and keep yourself calm. Something is going to come up soon.
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If you are planning to go for IVF or surrogacy, you must first know that how fit you are for any of these processes. The fertility clinic will give you the right suggestion in this case. They will help you find the right solution in the right time. With proper diagnosis and tests the doctor will decide what is right for you. As far as the procedural details are concerned you can check the details on various available internet sources. The fertiloty clinic will also provide you all the essential details. Wshing you all the best in the coming days.
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Hi there, I hope you may be fine. It’s a painful procedure. You have gone through a lot of tough time. Life purpose is to move on.IVF May be fail. So you go for surrogacy. Well, it’s a treatment in which you get your own biological child. A surrogate mother is appointed to you. My friend was suffering through a lot. IVF doesn’t work on her because she was not healthy. So she visited clinics in Europe . They treated her really well. Now she is having 3 children. She is loving it. You will also love it. Got for it and don’t hesitate. Best of luck my dear friend.
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Hello, How are you? Hope you are doing good. I really appreciate your efforts that you won't gave up and tried again and again. In Ukraine, There are clinics you must consult them. The doctors will suggest you treatment. Either IVF or surrogacy according to your condition. Never lose hope. Just stick to your aim. You will definitely get it one day. all my sympathies are with you. best of luck.
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Well, I am really sorry for your condition. What can I say? It is really hard for you to believe this. It is hard for me as well. You shouldn't be married when you know that from your childhood. Well, it's everyone's right to be happy. You just followed the right path. Don't worry, everything will be alright for you.
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Hey rosalie! How are you? I hope you are doing great. I am sorry that you have hyperthyroidism. And that you are having to give up your dream of becoming a mother for it, that's sad. I wish you were not going through all this. I never knew that hyperthyroidism could cause infertility. There is always a way though. IVF and surrogacy are great. There is a difference between them. You need to understand that. And you also need to know the process suitable for you. How this hyperthyroidism is effecting you is necessary. So you can know what will be more suitable. See a doc. Set up an appointment. Good luck.
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I am glad to see you are being sensible here. This is all because you are well educated and well aware. Just one thing. Surrogacy and IVF are two different things. IVF would eventually lead you to carry your own baby. Whereas in surrogacy, a surrogate will carry the baby. I think you just have a problem conceiving. So you can opt for IVF. Look up for clinics near you.
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Hello, Rosalie from France. I am sorry to know about you. It is a dream of every woman to be a mother. Even ever since childhood. I know how hard it is to accept the fact that you cannot conceive naturally. It is something really difficult to absorb. But you don't have to lose hope. Stay calm and positive. IVF and surrogacy etc are there to help you. IVF is the process in which your eggs and sperms are kept outside your body. After fertilization, they are transferred back into our uterus. While in surrogacy, your eggs and sperms are kept in the surrogate mother's uterus. Both of these are great procedures to go with. Choice of the method depends on your condition. I hope you will figure out everything soon. Best wishes.
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I felt deep grief for you. Having children is the biggest desire of any couple. I know how hard it would be to know that you cannot conceive a child. It’s something really difficult to bear. But all you need is courage and devotion. Stay optimistic and think positively. IVF and surrogacy are some treatments recommended by science. In IVF, the intended mother carries a child. While in surrogacy, the third surrogate mother is involved. Both of the treatments are beneficial. But both of them have pros and cons. Success rates of surrogacy are higher than surrogacy. Also, there’s not any health risk in surrogacy. So, I will also recommend you the surrogacy treatment. Now, the final decision will be yours whether you opt for surrogacy or IVF. Wishing you good luck!
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Hey, I felt deep grief for your condition. I remained shocked after reading your case. I know it would be difficult for you to face such times. But dear don’t be so much pain. There are many scientific solutions to that problem. You’d contact your doctor and make an appointment in this regard. Your doctor will give you some fruitful opinion in this regard.
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Dear junemaria52. I can feel the pain. This time is really difficult for you. First of all, don't lose hope there are many options to have this blessing. IVF is one of them. I personally have an experience of it. I was not able to conceive because of premature ovarian failure. But then I found a clinic in Europe. It was not an easy process. You have to go through physical and mental stress but worth it. My doctor told me that it may not be successful but it is the best option. First time I got failure but then on the second attempt it was successful. I am really happy and overjoyed that I am 22 weeks pregnant with a healthy baby. I can't wait to see him in my hands. I will recommend you to go for it. Wish you luck in the process.
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I will say go for surrogacy. It is easier and successful method of having a baby. As i have gone through it that is why i am saying for surrogacy. Surrogacy was successful for my family. I had hysterectomy cancer due to which i was infertile for life. So we decided to go for surrogacy. And it turns to be a real straight success for us without any issue. Now we will have our twin daughters from this surrogacy. That is why i suggest surrogacy. Good luck to you friend.
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Surrogacy is the blessing for an infertile couple. The best thing is that your husband is supportive. In this case, you're lucky. Most females don’t have luck like you. Surrogacy will be best if it is treated by a good clinic. There are many clinics like Adonis and Lotus in Ukraine. They are just deceiving people. So when you choose surrogacy then chose the best clinic for it. There is a good clinic in Europe. They are best in dealing with surrogacy. I wish you a very good luck for your surrogacy journey. You have taken a very right decision. It will be good for you. Remember difficulties in your journey makes your destination beautiful. Till then best of luck.
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So sorry to hear about your problem dear. Don't be stressed. Surrogacy and IVF are two possible options. I've heard about many success cases for both of them. Many good clinics in Europe offer these treatments. I would say that be strong. Never lose hope. All the best!
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Surrogacy is the blessing for an infertile couple. The best thing is that your husband is supportive. In this case, you're lucky. Most females don’t have luck like you. Surrogacy will be best if it is treated by a good clinic. There are many clinics like Adonis and Lotus in Ukraine. They are just deceiving people. So when you choose surrogacy then chose the best clinic for it. There is a good clinic in Europe. They are best in dealing with surrogacy. I wish you a very good luck for your surrogacy journey. You have taken a very right decision. It will be good for you. Remember difficulties in your journey makes your destination beautiful. Till then best of luck.
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Hello June. Just went through your story! Yes! It's clearly understandable. I'm also having surrogacy this July at a repro center in Kiev. So, I'd endorse you to go for it. They also offer IVF, IUI and all relative procedures. So, yeah! Best of luck! Let me know if you need anything else?
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Hey Junemaria, I am extremely sorry for the situation you are in. For any women, it's really a hard time. You have really faced the hot waters. It is too tough for anyone physically and mentally to fight the double miscarriages. This takes a few years. No matters it will be a tough time for women. There are several alternatives that can make your life easier and after following them you can be rewarded with your wish. Natural conception has become impossible then you went for IVF Or surrogacy. just remember that you need to be really careful about choosing the right clinic. It will be important to you There is a number of clinics that are playing with the people. So just find out the best one and get a good result. Be blessed.
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I am really sorry to know your problem. I may not be able to understand what you are going through. Being fertile but still not being able to have children is very hard to accept. But, I want to appreciate you not losing hope and looking at other options. Many women give up on having children altogether, if they are told that they cannot conceive naturally. I think you should move forward with the IVF procedure. If you are not fit enough to carry the baby, then the clinic may suggest surrogacy. I hope it turns out in the best possible way
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Ohh dear, I can feel your pain. It is such a heartbroken disease I know. I can understand it very well because my best friend also facing this issue. She goes to check it by many doctors. But she feels that the pain increase day by day. Then she comes to know about the clinic placed in Europe. She goes to them. Now she is fine. Wish you too best of luck
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I have read your post just as I came online. I am so sorry for your condition. But never lose hope dear. There is my neighbor also facing the same situation. She makes treatment for it from the best clinic. She is so much happy now. You also try to get the best advice and the best clinic. I will pray for you. Hope all will be good to you.
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Rosalie. I am very sorry to hear your news. No one should be deprived of the joys of life. But these problems are making us hollow each day. The fact that you're fighting against it, is awesome. I really pray for you to succeed. For your query, I've had both surrogacy and IVF myself. IVF didn't really work for me. And the fact that you are on thyroid problems, it can become hard for you to carry your own baby. Surrogacy would be fit for you. You and your husband's germ cells will be used. The surrogate mother will just be the carrier. I suggest you look into fertility clinics of Europe for that matter. They're amazing at what they're doing. They'll handle everything. I wish you the very best of luck. Lots of prayers.

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