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Miscarriages
I had 3 miscarriages. I had many complications while getting pregnant. I was TTC from 11 years but had no luck. I went for many treatments but no positive result was founded. Finally after 11 years i conceived for the first time. We were so happy. Than at 12 week i miscarried. I was sad and depressed. Than i was pregnant again for 2 more times and the same thing happend i miscarried twice again. My husband left me and i was totally broke. Now i'm 43 years old and i am going to be married again for the second time. I have told my husband about my previous complications. He told me that we can go for surrogacy to have a baby now. I am so happy that soon i will have a baby. He has contacted a clinic in Ukraine. They will soon give us date for our surrogacy process.
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Sorry to hear about your miscarriages. I will suggest you surrogacy because i have been through this by myself that is why i will suggest surrogacy. It is better to suggest others from which you have gone through. I am going through the successful journey of surrogacy that is why i am telling you about it. I had hysterectomy cancer from my adulthood. I had proper treatment of it and i was cancer free. But i was infertile for life. But my husband always supported me and we decided to start our journey of surrogacy. We lived in Japan and surrogacy is totally banned here. So we moved to Ukraine. There we found a very good clinic regarding surrogacy. We started our journey there. The clinic is very good the whole clinic is to cooperative with there clients. From that clinic our surrogacy journey started. Now our surrogate is pregnant with our twin daughters. We are so happy that we are finally going to have our babies soon. Good luck to you with your plans and journey,
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Hey there! How are you? Hope you are doing well. It made me sad to hear your story, but on the other hand, it also inspired me. It taught me to never lose hope. You are a strong woman. Always be strong and hopeful ahead. You did a great job to tell your husband about your past experience. Hope for the best dear. There are many good clinics which offer surrogacy. Your story inspired me. One should never be desperate whatever the situation is. I am also facing a lot. Your story gives me courage. I wish you all the best for your surrogacy. Good luck!
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I am so sorry to hear all this. Your life has been so tough for you. I totally understand what you must have gone through. I can feel your pain. But you have to stay strong. Things will be fine at your side very soon. I am sure about that. The guy who left you did not deserve you. Don't think about him. He did not value you. He did not care for you. He did not see what situation you were going through. This is very sad. But thank God you have got the right guy. He is still willing to marry you. And this is beautiful. Take care of him always. Value him because he's really nice. I hope you are understanding me. Good luck with your surrogacy journey. Sending baby dust your way.
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Hi,I Mccarthy and I am feeling very bad to hear about your miscarriages. If I feel your pain so deeply then I can’t imagine that how you faced all these complications in your life. Being a mother is God’s Blessing ,if someone is unable to be a mother then it is very very painful. I want to share my story with you so that you can compensate with your pain. I was an adopted child and became depressed day by day due to worst behavior of my parents. After passing the time,I started to take pills that made me infertile. It is also painful for me like you. I tried from last 5 years but it did’nt work. My sister told me about surrogacy,it is the best option for us.but I want to tell you about Lotus and Adnois clinics,they are not real because they did’nt give me any response. kindly beware from them.
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Sometimes life is very unfair to us. I'm very sorry about your losses, dear. There isn't any pain greater than the pain of losing your unborn baby. It must've been a very traumatizing situation for you. The time where your husband should've supported you, he left you. He was an uncourageous person, dear. I'm glad you found the man who really cares for you. Supporting you in good and bad times is what a husband is supposed to do. Surrogacy is a beautiful process. It will surely fulfill your dream of having a baby. You've chosen the best country for surrogacy. Ukraine has the most affordable prices with amazing services. Just choose a clinic with good customer reviews. I hope you have an amazing process done. Good luck!
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Hey Sofia! I am sorry for what you had gone through. But good to know that you are looking forward to an alternative. Surrogacy is a blessing in disguise for people who cannot able have children naturally. I had complications from the start of a marriage. I had TTC four times but had no luck. First I didn't conceive. But later on, I conceive it resulted in miscarried both times. I was totally fed up with the things. Then a friend of mine told me about surrogacy. I and DH decided to go for it. I went to Ukraine for my surrogacy. Here I found a reputable clinic. Clinic arranges themselves a surrogate for me. They took a great care of my surrogate. Finally, my dreams came true and I had blessed with a baby boy. It was really a great journey. Best of luck for your journey.
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Really sorry to hear about your MC. That must have been heartbreaking. However, I am glad you are moving forward with surrogacy. It has proven to be quite successful for many infertile couples. It changed my entire life. Once the process starts just relax and wait patiently. It is a long procedure, therefore, a lot of waiting would be involved. Best of luck I hope everything goes fine.
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I am so sorry to hear about all this. It must have been really painful for you. Infertility is not easy to deal with. My cousin has gone through this journey. I have seen her crying so I know it's not easy. Your husband did not do right by leaving you. He could have searched for solutions. He could have helped you. But he did not do that. That's very selfish of him. Anyways, I am glad that you fiancee is going to support you now. It's really nice of him to think of surrogacy. Surrogacy is a great blessing. You'll surely be a mom when you go through this journey. Wish you best of luck with it. Much love for you.
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This is so sad. I wish I could vanish your problems in just a minute. But unfortunately, that's not possible. I know things have been really hard for you. But don't worry. Everything will be okay. Your fiancee seems to be so caring. I am sure he'll take you out of this situation. Just support him and care for him too. I also wanted to say that be very careful while choosing a surrogacy clinic. These days I have been reading many negative reviews about Lotus and Adonis. I have heard that they deal with their patients very unprofessionally. People even say that they wasted their time. So it would be good if you do not refer to them. Wish you good luck with this.
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As I always say. It all depends on time. What can we do in this? We are simply helpless. In the end, it's all well. Now everything is going to be alright for you. Just try to take good care of yourself now. I observed that your husband is a good man. He really deserves your love and respect. The age is going to be an issue for you. Don't worry. I know you are going to make it right for you. Just be happy and strong. Best wishes.
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You suffered a lot. In the end, everything is alright for you. That is the most important thing. We should always stay positive. Life did everything good for us at the end. I know that you are aware of this fact now. Now you can tell this to others. I am so happy for you. Your husband seems nice person. He'll love you forever.
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I am grieved. Nothing can be more painful than the grief of loss. A day when a woman gets the news of holding a day is extraordinary. She dreams of a complete life. Pregnancy means hope and happiness. You dreamt of the same satisfaction. You hoped for the best in your life. The three miscarriages came as a disaster for you. It must have been great if the pregnancy had continued. Today is your real test time. You have to stay brave. Face the things the way they are. You cannot blink the reality. If you take the words as they are life would be more comfortable. Finding the reason for the miscarriages is essential. It would help you to deal with the causes. A conservative attitude can prevent them. The doctors also prescribe some treatments that can be helpful.
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Hey Sofia! I can feel your pain because I have been going through something similar. I am suffering from a hysterectomy where my uterus has been removed. I had my first son through IUI even though I had to go through several fail tries before finally bearing a child. Infertility is very painful, mentally and physically. However, I have been recommended about surrogacy through an experienced cousin. I am looking forward to surrogacy myself. Let me know how it goes for you. Take care!
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Hy Sofia! I am extremely sorry to hear about your loss. This is the extremely sad situation for you and your family. I am sure it must have been an extremely difficult condition for you. We pray the love of God enfolds you during this difficult time. That is a good decision of you to go for surrogacy. I am happy to hear that you both agree for surrogacy. If I share my story with you. I am a patient of cancer that is why I cannot produce a baby. My husband was very sad about that. Our life becomes an idol. Then we decided to go for surrogacy and we move to Europe for the treatment. There we find a great clinic. They treat us very well and gave us a surrogate mother. Now we have a sweet little boy. So be confident and trust on yourself. May God will help you. Take care
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You went through a very difficult time. I am so emotional right now. You are a very brave person that you went through all that. I myself am on the infertility journey and it is really hard. However, I am not sure how it would have been like if my husband also left me. However, you dealt with that with so much strength. I hope this new life partner of yours brings immense joy in your life. I hope he always keeps you happy. Opting for surrogacy is a great option. I myself have opted for it! I am enjoying every little moment of it. For me the most enjoyable part is visiting the clinic. The clinic is in Ukraine so we get to travel there. I honestly enjoy the company of my manager. I hope everything goes smooth for you.
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MC is no doubt very painful There was a time when I had MC. And I was so devastated. I had no idea what to do with my life. How one could imagine conceiving after such a struggle and then ending up with no results. What joy is of conceiving. But when this thing ends this seems that there is nothing good lefty in the world. But this is good to hear that after so much struggle you are finally having a procedure that would be good for you. Surrogacy is no doubt a great procedure. And you would soon get your desires. Stay positive, Stay confident!
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Hey Sofia !! I hope that you are feeling much better after your recent miscarriage that you have reported. I feel extremely shocked about your bad experiences with miscarriages and the current one was absolutely the most unexpected one. I know how that feels love. So just do not be dishearted. You need to now start seeing a good doctor if you do not really visit any clinic for proper treatments. a good clinic in Europe is what I found as my last resort. Trust me it is an amazing clinic. You will find all the sorts of solutions there. Do visit the clinic and try your luck I am sure will not be disappointed. Good luck Sofia!
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Hey Sofia! I hope you are doing great. I feel terrible to hear about your miscarriages. infertility is very painful; emotionally and physically. All the difficulties you have to face from society and your family tend to lower down your morale. But you need to believe in yourself even when no one does. Trust me I have been there. I had the support of my husband only. I am suffering from a hysterectomy. I was suggested to go for surrogacy in a clinic in Europe. I have consulted the doctors there and they are amazing. They successfully convinced us why surrogacy is a better method. You must not lose hopes and always keep trying because every parent strive hard to complete their family. You will get the baby at the right time. Just don't be disheartened, Sweetie. Sending baby dust and best wishes to your way!
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I am so sorry to hear about this Sofia. Hope you are coping with everything. I hope everything turns out fine for you. You should consider opting for IVF or surrogacy. Miscarriage can lead to other painful things such as depression. So it is better that you consider your options and start your treatment for IVF. Do consult your doctor first though.
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Hlw. how are you? you have chosen surrogacy as a treatment process. it will be your better choice. the best thing about surrogacy is that it will give 100 percent result. I was also infertile for life. my husband always supported me and we decided to go for surrogacy. now I have a child. Good luck to you with your plans and journey.
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I am sorry that you are going through this hard time. It is so depressing for a woman to know that she is infertile. There are husbands who support and love their wives even in infertility. Unfortunately, your husband left you. May be it is good riddance. Do not think about him anymore. You are getting married again. Your to-be husband seems to be understanding and caring. You should think about him now. I am glad that you decided to go for surrogacy. I, myself went for surrogacy at the start of this year. A hysterectomy had left me infertile. I was shattered too. But soon I will have two beautiful daughters. Good luck to you guys.
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Hey Sofia! I am so sorry to hear about your loss. It is devastating to see a mother go through miscarriages. I know you are going through a terrible phase. But just remember, this is not the end. Pain is supposed to make you stronger. You must come out of this mishap as a stronger woman. You must learn to fight whatever life puts in your way. You should keep yourself distracted. Try reading books or going out on walks. Spend more time with your loved ones and try to keep yourself occupied. I have been through 3 miscarriages and I can remember how hard it was for me to get the courage to wake up. I am an infertile woman, opting for surrogacy now. It has been a heartbreaking journey. However, I have visited a clinic in Europe. They have helped me a lot. Take loads of care of yourself. My best wishes are with you.
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Hey, I am really sorry to read about your past life. I am glad that now you have a supportive husband. We all at the end of the day do need someone who supports us in our decisions. I am glad you found the right partner. Just stay positive. Surrogacy is an amazing procedure! However, my advice to you would be to properly research. Don't make any decision is hurry. It is always important to stay calm. Research the clinic. They should be operating legally. After that look at their success rate! It should also be high. After all of this then ask others for their reviews as well.
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Miscarriages can be really difficult to take. I'm not surprised, you're worried. It's okay to feel this way. It's really important to remember that you cannot give up, though. Life can get tough, but if you give up, then you're not helping yourself. You should start by visiting a fertility clinic. They can help you out, I'm sure! Good luck to you!
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Hi, I am very glad that you will have a baby soon thanks to surrogacy. Perhaps you had to go through all these hardships in order to experience the happiness of motherhood and create a real family. I am sure that everything will turn out well with you, as Ukrainian clinics have extensive experience in the field of surrogate motherhood. Today, many childless couples choose surrogacy as the only possible way to have a baby. And it's great that they get babies. I do not understand why many European clinics prohibit surrogacy. Indeed, today more and more couples are thinking about the birth of children after 40-45 years. But unfortunately at this age, it is not always possible to conceive a baby without the help of reproductive methods.
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Hi! I am so sorry to hear about your miscarriages. Even one miscarriage is enough to break you from inside out. You have been through 3 of them, I can't even imagine how strong you are. That first husband never even deserve you if, he left you because of that. I am glad you got married again and considering surrogacy. That's something that will help you achieve your goal of becoming a mother. I went for IVF at the same clinic as you and things worked out for me. I have tried for 7 years straight, had one failed IVF cycle as well but at another clinic. I hope things go well for you this time. Just make sure you follow the instructions of doctors carefully. Good luck! Stay blessed! Bye.
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Hey Sofia! I feel so bad for you. 3 miscarriages, that's huge tbh. Even one miscarriage was enough for me. I was totally broken after that. I stopped going out, meeting people. It was like i started hiding from the world after that. My DH supported me and told me that it's okay, we will try other things and thanks to his support now i am a mother of a beautiful baby. He convinced me for surrogacy, although it took me some time to realize that it can work for me. My sister had her IVF at the same clinic as you so i was hopeful that this is the right clinic for me. I hope this clinic helps you as well. Good luck! Take care. Bye!

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