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Miscarriages
Miscarriages are very hard to face for a woman. I have been through this and i know how it feels to lose your unborn baby. I had a lot of complications while getting pregnant. First i was not able to conceive. After sometime i conceived for the first time but i miscarried at 8 weeks. Than i tried again and again i lost my 2 babies. Now i am 43 years old i know this is not the right age to be pregnant again as already i had many complications so i will go for surrogacy now to have a baby.
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Miscarriage is one of the most horrid experience a woman can face in her life. I have seen women get pregnant and then have miscarriages after a few months or days, or even at time in their last few months before delivery. But women are strong by nature. They should not lose hope. And keep on trying, until and unless it does not CAUSE A THREAT TO THEIR HEALTH. Or even opting for a surrogate is a good option. Being a mother it can be very difficult to imagine what it would be like to go through all this. But at the same time it is important to know how to make sure that women stay safe and take precautions when pregnant.
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Sorry to hear about you loss dear. Miscarriages are the most horrid experience for women. I also went through this phase. It is hard to loss your unborn child. I suffered from depression after miscarriages. I had 3 miscarriages and my doctor told me i am an infertile. I can't conceive naturally because of my heart disease. I was too depressed. But luckily my husband supported me. We decided to look for other options. We chose surrogacy over IVF. We are from Japan. Surrogacy is banned there. We moved to Ukraine for treatment on my friend's suggestion. We consulted Bio TexCom for the treatment. Our surrogacy was successful and now we have a child. I hope your surrogacy will go well. If you want to know more details about the bio TexCom treatment visit http://mother-surrogate.info/
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Oh, that's terrible, sweetie. I know this is really hard for you. It's not easy to cope up with such situations. But don't worry. Don't lose hope. God has better plans for us. Just have faith in yourself. Surrogacy is really a nice idea. My friend had her baby via surrogacy. She's really happy and satisfied. You should stay strong too. My friend had her treatment process done from Ukraine. There are a lot of good clinics there. I hope you choose the right one. Let me know if you need any help. We all are here to support you and help you.
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Sad to hear about your MC. This is the worst part of any women's life. I just wish no women would have to go through all this. I could never imagine losing my baby after having that in my womb. This takes so much time and patience to overcome such worst stage. I am glad that you had that courage to move on and to select something that could help you out with all such situations. Yes, 43 is an age that is considered to be much unappropriated to conceive. I do have heard women's conceiving at their 40's. But of course, that's a miracle. How blessed those women are. But we are equally blessed to have this surrogacy procedure that would help you to carry your child in arms. I wish you all the luck with the surrogacy procedure. Hope all goes fine. Baby dust.
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Surrogacy is not a bad option. In fact, it is safest at your age. Did you find a clinic? Or a surrogate. When are you starting the process? If you haven't already. Check Europe for clinics. They have the best clinics there.
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Hello Sofia. Well, you're right! That's how it is. MCs are really hard to forget or get over with. I've also had 3 MCs, even though the later ones were as tough for me as I was diagnosed with PCOS. But, they all drained and took a bit of me every time. Now, this year I opted for surrogacy at a repro center in Ukraine. Because I accepted my fate. I couldn't be more calmed and relived. Yes! PCOS never would allow me to conceive naturally. There is not anything to regret or feel sorry about...Anyway! Stay blessed! Keep trying! Best of wishes! :)
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Miscarriage is one of the most horrid experience a woman can face in her life. I have seen women get pregnant and then have miscarriages after a few months or days, or even at time in their last few months before delivery. But women are strong by nature. They should not lose hope. And keep on trying, until and unless it does not CAUSE A THREAT TO THEIR HEALTH. Or even opting for a surrogate is a good option. Being a mother it can be very difficult to imagine what it would be like to go through all this. But at the same time it is important to know how to make sure that women stay safe and take precautions when pregnant.
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Hey, Sofia I am extremely sorry to hear about your MC. This is the most difficult time for any woman. No one really understands how it feels like except the woman herself. You were probably having difficulties staying pregnant. However, I am glad you didn't give up and continued. Just make sure that the clinic you are visiting for surrogacy is a known one and is operating legally. For my surrogacy, I went to Ukraine and had a wonderful experience. If you need any help do let me know.
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I am so sorry to hear about your losses. I can relate to your pain. I have miscarried my babies twice. I know how painful it is to go through a situation like this. I was so shattered after losing my baby the second time. I thought it would never happen again. I will not be able to be a mom ever. I am glad that other methods exist. We consulted our doctors for surrogacy. The clinic in Ukraine was too helpful. It helped us find a surrogate mother. I am now blessed with two baby boys. So, dear, you are on the right path. I hope your treatment starts soon. And, you don't have to wait much. Sending baby dust! Take good care.
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Hey. I am so sorry for you. Miscarriages are so hard to overcome. Every woman wants to become a mother. But sometimes it is not in fate. I hope that you will be a mom soon. Surrogacy is indeed a blessing. I hope you will be a mom soon. Surrogacy is reliable and done successfully in a clinic that is in Europe. My sister is going there soon. I hope this would help you.
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Dear Sofia994. I am so sorry to hear your sufferings. I hope surrogacy goes well for you. You are right pregnancy at this age is quite difficult. There are nice clinics in Europe. Guiding and providing an opportunity to the people to have a surrogate child. I hope your procedure goes well. I am happy to see that you are hopeful. Stay focused and be patient. Wish you good luck. Hope the procedure brings success to you.
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Hello. I am so sad for you. Unsuccessful labours are so difficult to bear. Each lady wants to be a mother. Now and again it isn't in destiny. I believe that you will be a mother soon. Surrogacy is without a doubt a gift. I trust you will be a mother soon. Surrogacy is trustworthy and done effectively in a clinic that is in Europe. I am going there soon. I trust this would encourage you.
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Hey there! I feel so sorry for what you had gone through. Miscarriage is the worst thing ever happens in a women life. I had miscarriage thrice. It was very devastating to me. Well good to know that you are looking forward to an alternative. Surrogacy is the great alternative to have children for infertile. I had also blessed with a child through surrogacy. I hope you will get mom soon. Best wishes
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43 is a very big age. It is now difficult for you to do it naturally. I am really very sorry for what happened to you. Miscarriage is a really bad thing. It's a bad experience that could ever happen to someone. I am feeling very bad for you. Really sorry. Well, let's move on. Everything is going to be alright. Don't be panic. Nowadays there are a lot of things available in order to overcome these problems. Don't worry, you'll find something. Just be careful because some places are taking advantage of people feel. We should never go for them like lotus clinic. They did very bad with us. Let's not talk about it. Just be aware.
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Hey Sofia. Miscarriages are truly very painful. I can understand how devastated you would have been. It is not easy to conceive and build up your expectations and waking up one day to having nothing in your belly. You must be really strong which is why God chose to put you through this. I am going through infertility myself. Due to cancerous polyps on my uterus, I had to get my uterus removed. I had become hopeless but I badly wanted to get a baby of my own blood. We must be really grateful that things have advanced so much in this era. There is a solution to every problem. I was suggested about a clinic in Europe by my cousin. She told me to opt for surrogacy. After consulting the doctors there, I am really convinced that surrogacy will be the solution. I would recommend you as well to opt for surrogacy. Best of luck!
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Hi, your post made me very very emotional. I know sister how infertility can drain one's energy. I have been through the same depression. I had to take anti-depressants to fight that depression. But i didnt gave up. I am still searching for treatment options like surrogacy. I am even ready to fly from Ireland to Ukraine for my treatment. I have convinced my husband also. We are trying to collect info before we actually visit the clinic. Though my bad luck prevailed and Adonis clinic staff didnt treated me professionally. Rather the staff is quite ignorant. They didnt seem to treat people with grace. I am quite shocked to know that similar situation dishearten you with another clinic. But I wont loose heart this time. I ll find some good clinic to try this treatment.
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Hey, Sofia, I am so sorry to hear about your MC. That must have been so hard to go through. You are a very strong person! Just never give up. It is good that you are looking for alternatives. Surrogacy is a great option to opt for. I myself have opted for it. So far everything has been going amazing. It keeps my brain busy from all the infertility thoughts as well. For the process just make sure to visit the right clinic. This is one of the reasons why my experience went great. I made sure the clinic I visited was operating legally and had a high success rate. Now everything is going so smoothly. They are very systematic and organized. Also, I am always updated about little things.
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I deeply empathize with you, Sofia! Miscarriages are the worst thing a woman ever has to face. There's isn't any pain greater than the pain of losing your unborn baby. I'm glad that you're going for surrogacy now. It will definitely be a blessing to you too. Thumbs up to your patience. All the very best!
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Hello there! Sofia I just randomly came across your post and I feel depressed to hear about what you have been through over the last few years. I know what it feels like to have faced these painful experiences of miscarriages and not being able to biologically bear your own baby. But dear you need not give up. Thanks to the advancement of the era and new technologies, there are many alternative treatments that can help many women become mothers even after being infertile. But the major decision to take at this stage is about the clinic and the doctor that you are about to opt for. I have agreat suggestion for you. I have had micarriage when I first got pregnant 7 years ago and since then I have been trying to conceive. I go to this clinic in Europe. Thier services are one of the best in the town. Do visit this clinic in Europe an I am sure that you will be satisfied. Take care dear!
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Hello, dear grieved intended mom. I hope that you are doing great. I am sorry about the state of situations on your side. At this age, the miscarriages can be because of the low egg quality. Keep it in mind that after 35 years the production rate reduces. Low-quality eggs are produced. Even when the eggs are good, they might not be in high numbers. These situations lead to multiple miscarriages. The same is happening to you. It is great that you are thinking about surrogacy. At your age, the risk of failure is high too in the IVF. It would be a waste of time if you go for IVF and then keep trying. Surrogacy will help you get the help of the healthy womb who would be able to take care of your happiness. I hope your plans are fulfilled. Don't forget to share your surrogacy experience here.
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Greetings Sofia. How are you? I hope you are fine. I am really sorry to know about your miscarriages. They are very painful. TTC is really a hard time. Every married woman wants to get pregnant. She wants her own children. She wants to hold them. Infertility stops them. It is like a barrier in their way. I am glad that you opt for the perfect option. At your age, natural pregnancy has many complications. Your child can be in danger too. That's why surrogacy is perfect for you. You can have your own child. Surrogacy doesn't depend on the age of the guardian. You can have your own child at any age. this is only possible through surrogacy. Good wishes to you.
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Well, surrogacy is the far better choice. At this age, surrogacy is suitable for you. In surrogacy, a surrogate mother carries your child. So, there's not any risk in it. Europe is a friendly state for surrogacy treatment. I believe you'll get your dream fulfilled from there. All the best to you!
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Miscarriage is one of the horrid experience. It is like the worst nightmare. I don't know what is more painful, not able to conceive or losing your babies in your womb. My condolences are with you. I also went through this phase. I miscarried my 4 babies. I got depressed. Lost all the hope of life. I thought my family will always remain incomplete. Then I get to know about a clinic in Europe. I've read good reviews of them. They deal with infertility. I contacted them and then visited them. The doctors their treat me very well. They suggested me IVF. Through IVF I conceived. I think you should consult that clinic. May you'll get better treatment and way. All the best.
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Hey Sofia, How are you doing now? Well, your story is really very heartbreaking. I am really feeling very sorry for your losses. As a mother, I can understand your pain of losing your babies. But my dear sometimes we have to agree upon what we are going through. So my friend doesn't lose hope and go for the surrogacy now. This might be the key to fulfilling your dreams.
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Hey, there sweetie! I hope that you are slowly and gradually recovering from your pain dear! It was so sad to hear about your MC. This is the worst part of any women's life. I just wish no women would have to go through all this. I could never imagine losing my baby after having that in my womb. This takes so much time and patience to overcome such worst stage. I am glad that you had that courage to move on and to select something that could help you out with all such situations. Yes, 43 is an age that is considered to be much unappropriated to conceive. I do have heard women's conceiving at their 40's. But of course, that's a miracle. How blessed those women are. However, you should now go visit this clinic in Europe. They have the best services to offer. Moreover, they can guide you whether surrogacy or IF are better for you. But we are equally blessed to have this surrogacy procedure that would help you to carry your child in arms. I wish you all the luck with the surrogacy procedure. Hope all goes fine. Baby dust.
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hello, Sofia I am deeply sorry to know about your miscarriages. I know how bad that feels and how frustrating it gets. I am really sorry. But I think now that you are 43 surrogacy is the right thing to do. I hope you get well soon and I hope that your surrogacy journey goes as smooth as my own went. I now have a young daughter who I got through surrogacy. I wish you best of luck for your future. CHEERS
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hey, you have faced very hard times. it is not easy to lose your unborn baby. this fills my heart with sorrow. your age is suitable to go for surrogacy. because as you know you can't conceive now naturally. surrogacy is a pleasure. pleasure for all ladies like you. it is a path to a happy married life. my best wishes are with you.hope you get success.
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I feel really bad for you. This is really tough to go through many failures. It was a hard time in your life. You have taken the right decision. You should definitely go for surrogacy. I wish you a very good luck.My best wishes are with you
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Hey Sofia! Hope so you will be fine. I just read your post. I really become so sad to know about your miscarriages. It's a very painful thing for every woman. But don't worry such things are the part of life. I'm glad that you are going for surrogacy. It's really a blessing. As you are going for it. So I would like to give some suggestions to you. Look for the best clinics regarding surrogacy. Stay away from the clinics like Lotus and Adonis, they are spams and I heard so bad reviews about them. In Europe, the clinics are specialized for it and have their own surrogates. One of my friends has a baby through surrogacy. She went to Europe for it. I think you should also go there. I hope your wish will be fulfilled My sympathies
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Hey Sofia. How are you doing? Hope so you are doing fine. I am feeling very sorry for your losses. Your story is really very heartbreaking. Dear, you should go for surrogacy. You totally deserve to be a mother. And yeah your eggs are still fertile. So there is no problem at all. Wish you the best of luck.
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Hello dear! I'm so sorry to hear your story. Miscarriage is a great loss. It is really painful.It really disturbs a woman when she can't conceive after so many struggles.Every woman dreams to be a mother. I can understand your pain and the hard time you are going through.Two years back my sister also went through the same situation. And she was 40 at that time. She had two miscarriages. And she lose all hopes of conceiving. But then she chose surrogacy and had a baby boy. It is a great decision. It has brought colours to the lives of many people.It is a hope to many infertile couples. I wish you all the best for this decision.
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Hey Sofia. How are you doing? I am feeling very sorry for your losses. I really feel very sad when I came to hear any news related to miscarriage. It reminds me of my time. When I had a miscarriage. Even though I get pregnant later but whenever I remember those time I feel very heartbreaking. Going through the miscarriage is not an easy thing for women at all. I can feel your pain. You are on the right way now. You should go for surrogacy. Because it is the only way to have a baby for you now. So wish you best of luck for your surrogacy journey.
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It's not easy to cope up with such situations. I feel Sad to hear about your MC. This is the worst part of any women's life. But the good thing is that you are a mother now.surrogacy is very good. I also become a mother through surrogacy. Actually, I'm a heart patient. I cannot conceive a baby. But I want to become a mother. Then we decided to went to Europe for surrogacy. Surrogacy is illegal in many countries. But in Europe surrogacy is legal. There are many clinics in Europe that provide the best treatment for infertility. At the end of the story now I'm a mother of a baby boy.I'm so happy for you that you blessed with a baby.
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Hey dear, I know miscarriages are very difficult to overcome. I am so sorry for your loss. You are facing great difficulties. But dear, trust me. This is not for much time. Keep trying, one day you will be successful. I know a clinic in Europe. They have the best doctors in the town. They are very polite. I will recommend you to visit this clinic. They will help you as they helped me. I went for surrogacy. Now, I have a baby girl. And I am very happy now. I hope all goes well for you. My wishes are with you.
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Miscarriage is hard for only those who suffer from it. You have your baby in the womb for a few weeks. Only you can understand the pain. You were emotionally attached to your baby. Another person even if he is your husband will not understand. I feel very sorry for you. Though I am not the one who suffers. I am a mother too and I can understand the pain of losing your baby. Try to remember your child in your good memories. Try again. This is not the end of your life. Try to conceive again. I am sure you will be successful this time. When you have your baby in your arms. For the time being, you will forget about all the bad memories you had. I will definitely pray for you. My best wishes are with you
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Hi! I feel so sorry to hear about your miscarriage. Miscarriage is the worst thing ever happens in a women life. But good to know that you are looking forward to surrogacy. I had passed through the same situation as you. I had faced infertility for 5 years. I had faced 4 times miscarriage. I was totally fed up with the things. Then I came to about surrogacy. I opted for it and blessed with a baby boy. I wish you the best of luck.
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This is very true that miscarriages are the worst thing a woman can ever experience. There isn't any pain greater than the pain of losing your unborn baby. It kills you inside thinking that it is your fault somewhat. I have miscarried 3 times. It was the most terrible feeling. After my third miscarriage, I was fully broken. I began to lose contact with people around me and went into depression. My body had been so weak that there wasn't any way that I was trying again anytime soon. My husband researched surrogacy. He convinced me to give it a try. We both were desperate for a child so we chose to opt for surrogacy. It was the best decision of my life. We have a son today which is everything to us. I wish you good luck! Surrogacy will surely fulfill your dream of having a child.
Roomi
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oh dear, you have faced a lot. you have waited for a lot.now you are 43 years old. so naturally you cant conceive. you are going right. go for surrogacy. may you fulfill your dreams through surrogacy.my best wishes are with you. sending baby dust to your doorsteps.
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Yes, Age is a very big issue. Especially. Your age is really more. I hope it'll be alright. Just don't worry. There is Surrogacy. There is an IVF. It'll be so much great for you. You don't have to take tension at all.
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Age really matters. It's going to be a disaster. You have to think about it. Don't worry. It'll be alright. There are a lot of treatments. Surely, you'll find your help.
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Miscarriage is really worst thing happens in women. So sad to hear that it also happen to you. You have a really sad story. You have struggled so much. But its good you do not lose hope. As well as you have found the solution. Surrogacy is really a good option for infertile couples. Especially for those who are over 40 years. So have you tried this treatment? I also have tried this treatment. I am so happy with it. I also suggest this treatment to those who are unable to conceive. Its success rate is so high. It's also not much expensive. There are many clinics who are offering this treatment. Keep us updated about your story.
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Sorry to hear about your miscarriages. You have been going through a difficult few years. Miscarriages are not easy to bear. Especially when you conceive after long. I hope you are strong enough to bear it. I got diagnosed with cancer last year. The doctors said that I had to go for a hysterectomy. My cancer was removed. But I became infertile. I could not conceive naturally. I could not go for IVF either. I had only one option. That was surrogacy. I am glad I went for it. I will be a mother soon, thanks to it.
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Mc is really a hard time for women. Only those understand who suffers through it. I am glad that you have chosen the right treatment. Surrogacy will be best for you. You should go for it. These are a good clinic in Eastern Europe. They are the best.
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Hey, Sofia I am really sorry to read about your loss. I can understand how hard this must be for you. Especially when you finally got pregnant after such a long time. Stay strong and positive. I am glad that you didn't lose hope! I am sure opting for surrogacy would turn out to be a great decision. I know many couples who have opted for it and have been able to fight through infertility. However, my advice to you would be to research the clinic before you visit them. Make sure that the clinic is operating at a high success rate. They should also be operating legally as the process is still not legal in many countries. Other than this I would advise you to look at the services that the clinic is offering as that will really help you out. Good luck to you. Sending baby dust your way. Really hoping that things work out for you. Do keep us updated.
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Sofia, honey, I'm sorry. You've had it so tough. You definitely deserve better! I want to wish you the best of luck. I know, it's been really difficult, but you cannot give up. Age is catching up with you, but you have options! Don't be disheartened, keep the faith. You can do this!
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Hi. How are you doing? I'm so sorry to hear about your struggles with fertility. You seem like a very strong person. Going for surrogacy is a wise idea. Do share your experience with us here. Good luck.

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