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Miscarriage :(
I hope everyone is enjoying their health. I am here to share my experience with you. I am 41 and last year I had a miscarriage when a bike hit me when I was pregnant. Doctors have declared me infertile now. I haven't forgotten all that. Still, I can feel my baby in my womb. One year has passed but I can't overcome all this. My husband is quite supportive but I know he needs a child. Please let me know a good clinic. I want to try alternatives. I can't stay like this. I am so depressed right now. Help me!
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Hello there. I'm so sorry to hear about you. I have been through the same thing, It indeed is devastating. But don't lose hope just yet. Look for some clinics in Europe. I've heard great reviews about them. You'll get your way soon. Everyone has a shot at happiness. Lots of prayers for you love! xx
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hello dear. I'm so sad to hear about this. how are you doing now? I know things have been hard for you. but do not worry. you can go for alternatives. surrogacy or IVF both are great. Ukraine has many good clinics. one of the best is Biotexom. my sister is there for surrogacy. they have given her accommodation. the are working professionally too. hope all the things go well for you. keep me updated. go for it. take care. bye.
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Hey there. I'm very sorry to know about your miscarriage. It must be really traumatizing for you. And due to it, you're infertile now. This is just so heart-breaking. Why is life so unfair to us sometimes? It is said that in order to know the value of happiness, one must go through sadness. You've been through the toughest times of your life, now it's time you get happiness in your life. Nothing worse than this is left to happen. Anyway, as you're 41 now, I won't suggest you the IVF treatment. You should directly go for surrogacy. When you're in your 40's, the quality of the eggs begins to decline. So, surrogacy is the best option for you. It is easy and convenient, and you get a biological baby out of it. Ukraine is best for fertility treatments. But make sure you choose the right clinic as there are many fraud clinics occurring too. Best of luck!
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Hi there, Well how did this happened. I am so sorry. It's really bad. An accident during pregnancy. It's a complete disaster. Well, just don't think about it now. You are alive. We can figure a way out of it. Just take good care of yourself. According to your condition. IVF is not suitable for you. I don't think surrogacy will help you as well. You have adoption procedure with you. You can go for it. I think it's great. Think about it.
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Well, what can I say now? I am really sorry. Maybe, it's all for the best. We don't know what is it. Just try to take good care of your health. I am so sorry for your condition. How are you now? I hope you are fine. Well, there are a lot of other methods available to you. You can go for it.
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Hello dear. I'm so sorry to hear of your miscarriage. There are many good clinics in Europe for surrogacy and IVF. You can choose either surrogacy or IVF, which suits you. Don't be stressed. Hope for the best. I wish you to become a mother soon. Good luck ahead!
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I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I am sure it must have been so devastating. People need to learn how to drive properly. I am honestly crying right now. I can understand how that must have felt like. I am glad that you have a supportive husband. As now you have decided to move forward I will try my level best to help you out. I think your first step on this journey should be to visit a good fertility specialist. They will do your important tests and try their level best to help you out. Why did doctors declare you infertile after the MC? If you cant carry a child and your eggs are still healthy then I think surrogacy is the best option available. However, if you have a functioning uterus then opt for IVF. If you need help with the clinic do let me know as well. Best of luck I hope everything goes great. Just stay positive and be confident about the journey.
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It is so unfortunate to learn about the mishap. Getting pregnant at your age is a miracle. The miscarriage happened due to an unfortunate accident. It is further sad that you were declared infertile. It is great that you want to find some right alternative. In this, you need to find the right clinic. Be careful of the scams. Go through different reviews. I hope that life will inevitably change for you soon.
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Hello Abella! I hope you're better while reading this. So, yeah! Staying strong is the key! I'm very very sorry to hear of loss and accident. It really must have been very hard and painful for you. I've also had a car accident in past, resulting in my Miscarriage. So, I can relate. Later, I even had to undergo a Hysterectomy. I'm empty now. Well, you should try centers in Kiev. I'm also having my surrogacy procedure one later next month. So, yeah! I can relate it. Don't even lose hope! You can always become a mother! Try your options! :)
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Hi Abella! Hope you are better now. I am so sorry about your accident and to be deemed infertile after that is just adding insult to injury. I am glad though that your are open to alternative treatments. I would recommend that you go for Ukraine for your fertility treatments since Ukraine has some of the best fertility clinics around the world. I have also been to Ukraine for surrogacy procedure. You can check them out for yourself. All the best to you.
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You have a really sad story. It makes me sad when I hear that someone is infertile/miscarriage. It's the worst ever news for a woman. She doesnt even accept this bitter truth. Sometimes they hurt themselves up. But people should stay strong. Ups and downs are part of life. Problems are not always in the life. You can take me as an example. I am also infertile. I tried for 4 years but nothing happens. Then a friend of mine suggested me surrogacy. I searched for it and the good clinic. I found a very good clinic in Europe. It's so great. I visited the clinic. They treated me so well. They found the surrogate` for me within a week. She was so healthy. And now I am a happy mother. My child is of ten months. So be positive and strong. You will get this blessing one day. Best of luck.
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Hey There. I am so sorry for your loss. Have you thought about surrogacy? If you are in UK by any chance, there is a an event being held by a really good clinic there on on 18-19 of August. It is a surrogacy clinic from Ukraine. It does not hurt to have the necessary information. Even if you do not plan on going to Ukraine for surrogacy, it would be very good to check it out and see if it suits your needs or not. I heard of the event on another forum, and i am planning to book my tickets for it. This event is an ideal opportunity to see how the clinic is. Even interacting with the staff would give a necessary look into the clinic. I really hope it works out for you. As surrogacy is a major solution to infertility. This is necessary to have such events and create awareness. From the experiences of people in my circle, i knew the clinic was a good one. This would allow me to experience the clinic for myself as well. Looking forward to it.
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Hi there. Infertility can be hard on a woman. My sister had been struggling through it too. She went for IVF first. But that did not work out for her. So she opted for surrogacy. She contacted a clinic in Europe. They helped her out through everything. Like the whole process. From finding a reliable surrogate to the delivery. And then after almost 9 months she had her baby boy through the surrogate mother. She is so happy now. Surrogacy is the best option to fight infertility. Don't stress out. Stay positive, and be happy. my prayers and best wishes are with you.
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Hello Abella! Hope you are fine now. I'm so sorry about your loss. Miscarriage is the bad experienced fo women's lives. But the surrogacy is the best option. Surrogacy is a natural treatment. Many peoples to completed own families with the help of surrogacy treatment. IVF and surrogacy are more popular nowadays. Many peoples are aware of the IVF and surrogacy treatment. Hope you opted for the surrogacy and IVF treatment.Hope one day you will be soon a mother. Best of luck. Take care.
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Hey. I wish you good luck with your treatment. This is a sensitive issue. And should be dealt with care. Please be careful while choosing clinics they can turn out to be scammers. Like Lotus. I have had a bad experience with them. And I wouldn't like you to go through the same. Sending baby dust.
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Hello there, your every word describes your pain. Losing a baby is the most difficult and hard time for any woman. Being mother is a dream of every girl or woman and infertility crushes all the dreams. I feel so sorry about your tough time. I know it is difficult to overcome this situation but you have to move forward and face the reality. There are always bright days coming towards us after the darker ones. Yes, I know the best clinic in Europe that is Biotexcom. It is the best clinic regarding fertility treatments. They have a good staff and great surrogates. I had heard many success stories of this clinic. My aunt also had her surrogacy from there and now she is blessed with a baby boy. I have a good news for you that surrogacy team of Biotexcom is arranging a seminar. Date and venue is not decided. You must join their page for further details. This seminar would be really useful to you. STAY BLESSED AND HAPPY!!
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Hi, How are you doing? I hope all fine and great. I felt that terrible situation too. When I lost my first baby, at the end of my second trimester. I was so lost and horribly depressed. My husband tried his best. getting me out of this dangerous situation. We gave ourselves another chance and tried again with our luck. But unluckily, the odds were not in our favor. The clinic in Europe was our last hope. We chose surrogacy from there and today we feel so blessed.
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Dear Abella! I am so sorry to learn all this. After marriage, every couple wants to have children. But things like miscarriages and infertility come your way, you are lost. We should not lose hope in such a situation. Medical sciences have progressed a lot today. Nothing is impossible today. There are several alternatives to a single thing. I am a personal experience with a clinic. I am sure you will love it. Sweetheart, you need to go through surrogacy or IVF. In this way, you will have your own biological baby. There is a clinic in Ukraine. They offer treatments for infertility. I got treated there. Thet will provide you with hygiene. The environment there is highly congenial. The medical practitioners are highly competent. They will provide you with mental and emotional support. I bet you, you will feel proud to go there.
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Hello there Abella! How are you feeling dear! I know what it is like to go through the stages of infertility. At the time you would feel like it is not true. And also many times you will want to give up. But do not give up on this because it is going to be okay. I am sure that you will be able to go through this positively. The only thing that should remain your focus is the choice of the clinic that you are making. It is the most important factor at this point in time of any woman is infertile. So just be aware of the clinic named Lotus. They are a big scam. They have no ethics and n moral values. They will just eat your money up. They are fake. Beware of them. Just stay careful. Wish you all the best!
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Hey! Infertility is really a hard thing to face. I feel bad to hear about your miscarriage. A miscarriage takes a lot from a woman. Well, there are fertility treatments available which overcome infertility. But the choice of a clinic is always important to get success with fertility treatment. Biotexcom in Ukraine providing great services for fertility treatment. I personally had a great experience of IVF with them. I have been provided with great services in the clinic. I had blessed with a baby boy. Well, biotexcom is going to conduct an open session soon. It will be a great opportunity for you to have a free initial consultation. You will have great chance to discuss your infertility situation and get all necessary information regarding the fertility treatment. I hope this event help you out. God bless you.
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Hi! I hope you're doing good. I think it's a good thing you haven't lost hope. What clinic have you visited? I think there are some great ones in Ukraine. Your move there will surely be right. I went there for my surrogacy treatment as well. They are so much better on the pocket. I hope all goes right for you. However, I would also advise staying away from scam clinics. They don't even reply to your queries. One such is Adonis. Avoid them and you're good to go! Good luck.
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Well, Everything will be fine, dear. There is nothing to worry about. Please, take good care of yourself. Of course, you are right. It's all about finding a proper place. When you the best clinic. They'll help you in every sort of matter. It would be great for you. There is nothing to worry about. You must have to take good care of yourself. The solution to your problem is finding a right place.
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Hey there, I am very sorry for the accident. Well, it's not your fault. It was fate. It could happen to anyone. While I was reading, I felt that I might be at your place than what could I do? There is nothing but go for alternatives. Yes, there are a lot of treatments to overcome the problem. It depends what do you want? It depends upon your choice. You can look into all of them and discuss that with me.
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Look, what happened was not good. I know that. I can understand. You know your age is also a big issue. After 40, it's tough to conceive. I suggest you look for surrogacy. It would be beneficial to you. As per my understandings and my knowledge. IVF would not be very helpful to you.
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Hey! I feel so sorry to hear about your loss. Miscarriage is the worst thing ever happen in a women life. My sister also had a miscarriage last month. It was so devastating for her. She stills feels sorrow. I hope both of you will recover soon. I suggest you should go for alternatives. I hope you will help out. God bless you.
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Dear Abella! I am so sorry to learn all this. After marriage, every couple wants to have children. But things like miscarriages and infertility come your way, you are lost. We should not lose hope in such a situation. Medical sciences have progressed a lot today. Nothing is impossible today. There are several alternatives to a single thing.
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Hello dear, How are you feeling? It a tough time for you. I feel really sorry for your loss. Everything will be fine soon. Stay positive and persistent. There are some other amazing ways too. Don't feel stressed out. You can choose IVF or surrogacy. A European clinic is known as best in this dept. They are doing a great job.
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Miscarriage is really tough to deal with. It's perhaps the toughest thing a woman can deal with. So sorry to hear that! this is always awful. Even for describing your situation you needed a lot of courage and bravery. It’s not as simple as it looks. It seems there is nothing to heal the loss you feel, but it does get better. Don't worry about anything. May you get pregnant soon. Don't worry about it. everything will be fine. As you asked about the clinic, there is a clinic named Biotexcom in Ukraine. I have heard they are having an event soon. Just be calm and keep patience. Best of luck.
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Hey sweetheart! I hope that you’re doing good. I’m literally so sad about your miscarriage. You chose the right place to express your feelings. You can express yourself out here and no one will ask you anything. All that you’ll get here is love and support. I know miscarriage is really a tough thing. A person becomes mentally tired after this. But it’s totally a natural thing. It’s not your fault sweetie. So don’t worry. You shouldn’t lose hope. There’s always a little risk in everything you do. So go for it. Don’t lose hope. There are women who conceive even after more than three miscarriages. So stay calm. You can come here. And write everything that’s on your mind. I wish you the very best of luck. I hope that stays healthy and you heal faster from this grief. Much love
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Hey there Abella! I m so sorry to hear about that. You are going through a rough time but don't worry it will pass. There's this clinic where I am having my surrogacy, It's abroad but the packages are affordable and they even provide you with a nice place to stay so there's no problem in that. I found about this clinic through different forums. Everyone was recommending this clinic so I thought why not give it a try? So I did. The doctors are well experienced and the other staff is also good. This clinic is a great option if you are looking for a good clinic. Just contact them, they will tell you about the right option for you. I hope this helps you. Everything will be fine, just stay strong. Stay blessed! Good Luck!
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Hey, Abella, I am really sorry to hear about your loss. I can understand how hard this must have been for you. However, if it has been so long then you should start the journey again. Visit a good doctor and make sure he/she knows how to carry the process out. You can look into IVF as it is the safest option. It really depends on the condition of your cousin because for us it didn't work. Good luck to you. If you want help regarding finding the clinic I can provide you with the details of the clinic I am visiting.
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Hi Abella! I m so sorry to hear about your loss. Miscarriage is something really hard to deal with. I have also had 2 MCs during this period of ttc. I m trying to conceive from last 6 years, I have tried many different medicines and treatments but nothing worked out for me. You can just name any medicine and I have tried it. I have recently started my IVF at this clinic abroad. The packages are so affordable there. The doctors are very professional as well so you have nothing to worry about. Many people in my circle conceived with the help of this clinic, so I know that the success rate of this clinic is high. If the clinic's success rate is high then it means you have more chances of conceiving. Good luck to you. Stay blessed. Sending baby dust your way.
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I am really sorry to read about your MC. I can understand how hard this must be for you. However, don't lose hope! I am sure things will get better. I am glad that you are looking into the options. Firstly, did you get your pregnancy reports? Ask them what exactly happened. After that visit a good clinic. A clinic that is experienced and has a high success rate. Other than that also make sure that the doctors are experienced. They should know what they are doing. Good luck to you. Sending baby dust your way. I hope everything goes well.
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I am extremely sorry to know about your MC. I can understand that this can be very hard to go through. However, my honest advice to you would be to not give up. It has been a year I think its time you start the process again. Visit a good clinic with good doctors who will be more than willing to help you. There are a lot of procedures that will help you out. IVF and IUI are one of the most common. You just have to research them. This will also help in keeping your mind busy. Good luck to you. Just make sure to find a good clinic. I am emphasizing on this because of my own experience. Now that I am visiting a good clinic things are going really well. If you want I can provide you with information on my clinic as well. Sending baby dust your way.
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I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. A miscarriage is one of the most difficult things to deal with. I know I can relate. I miscarried during my journey, twice. It was a tough time for me. I'm glad I had the support of my family. I can't imagine how tough it must be without the help of your family! That helped me get through. We researched for our options and I found IVF as my solution. It's something I would definitely recommend to you. I hope you go for it. Good luck to you! You can do this! Don't give up, please. It's never an option, honey! Sending you lots of baby dust and love.
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Hello, Abella. I'm very sad to hear about your loss. This is a tough way to lose one! I've had two MCs, but they weren't like this! I can't believe you had to go through this. It's sadder to hear about your failed attempts at trying again. Did you get it checked, though? It's really important to carry out the tests. I hope you got them done. If you haven't, then, I would advise you to visit a fertility clinic. That could be your best bet! They will carry out the medical examination and then tell you what your best option is. It can be one of the assisted conception methods. However, I'm sure you will have a better idea of everything after the initial consultation! Good luck on the TTC journey, I hope things get better!
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Hi. I hope you are doing better now. Terribly sorry for your loss. I know this is huge for you. It's not a loss anyone can get over any time soon. I understand your pain and suffering. It is good to know you are being as positive as you can and are open to alternate options now. You have come out of denial. It takes lots of courage to take a step like that. I'm proud of you. I actually had my son through surrogacy. Luckily I found a really good clinic. They are reliable and affordable. Such procedures are so expensive usually. We wouldn't have been able to afford it anywhere else. But the treatments and the doctors are so efficient. You have to check this place out. Hope it helps. Good luck.
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I'm so sorry to hear about your struggles. I can relate so much to it! Trust me, I can, I've been there. I've had two MCs as well during my journey. It's a difficult time to deal with. You just don't know how to react. I wish you all the best in life. I hope things get better for you, ASAP.
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I understand how difficult it was for you to cope with this situation. Perhaps you often blame yourself for this case. But you must understand that this is not your fault, it was supposed to happen. I advise you to contact the Ukrainian surrogacy clinic. I understand that you had unsuccessful IVF attempts after this tragedy? The fact is that you can enter the surrogacy program only if you have medical indications. This applies specifically to Ukrainian clinics.

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