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Miscarriage
Hey there. I hope that you all are doing good. Okay so we all know that getting pregnant is a wonderful thing. It's horrible too sometimes. My sister just got pregnant. We are all so happy for her. She always wanted to have children. Before getting pregnant., she had a miscarriage. She was so heartbroken then. She was ttc for almost 6 years. Now She's pregnant and she's happy. Everything's going fine but she just shared something with me yesterday and asked for help. Because of the past experiences, she's scared now. She's so stressed that she'll lose her baby again. She can't even sleep on nights because of this fear. She can't take good care of herself because of this. So I'm really worried about you. It would be so nice if you guys give some suggestions. My sister will be reading your comments. Much love. Thanks!
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Relax and visit the best doctor in your area. I am sure if your sister keep trying she will get the results. And tell her not to worry too much just take care of her health. And if she really wanted a child in her life then suggest her to go for surrogacy process. This is the best process for those who faced infertility issues in their life after miss carriages. I am hoping for the best as i used to done much adoption in my life and after this i faced so many infertility issues.
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Well of course she does. I think she is scared of some experience. I think you all must support her. That would be the best. I think she is missing support. Tell her husband to take care of her. May she get well soon dear. Best of luck to you all.
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Surrogaccy is the best solution for the women who don't have any luck with babies. At the age of 43 years old i'm married for second time. My husband wants a baby from me and i told him everything regarding my pregnancy complications. So i started looking for some method to have a baby for us. Via online research i found that surrogacy is the best solution for us to have a baby. So i contacted a number of clinics regarding pregnancy. BioTexCom clinic is the best clinic regarding surrogacy. Visit biotexcom.com for further details. They cleared my confusions regarding surrogacy. They satisfied me and they told us they will find a surrogate for my baby. They have a number of surrogates from their clinic as well. A surrogate will go through proper testing to become a surrogate mother of my child. I was married earlier and geting pregnant was not an easy task for me. I had a number of complications while getting pregnant. I conceived for three times but always resulted in miscarriage. If someone here is raising a child via surrogacy process please share your experience with us. Thanks in advance.
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Hi Dear. Umm, I think it's pretty reliable for me. I'm also a TTC for nearly six years. Well, my situation is same as her. Now, this year I am also conceiving through an IVF procedure at a clinic in Ukraine. I think you should also make her understand it's worth trying again...I'm also pretty nervous but, I don't really want to miss it. It's my last chance to have a child of my own...I know it can be hard after MCs. I just had PCOS which gave me MCs and made nearly impossible and hazardous for me to conceive naturally or you can say by sexual intercourse. Just make her stronger that it's a better time and way...he still have time to have a child. I wish her best of luck! xx
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Hey there Jessica! I hope you're doing fine. Congratulations to your sister! This is great news. Tell her that she's very lucky that she can conceive naturally. So, she shouldn't be afraid. Maybe the previous time wasn't the right time for the baby to arrive. This time everything will be perfect. If she'll stress, the health of the baby will be affected. Tell her to calm herself and distract herself from other things. Ask her to be happy. Staying positive is the key. Her pregnancy should be wonderful. Past experiences always haunt you, I know. But in order to move forward in life, you have to leave the past behind. I hope she understands it. May she have an amazing pregnancy. Good Luck!
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Hey, she needs to chill. It is not going to be a disaster this time too. It doesn't happen the same way every time. tell her to calm down. take care of her. tell her to take care of her self too. She should have a little optimistic behavior in order to succeed.
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Hey, she needs to chill. It is not going to be a disaster this time too. It doesn't happen the same way every time. tell her to calm down. take care of her. tell her to take care of her self too. She should have a little optimistic behavior in order to succeed.
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Hey there. How are you and your sister doing? I hope you both are fine. I am glad that you are doing such a good job as a sister. Congratulations for the pregnancy. All you sister needs is a positive attitude. Accidents don't happen everyday. I also had a miscarriage once. She just needs to take good care. Rest and don't take stress. I Bet everything will be great. Don't forget to keep in touch with the doctor. Doctor is your best friend in such cases. I wish you good luck. hope to hear more good news from you.
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Hey, Jessica. Stressing only makes things worse. It could really result in another miscarriage. I know it is hard but your sister needs to distract herself. Ask her to try and feel good about things and give out positive thoughts. This really works. It is a critical time for her right now. She needs to handle this carefully. Good luck to her.
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Hey. Your sister is not going to lose baby again. Sometimes a woman is not healthy enough to conceive. I had 3 miscarriages in 6 months. After that I came to know that I have uterine polyps. I had many sleepless nights when my doctor told me that I cannot be a mother again. I was 38 and now it was not safe for me to conceive. I am either not able to maintain pregnancy. My sister suggested me surrogacy. It was very disappointing for me because I always wanted my own baby. This was not easy for me but I had to choose. Clinics In UK are so expensive. So I started searching an affordable clinic. I was suggested surrogacy from Europe then. Its been 2 years now I have a daughter of a year. I am so happy that my family is complete. This procedure worked for me.
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Hi. I hope you are doing good. Tell your sister to remain calm. Tell her to give a break to her mind. Don't let her take unnecessary steps. Visit your doctors once. She needs to adopt the positive attitude. Brace up yourself for the coming time. All the very best to you and her.
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I am sorry to know that. But happy to know that she is pregnant. I can understand what she is going through. You just need to give her hope and strength. She will start feeling better soon. Love and strength to her. Fingers crossed for her. Baby dust on her way.
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I know what she is going through. I can feel the fear. All she has to do is gather up all her courage. It will go fine for her. Stay positive girl. Don't let negative energy affect you. Hope you will feel better soon. More power to you. Lots of baby dust on your way. Sending positive vibes to you.
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MC is no doubt the worst thing any women could ever have. I just can't imagine having more MC. I mean imagine women get to conceive after so much struggle then she ended up on nothing suddenly. That would be enough to break her into pieces. But that's not the thing that history would repeat itself. She should be positive. And being positive often helps. The more she would get into thoughts of failure. She would probably end up on messing things. Ask her to stay positive. Eat healthily. Stay happy. Wishing her healthy pregnancy.
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Hey, How are you? Hope you are doing good. How is your sister now? I am really sorry for her. Her fear is very right. I think she must consult her gynecologist first. So that she can nip it in the bud. Having baby is the dream of every woman. And when you are unable. It became a horrible dream. She must have all her tests. So that her problem will be clear. Surrogacy and IVF are the alternatives. In case, If her pregnancy failed again. I wish that it would just be a fear and nothing else. I wish her a healthy delivery. All my sympathies for her.

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