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I hope you ladies are doing well and everything is fine.My name is Klina and I am in my late twenties.I have been dealing with infertility I guess for quite some time now.Well, no guessing I am completely infertile.I had an accident back in 2016 due to which I lost my baby( i was 14 weeks pregnant).I was in an induced coma for 9 days and at walking up I remember being completely clueless.I did not even know who I was, why was I there and whether I was pregnant or not.Anyways 3 days forward its just one bad news after another.I had a disc inserted in my hips and back, I lost my baby and the ability to ever have one again. the doctors had to perform hysteroscopy on me as well.In the surgery, they removed my ovaries and fallopian tubes because they had taken to much damage and they were afraid of infection.after a year or so in depression and despair.I was suggested for adoption and even surrogacy by almost all my friends and relative.Before that, I really want to try having a baby again.I was doing some search on IVF and found out that I may still be a candidate for it.Is it possible for me to still get pregnant? any and all suggestions would be great.Thank you in advance.Here's a little baby dust for you all.
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Hey Klina. I feel sorry for you. Infertility is so heartbreaking. When you can't give birth to your own child, I mean what can be worse than that? During my time, whenever I saw some babies I just started crying. It was so hard to face everything. But everyone suggested you the right direction. IVF or surrogacy. Both are the best treatments for infertility. If you can carry a baby then IVF is the best for you. Then at least you will be able to experience all the pains and the main thing childbirth. I missed that experience because I had surrogacy. Both of them are very successful procedures. So if you are heading towards any one of them, then go abroad. Ukraine is the best place for these treatments. First of all because it's cheap there. And the services are great too. Good Luck! Much Love!
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Awww, darling! Hey Klina. I'm extremely sorry for your loss. I can never imagine how strong you've been...Well, I am also having a similar case in terms of TTC. I've been a TTC for nearly 6 years and my reason for being a TTC is PCOS. Which made me unable to conceive for past years. Well, yeah! I'm also having an IVF later this year at a clinic in Ukraine. So, yeah! I'd recommend it to you. I think yeah! You can get pregnant through it. Anyway! I wish you luck...You're such a strong person though. xx
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dear Lydia.You are so young.I am so sorry that you had to go all through this at such a young age.It must be hard.Because at this age you must not worry about such things.Really that is devastating.Well, you are in luck today.Really you have come to the right place.The thing is IVF may sound a good option.But it is not that successful.Like for me.I have bee through many IVF procedures but believe me, they only caused pain and depression.I have had many procedures got done.But i now regret all my decisions.I feel like i should have made a better decision timely.Now i have come to a point where only surrogacy is left for me.I am happy for that.bUt regretting the time i have wasted over useless procedures.So, girl, you have time to think.Think wisely.You have a lot of time to ponder upon these things.Search the internet.Make your facts clear and then make a decision.Chose wisely.Best of luck girl.I hope that you get out of this misery soon.
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Hi Lydia. I'm so sorry that you had to go through this situation. Your age is not even much. You didn't deserve this. I wish this wouldn't have happened. I feel so bad. I would suggest that try considering surrogacy too. It really has high success rates. You will definitely become a mother very soon. Choose the best option. Good Luck!
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In your case IVF seems a very good option for you. It depends on you whether you take this method seriously or not. You don't have to be worry about anything. I think you should always see some other methods as an option as well. That would be really good for you. I think your case is not that much complicated. Everything is going to be fine for you. Just try to take care of yourself. Everything is good.
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I'm sorry you had to go through all that. Stay the strong woman you are. I am afraid it is not possible for you to get pregnant without a uterus. You can opt for surrogacy or adoption only. In surrogacy though, you can give your own egg so the baby is related to you as you still have ovaries. Try looking into some good clinics and gather as much information as you must before going in for a procedure. Wishing you the best of luck! Much love your way.
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Oh my God is there any tragedy exists that is not happen with you. I am really sorry dear but this is just too much for one person. I don't understand how are you alive. See you are a brave girl. You survived in such challenging situations. I am feeling pity for you. I am unable to completely understand your condition. After all of this. I just suggest you that don't take tensions anymore. It's not good for you anymore. Already you faced allot. You just need to take care of yourself. I would suggest you to go for a surrogacy now. Forget about IVF. It's going to create a pain for 9 months if it is successful. Just try surrogacy. That would be best for you.
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Your story made me sad. I am really impressed from you, nobody in this world share these kind of problems. You are very brave girl as you have faced such kind of problems in your life. You can have a baby in your life. There are many other option's from which you can have a baby. You are still young, so you have all the time to focus on other procedures. You have to do research to find the perfect clinic for your self. I am always available to guide you on this. You can easily find the best clinic for your self.
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I am so sorry. What happened to you was very tragic. The accident must have left deep impacts on your life. You also had to lose your child. I hope that you have moved on. You had to get your ovaries removed. I am afraid that you would face some difficulties. Contact a nice OBGYN. He/She will have a better answer than anyone of us. You might need to get donor eggs for conceiving. IVF would be the best treatment for you. I am sure everything will work out to be fine. If it doesn't, then the option of surrogacy is always there. Contact some clinics abroad. You will get some reliable treatment there at very affordable prices.
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Hello Lydia, really very very sorry to hear from you. This is really heartbreaking. My eyes are filled with tears. Dear according to your condition, conception is almost impossible. If you are considering about IVF, then chances are very less in your case. My humble opinion is that just go for surrogacy. Through this process, you can have your own baby from a surrogate mother. It is the best procedure for couples like us who can not give birth to a baby naturally. Many many hugs for you.
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I'm so so sorry to hear about you. That must have been hard. Really hard. I can't imagine how you got through. You must be superbly brave. I am sorry but pregnancy is not possible in your case. You have had the ovaries and tubes removed. If I am not wrong, that is where the eggs and major hormones come from. If you don't have any eggs or hormones, it is impossible to get pregnant. I don't think IVF is an option here. You might look into surrogacy or adoption though. I agree to the suggestions given here by the other ladies. That clinic is worth looking into. Stay positive and strong. You are a wonderful women. Don't ever lose hope. Wish you the best.
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Hey, there I hope you're doing good. I hope you have fully recovered from the accident. You surely are a strong woman who went through so much I am so proud of you. Well, IVF will work in your condition if you're producing fertile eggs, or you have DE also your uterus needs to be perfectly functioning. I wanted to go for IVF again, however, the clinic abroad I opted for called me for my first free meeting. In the meeting, they analysed my documents and suggested that I rather go for surrogacy. They also gave a guarantee with it that I would hopefully go home with a child. I am now opting for surrogacy and later at some point in life if I think one baby isn't enough I might try for IVF. I would give you the same advice. I think you should give your body a break and go for surrogacy. As that will ensure your and the babies safety as well which is important. However, consulting a doctor would be the best option as they know better. Best of luck I hope you're soon able to become a mother. Feel free to ask as many questions and hopefully will try to help you. As we are here to help each other and be there for one another.
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hey there Hannah thank you for the reply.I am doing much better now thanks for asking.I guess you can say that I have recovered completely.I mean there is still metal disc inside me.One in my hip and one in my back.They won't be leaving my body anytime soon.I think this also might be a complication while giving birth.I mean if I ever get the opportunity to do so.It's sad and comforting to know that there are people going through a similar struggle.I feel like that I might follow your path as well.I still have loads of question I mean surrogacy is around 90-100k in the USA.somewhat the same price UK and Canada.I don't think after my medical bills I can afford that.I've heard that some countries offer cheaper processes as well.Are they really safe though? I mean scamming is a huge concern of mine.Thank you for the reply and I hope you have a beautiful baby of your own soon.
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Thank you all the ladies for your replies.I was honestly not expecting so many replies.This really made my day.I had gone for a week or so that's why I couldn't get back to you guys.I wish to reply each and every one of you personally.Once again thank you so much for the good wishes.I am sure you guys yourself are going through a similar struggle.Take care of yourself ladies and sending baby dust your way.
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Hey, its a sad and much upsetting to hear about your loss. May God soften your hardship soon. To have a baby is a big dream for any woman but all that you went from was such ill to hear. Anyways there is no need to worry about it anymore because you are on right place to have the best solution for your problem. As far as Surrogacy and IVF are concerned i will suggest you to go for IVF as you and your partner are still able to go in it. You asked for the pricing and scams , yes you are right whether to trust any online platform or not. For this i will recommend you to have this treatment from Ukraine, it is a bit suitable for you in terms of financial expenses. Search it further for the credibility and good will of the clinics over there. By the way you have chosen a pretty nominal place to discuss your matter of concern and i hope you are now much relaxed and somehow clear about your decision. Don't worry lady you are such a brave woman who is still fighting to make things streamline after passing a such disastrous span. Good luck and I hope you will be able to become mother very soon. Feel open to ask any question.Love
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Thank you so much for caring Asmae.Amen to that sister and thanks once again.Plus I love your name please tell me its real.Has such a subtle ring to it.I've explained above how IVF might be an issue.I had a discussion with my doctor.He told me the chances of having success through IVF are quite low.He also said something that really moved me.Which was what do I really need to conceive a baby with a disc in my back? I mean I have read so many healthy women have MC and I am not in the best position to carry.Might be going for surrogacy after all.After my financial trouble is solved that is.I have been suggested the same place by a lot of people.Will try to contact people there soon.Take care of yourself love, a lot of us are fighting battles of our own.may we be stronger than the world when the dust settles.
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Its great you are so strong that you accepted the reality. You have a right to have babies. Babies make your family complete. So IVF is a great procedure but with a lot of complications. Its success varies from age to age. It is great you are choosing it but it is not necessary it would be successful. After my sister chose IVF after her 4 miscarriages but it failed. She was so disappointed and depressed. It was so hurtful to her in that condition. So I started a research on such procedure. I found surrogacy helpful. I Heard about a clinic on the forum that is in Ukraine. It was our last hope so she went for surrogacy. It's been 8 months we are waiting for the baby. Now the baby is expected this month.
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Hi there, Klina! I am so sorry to hear about your losses. I am sure you don't deserve it. See IVF is a very complicated procedure for a situation like yours. I'd suggest you to go for surrogacy as it will be very safe and hopefully successful too. I myself have had a baby through it. I got it done from this great clinic in Ukraine. You should check them out. Good Luck.
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Thank you for the kind words.Although I wouldn't call myself strong.Have you read some of the stories on this forum.Really give me goosebumps on another level.they really do n't they? I mean just holding that cute piece of flesh and blood is just beautiful.Yes, there is a lot of complication while going for IVF.sucess being one of them.I have explained above how I might not go for IVF as well.You see I didn't really get the best reply from my specialist.I really am considering surrogacy very strongly.you have to know though how it can be hard to wrap your head around.even the expenses are a real big question.How to even get 100k for the process and everything.Anyways take care of yourself and much love to you.
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you kind words mean a lot jody hunt.you said how I got through.to that, I say ever since I was a kid I loved to swim.Soi just trod every situation in my life as well.Life can be so hard to deal.I really think people should be more thankful for there fertility.you talked about the possibility of getting pregnant.I think there is a possibility of the process.I mean through someone's else eggs.That does not, however, mean that I will be going for it.I mean eggs can be expensive.Moreover, IVF with donor eggs can be a waste of money for me.Take care of yourself and thank you for the reply.Yes, you are right about that.I might be going there for surrogacy after all.
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thank you for the free hugs daisy.Here are some right back at you.I appreciate you caring so much for me.I am doing much better because of everyone's prayers.Please keep sending happy thoughts my way.I really need them.Yes, the chances really are very low.I might be going for surrogacy or adoption after all.
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Hi there! I'm so sorry for your situation. Reminds me of the time I found out I'd never be able to conceive. I feel for you. I think it's good you're looking at options. I went with surrogacy. However, if you think there's a chance at IVF for you, go for it! Consult some doctors. I know this great clinic that offers unlimited tries, and other good services at a cheaper price. I'll tell you it if you like. Good luck!
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Hey Lydia its nice that you got back with a reply. Price was definitely a huge factor for me when I decided to go for surrogacy. As in the US the insurance does not cover the treatments that one goes for which meant I would have to pay a huge sum of bills. I wasn't ready for that and had almost given up thinking that I would be infertile. However, my friends and my DH were extremely supportive he and I used to watch videos about surrogate stories. It was during that when we came across a clinic which had really good reviews. They were all so authentic and we decided to research about them. They were inexpensive as compared to the various clinics in my hometown. They offered two packages, one being economical and the other being VIP. So one could choose any according to there financial condition. The economic package was the one we opted for because it literally included everything and more. We were then invited for free to visit the clinic for the first face to face meeting, accommodation included. We received from the airport in the nicest way and took to the beautiful cottage. I was honestly so impressed it was my first visit to this country and I was loving the vibes. We then went to the clinic and the doctors were so professional and experienced. So my experience turned out to be an amazing one. You may feel free to ask more questions.
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Hi there, well fingers crossed. We don't know what is going to happen. It's a kind of exciting process. Well I am not trying right now but I just remembered the time. You are at good cd. Your AF is good try to test once before that too. It's helpful for some scenarios. Best of luck. May you have a great life and healthy children.
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I am sorry to read you have to go through all this. How are you now? Reading your history I'd duffest go for adoption or surrogacy. IVF will be dangerous for you. it might not even be an option. Considering you have gone through surgeries to remove your fallopian tubes. I will definitely tell you to go for surrogacy.I hope everything works out well for you.
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hey! this is so sad to hear all this. strength to you buddy! I know how much painful this would be. and you really had a tough journey, well, your doctor could explain you better either you could conceive or not, as you cant get into anymore risk. get an appointment with your doctor, and way to go. and surrogacy would be a bit better as of their would be no option of conceiving or loss. If your doctor says of IVF then go with that. the choice is yours. good luck.
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Hi. So sorry to hear your story. Even after going through so much you have stayed strong. I admire that. I am also suffering from infertility and even though I cannot naturally conceive a child, I have my own biological daughter all thanks to surrogacy. Before I took surrogacy I tried IVF twice and both of them ended up in MC. Surrogacy was the only way for me and I feel like I should tell you that the success rate in surrogacy is much higher and the clinic in Ukrainian I went to gave me 100% guarantee of success. needless to say, they fulfilled their promise. I belive you deserve to be happy and would recommend you try surrogacy as your option.
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hey klina, sorry to hear about your problem. Infertility is so heartbreaking. What can be worse than not giving birth to your own child. I also faced this phase. I am an infertile. I can't have my own baby because of my disease. I was in depression. Then my husband an i decided for surrogacy. We consulted many clinic sin Australia but failed. Then i heard about clinics in Ukraine for surrogacy. We moved to Ukraine. Their i found Bio TexCom clinic. It is the best clinic for surrogacy. Their packages is also affordable. Now i have a surrogate child. I am very happy with my family. You also think about it. fore more details visit http://mother-surrogate.info/
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Hi Klina. I hope you are doing good. I am so sorry for your loss. I know it must have been hell to go through such an experience. Infertility is a big issue, I know. I am infertile too. We were so worried and emotional. We didn't know what to do or where to go. Some people suggested IVF. We went for it. Unfortunately, it failed twice. We lost all hope. People around us supported us and told us not to give up. The suggested said we should go for surrogacy. We are currently looking into it.
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I am really sorry to read about your loss. that must have been very hard for you. However, stay strong! I can understand that this isn't easy. If they have removed your uterus then you should look into surrogacy. That I believe is one thing that might work for you. However, I am not sure. There might be some other better process as well. Just search a really good clinic. The clinic I know about is operating legally in Ukraine. They offer two packages. The VIP and the standard package. Both of these are comparatively inexpensive. Therefore, look into them. Good luck to you.
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What an awful situation to be in. I feel really bad for you. It must've taken so much bravery to share your story with everyone. I'm glad you found the courage to do so. It helps a lot actually. I've had a couple of miscarriages too so I can relate. I really wish things get better for you, eventually. As for your question, IVF is a good option. There are lots of other solutions, as well. You can also consider going for IUIs. They could be a viable option. Either way, I think you should start by visiting the fertility clinic, first. I hope you find success with whatever you decide. Good luck and lots of love! You can do this!
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Hey, Lydia. Your story is full of struggle. However, it depicts a strong woman! A courageous woman who has not given up. This makes me so happy. It's a really inspirational story. I hope this strength does not run out. Most women would have given up! It's good to see you looking for options. Trying to conceive can be so frustrating. Especially for infertile women, like us! I really hope you're rewarded for your efforts. IVF could be the ideal scenario for you! It's a reliable procedure. I would suggest you opt for it right away. I can help you with finding a good clinic, as well. Good luck and lots of love on your journey!
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Hi. Your story made me really sad. You have been through a lot. You are a very strong woman. You must have been devastated at the loss. I really think you should consider seeing your doctor. Only a doctor can tell you after check up if it is possible for you or not. But, in my opinion, the chances are you can. Hopefully. IVF works for a lot of women. Assisted contraception is a great way for a pregnancy. Especially for the ones have been trying for a while with no luck. If you can't conceive with IVF there are other options too. You can choose surrogacy for yourself or simply adopt. The thing with babies is that a lot of people want to have their own ones. Through surrogacy, you can have that. This is why I went for it too.

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