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Hi all My husband and I are in our early 40s - married in 2013 and still no children despite 6 rounds of IVF. What a soul-crushing experience that was. I did my last one 2 days ago. No more. My IVF doctor told my husband to find a donor at the pub (a place we never go). He told me to ask my workmates, shop assistants, and a hairdresser. "Hi, I can I have a few of your eggs?" Seriously? I can NOT ask people like that. Does anyone? We are now looking for an egg donor and have decided to look at donors in Europe. Has anyone had any success with this? Any tips?
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Oh my god. How are you? I hope you're alright. This is so sad to see. I'm really disappointed that you had to go through with this. You don't deserve this. I can understand your situation. There are a lot of good clinics that provide services of egg donors. However, I'd suggest you something different. Have you considered surrogacy? It could be a better solution, in my opinion. Are you guys open to it? It's a safer procedure. You wouldn't have to worry about the age factor, either. Good luck to you!
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Hey, there. I hope you're okay! This sounds disgusting. I can't believe you had to go through this. How did you manage? I really could not have. You are a brave woman. I have good news for you. And, I genuinely hope they help you. There's going to be an event on 18th and 19th August. A clinic that I went to will be hosting it. They are BioTexCom. The best clinic for assisted conception. They will definitely help you out. You can check with the consultancy. And then decide whether you want to go for it. Good luck to you. I hope they help!
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Hey there Dear. How are you doing? I hope its all great. I am really sorry to hear about all your troubles. I know infertility can really be hard. It can ruin lives too. I have faced it ones myself. However, I had surrogacy and now a mother of two towns. There is a good news though. My clinic in Ukraine is coming to London. On the 18th and 19th. They are having an open house session. I think it will be very useful. You can get your appointments or just consult them. I wish you good luck and lots of love. Take care and prayers for you all.
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Hey, hope you are doing well. first of all i am really sorry to hear about you. You have been through so much and i know how hard it is to face disappointment and failure again and again.But sweetheart don't lose hope. I have a good news for you. I am an infertile too since 8 years and recently i have decided for y surrogacy opt. I am consulting a clinic biotexcom in ukraine for my procedure. and the best part about the clinic is they hire surrogates and egg donor by themselves. They handle all the legal issues and provide the procedures under laws and rules so the clinic has high success rate. I loved the atmosphere of the clinic and the staff is supportive. The doctors are highly experienced and professional as well as humble and kind. You should consult biotexcom. In fact they are organising an event here in UK on 18-19 august, their well experienced staff is cog along with the head Anastasia. She is so humble lady. you can visit them on event before visiting their clinic. Don't miss this chance. This visit will be worth it.
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Hey, there. How are you? I hope you're alright. This is a sad post. I'm sorry you had to go through these struggles. You don't deserve this. No one does, to be honest. I hope you don't lose hope. Keep the faith, alright? Things will get better for you. I am absolutely certain about that. The good news is that there's a clinic called BioTexCom that is hosting a consultancy session in London! They will definitely address your problem. They are the best clinic around. Just get your seats booked. And, be there on the 18th and 19th of August! Don't miss it!
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I am so happy that the clinic I chose for my IVF is coming to the UK. I would recommend you all to avail this great opportunity of meeting The head of the English department just in case if you have any queries. I am really excited. August is not too far. Hope this event will go great in London. That is the great initiative by the management of Biotexcom. More and more people will benefit from this. Get yourself registered ASAP. I hope everyone's dreams come true. Good luck.
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Hi Honey bee, hope you are doing well. I am so sorry to know this. This must be very difficult to bear. I can relate as I have been TTC for 10 years with no success. My DH got so disappointed that he thought adoption is the last solution for us. I didnt agree as being an adopted child I know what a biological means. Though my parents loved me but their depression that I am not their biological child ha developed this thing in me. So I convince my DH to try surrogacy once. He agreed to it and we started looking for reliable clinics. We heard a lot about Ukraine clinics but were not able to visit immediately as we live in Ireland. We are very happy to know that an old and reliable clinic of Ukraine named BIotexcom is coming to visit London UK. Their head of English department Anastasia is also coming. So it is a great opportunity to learn about the available treatments and sign contract . I have registered myself as there are limited seats available. You can also avail this opportunity.
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Aww Honey bee, I am so sorry buddy. This is such a sad reality. I can understand your pain. I have tried IVF twice. But unfortunately both times it failed. My husband divorced me afterwards because of depression. Now I am remarried to a friend. He loves kids and I want to have one asap. I want to make this marriage work at any cost. So I have decided to try surrogacy. I have already registered for an event in London UK where Biotexcom clinic is coming to visit. It is a once in a lifetime opportunity where we'll get a chance to sign treatment contract. Anastasia, the head of their English department, is coming along with professional team to discuss all available treatments. I am so excited to attend this event. You should also avail this opportunity as there are limited seats available.
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Aww Honey bee, I am so sorry buddy. This is such a sad reality. I can understand your pain. I have tried IVF twice. But unfortunately both times it failed. My husband divorced me afterwards because of depression. Now I am remarried to a friend. He loves kids and I want to have one asap. I want to make this marriage work at any cost. So I have decided to try surrogacy. I have already registered for an event in UK where Biotexcom clinic is coming to visit. It is a once in a lifetime opportunity where we'll get a chance to sign treatment contract. Anastasia, the head of their English department, is coming along with professional team to discuss all available treatments. I am so excited to attend this event. You should also avail this opportunity as there are limited seats available.
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hey! This time is very difficult. I can understand. I also have gone through it. I am not trying to discourage you or anything. I am telling you my story to encourage you. After several tries for years, I could not conceive. My husband and I have been living together for years now and wanted to have a child that could make your life complete. But every time I checked it was a negative result. We were very disappointed, especially me. But my boyfriend convinced me to have surrogacy as it seemed like the only option. We visited many doctors and clinics in different places. Finally, we were able to find one that was very satisfying. It is situated in Europe. I would just say to you that if one door is shut for you then another opens. There is always an alternative. Stay strong and never lose hope. God bless you.
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Infertility is such a curse. You start hating everything and even your existence. I was TTC but unfortunately, that wasn’t in my fate. I tried literally everything as my husband was really caring towards me, we spent most of our savings on IVF but you know it didn’t work in the first attempt and I just lost hope in it. My husband persuaded me to do it again but I got so downhearted that I didn’t want to try it all over again. But my husband came to know about a good clinic and we thought about trying there. we found the package that suited our budget. We needed accommodation and transport, and the best part was, the clinic administration was providing it. We flew to Ukraine and started the procedure. Thanks to them cause Now, we have a two years son.
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Hey! I felt so emotional after reading this. I know infertility is not at all easy to deal with. You really need to be courageous for this. And, I appreciate the fact that you really are dealing with all this with a positive approach is impressive. One must remain hopeful if they select the right clinic. The hard roads often lead to beautiful destinations. I myself have visited a clinic. They leave no stone unturned to help you enjoy the journey of motherhood. I remember, how down and depressed I was when I came to know that I could not conceive naturally. But, this clinic did wonders. I now have a healthy baby boy via surrogacy. I wish a good luck to all those going through such assisted methods of conception.
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Hello there! I hope you are doing fine. I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I can totally understand how you must be feeling right now. You should not lose hope. I know you are becoming paranoid. It is totally ok. But at this time you need love and support. I'm sure you will become a mother one day. If you are unable to have a baby naturally why not see other options. There are many alternatives like IVF and surrogacy. The most important thing while opting for a procedure is the choice of a clinic. Kindly make a good choice and avoid clinics like Adonis cause they are terrible with their services. Best of luck. Cheers!
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Hi you all beautiful women. I hope you all fine.My name is Amanda and I'll tell you how i changed my point of view about IVF. I got married 8 year before. after 2 years of my marriage. I got a miscarriage. My whole world collapsed. A lot of people suggested us to go for IVF or surrogacy but I never agreed. My husband finally convinced me and we flew to UK. We researched and found a clinic. The staff was well trained. We met our surrogate. She is a lovely woman! The clinic arranged everything. I couldn't believe it was finally happening for me. I can proudly say that I'm a wonderful mom of a healthy baby girl now and I've changed a lot since then!
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Hey there!. Really sorry to hear your issues. This is so great! The clinic is doing so much to help people overcome their problems. Many have been able to find their rainbow. I have seen people trusting them. And, they leave no stone unturned to let people enjoy their lives. My sister is going through this problem. She has PCOS and cannot conceive naturally. We have tried several methods for her but, it didn't work. We are now looking for assisted methods of conception. I think Bio*****m can help her with this. I have read various success stories all over the internet. Now, it is the time to share this with her. I hope all goes well for her too. Fingers crossed. Thanks for sharing this. I hope to hear more good from you. Keep it up!.
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I am so sorry for your poor experience. It is really sad to know that you are battling with infertility. I can only imagine how painful 6 IVFs would have been for you. I have misscarried thrice and I know what it feels like, not being able to conceive. I wish you all the strength and power. Find urself a good clinic in the region you have mentioned. I went there too and turned out to be a successful and motivational experience.
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Aw, honey! 6 rounds of IVF sound extremely painful. I am so sorry that you had to go through so much pain. It really hurts me to know that you guys have been married since 2013 and still no luck with babies. I am 38 years old right now and I cannot conceive either. I had a son naturally when I was 28 but I couldn't conceive after that. I know how you must be feeling. Please, just stay positive and don't get too stressed. Stress is going to damage your mental health more than you know. You should immediately try looking for better clinics. I am sure things will work out for you that way. Everybody is different and the result varies from person to person, but please don't lose hope.
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Oh my god honey_bee. How are you? I hope you're alright. This is so sad to see. I'm really disappointed that you had to go through with this. You don't deserve this. I can understand your situation. There are a lot of good clinics that provide services of egg donors. However, I'd suggest you something different. Have you considered surrogacy? It could be a better solution, in my opinion. Are you guys open to it? It's a safer procedure. You wouldn't have to worry about the age factor, either. Good luck to you!

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