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Rihana's picture
Joined: 2018-01-23
Is it possible naturally
Hi guys, How are you all. I am not fine. I am really not fine. I don't know what should I do. Since the day I found out that I am not able to conceive child I am mentally sick. I took the impact of that so hard I guess. What should I do. It was my life time wish to become pregnant. Now I know that it is not going to happen for me. I am really worried about my health as well. I don't know what should I do. I know that I can't ever become mother. Please help me by telling me some other ways. I don't want to be mad. Please help me guys. I am really looking forward towards help. Thanks in advance.
Mia Drake's picture
Joined: 2018-01-31
Hey there. I am fine. Sorry to hear that you are not fine. Being a mother is every woman's dream ever since childhood. Knowing that you can't be mum is heart-wracking. My heart feels for you and goes out to you. I can understand what you are going through. You are going through a lot these days but honey you don't need to lose hope. It seems like you are giving up. I want to tell you that giving up is never a solution. It will leave you sad and alone. While on the other hand staying strong and fighting will the best way to lead. It will make you happy, contented and successful. There are many other ways like IUI, IVF, and surrogacy etc.They all have their own positive aspects. Choosing a method totally depends on your problem. If you need further help, do ask me. Best wishes. Much love.
wancy's picture
Joined: 2018-02-01
That's some thing very serious in women's life. Having no baby in life is indeed very difficult to face. You are not the only one who are facing this fertility problem. There many other women's who are trying to conceive. I know it's difficult situation for you to think for other process. But that's the right time to think about this. Because after trying for many years i didn't find solution. Other then surrogacy, this is the last option for people like us. If we want to have a baby in our life. Then we have to choose this process. I have done research and find many help on different forums. I recently visited a clinic for my initial process. Many clinics are providing this facility. You have to find the perfect one for yourself. I have done with this step, I am happy because they are very helping. And most importantly they are providing all legal documents. Which is very important for me. I wish you best of luck. It's just a start you can find many ways.
Jannie Bob's picture
Joined: 2018-02-16
Hey there. I am sad to know about you. It is nerve-wracking to know that you can't be mum. As it is a dream of every woman ever since childhood. Your world moves upside down when you get to know this. But honey just hangs in there. There are methods to help you in such a difficult situation. You will be glad to know that there are clinics which help you in this phase of your life. I have been gathering info about this clinic. It has a high success rate. The staff is very friendly there. I have also visited it because of my fears of infertility. I a having endometriosis which is giving me this fear nowadays. I am going to attach a link here. It may help you in getting information. It will definitely lead you to the right path. Wish you luck. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3wkbgaaXc2XaxTYJhtR0rA
jenelia5's picture
Joined: 2018-03-06
Rachel, I'm so sorry to hear about this. It's a very difficult moment of life when you come to know about being infertile. I felt the same when I came to know about myself. I was so depressed and stressed. I did not know what to do. It felt like my world has ended. My DH and other people around me gave me hope then. They told me that I have other ways that I can opt to be a mother. I finally decided to stop crying over something that can never happen. I started making some research on processes like surrogacy, IVF, etc. Surrogacy is the option that I chose. I would advise doing the same. Currently, I am going through this process from a clinic in Ukraine. They offer great services and take a lot of care of the whole process. I hope that you get over this soon and think about your next step. Good luck with everything, dear!
daisy123's picture
Joined: 2018-01-23
Hey Rachel, you are looking so much depressed. Just relaxed. You will get sick by thinking so much about this. This is not the end of life dear. You are not the only person in this world who is infertile. Thousands of women are there who are facing the same issue. I don't know about your husband. But I and my husband, we both are infertile. So, I am facing double infertility. It's very rear case. I was also so much depressed when I joined a forum of such people facing the same problem. One of the ladies suggested my surrogacy. Since then I had been searching for different clinics offering surrogacy. After three years of research, i have found the best clinic in Ukraine. Next month I am going there for my surrogacy. I am 100% sure that it would be successful. So, my advice is never lost hope. There is always light on the other side of the tunnel. Consult a good clinic and try to find out which method is best for you. Best of luck.
AliceJones's picture
Joined: 2018-03-05
Hi Rachel. Hi, hope everything gets better for you. I really wish they do. I am really sorry to hear about it. It breaks my heart when a person has to go through this. This is a natural thing. You should never blame yourself. Everything will get better one day. Don't lose hope. Science has advanced a lot. There are many other ways. I hope those work for you. Why don't you go for IVF or surrogacy? It's a child you want. I cant give birth too. I went for surrogacy. I am a proud mother now. I hope you find this helpful. I wish you good luck.
RachelBranson's picture
Joined: 2018-01-20
Hi Rachel. I know you're right! It hits that way naturally. So, yeah! Don't get depressed or devastated! Don't take it hard on yourself. So, yeah! There are plenty of ways out there. You can still seek a way to have a child. I'm 37 years old. I'm still trying to have a child this year via an IVF in Kiev, Ukraine. Well, I've also realized and accepted my fate that I can't have it naturally. So, yeah! There is no harm in accepting stuff related to your life. Anyway! Wish you all the best! Take your decision wisely! You still have time. You can become a mother. It's always so important to complete the family.
Ava's picture
Joined: 2018-03-16
Hey! Power to you women. I know that's tough. Sad to hear that. Could I ask you about What made you infertile? I mean was there any reason behind? Or that was unexplained infertility? Had you been through fertility test? If that so. Your doctor might have suggested you the alternatives. If this is not the case. I would suggest you switch your doctor. You must concern a doctor that would suggest you better alternatives. See, As there are many alternatives available these days that could help you out, You might select one of them. At first, consult some good fertility doctor and start your procedure as soon as possible.
jazz_roxx's picture
Joined: 2018-04-18
Rachel, I'm so sorry to learn about the circumstances you are going through. Being infertile is very painful. I can understand your torment as I also have to face infertility. I was so discouraged and disappointed. I was unable to decide what to do. It felt like it's the end of life. At that point, my DH supported me a lot. My sister-in-law told me about artificial treatments for infertility. Indeed, surrogacy was the best choice for me. So, I opted to go for surrogacy treatment. Surrogacy is such a great blessing of science. I'm currently in Europe for the surrogacy treatment. Their management and staff are very corporative and appreciatable. I'm sure that your wish will also be fulfilled one day. Baby dust at your doorsteps!
benny's picture
Joined: 2018-06-20
Rachel, I am sorry to know about your problems. Don't take tension. Try to stay calm. You have many other options. Try Surrogacy or any other option. In Ukraine, you can find best clinics. Try to consult a good clinic there. Trust God everything will be fine. take care.
Latina Martin's picture
Joined: 2018-07-01
Hey there. I'm 24 years old. I'll share my experience with you. When i'm suffering from infertility, doctors told me that is because of disorder of tissuess. Then me and my husband decided to get a treatment from the clinic. My friends told me that there is a old and good reputed clinic in Ukraine. Then, we go to the Ukraine to visit the clinic. Then, we visit this clinic has awesome building and they have well qualified doctors. They are specilized in Surrogacy and infertility treatment. Their staff are co-operative with me. The doctors can check me very well and listen me with full consideration. Now i'm under treatment in this clinic. The atmosphere of clinic is safe and sound. Doctors wash their hands after check up of patients. Nurses are so caring and they can treat me like family members.
marie80836's picture
Joined: 2018-07-13
Don't take it on your heart and don;t let your feelings control you just relax and never loose hope remember this a journey full of hardship always give positve result . i have my friend she has miscarriage and after that doctor told him that she can't get pregnant and there are no chance of any kind of fertility she was depressed and hopless and was a traveler of darkness like you but i always say him that there is no absolute infertility and there is always a beam of light to remove the darkness and finally we find this surrogacy she has already done a search on it and she sees it a solution of her problem there is clinic in ukraine which offer a surrogacy facility they are going to arrange a event in london on 18-19 august and i am going to attend them their sit has complete information about this event i strongly recommended you try it one time may be this proves a full stop to your endless journey
MarieJames's picture
Joined: 2018-05-14
Rihana, I know its difficult, tough and very frustrating journey of infertility. The journey is worthwhile when its associated with a good fertility faculty where doctors and the staff are very cooperative. I have struggled with 9 years of infertility until I found Biotexcom. It's coming to London for two days for an open day event. It will beneficial for those who are looking for pieces of advice, chances of conception or other fertility treatments. Therefore, Rihanna, I will recommend you to visit the event. I am sure you won't be disappointed. On 18/19 August 2018. Its a two-day event for the initial consultation meeting. You can email them for further details and register yourself as well by sending an email at surrogacy@Biotexcom.com.
AnnaJ's picture
Joined: 2018-01-20
Hey, Rihana I hope you are well. Dont be so hard on yourself. I know these questions really bother one. However, I would suggest you try to meditate and stay calm. If you have been trying for a year and no progress has been made. I would suggest that you visit a good doctor. They will carry out someone tests. These tests will then help them in determining the problem. The field of infertility has significantly improved. Therefore, there is no need to worry! There are soo many treatments that you can opt for. It is all about researching well. Good luck to you. Sending baby dust your way.
lisamorris's picture
Joined: 2018-01-20
Hey Rihana! How are you? I hope you are doing better. Calm down girl, i know its hard but you need to relax. If you want to become a mother, you have to think about yourself first. If your health is good then obviously you will have more chances of making it work. I think you should visit a fertility clinic asap. They will run some tests and tell you the reason behind your failure. Then you will be able to tackle the main problem. Don't lose hope, there are a lot of ways to conceive so you are not going to be left alone. Take care. Good luck! Stay blessed. Bye!
JessicaSingleton's picture
Joined: 2018-01-25
Hi Rihana! How are you now? I know finding out about infertility is hard. It's not an easy thing to digest. A girl dreams of becoming a mother since childhood. And when the doctors tell you that you won't be able to do it, then it feels like there's nothing left in this world. You are going through a rough time, but now it's time for you to move forward. What if you can't do it naturally? You can still become through so many other things. I had my baby through IVF. You know to make it work, i had to travel abroad for my treatment. But thank God the clinic was amazing. I didn't even feel like that i was away from home. I hope things get better for you. My prayers are with you. Good luck! Goodbye!
jessicablack's picture
Joined: 2018-03-12
Hey Rihana! I hope you are feeling better. So you are worried if it's still going to work naturally. No girl, it's not going to. If the doctor has told you and the reports have proved it then there's nothing you can do about it. Except for one thing and that is to go for the alternatives. There are a lot of fertility treatments that will be able to help you. I have also had both of my babies through IVF. So i can assure you that the treatment works like a charm. I hope this helps you. Stay blessed. Good luck! Take care. Bye!
Isabella09's picture
Joined: 2018-07-27
This must be very hard for you to deal with. I understand how you feel as I have been in the same boat as you. All the years of trying and only ending up with bad news frustrated me. Nothing was happening for me too. I'm a mother of a son now. I had him through surrogacy. Best of luck to you! I hope things get better for you, too!
MariaDesantis's picture
Joined: 2018-02-10
Hi Rihana! I hope you are well. You need to calm down. The doctor only said you won't be able to conceive naturally. You can still conceive with other options. Treatments like IVF and IUI are the perfect options for you. You just need to see which one suits you better. Other than that, please opt for a good clinic. Don't just skip the part of researching. You need to do research to find a good clinic. I hope things get better for you. Stay strong. Good luck. TakeCare. Byeee!
AnnaBullock's picture
Joined: 2018-02-21
Hi Rihana! How are you? I am sorry for what you are going through. Not being able to conceive a child is not easy to deal with. It takes a strong heart to digest that feeling. I have seen people live without children. It's not a life worth living. That life is so empty and sad. So no matter how much time it takes, you should not stop trying. You should keep trying, sooner or later you will be able to make it work. Try to give your husband some time, he will change his mind. Good luck. See you. Take good care of yourself. Bye!
Jodyhunt's picture
Joined: 2018-02-17
Hi Rihana! I am doing great. How are you? I know it's not easy for you, but you need to relax. If you will stress like this, you won't be able to make a good decision for yourself. You need to have a clear mind to think straight. Your relationship with husband will also be affected by this. So don't overthink it, there are a lot of treatments that can help you conceive a baby. No need to worry about that. For now, just focus on your health. Everything else will work out eventually. Stay strong love. Love you. Goodbye!

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