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Infertility Story
I am also 43, got married when I was 27. I guess surrogacy is the only solution to my problem. A friend has now suggested me to search for some international clinics that do not reside in our country. You should also visit a surrogacy related clinic. There are many good clinics for solution regarding miscarriages. I have recently found one situated in Ukraine. They have quite a costless package with all the facilities. I have had many treatments from many experts but they never turn out to work out for me the way I hope them to. I have tried IUI and IVF but they failed for me many many times. People have now told me about surrogacy and I am really thinking about going for it. I just need some guidelines as surrogacy is illegal in the state where I live and I am very scared. I just need to complete my life and my family before it is too late for me even to try. I think you should give it a try too because in my view it is quite a suitable procedure for women of our age I have pregnancy issue and complications from the past 10 years and I still am childless as I have always been. There must be some way to carry out everything legally, right? It is very difficult at times to handle the loneliness and the depression but there are always friends and family to make me feel better. One thing that I am very thankful for is that I never lose hope.
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Sorry to hear about your infertility. Its the part of life. I am from Japan. I am also infertile. We moved to Europe in search of a very good clinic. We didn't found a good clinic in Europe. We moved to Ukraine than. In Ukraine we found a clinic. It has many good reputation. As i am sharing my direct experience with you all. We found a good surrogate. Now she is pregnant with our two daughters. Soon we will have two daughters.
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Hey there. It's really sad. Sorry to say but pregnancy at age of 40 is a bit complicated. It's difficult to conceive. Hope things will settle soon. You can definitely go for surrogacy. It is the option. Many people are benefited from it. It's expensive but worth it. Don't worry you can have a baby. You can search for a clinic in Europe. Do share further with us. Waiting for a good news. Hope for the best. Good luck. Love and prayers.
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This is terrible. You have faced so many difficulties in your life. I can feel your pain. You should go for surrogacy now. That is the only option left. Just make sure to visit a good clinic. There are clinics like Lotus and Adonis which are spams. So make sure to decide your clinic carefully. Wish you best of luck with it.
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Hey Sofia, I hope you are doing well. 10 years is a very long time, I hope you are soon able to become a mother. Infertility journey is a tough one and is filled with obstacles. When I myself was on it I had to face similar situations. IUI and IVF cycles didn't work for me. So surrogacy was my last resort. I had an amazing experience while the procedure was going on. You have to research properly about the procedure in order to ensure that the clinic you visit is operating legally and is also efficient. This is the most important step. A good clinic will determine everything. One of the reasons why my process went so smoothly was because of the clinic. They doubled checked everything with me to avoid any error. They were extremely nice as they even provided us with a nanny once the child was born. I hope you're soon able to decide as well. Best of luck do keep us updated.
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Hi Dear! So sorry about your infertility problem. I know how hard it can be. I have also been there. I took surrogacy as my way to start a family since nothing else was working out for me. I went to Ukraine for my surrogacy procedure and have nothing but good things to say about that place. I am now a mother of a baby girl. I guess what I am trying to say is that don’t lose hope and don’t give up. I know things are hard but they will get better. Just hang in there.
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You are really strong. It's a very nice thing that you never lost hope. That is what matters the most. I am sure you'll be a mom soon. Surrogacy will bless you with a kid. Just make sure to visit a good clinic. Because there are clinics like Adonis which are just spams. I hope you are getting me. Wish you good luck with it.
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Your story is so heartbreaking. I know it is not easy to deal with infertility. But I know you're strong. You'll handle everything. Why don't you search some good clinics in Ukraine? They are very affordable. Clinics like Lotus and Adonis are spams. So be careful while choosing one. I hope you make a wise decision. Good luck with this journey. Much love for you.
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This is the best thing ever that you never lose hope. We should never lose hope in any condition. In any circumstances, we fail if we lose hope. That is why it is important if we never lose hope. I hope everything is alright with you now. Your story is motivational. I really liked it. It's something that I need right now. Thanks a lot for sharing it with us. It all depends. Sometimes good things happen. Sometimes bad. We should just stick to the right path.
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Hey there. Hope you are doing well. That's so nice of you that you didn't lose hope. You kept struggling. I wish you get a reward for your struggles soon. There are many good clinics in Europe which offer surrogacy. You can go for any of them which suits you. Wishing you all the best!
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Hey.Hope you all are fine. My name is Sarah I am going to share my story that become my whole life awe full. I am one of those women who spend their life happily with not any a single hole comes in my life. As well when I get married, everything was fine. I had no idea that trying to become pregnant would be so difficult.After 6 months of my married life I conceive a baby and before the 4 months of delivery I faced a miscarriage.While in my 6 years marriage life I faced 2 miscarriages.After the proper health checkup doctor diagnose that im an infertile and don’t become the mother because of my heart disease.That really the news which make me mortal.My friends colleagues courage me and said don’t lose hope, you are not a single in the whole world.Then My doctor advise me the surrogacy.Me and my husband then search the clinics,my one friend asked me about the Lotus clinic.I started my struggle and collect data about Lotus clinic but me surprised. It has been a month and they don’t give me any response of my mail.I also make a phone call and message them on facebook but they don't response.Still waiting!!
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Hi. I feel really sorry to know about your infertility. It gets harder to conceive with the growing age. But, not impossible at all. Check clinics in Ukraine. They might help you in this regard. My sister had surrogacy from there. Stay positive.
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Hey. I am so sorry for you. I know this must be so hard for you. Indeed surrogacy is a blessing. I have faced infertility for 10 years. I was not lucky enough to be a mom. In the end, I decided to go for surrogacy. I went to a clinic in Europe. I have a baby boy now.
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I am so sorry girl. I think surrogacy might be the best option. My friend was infertile for 7 years. She wanted to be a mother but no luck. So she went for IVF. She failed in it. Her body was not responding. In the end, She decided to go for surrogacy. It was the happiest time of her life. She went for surrogacy and she has a daughter now.
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Hey.I am Sarah.I am facing the problem of surrogacy.I faces 2 miscarriages during 6 year of marriage life.I want to conceive the baby.Anyone help me by facing this problem.Anyone here who courage me? I am really depressed.
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You know this is the most important thing as well. You should always take good care of yourself. Of course there is a legal way to do everything. I am so glad that you chose that way. We should always keep our hopes up. It's always great for you. We should always take good care of our self. I hope now you know that how much this is necessary. It's really great. You survived this. You face this. Now you are ready.
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Hi there! I feel very sorry for you. Infertility is literally the worst thing a person has to suffer from. I know the pain very well. I'm glad you've managed yourself well and now planning to go for surrogacy. It is the best solution for you. You're 43 now, you deserve to become a mother. Ukraine is the perfect country to have the surrogacy process. Just be careful about which clinic you choose. Surrogacy will surely fulfill your dream of having a baby. You've been through so many failures in life, this one won't disappoint you. Anyway, don't worry about the legal matters. The clinic is responsible for taking care of it. You won't face any problem legally. Just be strong and start this journey. All the best!
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Hi Sofia, Hope you are doing fine. 10 years is a long way to go. I feel sorry for you. Infertility is really painful. I can feel your pain. We are in the same boat. I am also an infertile. The reason of my infertility is heart disease. My husband and i am very depressed. A family is incomplete without a child. My husband loved me very much. He suggested we have to try our luck regarding surrogacy. We heard about Ukraine clinics for surrogacy. We chose Adonis clinic for treatment. We lived in Japan. So we emailed them and asked about the details. We wanted to know their privacy policies and packages details. But after waiting for a month we didn't get any response. I recommend you not to contact them. They are scam. They will waste your precious time.
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Hey, hope you are enjoying life. Dear, 10 years is such a long period of time. I feel so sad about it. No doubt, infertility is very hard to cope with. I concur with your pain. Don't get so much stressed as many people are facing this issue. I'm among them too. I was facing heart disease and also it was hard for me to conceive a child in mine womb. That was really disturbing. All we wanted is to complete our family. Our doctor then suggested us to have surrogacy treatment. Clinics in Europe are well-reputed for providing such services. Hence, we went to them for the treatment and it really paid off. Now my family is completed as yours. Thanks to the clinic and science for helping us!
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Hey Sofia! How are you? I hope you are doing good. I really felt so sad to know about your failures. But these failures make a man stronger. I'm really proud of you that you keep trying despite having many failure. People become hopeless when they failed. In this way, I like your spirit. I have also adopted surrogacy to have a baby in my life. Due to some heart issue, I was also unanle to conceive naturally. So surrogacy was the last option and now I have a baby through surrogacy. The clinic about which you are talking is the best regarding surrogacy in my account. I think you should go for it. Everything will be fine. Just be psoitive and hopeful. My sympathies
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Your post was so touching. You are right infertility is a curse. Infertility gives depression to the person. How difficult is to survive without children. This tough give me goosebumps. It's very difficult. I can't even imagine having life without children. It's so painful. I have seen many couples who are living life without a child. They are being TTC for many years. They are living a miserable life. I wish nobody have such worst experience. It is really difficult. But I think they are the best people. They have a lot of patience.
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Hey Sofia.I am 37 and an infertile. Though I had conceived twice but was not enough lucky to give birth. I had to face abortions due to ectopic pregnancies. I did every posible treatment. But I was left disappointed. Then I heard about surrogacy and IVF. I have read and researched a lot about it. I was not able to find any reliable clinic for surrogacy in my state.As I am in Ireland I wanted to opt for a clinic that was easily reachable. With much search I find Biotexcom to be reliable enough. I consulted that clinic via email. The response was way too positive. They even briefed me about whole procedure. The staff was very cooperative. They wanted me to feel satisfied enough to move from Ireland to Ukraine. I am going for my treatment soon.
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Hi there. How are you doing? I hope you're doing amazing. I'm very very sorry about the things you're going through. Infertility is not an easy thing. And going through years with it? It drains the life out of people. I can understand that real well. As I've been there too. I had to opt for surrogacy at this clinic in Europe. They gave me hope and fulfilled all of their promises. Now we are proud parents of a baby. I'd suggest you take a look at this clinic. Gather up your information. Look at reviews. I hope you narrow down to a decision!
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Hey, I hope you are well. I can understand how hard this journey can be at times. However, dont lose hope! I am sure things will get better. Just make sure to research. Opting for surrogacy is a great option. However, for the process, it is indeed very important to visit the right doctor. Also, a clinic that is operating legally is one of the very important things. Therefore, make sure to ask people around. Look at the experienced of others as well. Good luck to you. The clinic I am aware of is operating in Keiv. They are doing really well. If you want details about them let me know. Sending baby dust your way.
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What a story. When I read it, I don't get sad! I know, on the outlook it seems like a story with too much frustration. However, what I see is different. I see a brave woman! Who has gone through so much! She still has not given up, though. That, my friend, is the key! TTC is so tough for some women. I know this because I'm going through a tough one. I can relate to your situation. It's really difficult, but credit to you! She's still going, and going strong. My prayers are with you! You can do this!

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