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Elena's picture
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Infertile
The doctors are also not sure what is the reason behind this infertility. They are also unable to tell me that weather i will conceive or not. I'm facing infertility from a long period. Like from last 10 years of my married life i am trying to conceive. But i cannot conceive ever. So with the passing age i have decided to go for surrogacy. But as in Bulgaria surrogacy is not allowed. I am moving with my husband to Ukraine. I heard there are many good clinics for surrogacy.
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Hello. Hope you are doing well. You are right. There are many good clinics in Europe for infertility treatments. I wish you to find the one which is best for you. You can either choose surrogacy and IVF. You can consult a good specialist. He/she can guide you on what suits you more. Be hopeful. Stay strong and keep struggling. Hope and faith are very important in this journey. Prayers are with you. Take care. Wishing you all the best. Good luck ahead!
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Hey, you are a very strong person. Fighting infertility for soo long! It must be so hard and difficult. I myself am on this journey and can understand what you might be going through. It is sad that the treatment is illegal in your country. I couldn't get it done from where I live because it was being done at a very expensive rate. However, here in Ukraine I luckily did find a clinic which was comparatively inexpensive. Also they are operating at a successful rate. For me both quality and quantity mattered. So far everything is going so smoothly. They have professionals doctors who are experienced and educated. The best thing for us was that they provide you with accommodation facilities. In the end the child's documents will also be provided. They have made it all so reliable for us. I hope everything goes smoothly for you.
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I can understand what you must be going through. Waiting for 10 years is not an easy job. But I am sure things will be fine very soon. You just have to stay strong like always. Surrogacy is a big blessing for those who can't conceive naturally. Watch some related videos as well. See how the whole procedure works. Be very sure before coming to a conclusion. I wish you good luck with it.
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Ten years is a long time. You must be frustrated till now. Stay strong. Don't give up. Surrogacy is great. I hope things go as you have planned them to be. Don't consult Adinos in Ukraine. They don't have a good service. They look a scam to me.
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What a tough time you must be having. I know it is not easy at all. But you have decided right about surrogacy. It will be able to fulfill your dream of becoming a mom. Make sure you select a right clinic in Ukraine. Don't get trapped by Lotus Clinic. They are not good in this regard. Only playing with the feelings of the patients. I hope you go to the right place.
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Hi there. I want to wish you luck with the procedure. Fingers crossed for you. I hope you will find a good place. Sending baby dust to you. You suffered a lot. Good things will come to you soon. God bless.
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I feel really sad for you. I know it wouldn't be easy. But stay strong. Be patient. I'll pray for you. You should go for surrogacy. It is a blessing. I am sure it'll help you. I hope you make a wise decision. Good luck to you.
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Hi Elena! Hope you are doing great. I am so sorry to hear about your problem. Infertility is not easy to deal with. I have also been there. I have been infertile all my life and just like you I also went for surrogacy as my means to start a family. I was very nervous at first but it turned out to be way better than I had hoped for. I was surprised at how co operative and helpful the people at the clinic were. FYI I went to Ukraine for my procedure to a clinic called Biotexcom. If you are also considering going there than I should tell you that you are in good hands. I wish you the best of luck on your journey. I hope everything turns out for the best.
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It's alright sweety. Ups and downs are a part of life. We all have to learn to deal with them. You should keep your hopes high too. Things will be fine themselves. Just keep faith in yourself. You should definitely think about surrogacy. I'll pray for you.
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Hey dear, I feel sorry for you. I know infertility is not easy to be admitted. But I feel glad that you are a strong woman. You didn't stop trying. Well, I am also TTC for 5 years but I didn't conceive yet. I am happy that you are moving to Europe. Yes, you are right there are many clinics here. But don't trust any clinic blindly. And first, read the reviews about the clinic. I want to mention two clinics i-e Lotus and Adonis. These two clinics are the worst clinics in communication also in the treatments. Don't visit as you will only become hopeless and will regret. I hope you get my message. Best of luck for your surrogacy journey. I will remember you in my prayers. Stay healthy!
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Hi, How are you? TTC is very painful. Infertility is hard to face. I am really sorry to know about your infertility. You had faced a lot. Ten years is a very long time. You are really a strong woman. Now you are in the right direction. Surrogacy is perfect for you. It has helped many women. It has proved to be a blessing. You will have your own child. Your family will be complete. It is sad to know that surrogacy is still banned in some countries. Best wishes for your journey. Good luck.
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10 years is a big number to stay TTC for so long. I wonder how you people get to have so much hope going and having the strength to stay strong all the years. You guys are the greatest example for those who have lost the hopes. Even at the starting age of TTC. They all should understand that TTC is the tough thing. And you get to have all the hopes going. And you have to pick the alternative that could help you to get out of the situation. There are so many false talks happening around about IVF or surrogacy. Saying that this is not the natural procedures. But women with infertility have the only option to look for. All of such procedures are the biggest blessing that anyone could have. Over the years it has proved to be much successful. Though the place you have mentioned. Is said to have the successful cases over the years. So yes each one should seek this place for their successful procedure.
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Hi Elena. I am so sorry to hear about this. You see i am also trying to conceive for last 8 years or so without any luck. It is a very harsh and long battle. It sucks up all your energy and emotions. I finally decided to go for surrogacy through lotus clinic in Ukraine but it proved even worse. They didnt give me back any kind of response. I listed all my worries and concerns and asked them its urgent. It was like they were mocking me. I waited and waaited and there was no reply. They were inaccessible on phone too. I was very disappointed in them. I am not going to recommend them to anyone.
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That's such a long time! You're the strong person I know! You really made me hopeful and relieved. Stay blessed babe! Keep going! Yes! Try centers in Ukraine. They really have a good reputation. BEST OF LUCK!
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Who doesn't want to be blessed with children? They make your life complete. There is so much pain related to the dilemma. Not being able to conceive is a harsh reality to face. All the backlash sometimes young parents have to face. Going through the pain of constantly being reminded. It is really sad to know someone is going through it. There are also other paths to surviving the sorrow. There are so many latest treatments available around us. No one deserves to lose hope. It's good you have taken a step forward. You should try to contact this clinic in Ukraine. They will surely be able to help you. I have heard of IVF and surrogacy with maximum success rates.
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Accepting the bitter truth and moving on in life is the best solution. I'm very sorry that you had to face such complications in your life. There sure is light after a period of darkness. Surrogacy will fulfil your dream of having a child. Ukraine has the best fertility treatments. All the best! Sending baby dust your way.
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Hey Elena, how are you? Hope you are doing well. I am happy for yo. Surrogacy is a blessing. My friend also have a child through surrogacy. She is very lucky. Unfortunately i am also an infertile. The reason of my infertility is heart problem. I was devastated and depressed. I wanted to be a mother by all means. so my husband and i decided to go for surrogacy. My husband heard about L***s clinic from his friend. We decided to contact them. We are living in Japan. so we contacted them via email to know about procedure details and charges. But they didn't reply us back. We also tried to contact them via phone but they didn't pick up the calls. I think they are scam. beware of them during your visit to Ukraine.
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Sorry to hear about your infertility. It must be very painful. 10 years is not a short time for a failed TTC. I wonder how can someone show so much patience. You are really strong to do that. I am glad you did not give up. Instead, now you are looking at other options. I think surrogacy can help you out. I would suggest a clinic in Europe too. I went there myself. What makes that clinic great is how the doctors deal with you. They will be very responsive and professional. They will explain the whole procedure. They will show you how the surrogate is first evaluated completely. This clears a lot of doubts. I would recommend that you go there too.
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Hey there Dear. How are you doing? I Hope its all good. I am really sorry to hear about your infertility. It's really a harsh thing to happen. I have been there. I have dealt with every problem like this. It's not easy I can assure everyone. I hope you have all the support you need. Right support is really important. It's great that you are thinking of going to Ukraine. It'll be a wonderful place for you. I wish you good luck. Take care and lots of love.
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This is really great. It's a good thought by you. I always encourage that. Everything will be alright. We must take good care of yourself. You don't have to worry, dear. Everything will be alright. Just take really great care of yourself. There are a lot of great places to help you with this thing. You'll find your help. You'll never worry. Please, be happy.
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No doubt it is a very tough time that you are facing. I am very sorry for you dear. I know your pain and stress. But the thing is why doctors did not understand the reason. They have to find it. This is the condition you can conceive. You should consult the UK clinic. You can take an appointment on 18 and 19 of August. All will be good for you. Best wishes.
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Dear Elena, I have read your post. I am very upset with you. I know infertility makes many hurdles in life. It is a very big loss for women. But you should never ever give up. You should keep trying for it. I am sure you will be blessed soon. Just keep the faith that you will get it. Wish you good luck.
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Hello! It felt so bad to hear your post. Infertility is really the worst thing. It is the very hard thing for a woman. No woman deserves to deal with it. We are all here to encourage each other. But people should know that it is not the fault of a woman. Surrogacy is at the top of the list to deal with it. Nowadays it is a common treatment. People prefer the surrogacy because of the success rate is high. It is the safest way of getting a baby. I got my treatment done by a clinic located in Eastern Europe. I just came to know that they're coming around the middle of August in London. Anyway. If you know me you know how much I support these procedures! Surrogacy's my go-to recommendation for anyone facing infertility issues. I really think you should give it a try. For those living nearby and in need, do check it out They are best in dealing infertility.
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Hi. Hope you are doing okay. Hope you are well and good. It is so bad to see that surrogacy is prohibited in most parts of the world. People think that if the universe has given it to us, it is how it was meant to be. And we should not play with nature. In my opinion, if the universe didn't want us to treat it, it wouldn't provide us with so many opportunities. We have them. Right in front of us. Then why not make use of it. It is good to see many countries supporting it though. Europe does too. Look out for clinics there. I am sure you are going to find the help you need. Kudos to you. Prayers.
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I felt really sorry about your problems. It was truly a very had experience. You are suffering from infertility. The worst part is that no one can find the reason behind it. The best thing is that you never give up. You should definitely go for surrogacy. There is a good clinic in Europe. I have heard they are coming to the UK on 18-19 August. Their English head department Anastasia will be present there. Don't miss the chance. Avail this opportunity. It will be very helpful in your case. Get yourself registered at surrogacy@biotexcom.com.Seat are limited. Best of luck for that
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Hey, there sweetie! I came across your post and I am sure that you are seeking for some real help dear! I can imagine what you are going through. This is because I can imagine myself in your shoes. I have been through tough times. I have been trying to conceive for the past 7 years. I have had no luck yet. But all I know is that I will keep trying on will stay positive throughout. I recently came across this really nice clinic in Europe. They are helping me a lot and I can see results. You should definitely visit this clinic in Europe. I am sure that they will be able to reach the core of the issue and would give you appropriate treatments. I wish you all the very best! Just stay determined and stay positive dear!
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Hey Elena! I can understand how frustrating it would be for you to face infertility. It brings along many complications and troubles. The infertility treatments are very expensive. But we all are ready to sacrifice everything just to conceive and complete our families. I am glad to read your post as you did not give up on your hopes. You stayed strong throughout the tough times that became part of your life. You are truly inspirational. I am infertile as well and things were made worse after my uterus was diagnosed with cancerous polyps. I had emotionally broken down. My future seemed meaningless to me because I wanted to have a baby of my own. However, after all the emotional roller coasters my cousin suggested me to visit a clinic in Europe for surrogacy. I am in touch with the doctors currently and they are very helpful. They have cleared all my queries and doubts. I am really looking forward to getting my surrogacy done from such a clinic. Please do share with us how your experience goes. My prayers are with you! Good luck.
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Hi! feeling sad to hear about your infertility. It is the worst thing for a woman. It is very hard to face when you cannot conceive naturally. But you need not worry. You are now on the right track. surrogacy is the only thing that works in these cases. It is the treatment with the highest success rates. It is just like a natural way from you can get a baby of your own genetics. As compared with other ways, it is the safest way of getting a baby. You also decide to go to the right place. There are many good clinics providing best services. I hope you will get a positive response. It is really joyful to complete your family. Do not be later. Best of luck. Take care.
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I am extremely sorry to hear about your journey. I can understand that unexplained infertility can be really hard to deal with. It gets very frustrating because you are perfectly fine but things still don't work out. It is good that you haven't given up. I would say that opting for surrogacy is a good idea. I myself am in the middle of the process. So far things are going great. For the process make sure the clinic you visit is operating legally. I am saying this from my own experience. The one I am visiting offers two packages. A VIP package and a standard package. Both of these are reasonable. They come along with amazing services as well. If you want more information do let me know. Good luck to you.
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Hi, yes, really surrogacy would be a great option for you. It seems to me that you are doing the right thing, that you are choosing Ukraine. There are very good conditions for surrogacy. But, despite the fact that there are many clinics, it is important to choose the best of them. I could advise you to turn it in biotexcom. There are several packages that vary in cost. For example, the cheapest of them is called the economy package. But it often happens that it is not available, but when choosing such a package, the waiting time for the selection of a surrogate will be longer. Therefore, I would advise you to choose a standard package or a VIP package. In my opinion, these are the most acceptable packages. For example, if you choose a VIP package, the surrogate will be found within 1, 5 months. In fact, it is very fast, because not every clinic can find a surrogate within 1.5 - 2 months. Of course, the cost of a VIP package is a little more, but it is justified. Since, you do not have to wait long, the whole process will begin rapidly. So, maybe your surrogate will be already pregnant soon. I hope that you will use my recommendation, this is a really good place with professional doctors.
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Elena, honey. How are you doing? I hope you're in good health. I'm so sorry to hear about your problem. You don't deserve this. However, it's good to see you not giving up. I genuinely hope things get better for you, ASAP. It's a difficult situation to be in. I'm glad you came across the solution though. Surrogacy really could be the way to go. You should just start by visiting the clinic, first. I'm sure, it will be all fine. Don't lose hope, alright? Good luck to you, honey. You can do it!
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Hey Elena, I hope you are well. I hope this journey of surrogacy is a success for you. Infertility can be really hard to go through, however, once it is over it feels so good. I was in a very similar situation, where even IUI and IVF didn't work for me. I had given up on this whole TTC journey. However, surrogacy did change my life. I visited this clinic in Eastern Europe they went through my documents and said I could go for surrogacy. I was nervous but I could see a ray of hope. So we went with the process and the experience went amazing. This was mainly because of the clinic we opted for. They were consistent and systemic. There was not even one point where I was worried or anything. The surrogacy was a success for me. So best of luck to you! I hope things go well, feel free to ask more questions.
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Hello, Elena. How are you? This is such a beautiful story. I'm sorry you had to go through so many struggles. Look at the positives, though! You learned about what's right and what's wrong. You have a lot of bravery and courage. Your story is very inspirational and motivating, too. You're doing this by going to so many lengths. I'm glad you're doing it! I hope it pays off, as well. Good luck to you! Don't lose hope alright? Visiting the clinic, first, is really important. So you are on the right track. Sending lots of baby dust, your way. Keep us posted on how it pans out.
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This is such a fantastic story. It shows how courageous you are. Well done, honey! You're doing everything perfectly. You did not let the distance be a problem. That's so amazing to see. It depicts a strong mother! You really are ready for this. Good luck to you on your journey. I hope things work out for you. I know, it's a new procedure, it should be fine though. Keep us updated on how it goes. Sending you lots of baby dust and support. I'm so happy for you. Hopefully, this provides a final push for other women hoping to go for it, too.
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Hey, Elena, you are a very strong person. I am glad that you didn't give up. 10 years is indeed a very long journey. Surrogacy is a great option to consider. I myself have opted for it. Mainly, because I didnt have any choice left. I am visiting a clinic in Kiev, Ukraine. They are known for the process. So I guess you have taken the right decision. It is sad that the process is still illegal in many countries like yours. One of the reasons why it is very important to reserch on it. The clinic I am opting had a blog and a lot of videos on this topic that really helped me make my decision. Good luck to you. I hope the process works for you. If you need any help do let us know.

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