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I would like to say something here
Hello everyone! I would like to say something here. Recovering your health, after the delivery, back as it was before is very important and difficult for a mother to achieve. Nothing can be more beautiful for a mother than to have her child in her arms for the very first time. She cannot control her tears at that moment while those tears being of happiness but not of grief. After the delivery the responsibility of the parent mother increases as she has to take care of her baby as well as of her own self too. Same was the case with me. I was very excited for our new born but on the same note I was feeling very nervous to put whole of the responsibility on my shoulders. At first it was difficult for me to manage my little cute naughty and a tiresome angel but it was thing that I was enjoying most and I didn’t complaint about it. I was so excited I cried just after my delivery because it was a person that me and my husband created.The thing I am trying to convey to the people is that one should never leave hope. And keep on trying as nature does not leave any hand empty if it keeps on trying. This video may help you make a good decison to overcome your infertility.https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3wkbgaaXc2XaxTYJhtR0rA
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"Hey hope you are doing well, Even though your body is trying to get rid of extra fluid, you still need to drink plenty to keep your bladder and kidneys healthy. Staying hydrated will also help to prevent constipation. In the days after giving birth you'll probably be weeing for longer and more often. This is one way your body gets rid of the extra fluid. "
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Hey, Aubree. You have put the motherhood feelings so beautifully. One gets eyes all welled-up. :') I can vouch for you that you're going to be a great mother. And yes, I agree with you wholly about the holding little ones for the time. (Though, I haven't had the experience!). But I have seen, women in that state, and at that stage. What's more, is that, even if it's the second child not the first baby produced/delivered. The emotions are the same, Truly said, no bond on earth compares what is between a mother and her baby. I wish you lifetime joy. And that you get to sing songs of love and happiness. Like the one (We are a Happy Family!). Heh!
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Hii dear, yes, of course, everything you just said is true. Nothing is more important than having this happiness in life. It is best for life. parenting is really an important issue and we must have to be prepared for it. It's a really difficult thing to understand.
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Hi there, how are you. Yes you are right. This is really difficult to over come the pain. May you get well soon. This is also right. Nothing is more good than having your child first time in your hand. Best of luck dear. May you have many more dear. Best of luck.
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Yes but it's ok it's the symptom we can't just get rid of it. The great thing is what you said that you used some side remedies to cure yourself of side effects of the problem, Thanks to that surgeon but first of all, thanks to Go. About that mood swings just try to keep calm and not observe something too much closely it leads your mood towards bad or aggression. Just try to avoid it and you are good to go, best of luck dear.
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You are very right. It's a blessing to have kids. I wish it wasn't so hard for so many people. I still remember my experience. I had cancerous polyps. Due to that, I had to get my uterus removed. I then opted for surrogacy. Of course, not before I moped around for so long. I thought my dreams of becoming a mother were forever crushed. Really. Surrogacy turned my life around. I have my little girl to nurture and spoil. It's an amazing feeling. Wish everyone's able to have it too!
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Hey. I am so happy for you. It's really amazing to be a mother. I never thought that I can be a mother ever. I faced infertility for 4 years. It really made me frustrated. My husband supported me alot. I was supported by my husband. We both decided to go for surrogacy after failed treatment. I wasted 2 years in treatment too. I went to a clinic in Europe. I went there for surrogacy. Today I am a blessed mother. I have a baby girl.
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I agree with you. You are absolutely right. We need to value ourselves. We need to make sure we take care of ourselves. This is the time we have to feel obliged towards our body. Hows the little one doing btw? Give her kisses from my side.
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That's just so right! I'm really glad for you. I think, yeah! I'm also undergoing an IVF this year at a repro center in Ukraine. I also feel the same way. I've already followed that youtube channel. I was also devastated in the beginning, but later I had some hope. My obs recommended for the procedure. So, yeah! Wish me luck! Already tired of trying through many ways in past years. You're so right about it! I also would have my child in my laps for the first time that way. I also want to small him. Just need it that way. That's really one of the best feelings in the world. xx
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Hey. I hope you are doing good. This is such an inspirational post.You have explained your feelings so beautifully. You were so genuine at it. It brought tears into my eyes. You are right in saying that it is one of the best feelings ever. You forget all your pain and sorrow once you hold your baby for the first time. I can not really put my feelings into words. The day I held my princess in my hands was the day I can never forget.I can still remember the peace she brought to me. My happiness knew no bounds. One must not lose hope. Struggle to conquer the battle the nature has planned for him. There is always a reward for trying. Wait for the right time. Sending baby dust to all those TTC. Take care.
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You have said it right. A woman feels complete and blessed after becoming a mother. I have been there. I know how it feels when you get to know that you cannot conceive naturally. It is really difficult to accept. But there are many ways to help people like me. As I was diagnosed with unexplained infertility. there was no hope for me to become a mother. I didn't know about the surrogacy. I am thankful to my friend who insisted on visiting the clinic she had her IVF from. We flew to Ukraine to get ourselves checked. There we came to know about surrogacy. We decided to give it a shot. Now we have our baby girl. I wish luck to all on TTC journey.
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Hello there! How are you all? Hope you guys are doing great. You are right Aubree. Having a child is the most wonderful thing ever. And did cry after I held mine. I didn't get pregnant so didn't have anything to go back to. My chikd was born via surrogacy. She is so beautiful. I laugh with her. I eat with her. I do everything with her all the time. Andit is so amazing. My husband gets jealous sometimes. Says I ignore him sometimes because of her. Lol! I agree though. I had hee after so much struggle that I wanna enjoy every bit of her life now.

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