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How does it feel to have a baby?
Hello everyone. I hope everyone is doing fine. I have been here for quite some time now. I got to have all the support I ever needed here. I got to find the friends that I have always wanted. I have been TTC. With everyone's suggestions on this forum, I was introduced to the concept of surrogacy. I am making up my mind about it. I am really curious about the whole experience. How would it feel when I get to hold my baby? Would I be the first one to hold it? Or do I have to wait for him/her for hours? I am sorry I am talking about all this way before its time. I can't really help it haha.
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Well dear It's something that you can't explain to someone. Still I want to tell you that. It feels fantastic. It's so awesome. I am sure that you followed everything. Still dear you just have to wait. Everything is going to be alright. Don't worry about it. I think you should go for surrogacy. See surrogacy is not something to worry about. It's going to help you allot. It's just awesome. I am also in a line to use this treatment from Biotexcom. If you want you could come here and take information. After that you can make your own decision about this. Just choose wisely.
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Hahahaha that's nothing to be ashamed of...That's pretty normal what you're asking. Let me tell you all about your questions... Well, last year my cousin sister had her procedure done in a repro center in Ukraine. Her surrogate gives birth like a normal person. They allowed my sister-cousin there. It was pretty normal. The mother surrogate gives it to my cousin. So, yeah! It was fine. Within minutes of birth (not for hours)...She was so happy! It was pretty normal like after a delivery. The baby was given to her. So, it was totally fine. I think she would have felt amazing when she had her child. So, prolly it was fine having her...Stay blessed! Best of luck with your procedure though...
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Hi there! I hope you are good. You seem pretty excited. And you should be too! This is a great experience of life. I know mine was. I opted for surrogacy too. I had some complications which got in my way for TTC. It was horrible. But then thankfully I was lead to surrogacy. All became right there. I wish you can find the same happiness as I did. I think the clinic played a big role there for my good experience. It's important you choose a good one. They'll be very considerate of what you want and be very understanding. Wishing you the best! x
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Hi emily! Glad to hear that you are going to have a baby via surrogacy. It is the most common method of having a baby for women like us. I have the same questions in mind about holding the baby for first time or who will carry the baby etc etc. But i read that there is contract between surrogate mother and the other party. However i am not sure about the answers. But i guess it will be sorted out by the contract we sign. I'm also going for the surrogacy option. I have found a clinic named biotexcom and i'm in contact with them. Soon we will get a date of our appointment with the clinic. The clinic botexcom.com has very good reviews about it. I heard it is the best clinic over there. If someone has some info or experience of biotexcom.com please let me know.
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Emily, how are you? I hope you are doing well. It seems like you're pretty excited for your baby. And you should be. Surrogacy is definitely a successful process. I must tell you that the whole experience is great if you choose a good clinic for yourself. Just make some research and take a wise decision about this process. I wish you all the best with everything. Keep us updated.
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Emily, you sound really motherly. There is nothing too early in the journey of motherhood. There is no feeling like the feeling of having a baby. It is unmatched. It is great to become a mother. As you hold the baby you will feel that you have conquered the whole world. You will be bothered by the sleepless nights, the BF sessions but still, you will feel proud whenever you will look on your child or hold him. There is nothing so special about any parent. Have a safe pregnancy.
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Hi there, Emily. Hope you're doing great. You seem so excited. Okay so I've been through surrogacy and I can totally answer all your questions. It's a great alternative for those who can't conceive. Yes yes, you'll be the first one to hold it. And you'll feel exactly like a mother who has given birth to their baby. It's just like natural pregnancy. Nothing too different. So don't be worried. Even if you opt for it you'll do great. Good luck.
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Hey, I hope you are doing well. You have all the right to be excited about it and to ask all these questions. My surrogacy experience was amazing. One of the major reasons for that was the clinic I opted for. In the starting, I had a very tough time choosing the clinic. However, once I was able to find a good reliable clinic everything went great. They made sure my experience went steady and smooth. You will be given the baby in your hands when it is born however, I asked them to give it to the surrogate first.
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You don't have to be worried. You have definitely selected the right option for yourself. Surrogacy is great in terms of having your own biological child. I have my baby through surrogacy too. Select a right clinic for yourself. BioTexCom made it possible for my dream to come true. They helped us find the surrogate mother. I was handed over the baby as soon as he was born. Make sure you select the right clinic as there are many spams these days. Some clinics like Adonis and Lotus are playing with people's feelings. They appeal to the patients at first. Later, there is no reply from them. There is a poor communication from their side. My friend is having her worst experience. She has tried to contact them a number of times. But, all in vain. I hope you make a wise decision. All the very best to you.
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Hey there Emily! I hope you're doing good. You seem very excited, this is good. Surrogacy is literally the best option to cope up with infertility. I'm really glad you took the right decision. Your questions are cute, HAHA. Well, don't think much. It's just like a normal delivery. Actually better than that. You get hold of the baby within minutes plus, you aren't weak or in bed. When I had my surrogacy process done at this clinic, I was allowed with the surrogate mother in the labor room. It was an amazing feeling to see my son at the first sight. When I took him in my hands, tears started going down my cheeks. I still remember this scene as it is happening in front of me. I wish you a very happy journey. I wish you hold your child in your arms very soon. Good Luck!
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I didn't have this feeling. But i guess it will be the best feeling in the world. TTC is the hardest period of a woman life. I was also trying to conceive from a long time. But had no luck with TTC. Although i conceived for 3 times but the miscarriages were in fate. My first husband left me and i was totally broke. Than i was in depression quitting my job and staying up last night. Now i am at an age of 43. I am going to be married again. I have told my husband everything about my complications regarding pregnancy. He is still willing to marry me. He says that he has consulted some good clinics regarding surrogacy and we will go for surrogacy to have a child. I had many complications regarding pregnancy. Now i am happy i have someone to support me. I have read about surrogacy from many people on this forum. People here have shared their stories of TTC. They also have shared their success stories of Surrogacy. I am now trying to know the experience of people about surrogacy. If someone has a recent experience of surrogacy than kindly share with me your experience. Thanks in advance.
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Hey there. I am glad you are deciding to go for surrogacy. In surrogacy, you have your own baby. It is womb on rent. DNA of the surrogate mother has not much effect on the baby. Holding your baby will be the best feeling of this world. All emotions come up together happiness, excitement, and love. You can read success stories on this platform. There are clinics in Europe. You can contact them. This scientific processes completed a lot of families. Children are a gift from God. They are the purpose of our lives. I live for my children. I laugh at their smiles. Cry over their sorrows. My life revolves around them. Hope everyone in this world can have this blessing.
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Hey. It's fine if you plan before the birth. I think if you really want to have a baby so you should choose surrogacy. Many people are facing infertility. I have seen many people who are facing infertility. But before anything be aware of fake clinics. They don't take their patients seriously. I have heard a lot about a notorious clinic Lotus. I know another clinic that is renown for its surrogacy. That is in Europe.
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Hey. Indeed it is a blessing. I am 40 years old woman. I wanted to be a mother. I have faced infertility for many years. I have also gone for IVF. But no luck was with me. Now I am planning to go for surrogacy before its too late. I know it is a wish of a woman to have babies. I also want one body. I have also betrayed by a clinic Adinos. They are so unprofessional. Well, I will find a good one clinic in Europe soon. I need prayers.
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Hey there! How are you? Hope you have been doing well. I can understand your pain. I was also trying to conceive for two years. Finally, I expected. It was a great feeling. You feel really special. I always had a strong faith in myself. I didn't let my fears lose my hope. I can recommend you to try all your best. If you are not able to conceive, there are other solutions as well. IVF, Surrogacy and many other solutions have arrived. Don't lose hope. Always have a positive attitude towards this infertility issue. Wishing you all the best!
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Hey dear. How are you doing? I hope its all great. I am really glad to hear from you. You are at the right place. The feeling of being a mother is out of this world. It drives you crazy. I am sure you'll get to see it soon. Surrogacy is really a blessing. It is so helpful for many people. I have had it. I think you should go for it too. I wish you good luck. Take care, please. Ill is hoping to hear more soon. Lots of love for you.
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Hello Emily, How are you? Hope you are fine? Infertility is very hard to face. Parenthood is a blessing. Don't lose hope. You have many other options. you can go for surrogacy. My cousin was also infertile. she opted for surrogacy. Now is happy with her daughter. surrogacy is a process to have your own biological child. I suggest you go for it. one day you will have your own child. My cousin did her surrogacy from BioTexCom. it is a really very good clinic. You should go there. everything is fine there. Best wishes.
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Babies are blessings. I am TTC from last 10 years but no luck at all. I am infertile doctors can't find the reason behind my infertility. I am now tired of TTC as it has been 10 years. So now i have decided to go for surrogacy to have a baby of me. I heard it is the most popular method of having a baby if you can't have one naturally. I have seen many videos regarding surrogacy and i am learning from peoples experiences. You can have the peoples reviews from the yutube about the clinic. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCg15WUWvvl_jWlq45hP0NXQ
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You have definitely decided right about yourself. Surrogacy is a nice option. Kids are a blessing. You will really love having a baby. Give surrogacy a try. You can have your own biological baby this way. Sending baby dust to your doorstep.
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Hey Emily. I'm doing good. Thank you for asking. Hang in there, sweetie. I know it seems hard right now. But it will be better. Surrogacy is a considerable option to have children. I had my own child through surrogacy too. You should find a suitable clinic for it first. This will minimize the number of risks. It is a sensitive process. So it is better to be on the safe side always. I luckily found a good place for it. They didn't disappoint me one bit. It was the best decision I ever made. When I held my child in my arms, I forgot everything else around me. All my problems were solved. Right there was my baby. I went through so much just to have him. And I have to say, it all proved to be worth it.

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