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Help me solve my problems please.
Hi ladies, I had a tragedy related to my pregnancy, I had a miscarriage. The doctor removed my fibroid protruding from the womb. He said that it works no more. I think I could never get pregnant naturally ever again. I am devastated by thinking that. My DH is worried so much about me and himself too. He thinks he is the reason for that. I am worried about my relationship too. What should I possibly do now? Any help ?? can I ever be naturally pregnant again?? Please help me or give me some moral support. Have you ever been in the same situation????
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Rachel, I am sorry to hear all this. In my opinion there are hardly any chances of getting pregnant. You are facing the infertility curse. I know it is difficult to accept this reality but you have to face it with courage. I would like to add here that my opinion is a non professional one. It would be great if you go to a professional fertility specialist. This will really help you reach the right decision. Right now don't delay your situation. It is better to get access to some fertility clinic. They can offer treatments like surrogacy and IVF. I think in your case surrogacy will be a great option. It can give you the pleasure of being the parent. You will forget all the pain and loss once the procedure is over and you hold a baby in your hands. Infertility is now something treatable. Among the available list of the clinics the most appreciated ones are those in the Ukraine region. I have all my good wishes for you. May you get the best of everything for your happy life.
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Hi Rachel...I'm extremely sorry for what you're going through. So, yeah! I know it's not easy to cope or adjust to what you've got! It's really tough these days. Anyway! Listen, dear! You should be strong right now! I'm also an infertile person like you. I've PCOS. I've also just got a recommendation from a doctor to have an IVF. For which I'm heading to a center in Ukraine. I've also stopped trying naturally...So, yeah! I'd also recommend you to go for it! There is a time when you have to accept some things as per fate. You've to be strong right now! Just take care of yourself! Stay blessed! xoxo
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Hey! I am so sorry for your loss. I know the pain.It is devastating for you I know. But you have many other options. I am also an infertile woman, I always wanted a big family but I wasn't lucky enough. It was painful for me but it was fate. I was not able to fight with it. I moved on and chose another path like unnatural ways specifically surrogacy. I chose it for me. I was not sure of its success but I realized that I chose right thing when I became a mother. I was so happy that I chose a right way and I made the best decision.
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Don't worry, dear. Everything is going to be okay. You shouldn't be so stressed about this. You need to remain calm. I'm sure things will be fine soon. talk to your husband. Tell him politely that he's thinking wrong. Nobody is to be blamed for this. It's not your fault, neither his. It's just destiny. And you have no control over it. You both need to support each other in this phase. You both have to stay strong. You can adopt alternatives. Like IVF, surrogacy etc. They might help you in conceiving. There are a lot of good clinics in Ukraine. Try to do some research on them first. Make sure that you choose a wise decision for this purpose. Choosing the right clinic is very important in this case. I hope things get fine at your end soon. Good luck!
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Hey. Very sorry to hear about this. You should try surrogacy for yourself now. It will definitely work for you. And trust me, after your baby comes, your relationship with your husband will improve. Surrogacy is being done in Ukraine at a very affordable price. They even give you a guarantee of a baby. Do consider this.
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Hello! I am so sad for your miscarriage. I know how painful it is. It is disappointing for you I know. however. I am also an infertile lady. I wanted to have a family. Yet I wasn't enough fortunate. It was disturbing for me yet it was destiny. I was not ready to fight with it. I proceeded forward and picked another option like surrogacy. I opted it for me. I didn't know about it. But rather I have taken a very wise decision. When I turned into a mother. I was happy that I have chosen a correct way and I settled on the best choice.
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Hi dear. I am so sorry for that. I know you have gone through a really hard time. I can feel you pain. No doubt it is the most crucial and disturbing feeling ever. I feel so sorry for your husband. He really cares for you. You both need each other in this crucial time. My dear you have many other options available by which you can have baby naturally. I think that you must go for surrogacy. It is really a blessing. Surrogacy has helped many couples in having babies who were infertile or can't conceive. It has much higher success rate. Surrogacy is a sure shot and gives you with positive guaranteed results. I myself have gone through surrogacy. I was infertile so I can't have a baby of my own. So I got to know about surrogacy from a group and I started research on it. Findng it helpful we went for surrogacy from a clinic in Ukraine named as BiotexCom. The results were really satisfying and now we are having a surrogate child of our own. So my advise is that you should go for surrogacy. Best of luck!
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Hey Rachel. I'm really, really sorry to hear about your situation. I hope you're holding up well. It's an awful situation to be in. I know, I can relate. I've been through something similar. I've actually had three MCs. I can assure you, there's no worse feeling than this. It took me years to get over it. I've had a year full of counseling sessions. I finally recovered, mentally. I was too broken to even TTC again. I've decided to go for assisted conception. Surrogacy looks like my best hope. I hope you find a way too, there are many, no doubt about that!
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Did the doctor said this to you? That you won't be able to conceive naturally? What about your eggs? Are they healthy still? If that so then you could go for IVF. But yeah DE is also a viable option to consider. Ask your doctor what are your chances of IVF or other Assisted reproductive technologies. If that would work than you are good to go. There is nothing left untreated in this world. not even fertility problems. You could have a baby soon. JUst believe and stay confident. I would love to hear from you again about your progress. Good luck.
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Miscarriage is a common issue today. Surrogacy is the best solution regarding miscarriages for me. So for now i have convinced my husband to go for surrogacy and he is ready too. I also had many complication regarding pregnancy during my first marriage regarding pregnancy. Now i am married for the second time and having a child from my own womb doesn’t seems to be easy keeping in mind the previous complications in my first marriage. So now i am going for the surrogacy option as their is no other way to have a baby of my own. I also contacted a clinic for surrogacy method and they responded very well to my questions. I suggest you to go for this clinic and at least you should contact them and share your problem with them so that they can propose a better solution for you. As they suggested surrogacy option for us. Some clinics are very good clinic regarding surrogacy as i’m sharing my experience with all of you. And i have to go through very hard time like i conceived for three times. But miscarriage was in fate every time i conceived. I consulted a clinic regarding surrogacy they provided me a positive feedback. Now they are looking for a good woman for our baby who can carry our baby in her womb for 9 months. They will find a good female with all clear tests so that we don’t have to face any issue later. But i am worried about somethings also. But that doesn’t matter as we don’t have any other option left for us. Positive feedback will be appreciated. Thanks
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Hey, Rihana I am extremely sorry to hear about your loss. It must have been extremely difficult for you. You should ask your husband to be more supportive than blame himself. It is no one's fault as nature is playing its role. Yes, you can still conceive. Consult a professional at a good clinic. Ask them what should be your next step. Also, look into IVF and surrogacy and see if they can be of any help. Don't worry.
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Hi there. Hope you are doing fine. I think you should go for surrogacy. Surrogacy would be a wonderful option for you. Clinic in Kiev, Ukraine called BioTex Com offers surrogacy plan at a very affordable price. I think you should contact them. I hope all goes well for you. Take care.
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hello dear. I'm so sorry you had to go through such loss. but believe me. you are a strong woman. every person is fighting against some issues in there own way. every person needs to live through good and bad times. it what makes us grow. ill pray for you. hope everything gets well for you. you can consult an infertility doctor. there are alternate procedures too. take care. keep me updated. here to support you. lots of love.
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I am so sorry to know that. I empathize with you on your loss. You have been through a lot. Darling, have you asked the doctor about this? If yes, then what did he say? If not, then you should, asap. It is quite a sensitive issue. You must consult some doctor about it. Discuss in detail about your condition. Try to know all the possible outcomes. I hope it will go well for you. I am keeping my fingers crossed for you. My best wishes are with you. Baby dust on your way. More power and luck to you. Stay strong and beautiful.
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Hello there. How are you doing? I hope you are fine. I am sorry to know that. M/Cs are difficult to handle. Losing your baby is really difficult to handle. But you don't have to worry about it. There are many ways to help you in this. IUI, IVF, and surrogacy etc. are there to help you. You just have to find a good solution for yourself. Choice of the procedure depends on your situation. I wish you luck and success in future. Baby dust on your way. Sending positive vibes to you. More power to you.
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Rihanna, sorry for your loss. It is advised to see a good RE for the diagnosis. Because there are clinics such as Adonis or Lotus who are not sincere with their profession and are making fake reports and fake diagnosis in order to loot people. So I would advise you to take a second opinion. Because the fibroid protruding doesn't hurt your fertility. Also if you cant carry a child on your own then you can go for surrogacy in Europe. Because your eggs will allow you to have your own genetic child. The surrogate will carry the child for you to the term. You can talk with a good fertility specialist. Hopefully, you will get something positive out of it. Don't let this affect your marriage. Work like a team. Surrogacy is a prayer answered of a troubled heart!!
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Yes, it could happen. Just keep trying. Never stop ttc. A miracle happens anytime. Just take good care of yourself. Always be cool. If nothing works. Don't worry. There are several other methods available.
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Well, you should never stop ttc. Trying every time keeps your couple's relation strong. It has all the benefits of it. Always stay positive. Still, if nothing happens. There are a lot of methods available. You can always go with one of them.
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Hello there. There is no need to panic and break down. If you cant conceive you can always go for alternative procedures to have your own child. IVF and surrogacy are what most people opt for these days. There are clinics in Europe that might help you in this regard.
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Hey Rihana. This is really devastating news. I know this will be heartbreaking news for you and your family. My dear don't lose hope and stay strong there is a way for you guys. You should go for IVF because it will give you your biological child. And yeah its all look natural. It is not expensive and you can have it easily. Don't ruin your relationship because you have the option right now. Best of luck.
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Hey dear, I am so sorry for your condition. I really am. What should I do? This could happen to anyone. You have to take good care of yourself. We all are here for you. You can ask anything anytime. Everyone is here for your help. Just take good care.
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Well, You don't have to worry. There are helpful treatments for you. You can go with IVF. Surrogacy is also there. Just be strong. Take good care of yourself. Don't worry. Everything will be fine.
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Welcome to this forum. We're like a family here. You can always post about your problems and you'll get help. I'm glad you shared your problem. How you miscarried was there any reason behind this? I am sorry to hear about your miscarriage. But don't worry this happens to most of the women be strong and brave. Consult a doctor or choose a clinic for yourself. But avoid bad clinics. Lotus clinic has a very negative reputation. they are everywhere trying to spam. I hope people learn about them. I wish everyone good luck. Take care and lots of love.
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Hi there, I hope you are doing better now. I am sorry for your miscarriage. Don't worry. Never to lose hope. Everything will be alright soon. There is a number of treatments are available these days. You can Surrogacy is one of them having the most success rate. I am also going for it. So no need to worry. In surrogacy, you have a child of your own DNA. you just need to contact some good clinic. They will help you. Just beware of clinics. there are some clinics like Lotus who are not doing their job well. Thank you.
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Hi there. How are you doing? Hope you are doing fine. We are doing good. I read your post. Miscarriages are really hard to cope with. I think you should go for Surrogacy. Surrogacy is really a blessing. It is amazing for infertile couples. There is a clinic in Kiev, Ukraine called BioTex Com, they have a really affordable plan for it. I think you should visit them. They are also having an opening event in London on 18-19 August. I mean those guys are really amazing. I hope all goes well for you. Take care.
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I am so sorry to hear about your loss. This is not easy, I know. It must be so hard for you. I have been in your shoes. I can totally understand how you must have felt. It is so nice of you to share your story over here. Your story will surely give hope to a lot of people. There are many like you. I had two miscarriages after marriage. Above all, we contacted a bad clinic called Lotus. I had lost all hope to become a mother. Then my husband and I started looking for alternatives. We found IVF and also a good clinic. We were reluctant in the beginning. Nevertheless, we took our chances. Now we are blessed with a beautiful baby boy. I hope everyone gets blessed with children. Cheers
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Welcome to this forum. We're like a family here. You can always post about your problems and you'll get help. I'm glad you shared your problem. How you miscarried was there any reason behind this? I am sorry to hear about your miscarriage. But don't worry this happens to most of the women be strong and brave. Consult a doctor or choose a clinic for yourself. But avoid bad clinics. Lotus clinic has a very negative reputation. they are everywhere trying to spam. I hope people learn about them. I wish everyone good luck. Take care and lots of love.
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Hi there, hope you are doing good. Surrogacy is making that possible for everyone. I'm glad to see this clinic has opened up that are doing this at a very affordable price for people. There are some clinics in Ukraine who are doing their job really well. But still, spreading awareness like this is very important. I'm sorry to hear about your previous struggles with fertility. Good to hear that you choose surrogacy to complete your family. Infertility is really a hard thing to face. I agreed with you. Surrogacy is like the last hope for the people who cannot conceive naturally. Nowadays it is a popular and safe technique for having a baby.
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Hello, Rihana. How are you doing? I hope you're in good health. I can't believe you had to go through this. It must be really hard for you. These struggles can make a person desperate. I know, I've been there. I've had plenty of MCs. Out of desperation, I decided to go for IVF with a clinic called Adonis. It was the worst decision, I have ever made. I still regret it, and it's been more than a year. They are the worst clinic, around. Avoid them at all costs. They are a scam! You deserve better, honey. I hope you get the treatment done. Good luck and good day.
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Hello there, I am sorry to hear about you. This is the toughest phase of life which can come to anyone. I totally understand that it could be really hard for you. I wish you have not had to go through this. You have to bring all your hopes back. Many ladies are unable to conceive, this issue is growing day by day. Let me Tell you f not to lose hope because there is a good clinic in Ukraine helping people with their competent staff. You need a professional help which you can get from that clinic. They provide facilities up to standard. Many people got treatments like IVF and Surrogacy from them and they were totally successful. I am sure you would not be disappointed. Do pay a visit to their clinic, they are the ones you need right now. I wish you get out of this hard phase of your life soon, don't lose hope. You still have many options.
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I hope you're doing well. It's an awful situation. You must be devastated. Trust me, I can relate. We'd do anything to conceive naturally. However, we just can't. Does it mean we shouldn't try alternatives? I don't think so. I think it's important to get help from wherever we get it. Surrogacy is a really good alternative. It's slightly expensive but that's because it comes with a guarantee. Also, the difference is money isn't too much if you consider going to a reasonable clinic. just don't go to Adonis they are pathetic. They excel in surrogacy and offer low rates as well. Good luck!
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I feel really sad about your loss. I am too facing the similar problems. But one has to be brave to compete against such problems. And hope for the best. When I came to know about surrogacy, I was very pleased as all was not lost. I still had some hope left. A friend of mine suggested about a clinic in Ukraine named Lotus. I immediately send them an email about my condition with much hope. But I was shocked as they didn't reply me. I thought they would be busy. So I tried again. But it was very disappointing for me as they didn't take my requests seriously. I was numb over their irresponsible behavior towards me. Well, there are more clinics too and I am looking forward to getting a better clinic. Wish you Best of luck!
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This time is very difficult. I can understand. I also have gone through it. I am not trying to discourage you or anything. I am telling you my story to encourage you. After several tries for years, I could not conceive. My boyfriend an I have been living together for years now and wanted to have a child that could make your life complete. But every time I checked it was a negative result. We were very disappointed, especially me. But my boyfriend convinced me to have surrogacy as it seemed like the only option. We visited many doctors and clinics in different places. Finally, we were able to find one that was very satisfying. It is situated in Europe. I would just say to you that if one door is shut for you then another opens. There is always an alternative. Stay strong and never lose hope. God bless you.
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Hey! I know it seems like the end of the world, but keep it together! It's no help to you or your predicament if you stress out so much. This is something that happens to a lot of women. I think it's best that you keep your options open. IVF isn't natural, sure, but it could help you out. So why not? Do look into it. Don't be afraid of what others might think. This is your life and you have the right to do with it as you please. In the end, it won't matter how you got your child, it'll matter that you have him/her. I wish you all the best with your situation. love. Take care!
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Hey there Rihana. How are you doing? I hope its all great. I am really sorry to hear about your issues. I know it must be really tough. The situation you are in is not easy to deal with. I can tell you this because I myself have been through it. However, it's not the time to lose hope. It's time to fight back. I know you can do it. If you can't give birth naturally try other methods. You can go for surrogacy. It's really helpful for women like you and me. I wish you good luck and lots of love for you. Take care of yourself.
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I am so sorry for your loss. But let me tell you, no one is guilty here. It was neither your fault nor your husband did anything wrong. So stop blaming yourselves first. Life doesn't end here. Maybe normal pregnancy was not meant for both of you. Infertility is such a curse, and i know how it feels to be an infertile. But still you don't need to give up here. There are fertility treatments made for people who are facing infertility. And they are actually working out for people. Many people have become parents and living their lives happily. You both should choose a fertility treatment wisely. IVF and surrogacy are widely used procedure. You should consider both procedure and choose a best one for you. You must watch documentaries regarding both procedures. It will help you a lot in making a decision. And one more thing, choose a clinic wisely as well. There are many money making agencies who are playing with people's emotions. Beware of them also. I hope things work out for both of you. My prayers are with you.

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