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DECIDED!
Hey guys. How are you all doing? I have some good news here. So, I had been thinking about having baby # 2 lately. I sensed my husband wanted one as he had been dropping hints. At first, I was worried if it was too early for me. But, now I finally talked to my husband about it. We really want to do it now. Yes! We are going to have another baby hopefully very soon. I'm going to apply to the same fertility clinic I went to when I had my first baby. A lot of people suggest IVF for me this time. But, I know IVF would be useless for me. I don't want to waste any time. We will have our next baby through gestational surrogacy too. Need loads of prayers. So excited and nervous at the same time.
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Good luck with your plan.Hope it also works fine like your previous experience. BioTexCom is a good clinic with good record of surrogacy related things. You can also visit biotexcom.com for further details. I found this clinic really usefull regarding my issues of miscarriages or you can say infertility. Keeping in veiw the previous pregnancy complications and resulted miscarriages i'm not thinking of getting pregnant again. So i searched the other methods of getting a baby. I found that surrogacy is the best available solution of my dream of having a baby. Regarding surrogacy i contacted a number of clinics. The clinics feedback and reviews make me satisfied and i'm ready for surrogacy option now. The clinic said that they will provide a perfect surrogate mother for my baby and she'll keep my baby in her womb for 9 months. At the age of 43 i guess it is not suitable for me to be pregnant again. Now this is my second marrriage. Everytime i was pregnant i had many issues like miscarriage and conceiveing issues. I conceived three times successfully but always resulted in miscarriage. Getting pregnant was not a easy one for me. I had many complications while getting pregnant. NOw i'm taking reviews of women who are raising baby from surrogacy. If anyone here is raising a baby from surrogacy please share your experience with me and other people too. Thanks in advance.
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Good luck to your friend finally she had decided to go for surrogacy.Surrogates are like angels. Who give happiness to women like us who can't have baby on their own. We moved to Ukraine from Japan to go for surrogacy. Here in Ukraine biotexcom.com helped us.They let us find a good surrogate.With there help surrogate mother is pregnant with our twin daughters. Surrogacy made us our dream come true. Surrogate mother is also very happy for she is giving us happiness.We're thankful to the clinic too. I guessed i should also share my story.
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Hi Blake! How are you doing dear? Umm, I read your post. But, it entirely depends on your condition...Like I think that both an IVF and gestational surrogacy are good options. As I've PCOS and I'm having an IVF. Because an IVF still gives you a chance to have a child on your own. My Obs suggested it to me. Because my condition has a possibility of having a child yet. Anyway! Do however you feel fine. Surrogacy is worth going for! Let's hope it goes better for you.
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Hey there, hope you are doing good. Hahaha, husband's are like that only. Dropping hints all the time. Well, your post suggests you went for gestational surrogacy before? How was the experience? What do you have?A boy or a girl? How old is the baby? See if he or she is still young you should probably wait. The clinic isn't running anywhere. Enjoy your time with the baby. It's not like you will get old and won't be able to give birth. This was just a suggestion obviously. The decision will be yours after all. Do update us on the journey too. When are you planning to visit the clinic though?
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Hi there. Glad to see more from you. How are you doing? I hope you are doing great. I am really sorry to hear about your infertility. However, I am glad to hear about your first child. It's great that you guys haven't lost your hope. It's important to have faith. I know deciding on surrogacy can be hard. It was hard for us too. However, we all know it the best choice for us. it has helped people in wonderful ways. It a wonder of science. I hope more people go for it. However, the important thing is you keep strong. Be positive and calm. I wish you good luck. Take care.
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Hey there! I'm very well, thank you. I hope you're doing good as well. You seem pretty excited though. It's cute, HAHA. I remember the time when I was too shy to ask my husband whether he wants another baby or not. He's one amazing human being and the best Dad. I'm glad to see how you're giving tough competition to infertility. It's good how you didn't sit depressed and cried over your infertility. It has been very common over the past years, which is why people are moving towards these modern inventions. We should be thankful for these methods because of which our lives have been much easier. It's better that you go for surrogacy again as you had your first child via it too. IVF is a painful method. You weren't recommended earlier so that means that the chances are low. I wish you all the very best. May you get your second child soon. Much love.xx
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It is really great. Instead of cursing yourself or staying stressed it is better to take up a step. Nothing is easy in the life. Everything has its own pros and cons. Same is the cae with life. It is equally challenging. If we only look at the dark side we would never be able to find the light in our lives. You were infertile but you tried a great deal to stay happy and calm. It was this effort that changed your life. You looked at the brighter side and everything changed. You found the right solution at the right time. You had a great experience in your first pregnancy. This encouraged you to think positively. Now you have taken up the task of going for the second pregnancy. It is great that you thought of going for surrogacy. I hope you will have the most amazing times in the future.
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Hi guys. Such an overwhelming response. This is why I love this forum. Everyone here really cares. You guys helped me make this decision. Thank you all so much for such supportive comments. Thanks for your advice too. I couldn't have done it without you. The decision is made. However, we are not going to rush into things right now. We made some mistakes the first time. We rushed into things. This time, we are going to take things slow while we analyze the situations. I'm going to call my clinic in Ukraine later this week. Right now I'm focussed on my friend who is already in Ukraine. She is starting her first IVF cycle. Please pray for her you all. It would mean a lot to me.
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Hey! great to know that you are such positive about your baby number 2 Prayers and good vibes to you. I am glad that such a great wife you are. Feels great when a partner got to understand each other's wishes and understands their needs. Eventually when your partner is such supportive to let you go through surrogacy procedure. It's never easy to do so. cheers to both of you. you guys are real goals. I often look up to the couple like you because I was not any lucky to have that sort of relationship. I would ask you to share your surrogacy details over here. I would love to go through each detail as of I am looking for this procedure too. Though I found your post quiet encouraging even as reading that you already had your great surrogacy procedure. reminding you of details that you got to share with me. either of fertility clinic or procedure cost. sending you wishes. have a great journey.XX
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Hey, I hope you're doing good. I am glad you took a sensible decision. As it is true that if doctors opted for surrogacy for you for the first time there would have been a solid reason for that. I am glad your friend has also started her assisted conception method. I am sure things will go perfectly fine for her. The clinic has been doing these treatments for a very long time so don't worry. Best of luck to you I hope things go fine for both of you. Do keep us updated regarding the situation.
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Hey! I am so sorry for your loss. I know it would be painful for you. But I am happy that you are choosing something great for your self. Infertility takes alot out of a woman. This happened to me when I had 3 miscarriages. I never knew that I can be a mother. Today I am a happy mother because I chose surrogacy. Indeed surrogacy is an amazing way to have babies. So I went for gestational surrogacy and now I have my genetic baby.
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Well now if you have decided everything than best of luck to you for that. I am very much happy for you. It's going to be really great what you thought. I guess everything is already very good for you. Just don't worry. You had one successful journey in your past. Now it's your second one and it is going to be very well for you. Just don't worry about anything. Gestational Surrogacy. Well, How was the experience? You might want to share some of it with us. If you can then that would be really helpful for us all. Especially for me.
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Hi guys. Thank you for commenting on my post. I will go for it. But I'm taking some time to think about all this again. You guys have really helped me decide. I will update you guys if something happens. My first experience with gestational surrogacy was a great one. This is going to panic less and make sure to handle things properly. Thank you, guys.
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Hello Blakegreen! Well, that's a good news! I'm glad if you're confident enough. Yes! I agree IVF doesn't work for many of us. I've had failed attempts in past. So, yeah! Anyway! Wish you all the best! So, yeah! Anyway! yes! Surrogacy is a good alternative. I'm also going to a center in Ukraine this year as I can't have it here in the U.S due to personal reason. Anyhow, go for it! I hope you do conceive this way. Stay blessed! :)
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Hey Blake. How are you? I hope you're in good health. Congratulations on your first baby. You must be thrilled. This is great news. Going for the second one with IVF is even better! I'm really happy for you. I hope it works out for you, the second time as well. You deserve it, without a doubt. It's great how people are finding so much success with in-vitro fertilization. I'd love to hear updates about it. Keep us informed. Good luck to you. Lots of baby dust your way.
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Hi Dear, Hope you are doing well. I am very glad to know about your success story. Now you are going for it again. It means You have had a really good experience. The stories like your's really make me courageous. I am also going for surrogacy next month. Please share further details. Best wishes for you.
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Hi there how are you? Well, congratulations on having children. You have taken the right decision. You must go for surrogacy. You are right don't waste your money and time on IVF. There is a clinic in Europe. The best in dealing with surrogacy. I wish you a very good luck.
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Hi there, what’s happening with you? Well, congratulations to you on the birth of your children. You have taken such a wise decision. I will appreciate your decision to go for surrogacy. You are going smoothly and I’m sure you’ll get your desire. A very prominent clinic in Europe is offering surrogacy treatment. Surrogacy is such a great blessing of science. Wishing you a blast of luck dear!
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Blake green, congrats, babies are bliss and without them, life is hopeless and not worth living. I am happy that you have kids and planning for another. Moreover, you are positive about your decision for pursuing gestational surrogacy. Where lots of people are skeptical about it. It is good to spread the positive message. Keep us updated
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Hi, how are you? Such a great news. Congratulations for that. You are right. Don't waste your time for IVF. Just go for surrogacy. I wish you a very good luck with that.
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Hi Blake! Hope you are in good health. Congratulation on deciding to expand your family. I have also been through surrogacy and know what it is like to get children after so much struggle. Everyone deserves to be a parent and I wish you the best of luck. I went for surrogacy from a clinic in Ukraine and I had the best time there. I recommend you check them out for yourself too. They offer a wide range of packages which come in very handy. When I went there, they also provided accommodation and paid for the cost of travelling. Now I am also thinking of having my second baby. I wish you the best of luck on your journey. I hope everything works out. Take care.
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Don't waste your time on IVF. You must go for surrogacy. It will be the best option for you. I am happy that you having happiness once again. Congratulations on your first child. I wish you again find your happiness in the form of a child.
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That is good news for you guys. May you be successful in your procedure. What procedure did you use last time? How many attempts it took? What clinic did you go to? I wanna know all about it. If possible. I am happy for you. I wish you good luck. And I also wish to see my husband and me this happy soon. We have been suggested surrogacy. But I don't wanna rush into things. I wanna know this stuff. I wanna know everything I can. So I can make an informed decision. Hope to hear a reply from you soon.
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Hi there. How are you doing? Hope you are doing good. We are doing fine. I read your post. I totally agree. TTC is the hardest period of a woman life. It is very tough. I am sorry for your miscarriages. They are very hard to cope with. I think you should go for surrogacy. It is the right option for you. It worked for me. I hope all goes well for you. Take care.
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Hi Blake. I hope you are fine. You are very strong as you are going for surrogacy for the second time. You are an inspiration for others. Indeed surrogacy is the best option. It is a blessing. It is the last hope for infertile couples. Surrogacy is like the light in dark. It is a source of happiness for infertile couples. Thank you for sharing this with us. It gives motivation. which is much needed for infertile couples. I am waiting for your success story. Hope that you will upload it. My prayer and good wishes are always with you. Hope that everything will be fine. your all dreams will come true. Good luck.
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Hey, I have been following your posts from the recent two weeks. Glad to see another one from your side. You are sharing useful stuff for the individuals. No doubt, infertility is very painful to deal with. However, you have a child and it's great for you. You are like a motivation for us as you guys did not lose the heart. You'd be confident of your self. I know there's not any chance for you to take any risk. That's why surrogacy will work best for you. Success rates in surrogacy treatment are almost 100%. It has benefited so many infertile ones in past. Senior members have also shared their successful experiences in this regard. Don't think so much and just go for it. Europe is the most suitable place for having surrogacy treatment. Follow my advice and go there. Wishing you all the best!
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Hello dear. How are you? Hope you are doing good. You took a great decision. I wish you all the best for it. There are many good clinics in Europe that offer surrogacy and IVF. My friend went for her IVF treatment there. It helped her a lot. She was happy with the results. Both surrogacy and IVF have their own benefits. I wish surrogacy will prove to be best for you. Never lose hope. Stay strong and happy. Take care. Good luck ahead.
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Hey there. Hope things are great for you. Good luck with the second baby. Glad to hear that you are going to expand the family. It's a really wise decision. Surrogacy is best. Let us know further. Good luck.
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Hey Blake. How are you doing? Hope so you are doing fine. Well, my dear, I am glad that you are now thinking about expanding your family. This is really a good news. And yeah surrogacy is definitely a right choice for you. If you are sure that IVF does not really work for you then you should not waste your time and money. One of my friends also had a 2nd baby through surrogacy. And she is very happy now. I am sure that things will work for you same way. Best of luck.
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You seem to be so happy and excited. I am glad that you have decided that you will not waste time. There are a lot of videos regarding surrogacy on Youtube. There are also success stories. I think your husband and you should watch those together. Watching those may clear any doubts. Good luck with the surrogacy and the second baby.
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This is so amazing. To see people getting their happiness. I mean not once but twice. You are very lucky indeed. Can you tell about the clinic you went too? I mean I wanna help a friend so badly. She is more like a motherly figure to me. She is 45. She cant have children as she is too old. I asked her to go for surrogacy. She went to Lotus. Though she is very picky. So she didn't like the environment there. It was too rough according to her taste. I just I can recommend her some nice clinic. The one that has sensitive doctors.
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Hey dear, Hope you are doing good. I am very glad to see your decision. I will appreciate you that you have decided on a very best decision for you as well. You have to stay strong same like this. Hope you will be blessed with a little beautiful child. I want to say you just take care of your self more than before. As you need it now. I will pray for you a lot. A hope I will see your good news post here. Best of luck.
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Hey. Blake Greene, So sad to hear that you cannot conceive naturally. Same was the case with my friend. she was infertile for 15 years.she was so much worried about that. She had cervical incompetence which left me infertile. She couldn't conceive naturally. She was so devastated when she first heard about that. she was so broken. She had no idea what to do. her Husband supported Her throughout the tough time. He Suggested me to adopt some unnatural ways. Her doctor suggested her a Surrogacy. She went to the Suggested Clinic in Europe. Surrogacy is the method by which you can have your own biological baby by a Surrogate. She has a baby girl now.hope you will also get be blessed. Just take care of your self. Wish you best of luck.
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Hey Dear! Hope so you will be fine. I just read your post. I think you have taken a great decision. Surrogacy is really a great step to have a baby. It is also a more prior thing than IVF. As IVF is a bit risky so people usually go with surrogacy to reduce the risk. By the way, I have also adopted surrogacy to have a baby in my life. I have also had some complication with my pregnancy. I also miscarried once. I did not imagine that this could be happen with me. But later, surrogacy was the last option for me. Finally, I went for it and now I have a son, he is 4 years old now. I hope it will be fruitful for you too. Just be positive an hopeful. Everything will be fine. My sympathies
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Congratulations to you for the first baby. You are lucky that you have found the good clinic for that. There is some worst clinic like lotus and Adonis in Europe. They are not working for the sake of humanity. You are lucky that you have found the good one. Congratulations in advance for the second baby. You are very supportive and understanding. That you understand your husband feels. I can feel your excitement level. It's the best thing in the world to be a mother again. It's the best feeling for a mom to be. I am really happy and excited for you. You are very lucky. I wish you a great future ahead. Till then I wish you a very good luck.
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I hope thing are great at your end. Congratulations on your baby. Well, IVF has its own pros and cons. You never know which of the cycle gets successful. Also, it is lot more complicated process than surrogacy. You have to bear a lot of pain in this. However, people still go for it. They prefer IVF when they want to carry the baby in their own womb. If you think gestational surrogacy is more beneficial to you, then you should definitely go for it. It is going to be a blessing again. I hope the things go as you have planned them to be. Fingers crossed. All the very best to you, super mommy. I know how lucky you feel when both the partners are ready to extend the family. Baby dust to your way!
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IVF is a wonderful process for those suffering from PCOS. It has guaranteed them success. However, it is a lot more risky process than surrogacy. If you want surrogacy for yourself, it is really great. I hope things go smoothly for you now. Make sure you contact a good clinic. Good luck to you. I am sure you are going to be a super mommy.
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This is an amazing news. I am so happy for you. You are gonna try for your second baby. I am sure it's going to be an exciting journey for you. Just don't be scared. Things will be fine soon. You'll be a mom soon. And it's gonna be the best day of your life. Surrogacy is definitely a blessing. You're going to have your 2nd kid via that procedure. I am so glad that you did not lose hope because of infertility. It's really nice how you move on in your life. Wish you best of luck with all this. Much love for you.
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This is such a nice news. I feel so glad for you, tbh. You'll have your number 2 soon. I am sure it's going to be great for you. Just don't worry about anything. Things will be fine soon. You'll be a mom again. Isn't that so awesome? And it's gonna be the best day of your life. Surrogacy will prove to be a blessing to you. You're going to have your 2nd kid via that procedure. I am so glad that you never lose hope. It's really nice how you always kept your hopes high. Wish you best of luck with all this. My prayers are with you.
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Hi there. Hope you are doing well. I am glad that you are already a mother. That's nice. Planning the second baby is a good choice. You can consult a doctor about your health. If everything is fine there is no problem in conceiving again. I am pretty sure that everything will be fine. I hope you will enjoy your second pregnancy. Keep us updated further. Surrogacy is a blessing indeed. Thank you for sharing your first success story. I am pretty sure that the second time it will be successful too. Good luck.
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Hi there. how are you? I am so happy to read this. You are truly an inspiration to women out there. You need to come out more to motivate them. most of the women give up when they find out about their problem. They blame themselves. Also let people blame them for what is not their fault. I wish to see your kind of spirit in them. You are bold and confident. Your post reflects your power of decision making. Whatever you are doing for yourself is amazing. Keep up the good work. Keep setting up examples for women. Prayers are with you. Hoping to see you write another post when you are happy with your second baby. Also, it is good to see your DH supporting you throughout all this. You are clearly a lucky woman. cheers.
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Hey there. How are you? Hope you're doing amazing. So happy for you. Congratulations on your first baby. And good luck in being parents again. It's an amazing journey. Much love!
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Hey Dear. How are you? Well, that's a good news. Infertility is a very difficult thing to get rid of in the past and people wait for becoming a parent whole life. But thanks to science today things are changing for us. Surrogacy and IVF are helping a lot of people to get rid of this cause. As I am infertile I know how it feels like having a childless life. Everythings seems meaningless to you. As I tried for almost 5 years but things did not work for me. In the end, we finally decided to go for surrogacy. And it just changed my life. Today I am a mother of a beautiful 2-year-old boy. I wish you very best of luck for this. Go for it with full positivity. I will pray for you. All my sympathies are with you
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First of all Congratulations on having the first baby. Good to know that surrogacy also helps you out. Surrogacy is a blessing indeed. I have been diagnosed with PCOS from the start of my marriage. I had TTC much time with no luck. I was fed up with the things. Then I came to know to about surrogacy. I opted for it. Now I am a mother of a baby boy. I hope best for your second one. Best wishes.
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Congratulations on your first baby. I am really happy for you. You have taken the right decision. Don't waste your time and money on IVF. Its success rate is very low. You should definitely go for surrogacy. There is a good clinic in Eastern Europe. They are best in dealing with surrogacy. That's the best decision. Just go for it. Don't waste your further child. It will be a good company for your first baby. Remember difficulties in your journey makes your destination beautiful. My best wishes are with you. Best of luck
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It's good to see you being so confident. Being decisive about something is really important. You should consult the clinic before going for it, though. I think it would be a better idea. Best of luck to you! I really hope whatever you go for, works out. I'd love to stay updated with your journey. Baby dust and love. x
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Hey, I hope you are well. This is just amazing! I hope things go well for you. This must be so exciting for you. The clinic you are visiting is known for the process. Therefore, I am sure things will go well. They make sure that the person is at ease. They will double check everything with you. This they will do to ensure that no error occurs. Apart from that, they have really experienced doctors. The way they match the surrogate is also very proper. They first make sure that the surrogate matches their criteria. After that, they also do a medical test on her. This is done to ensure that she isn't suffering from any present or past illness. I think that is really considerate of them.
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This is fantastic news! Congratulations on the first attempt. It must have been pretty amazing to experience that. I'm really happy for you, honey. I hope the second attempt goes just as well. Thank you for sharing it with us. You deserve all the happiness in the world!

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