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chances of conceiving
Hi there. How many of you have tried conceiving after getting into the 40's? Just wanted to have a little poll. So, I can know what chances are there. It would really be nice if I could get nice if I could know some opinions from people who really have tried it. Because it will really help me know what chances are. I already have planned surrogacy. Just wanted to know my chances of conceiving...
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Hi dear, I don't want to say this but I must say chances are really low. I am sorry about this. You are at the age where this is really difficult to conceive. You must try another method. As you already said. You are planning surrogacy and I think this is really good for you. You must have to keep that in mind. Just try to take care of yourself allot. Best of luck to you.
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At this age it is really difficult to conceive. Chance are very low. I am so sorry for that. Surrogacy would be best for you. Try that. Keep that in mind. I think you shouldn't waste further time. Just go and try this method and forget everything else. May you get your child soon. Don't worry relax everything is going to be fine. Just take care allot and best of luck.
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Hi, there is no denying your odds of getting pregnant are far lower now than they were just a few years ago. After 45, experts say, it is almost impossible to get pregnant using your own eggs. At the same time, many 40 plus women do get pregnant some using fertility treatments and some not but the chances are very rear. So, it's better for you not to waste time and go for any procedure IVF or surrogacy, whatever you want.
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Hi Mia! I m so sorry but chances of getting pregnant after 40 are very low. At this stage, conceiving naturally for you will be full of complications and pain. I will suggest you go for Surrogacy. At this age, surrogacy is the best option left for you. And I m glad that you are already planning on it, But don't worry it's a very successful and safe technique. Take care of yourself and Good Luck sweetie!
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This is simple you never have to stop trying. Because its the most important part me myself trying from almost 7 years and in addition with many abortions. Technology is improving day by day so there is a chance for people like us to make a baby through surrogacy process. You can visit achieve best results in minimum time. They provide excellent facilities so many of people succeed in the end.
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Hi there, I have read on the website of a surrogacy clinic called BioTExCom that age is not at all an issue in case of surrogacy. As if you are planning to go for surrogacy they will take the healthy eggs s your chances of getting pregnant are high. As in case of natural pregnancy, as women age their tendency to make eggs reduced and also healthy eggs number reduces, but in case of surrogacy it's not an issue at all. I wish you best of luck.
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Hi there. How are you? Please don't lose hope. I wish you all the best. Surrogacy will suit you the best. Take care of your diet and health. Wish you all the best.
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Hi there. How are you? I can totally understand your feelings. My cousin got married at 43. She became mother after an year. It's all about luck. My aunt get married at 32 and she still don't have any child. Now she is thinking of infertility treatment. Surrogacy in Ukraine is on well hype nowadays. They take good care of surrogate mothers. Surrogacy gives a chance to have own biological baby. That's a great thing. I wish you all the best. Stay happy and blessed. take care o your diet and health. Lots of love.
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Hey there! Hope you're doing good. Well honestly, speaking living in today's world age doesn't really matter. I know women in 50 choosing to become mothers. As you've already mentioned surrogacy is truly an amazing process. However, make sure you have done a proper research as that really matters. Doing your own research is extremely important. I have read a lot of good reviews regarding Eastern Europe clinic which people say is extremely hospital. Therefore do visit that as well.
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Hello everyone.everything is possible.If thinkings are positive and hopes are high.Just try to keep yourself positive.In my opinion, age does not matter at all.I also get pregnant with my 3rd child in at the age of 39.at that time things were difficult but we women face every difficulty with bravery.I knew at the young age things are quietly better and easy.the chances of conceiving are low but not finish at all.My 2 children are also excited to have another little baby.I have visited Ukraine clinic in biotex.where I fulfill my dreams.My surrogate mother has very friendly women.Now she was 17 weeks pregnant.My children and I are excited too much.there are great enjoyment and happiness to having this baby.I am desperate for the 3rd child.finally, I get success to get it.I am very thankful for this clinic.It's showing great effort and concern.
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Hi there! I'm going to conceive in my 38th year through an IVF...So, it's like probably I'm going to end up in my 39th. Well, I am pretty near! Anyway! I wish all the ladies above very very best of luck. Stay blessed. xx I hope my response is helping. xx
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Yes your chances might be low. Still you never stop ttc. Who knows when something happens. It's going to be great for you. If nothing happens you can go for other methods as well. Those would be very helpful for you. Just take care dear. don't be depressed. It's everything alright for you.
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Its really good to be supported by people who don't even know you properly. I'm also glad that people here support each other like a family. I was also infertile. I was sad and depressed and i came to know about this forum. I posted several times here and got a lop of support from the people here. Let me share my story with you again. It releases some pain to be shared. I'm 43 years old now and i have also no luck with babies too. Now i am married for second time and i am thinking of having a baby again. But the miscarriages from my last married life make me afraid and stops me getting pregnant again. I persuaded my husband to go for surrogacy option. As from my first marriage i had no luck with having a baby. I had many complications while getting pregnant. I conceived for three times but always resulted in miscarriage. I think surrogacy is the best solution now adays where we can have a baby. I consulted a number of clinics related to surrogacy. Surrogacy is now adays a common method of having a baby for those women who can't have a baby out of their own womb. You better should research about surrogacy and should visit some clinics regarding surrogacy. But i am worried about some aspects of having a baby from this process. But as we have no other option left so i guess it is the only solution for us now.
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Hey! I am sorry you made a decision a little late. after 40's chances are less than 30%. I can tell you about this because my sister is now 40 and now she is planning to have a baby. Its a bit late for her to conceive now. She discussed with her gynaecologist and she said it is risky for her to conceive. So she was upset and started looking for other ways. She decided to go for surrogacy. She talked to her husband and he agreed with her. They went to a clinic in Europe. Her egg was in good condition so they choose her egg. The surrogate provided was healthy and was able to carry the baby. After a week of insemination, the surrogate got pregnant. And after 9 months she gave birth to a baby. I am happy that she is blessed with a baby. I would suggest you the same. I hope this would work.
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Hi Mia. I'm 36...Trying via an IVF. But yes! I've seen plenty of people having it in the 40s...So, yeah! You can still try an get successful while being into the 40s. So, yeah! surrogacy is a great option even if you're in the 50's...Not too late till yet! Last year my friend had a baby through surrogacy as she was around 49 years old. So, it doesn't matter. She went to a center in Ukraine for it. Keep trying! Stay blessed. xx
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Hi! Well, your chances of conceiving are definitely there. Age plays a big factor in TTC. But there are many still who succeed. I think your best bet is to keep trying. Give it time. Or if you're impatient, I'd suggest you start looking into your options alongside. It's understandable to want to want this as soon as possible. Considering your age, of course. Anyway, for options, there's IVF you could try. If that doesn't sound too promising for you then surrogacy is there too? It'll give you your biological child (comparing it with adoption). Please don't let this make you feel down if you fail at TTC. You're not alone. I wish you all the best with it though. After all, nature is the best way to conceive. Good luck! Fingers crossed for you.
Hannah R xx
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hey! well if surrogacy is the case then 40's is not an issue, yes, I have observed so many individuals who had their babies in 40's. and this procedure has proved its success in many circumstances., If you are hiring a surrogate and you are well with your eggs to have a genetic connection with your baby, then you are good to go. in either case, surrogacy would be preferable. just get your self a good fertility clinic and get this procedure done. soon you would have a baby. have faith.
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You are at a critical age. With the passing days the things will change to impossibility. It is a natural thing. The age has direct impact upon the life of the couple. A woman is more impacted by it. There are several fertility boosters available in the market. They might impact on your fertility but it is not necessary that they leave impact upon every woman. I hope that there is some great option waiting for you too.
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Hello. Hope you do good. Well, my sister conceived when she was 41. So, I can say that there are a few chances of you being pregnant. However, to stay on the safe side, you can go for surrogacy. It is a blessing in disguise. Many women are going for it nowadays. Its all up to you now.
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Hi Mia! Yes! Surrogacy is a good option. Don't be demotivated! I've seen plenty of women having a child in 40s. I'm also 36 and going via IVF route this year at a repro center in Ukraine. So, pretty close to 40s. Lol, don't wanna be into the 40s. BEST OF LUCK! I hope that you become a mother soon. xx
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Hey Mia! How are you holding up dear? well, yes! I've met so many women becoming pregnant into their 40s in life. You don't have to behave nervously or in a tense way. Stay strong! Yes! You can still become a mother! Wish you all the best! Keep trying! I'm also into 40. But, I had my first child at 39 via surrogacy. So, you can say I was near 40s becoming a mother. Anyhow! Take care of yourself.

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