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can come out with a better option.
I got pregnant after a year after my marriage. Though i was not expecting I was overwhelmed with this news. I had always loved kids. I and my husband started planning for our baby just after the news. Everything was fine but in the third trimester, I met a severe accident. I had several injuries and unfortunately, I lost my baby. To worsen the situation doctors told me that I cannot conceive afterward. I felt so devastated that day. I felt so helpless. I desperately want to have a baby that is why I am browsing different clinics now. It is a blessing if one goes to a good clinic. As my own doctors do not have satisfactory answers to my queries. I am looking forward to options like donor conception or surrogacy. That is why I shared with you all so that I can come out with a better option.
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Hi Cinthia, I'm sorry to hear what happened with you. How long ago was it, exactly? You mention that it was a year after your marriage? And how come you cost yourself an accident? Especially at that sensitive stage? I'm not blaming you at all. I understand that it wasn't your fault. The fate meets us cruelly sometimes. And mostly when you're most happy. Anyhow. I have a knack for going philosophical. I do hope, you won't mind my digressions. (And musings, hah!). So, your doctor said that you can't ever conceive? And then you say that you quickly got other ideas. Who actually suggested you donor conception or surrogacy? Some consultant or just another friend? Or you got this idea on the forums? Because I have noticed almost everyone talking about surrogacy here and refering to this link https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3wkbgaaXc2XaxTYJhtR0rA You might wanna check that, yo!
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I am so sorry to hear about you. Sometimes life brings such unpredictable situations in front of us. Thanks to the advancements in the medical field now there are plenty of options available to get pregnant. In your case I think surrogacy is the best option, I know a very good clinic in Ukraine they are providing excellent surrogacy treatment. The name of the clinic is BioTexCom, you can visit their website and decide what suits you the best. My friend had her treatment from there and she is very happy with their services.
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Hey, i am very sorry for your loss. Every one wishes to have a baby but no one can stand in front of nature. I wish God bless you with beautiful baby.ِ It is most tough part in life when you are waiting for someone for a long time and you came to know about that you are not having a baby any more. The best you can do is to take care of yourself. And you should support your family. And don't stop trying keep doing it.
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Hey there. I hope that you're doing good. I'm so sorry for your whole situation. It's so heart wrenching that you lost your baby in an accident. First, you faced a mc and then this accident. You must be very strong that you went through all this. You're an example of strength to every woman. You were totally fertile, then becoming infertile due to an accident is really the worst thing ever. I totally understand your pain. Yes, you're doing the right thing. You should definitely go for surrogacy. Surrogacy allows those to have kids who can't conceive anymore. The new techniques also provide a biological link to the baby. Your doctors maybe aren't giving you the right answer because they find it immoral in some countries. I don't know any clinic, but I hope that you find one soon. Take care of yourself. Best of luck
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Don't worry dear. Just feel yourself lucky because it's not your first time. we are unable to do anything if this could've happened after 1st time. What are going to do now. That's why just feel lucky. Any ways I am really sorry for what happened my friend. I am sorry for your condition. At least you had children. Don't worry everything will be fine.
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Hey Cinthia! Sad to hear your story. That accident not only took your baby but also left you with another loss for whole life. Its nerve-wracking to know such a news. But that's not the end. There are more ways to help you. IUI,IVF and surrogacy...They help you in fighting such a situation. I know a clinic in Ukraine, America. I visited it too. I was afraid of being infertile. As I am having endometriosis since age 20. Surrogacy is legal there. They giv a complete package. They deal you with the best. They make you feel at home. They are very friendly. You must give it a try there. I have heard that they have high success rate Wish you luck. Xxx.
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Hello everyone.I had TTC for last 4 years and getting no positive result.Almost I have to do all the possible things that in my range.At the end feeling always depressed and heartbroken.I am desperate to finding baby dust.I and my husband just want children in any condition.I was badly worried and finding no way..my best friend gives me strength and hope that soon things going alright.I and my husband go through IVF in Ukraine clinic.Finding hope that I conceive finally, my happiness is at the peak.feeling excited I had learned that with positivity we get the successful result.stay strong and keep your thoughts positive.never give up.I got very positive experience about that clinic.the moment they look into you; is inside the movement of baby making me very blessed.I am so lucky and thankful to this clinic that It finally make impossible things possible.Stay strong and keep trying soon it will happen for all ladies.Best wishes.
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See you don't need to be worry that much. You already had children. It's not like that you are childless. You don't need to worry that much. Everything is going to be great for you. You just need to be relax. I am very sorry for your accident dear. It's just really not well that you had an accident. It's real tragedy. Still you got husband. Still you got children. Let's just love them. Any how if you want another baby. That would be possible for you if you try surrogacy. IVF and IUI these won't work for you as per your conditions. You can try surrogacy. For that you just have to have much resources to spend. After that just don't worry everything will b fine for you. Best of luck for your life decision. You don't have to worry because everything is already good for you.
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Hi Cinthia. I am so sorry to hear about your loss. It must feel terrible. My sister went through the same thing. It's certainly is a huge trauma. I just hope you're coping with it. I'd say surrogacy is a great option. And there are so many amazing clinics in Europe where it is legal. If it is not legal in your country you could travel there. The one in Ukraine offers great services. I am saying this because we got our sister treated from there. And now she has a cute 5 year old boy. So I'd say do your research and find yourself a good clinic. Adoption is an option too but if you want a child that's biologically yours then surrogacy is the best option.Best of luck.
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Hi Cinthia, I'm so sorry to hear that you lost your child even before the birth. It is definitely very hard to survive in such a situation. You are very brave that you got over this soon. I hope you have recovered from your accident injuries now. Make sure to take proper rest and get well soon. The decision about going for surrogacy is very wise I must say. I would recommend you to do some research on good clinics in Ukraine. I've heard there are many good clinics there. All the best for everything. Sending baby dust your way!
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Hey cinthia. How are you doing? I hope everything is going good. I am really sorry to hear about your accident. I have had a similar accident too. Its best that you dont give up. Everything will be okay. I am a mother and i am proud of it. You will be too. Scince is advancing fast everyday. You have options avalible to you. Surrogacy is an option you can go for. Its a blessing by science. There are many clinics that ofer a very good service. In ukraine i went o biotexcom. Very professional people. However its best you do your research first. I wish you good luck. Looking forward to hearing from you.
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Hey Cinthia, really sorry for your situation. Well, don't worry. There is always light on the other side of the tunnel. A number of methods are there for couples like us, who are unable to conceive naturally. I think surrogacy is the best option for you. Through this process, you can be the mother of your own child from a surrogate mother. That child would be of yours genetically as well as legally. I am also going through this process next month. Hoping to get success. Will definitely update here about my procedure.
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Hey hope you are doing fine. I am sorry for your such loss. I would really love to help and confort you. Dont be devasted by this loss. You cannot change fate. But you can be a mother, and thats your choice. You mentioned about surrogacy. Dear It is very good decision you are taking. You can have a biological baby. I am so happym that now people are much aware of such processes. Surrogacy is way too successful than other procedures. There is a clinic in Europe that is renown for surrogacy. They would gurantee you taht you will definately get a baby. Its your choice now that what you chooses for yourself. I have seen many couples who are happy with there babies after surrogacy.
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Hi, dear Cinthia. I'm deeply sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine what you've been through. You're such a strong person. Well, I can only send you my best regards...I know how MCs do. I've had 3 since last 6 years. I've trying to conceive. I'm having an IVF later in June from a clinic in Ukraine. I think it's fine to go for conception or surrogacy. They are really amazing procedures. I've seen many and many women having babies and completing their families with it. I wish you success. I hope you do conceive successfully one way or with another. Stay blessed darling. xx Keep updating me on your story...More baby dust to you.
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It is extremely sad. I can't believe that someone can face such hardest times. It was a time of multiple griefs for you and your family. Conceiving, losing and then knowing that you have lost all the hope for the future is the worst thing that has happened to you. At the same time, you have kept the spirits high. You still believe that nothing can transform your life into a miserable episode. If you have lost the tendency to develop the eggs then you have the chance of getting pregnant in different ways. There are some alternatives that can bring back the desire for happiness through bringing in the medical technology. For those who cannot go for surrogacy or IVF with their eggs can try finding the donors that can help them by donating their eggs. This is an effective way. of becoming the parent when all hopes are gone. If you have made up your mind then it is not difficult to reach your goal. There is a list of fertility clinics. You can ask them for the assistance. After getting the right information about you they will find the best egg donor and the surrogate. I hope you find the best one to match your needs soon.
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I am so sorry for your accident. I empathize with you on your loss. I feel really sad for you. But I am happy that now you are trying again. I hope it works for you. Sending lots of love and luck to you. More power to you. Much love.
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Hi lovely lady.Oh so sad.Sorry to hear about your loss.No doubt it's too much difficult to cope with.I can understand in 3rd trimester when you are near to deliver your baby.You had to face this horrible situation.I just wished that no one had this tough situation in life.Being a mother I knew how much difficult to have your baby in your womb for 9 months.In these months every little second, you have to wait to welcome your baby.Quite difficult and hard to face at all.I think you have to move another option.That will help you to come true your dreams.Wishing you the best of luck.Be strong and try again.Good luck.
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I'm so sorry you've had to go through so much. I can't understand how hard it must have been for you, really. I wish it didn't have to happen. But these things are a harsh reality. I had to get my uterus removed some years back. Cancerous polyps got to it. Anyway, it rendered me unable to conceive. So then I looked into my options and found surrogacy best. I looked a lot for clinics because as you said, it's definitely important to find a good one. I settled on this one in Europe. It offered so many nice things. Like free accommodation for our stay! Also, it was a lot more reasonable than those in America. I hope you can find a good one too. Wishing you all the best!
Hannah R xx
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I am really sorry to hear about what happened.It must be very devastating. How are you holding up? You are right, you should search for a good clinic. Try searching for them in Europe. The facilities are great there. The cost is affordable too. Wish you all the very best honey.
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feel so sorry to hear about losing your baby. this is much painful stay a strong lady. much good is to come yet. it requires a lot of strength to fight back against your odds. and you are doing this so well. great to know that you are now looking towards DE or surrogacy procedures. both are great and fruitful procedures, This is becoming much common day to day. and I am so satisfied with this too. though even I am also the person who got zero knowledge of fertility clinics. but yes you can find that by going through their portfolios on the internet. self-satisfaction is very important in all these things. nothing could work out better unless you are satisfied with fertility clinic or their services. you could get to see their success and years of the profession they had. would love to hear more from you regarding your progress. good luck. hope you get to see hope soon.
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Hey there. I hope that you're doing good. I'm so sorry for your whole situation. It's so heart wrenching that you lost your baby in an accident. First, you faced an mc and then this accident. You must be very strong that you went through all this. You're an example of strength to every woman. You were totally fertile, then becoming infertile due to an accident is really the worst thing ever. I totally understand your pain. Yes, you're doing the right thing. You should definitely go for surrogacy. Surrogacy allows those to have kids who can't conceive anymore. The new techniques also provide a biological link to the baby. Your doctors maybe aren't giving you the right answer because they find it immoral in some countries. I don't know any clinic, but I hope that you find one soon. Take care of yourself. Best of luck
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Hey there. Cinthia how are you doing? I hope its all great. I am really sorry to hear about your accident. I know it must be hard. UI has been through all this. It's really devastating. I was in an accident and had a hysterectomy. I could not concise. Then my friend told e about surrogacy. It's really a blessing. It's wonderful. I think you should go for it. take good luck. Love and support.
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Well, it depends upon your financial condition. How is that? Because I hope you know that surrogacy is really expensive. I think you should go for the donor in that case. Still, it matters a lot whether you want to go for the donor or you want a child of your own. Because surrogacy can give you that. It's just like that. The choice is entirely yours.
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Hey there! How are you? Hope you are doing great. I am so sorry for your loss. I think surrogacy is a great option for you. You are a very strong woman. More power to you my friend.
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I am sorry to know what you have faced. You have been through a lot. Stay strong my friend. Surrogacy is a great option to go with. We flew to Ukraine for our surrogacy. It was an awesome experience. I wish you luck in future. Baby dust on your way.
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Hello Cinthia. I'm really sad about your current situation. Hopefully you are doing okay now. It's always depressing to hear about someone who goes through miscarriages due to accidents like these. I'm happy that you are still looking forward to having a child though. We're all here to support you on your journey. I would recommend going for surrogacy as IVF might not be suitable for you. But it depends on the severity of your injuries from the accident. There are a lot of good clinics that offer surrogacy packages which include accommodations and tests along with food and travel services. Although i would highly recommend doing a thorough research on them before applying for any. As there are a lot of clinics that have a very long waiting list or simply those who do not reply to your emails at all. Hope i helped somehow. Good luck on your search. Keep us updated on your health.
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Hi Cinthia, I'm sorry to hear what happened to you. Sometimes life brings such unpredictable situations in front of us. I'm suffering from heart disease. I cannot conceive. Then we move to Europe. There are many good clinics in Europe that deal with infertility. Surrogacy and IVF is the best solution for infertility. I also selected the option of surrogacy. Now I'm a mother of a baby boy. In your case, I think surrogacy is the best option. Thanks to the advancements in the medical field now there are plenty of options available to get pregnant. The best you can do is to take care of yourself. And you should support your family. And don't stop trying to keep doing it.
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That's really sad. I am so sorry to hear about the accident. I hope you are feeling better now. And I am sorry about your loss as well. MCs are not easy to deal with. I can understand your situation. It becomes very difficult in such situations. But you have to be patient. Stay strong. I am glad that you decided to move on. Thinking about an alternative treatment is a nice option. I think surrogacy would be a good choice. There are many good clinics in Ukraine. Search for them on the web. Consult with people who have gone through this situation. I hope that'll help. Wish you all the best with your journey. My prayers are with you. Keep updating us.
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I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I know MCs are really hard to deal with. It is not easy at all. But you have to stay strong. Everything will be okay with the passage of time. You just have to keep faith in yourself. Keep your hopes high. I'll pray for you. You also have to build up the courage. Try to fight with your problems. You have to learn to deal with such situations. Surrogacy is a great blessing. I am sure it'll give you happiness. You should go for it. I hope you find a good clinic for yourself. Wish you all the best. Much love for you.
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Hello dear! Thats so sad to hear about your accident. And the phase of life you are going through. It is a very tough time for a woman.It really hurts.Don't worry everything will be fine. Be hopeful, God has planned something good for you. I think you should go for surrogacy. It is a good option.Also it is a great blessing for many infertile couples. It has brought happiness to the lives of many of them. And you will also be a mom soon I'm sure. I really appreciate your courage to share your story . You are a strong woman. Stay positive my dear. Best wishes for you.
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This is so bad. I feel so sad to know about your accident. I hope you have recovered now. It breaks my heart to know about your MC. MCs are not easy to deal with. I can understand your situation. It is very hard to tolerate them. But you have to be patient. Keep your hopes high. But it's good how you are recovering from all this. I am hopeful that the alternate treatment would work for you. I think surrogacy would be a good choice. There are many good clinics in Ukraine. Try to get information about them. Consult with people who can give you an honest opinion. I hope that'll help. Wish you all the best with your journey. My prayers are with you. Much love for you.
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I'm so sorry for you. It's really devastating what happened. How are you feeling now? Dealing with an MC is just something I cannot imagine going through. All I can say is, it'll get better. You'll get a chance to have your own child very soon. I think if infertility really is the case, then you should go for surrogacy. It's a really sure shot way for you to have your own biologically related child. I know the procedure can be an expensive one. However, there are clinics in Europe where it's a lot cheaper. Like almost half the price of those in America. I think you'll do pretty well with them. Also, I'd advise you stay clear of Lotus. I've heard they've let a lot of people down. Don't want any more of that for you!
Hannah R xx
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I am really sorry to hear about your miscarriage. This a really sad news. I have also been declared infertile just like this. I had an accident that resulted in a miscarriage and now I have been declared infertile. I am really frustrated right now because there was a little hope hen I found out about Lotus clinic. It sounded pretty amazing and I tried contacting them but it been a week that they are not replying and Iv been sending them emails but they just don't reply. Infertility is a really frustrating issue and they have to cater accordingly. This clinic has really made me lose all hope for me getting a baby of my own :'(

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