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Appointment soon!
Hello, everyone! I got my appointment dates confirmed. I suffer from unexplained infertility. It's a difficult situation because you're not really sure what the problem is. I have changed doctors twice during my time TTC. My husband and I have been trying to conceive for a year now. It's been really difficult, because we were hoping we'd have at least conceived, by now. I guess you can't really predict these things! However, we have decided to do something about it. So, after a bit of research, we found this fertility clinic. I got the appointment booked. I'm really excited. I hope this helps. Hate to admit it, but I am on the verge of losing hope. Which is why I have a lot of expectations from this!
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Hi, Mindy! I hope you're doing okay. I'm so glad you guys finally made the decision. I'm really happy for both of you. I was so sad when I found out about your problem. You really cannot trust the doctors, today. All they care about is making money. I'm delighted that you guys are looking for these options. I read somewhere that assisted conception can shoot your chances of conceiving up to almost 30-40%! That's quite a lot. Especially when you haven't had much luck, naturally. This is a great decision. I hope it gets you the results too! Good luck to both of you. You can do this!
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That's a sensible decision. Unexplained infertility can be so hard to deal with! I'm sorry you have to deal with it. But, this is exactly what I expect from you. You shouldn't feel sorry for yourself and sit back. You can only get what you want if you try hard for it. I'm glad you guys decided to go down this road. I've heard some fantastic news about such cases working out thanks to IVF or maybe even IUIs. I'm sure you'll get to hear great news, too! Sending lots of love for you. I know, TTC can be so hard. Don't give up, though. Stay strong and keep at it. You're so close! Good luck to you and baby dust.
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Such lovely comments, it makes me happy to see such support! You're in safe hands, haha! I have to agree with what Maline has said. It's so easy to give up. It really is, but can you live with the regrets? Especially when there is hope down this line! I'm so glad you decided to share it with us. I'll make sure we help you get through this. TTC is tough, but imagine the fruits of your effort. Good luck to you, honey. You can do this! Fertility clinics are a great option. They'll check you up and tell you your best chances. You can decide what you want to go for. My prayers are with you!
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I'm overwhelmed by the support, guys. You people are amazing. Thank you so much for your efforts. I'm excited about the prospects, now. I was just feeling a little low. My cousin got her BFP, today. I think it could be because of that. I'm so petty, god! I'm happy for her, I really am. But these things can get so tough. I've been trying for a year! I really hope this decision to go for a fertility clinic helps me. You people are so supportive. I'll make sure I keep you all updated with my procedure. I would love to take advice from all of you. Thank you, once again!
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No, honey, don't feel bad about that. It's perfectly normal to feel that. No one is perfect, trust me! It's absolutely fine to feel a little jealous. Look at the bright side, though. You might get to post about your own BFP, very soon! I'm sure things will work out for you. I've got a lot of hope from this. Yes, please do keep us updated. I'd love to offer my two cents. You deserve the happiness, honey. Good luck to you. Plus, there's no need to thank us! Everyone helps each other out. We are a family, here! Lots of love and baby dust for you.
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Haha, I can understand how that feels, Mindy. I had an exactly similar experience with my own SISTER. I was really happy for her. But, I'm sure had I stayed at her party, any longer, I would've cried! I made an excuse and left. I'm still trying for my first. I've had a similarly tough time TTC. So trust me, there's no reason to feel bad. I'm about to embark on my own journey. I start the IUI process next week. I'm really excited about it. Also, super nervous, and I have so many questions, but gotta do it, right? Here's to both of us. I hope these methods bring us happiness! Good luck to you, as well.
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Good luck to both of you lovely ladies. I hope things work out for you guys. If you need any inspiration, you don't need to look any further. I had my BFP, after eight months of trying. It was such a lucky time for me. Everything went wrong a month later, when I miscarried. I did not let that bring me down. I kept trying, and after using the help of IVF, I managed to conceive for a second time. Thanks to that, I had my beautiful baby boy, Jackson. He's a year old now! And, I'm going for a second, very soon. If I can do it, so can you! Lots of baby dust and love for all of you. Yes, do keep us updated. I'd love to help!
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Oh, my god! What a brilliant response. Thank you so much for the supportive comments, guys. It truly means so much to me. I know, I keep telling myself that there is hope! I know so many women who go through this. It's just so much better to hear it from you guys. It gives me a lot of hope, that I can do it! I feel super excited about the appointment. Hopefully, this is the start of something. Please remember me in your prayers. I would love nothing more than for this to work. I'll keep all of you updated. It's for me because I need all the support. Who better to give it, than you lovely ladies?

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