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Advice needed!!!
Hey everyone! Just watched a few videos regarding parenting on youtube. Well, As you all know that I'm having an IVF later this year at Ukraine. So, I'm probably going to be a mother soon. I know it's really a very big responsibility on my head. I feel a little bit nervous! So, yeah! I'm sure I just don't know why? Will I be able to fulfill all needs of our child? I just need a few suggestions that will help me to become a better mother! It's just my first time. So, yeah! Just help me out ladies! I'll really appreciate...xx
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No dear well it's not like that. Yes it is going to be a big responsibility. You don't have to think like that. Not every wish is to be fulfilled. You just need to keep balance and got to know how to do it. Just simply that is it. It would be really helpful for you the rest of your life. Don't worry about it dear. Just take care of yourself dear. It would be best for you. Congratulations in advance.
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Hey, Rachel, I hope you're doing fantastic. You're honestly overthinking, for now, you should just be more positive. You're going for IVF which has helped so many women around the globe become a mother. So I don't think there is anything that you should be worried about. The treatment has been highly successful and is popular amongst many couples. I too am visiting the clinic but with a different purpose. Honestly, it amazes me to see how soo many couples come out of the clinic with a huge smile on their face. The process is no different than natural pregnancy once you're pregnant. Yes before that your embryo is developed artificially in the lab but once everything is in place. Things do work their own way out the child grows completely normally. The motherly instincts too will come to you naturally. However, just don't be stressed during the process as that is one of the major reasons which doctors highlight. The reason for the IVF to not work which I am sure you don't want.I hope you are soo able to become a mother sending your way lots of warm wishes. Do keep us updated about your treatment hoping for the best.
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Hey, I hope that everything goes right for you. I have heard a lot about clinics in Ukraine. I have heard a huge deal about their exceptional treatments. Do let me know when you get there. Just want to make sure if it is as good as it is told to be. Do not be so worried. Hope for a successful IVF first. The motherly nature will be adapted to you naturally. Once you get the baby you will love him/her more than anyone. It is normal to be nervous before the baby is here. But do not stress yourself a lot. Us women over think on another level haha. Stress can affect your IVF. Try not to think about the post-birth scenarios.
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Hi Rachel, it's totally okay to feel nervous about it. Just make sure you don't over stress yourself. Because that's going to affect you in a bad way. Taking stress can cause a change in hormonal levels which may cause hurdles in your journey of getting pregnant. You said that you're going for IVF and that too from a very well-known clinic. So, I wish you the best for the future. Keep us updated
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Hi there! I m so happy to see that you are concerned about your responsibilities. Many parents just think their job is complete after they conceive. No the real responsibility starts after that. Don't worry. Just do whatever feels right. Do whatever is in your hands.
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Hello there.I knew being a mother it's a tough task.To look after the child and fulfill the responsibilities so difficult.It's not easy to fulfill, but it is foremost our duty to fulfill them.Dear, not get stress when you have your baby, things are going to understand day by day.I hope you are becoming the loving and caring mother in future.I am glad to know that you have the positive person and trying for the baby through IVF process.we all know life is hell without children.Stay strong and don't be nervous.You have the ability to do things better and fulfill parental responsibilities.Wishing you the best of luck.Sometimes, facing a great mess.As a mother, you have to be patient and ignore somethings.Best wishes.Keep going through for this process.
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Hello Rachel, hope you are feeling better. At this point, you should be in high spirits. You are going to something great.It is nothing else but motherhood. Once you will become a mother after successful IVF you will realize that how precious life is. There will be some major and some minor changes. As you get used to all these things nothing would be difficult. The pleasures of motherhood are so extensive that we cannot ignore them. There is nothing difficult. Stay calm, and be patient. Right now your first priority should be the successful IVF. Stay calm and prepare your body for this great journey. If you will keep your mind stressed it can be harmful to the upcoming session. Your words have the motherly concern. I am fully confident that you can make a great mother. It is a natural instinct. As your role moves to that of the mother, you start learning the phenomenon of motherhood automatically. It is very little to think about.
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Hey, I am so happy for you. Indeed IVF is a great procedure. You are choosing a right place for IVF. That clinic is renown for its surrogacy and IVF. IVF is a bit painful so I was not in its favour. I chose surrogacy for me because I was not able to get pregnant naturally. I am so happy that I took a right decision on time. I went to the same clinic for surrogacy. I am a happy mother and my family is completed.
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Dont worry hun, you'll do just fine. Woman have inborn motherly instincts. I am sure you have them too. You will be a caring mother. Have you planned everything?Have you decided the name? It is so exciting, right?
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Being mother itself is a great responsibility. No one is experienced in that initially. BTW congratulations on your journey that is to be starting soon. May you get your desires soon. I would suggest you, be calm and hopeful! Being parent is such a blissful feeling. I just pray that each and every individual be blessed with such emotions and feelings. Capture each moment you live on your IVF journey in your heart. you are really gonna miss this. I swear, Never consider this bless feeling for granted. I wish even I could be able to carry my baby in arms some day. Waiting desperately. Love and blessings to you dear.XX Have a great journey.
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The treatment has been exceptionally fruitful and is mainstream among numerous couples. I too am going to the facility however with an alternate reason. Truly, it astonishes me to perceive how soo numerous couples leave the facility with a colossal grin all over. The procedure is the same than common pregnancy once you're pregnant. Indeed before that, your incipient organism is produced falsely in the lab however once everything is set up. Things do work their own specific manner out the youngster develops totally regularly. The protective senses too will come to you normally. Be that as it may, simply don't be worried amid the procedure as that is one of the real reasons which specialists feature. The explanation behind the IVF to not work which I am certain you don't want.I trust you are soo ready to end up a mother sending your path loads of warm wishes. Do keep us refreshed about your treatment seeking after the best.
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Hey there Rachel. I understand your concern. I know it must be really hard going for IVF. I hope you are doing good though. You seem very strong going for it. These concerns are normal for every parent. It's natural. You want the best for your child. I know I thought the same once. Don't stress yourself out. Be positive. Positivity is all you really need. Things will work out naturally. I hope things go your way. I hope you find success. I wish you good luck. Take care.
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Being a mother is one of the biggest desires of a woman. Nobody is familiar with it at first. BTW best of luck on your journey. May you get your wishes soon. I will just say that keep calm and stay positive! Being parents is the happiest thing. I just wish that every individual may have such pleasures. You will definitely your whole experience. You are truly going to miss this. Never think about anything which may lead you to failure. I wish if I may convey my own child. Love and kisses for you dear. Have an extraordinary excursion. Good Luck!
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Hello Rachel! I hope you are doing great. I believe you are thinking quite advance. All you need to focus on is your IVF program. You need to stay positive and optimistic about having positive results. You don't need to worry about parenting. The warmth of motherhood is such that it changes the way you think of the world. Your world shrinks to your little baby. All that matters to you is your child's happiness. This is God gifted to every woman on our earth. The moment you will hold your child you will feel the difference. Slow down and embrace it all. Take it all in, every moment. It goes by too quickly. I hope you have positive results in IVF. Best wishes.
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Good to hear about your IVF. I guess surrogacy is the last option for me now to have baby of our own. I have contacted many surrogacy related clinics and had gathered quite good info about surrogacy. I also contacted some surrogates who are willing to carry our child in their womb. I was pregnant thrice but had miscarriages every time. I had many complications while getting pregnant. During my first marriage i had no luck with having children although i conceived for 3 times. I know today surrogacy is a common thing but i am worried about many aspects of having a baby via surrogacy. I guess we will find a surrogate with the help of clinic we are consulting. I am married for second time i want to have baby of my own to live with. But regarding and having a look at my previous pregnancy period i know its not a good idea to be pregnant again. So i talked to my husband and have agreed him to go for surrogacy option. Although clinic has many surrogates working with it but we want a good surrogate to carry our child.
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Hey Rachel! You are worrying for nothing really. Once you hold that baby in your arms you'll naturally know how to be the best for it. Just trust your instincts. Never be let down by anything. Good luck for your procedure in Ukraine. I hope you get what you seek.
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Hey, I hope you are well. I would suggest visiting the clinic with a positive vibe. I can understand that these questions do bother everyone. However, it is really important to stay strong. I am sure you will do great. The clinic you are visiting is known for carrying out such procedures. Therefore, have faith in them as well. They will make sure things go well. Make sure to take care of yourself. Eat well. Also, drink a lot of water. Sending baby dust your way. Do keep us updated. All the prayers are with you.
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Ah, indeed, it is your first time! I'm not surprised. I wasn't this worried about my journey. It didn't work out for a long time. I was only concerned with conceiving. I forgot what it would be like to be a mother. It still turned out quite well! This actually shows you're ready! You're already worried and concerned. It's really nice to see this. My prayers are with you. Keep us updated. If you need any help, let me know. I'd love to help you out! Sending you lots of baby dust!
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These things are so common, Rach! Don't stress out about it. You're doing everything right! This is actually better if you feel that way. It shows how nice of a woman you are. You're definitely ready to be a mother! I'm glad it's all happening. I hope your luck turns around here. IVF is a good process, by the way. I'm sure this is it for you! It will happen, I'm very confident. The TWW will be a bit stressful. Don't let it get to you, though! You can make it through. Keep us updated on your journey. If you have any kind of query, don't be shy! Sending you my prayers and love.
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This is actually more common than you think it is! Most women get this feeling. If you're getting this feeling, I believe you have passed! You are definitely the right woman to do it! Plus, I think being a mother is something that comes from within. We don't really know it, but it's instinctive. It will all be fine, I can assure you. You can do this, honey. My prayers are with you. Don't worry too much about the situation. Keep me updated on how it goes. IVF is a safe procedure, there shouldn't be any issues. Sending you lots of baby dust! May it happen really quickly. Good luck to you.
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Hello, Rachel. You must be so excited! I'm glad this is happening. You're doing the right thing. Most women think it's something inferior to opt for IVF. I believe it's a really good procedure. It actually helps women in a proper way. You can always benefit greatly from it. I hope your procedure goes really well. I know the feeling that you're getting at the moment is a bit weird. However, it's really common. Don't think too much about it. Becoming a mother is actually instinctive. You'll know what to do, once you have to do it! My prayers are with you.

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